The Problem: the thing is that i like this guy a lot. and i just think hes perfect even though others dont think so. when i was a little girl, the guys we dream about that will come one day, he fits the description in every detail i asked. he likes me too, at least i really do think, and everybody is trying to get us together. they say were perfect, and cant see us breaking up. these are people who really KNOW relationships, and stay in them for 2-4 yrs. were both really shy about that stuff cuz neither of us have been in a relationship before. hes moving away once his house sells. and all i want to know is just if theres any way to just get over it. i like him more,and more each day, and it hurts to think about him.i like him more than anybody will ever know. and i think he feels almost the same, which doesnt make it easier. ive known who he was for so long, and when hes moving, i like him like this. i cant deal with the pain anymore.
people said i was in love, or just tell him, which doesnt help. i cant tell him. it will just make things harder. so please, is there any way to just get over him?
Asked by: puppylove11bb at
01:51:45 PM, Sunday, July 27, 2008 PDT
Advice
find another guy
Anonymous
not really im in the same situation u cant get over anybody u love im sorry buts true
AnonymousUmmmm well yeah I sort of understand how you feel and wow it sucks and well all I can say is time will heal everything...eventually =P
If ur meant 2 be 2geda then things will happen in the future and well it could also be teaching u a lesson in life-never ever get 2 involved with anyone 2 much or you will always get hurt =P
Iv also thought this and that person is perfect for me but not so in the future. Lust hurts .
korn1Too bad he's gay.
Mach 3wtf. what is your problem mach3? nobody here likes you! and you dont help anybody. i say just H E C K you.
AnonymousThe best way to get over him is get in a relationship and get really serious
love guruYou're new here, I'll say. Kari should explain our history, because I don't remember all of it. I used to have a fan club back in the day, kiddo.
Mach 3You should tell him how you feel before he moves, or else it will be too late. That way you'll feel better knowing that he likes you back.
deadstarlightPuppy, please don't ignore this answer, if you're the real puppy.
Tell the guy you love him, and do all you can with him. You'd rather love him for a few days, than to never have loved him at all. I"m sorry for what i did to you, please forgive me...
jinlove :(jinlove. wait. are you that guy. like a few years ago? at the boarding school with the laptop and stuff? its okay. i dont really remember what happened, i forgive you. and to mach 3? yeah, right. ive just been away for awhile. im not new.
puppylove11bbI wasn't reffering to you, puppy, just that Anonymous retard. How long ago were you on likelike?
Mach 3um bording school, laptop??? I have a laptop, but i think you were the one at the bording school. You've been away for a long time. I get on occasionally, when i need some advice, or just feel like answering questions. I kinda moved over to yahoo answers tho.
jinloveah, no. i never went to a boarding school. i do remember though that i asked you to go to some site, and you said you couldnt because you were useing your schools computer.
p.i really don't remeber. But i don't like getting on these sites, becasue it can hurt you in the real world. I rather go to yahoo answers. IT's, to me safer.
jinlove, p.=puppylove11bb?yes
p.puppy, i really don't know a lot about you, and i've don;t remeber if you told me anything about you. like i said before, i don't want to remind you of what happened, let's just start fresh, ok. We're cool right?
jinloveno, i think you wanted me to give you my email, and i said no way. If you have a site where we could talk, i would think about getting on it.
jinloveGuys..this is so gay. Why don't you just add one another on msn or yahoo or AIM or whatever the fuck you guys use.
Mach 3i could. but im not giving it out here.
okay. alright. i dont really remember anything about you either. so its okay.
and yeah. were cool. no, i dont really know anywhere. do you? i could post a email i dont use and i could give you my AIM if you have it though or something.
p.i don't chat on the web with people anymore, i promised God i wouldn't. So i only give advice out now, and it's really only on Yahoo Answers.
jinloveokay. thats fine.
p.Here's what I would do:
Tell him you like him even though he's moving because then he'll get at least something good out of moving. then:
a way to get over it is try to look around and find someone new. This is hard I've experienced it trust me. I liked this one guy and he moved too. so that is what I would do.
snathanthe thing is to never let go even though your truly in love with him. though trying to look for someone else is ver y hard.
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