The Problem: Please help! we are both 28, were dating for a 9 mths, but he decided to trade me in for a 17 yr old ???, im so in love with have been from moment we got 2gether, but we have always kept seeing each other, problem is i found out im 4 weeks preg, do i tell him, i think he still cares about me or do i make the decision on my own. he knows somethings up cus he keep asking if im ok, we normally talk about everything with each other but i cant this!
Asked by: tke81 at
06:10:22 AM, Saturday, August 16, 2008 PDT
Advice
Its about YOU and your baby now. so focus on what you need.You need to tel him tho but now theres a child you need to get things straight with him
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well i think you should totally tell him because he might still want to be with you an its half his so i think you really need to tell him but if he says somethin like no he dont want a kid or somethin... THATS ALLL UP TO YOU!! keep it if you want the child!! atleast your 28 not like 15 or somethin.. an just make him pay child support it'll makr it easier on you......
makayla biotch~!@#$&^*()_thanks for you comments, i told him last nite, he said he dont want it, so its all up 2 me now.
tke81thanks for you comments, i told him last nite, he said he dont want it, so its all up 2 me now.
tke81well i think dats very wrong he gets u knocked up an den dont want to step up to his responsibility's but my mama raised me wit out a daddy an im raisin my lil gurl wit out her daddy and she is a very smart head strong little gurl so my message to u is u dont need a man to help u raise ur kid and i think every women can be independent but most women know they gettin sum d*ck so they act like dey got there head so far up there a** so they dont actually look at wat they can do wit out a man
Anonymousif u tell him he will leave u u got 4 choices
1.tell him and good luck finding another guy
2.abortion (but think about the baby:( )
3.have the babyand give him or she away
4.have the baby and live happily ever after.
dont u think u H E C Ked him without a condom was a mistake u should marry someone before u wanna have a baby
some oneyou have to tell him
Anonymousno love he a nob get shut of him. u dnt need ur father dad to be messin with a child. i think u shud make ur own mind up. and if u keeo the bby tell him just show u dnt care about him. cos ur not going to get back with him and if u do then im sorry but u will be so stupid to do that. if he left u for a child noway wat a wanker
perrin10Just tell him and you never know, maybe he will help you out!!
Anonymousi think you need to tell him, if it is his baby it is pretty important he knows...and im sure you will be ok im 16, and i just found out im preg. but i have gotten alot of support so far so i would hang in there and you need to tell him. your baby will pry need him someday.
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