Ohhhhhhhh i know what this shannon girl is.... shes a user. what she does is uses you when she needs you but then once she doesnt need you any more she just ignores you and moves on. i have had a lot of those people in my life and what i can tell you is that by telling you your a better friend, nice, cool ect. shes just insuring you to always like her and be there for her even if she treats you like crap. i think that you need to not let her think that she can just push you around whenever she wants. you need to loosen you friendship with her more. i know that it may sound hard but i dont think she is a good person to be friend and you need to stop feeling special or whatever you feel when she tells you she thinks your a good friend or whatever. you need to let her know in a subtle way that you dont care what she thinks anymore and that she can no longer control you. by doing this you should make some new friends or atleast hang out with that girl shanon less. i really do hope that i have helped and good luck! and just remember that your not the only one who has ever dealed with mean people like this. Good Luck!!!

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