The Problem: my wife's sister is very sexy and kind i admired her very much. how can i tell her that i love her? if my wife know this, maybe she kills me.
Asked by: islander at
05:54:49 PM, Sunday, November 30, 2003 EST
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The best thing do is keep this 2 ur self, it mite break up ur marriage and ur sis in law mite not like u!
beccaDec 02 2003 9:44amFLAGJust dont fall into the temptation god put u with ur wife not her sister keep with ur wife in ur vows it said to death do us part if u go after her sister things could get ugly
school girlDec 03 2003 12:57pmFLAGwot a little bible basher hahahahahah
jesusDec 03 2003 5:24pmFLAGDont act upon it as your sister in law wont go for you anyway because she wont want to hurt her sis and her family, just pu to the back of your mind and get over it.
strange manDec 07 2003 11:06amFLAG
lmao ......don't ing rape her ......thats a stupid thing to do .......i'm staying clear of you strange man your just scary you karati kungfu fighting women rapper
anti_naziDec 07 2003 11:42amFLAGlol thanx nazi and that was ent me damn it im being impersonated again
strange manDec 07 2003 1:16pmFLAGNo im not i just have split personalities
strange manDec 07 2003 4:15pmFLAGyes im am being impersonated
strange manDec 07 2003 4:48pmFLAGi no u are being impersonated ..... it's a bit obvious!
anti_naziDec 08 2003 7:19amFLAGtake pictures of yourself covered in crisco shortning and leave them in her pantie drawer.......or keep it to yourself and spank it
I hate airplanesDec 09 2003 8:31amFLAGcough*weirdo
AnonymousDec 11 2003 9:41amFLAGtell them both the truth.... who love more wife or sister in law.
hee heeDec 13 2003 8:34amFLAGdat sick keep it to ur self u fooooool ur guna make d poor women cry foooool foooooool foool
foooooooooolDec 13 2003 9:32amFLAGyou married your wife for a reason, you obviously love her, therefore why look at other women in such a way, espeacially your sister in law. If you tell or show your feelings to your sister in law then the chances are a divorce with your wife and probably conflict between you and your sister in law bcoz it is more likely she wud choose her sister, own flesh and blood over you. Personally from my perspective i suggest you and your wife move as far as possible for you sister in law. This will help you to get over her and perhaps become closer with your wife. Please take my advice and i beleive you should also seek advice from helplinez etc. Make the right choice i'm sure you know which is really right and beneficial for you your wife and sister in law.
xXx SoNi KuRi xXxDec 13 2003 9:38amFLAGlike nike....just do it!
XX00XXDec 15 2003 9:04pmFLAGDont listen to these people. She will chose her sister over you, trust me, I have been there. But I dont believe in hiding your feelings. I told the sister and boy was it stuiped. She freaked out. Took a year before she would talk to me again. My Feelings are still there. Some people have it good with love some dont thats what it all boils down to.
Sam's ChoiceDec 16 2003 8:49amFLAG
just ask ur sis-in-law 2 keep it a secret when u tell her.
AnonymousDec 19 2003 3:53pmFLAGhmmm! Tough situation buddy! I wish there could be a good solutions to these natural problems. Options that I can think at this time:
1) Move different city/place far away from sis-in-law.
2) Looks and money never stick to one. Today she is good looking but beleive me tomorrow you will find her normal. Try to convince yourself.
3) If you can take your sis-in-law or wife in confidence then discuss the matter. Many problems get solved by talking rather than by keeping it inside. But first you have to carefully judge the reaction from them once they learn about it. If they are understanding then the sis-in-law herself will start avoiding you so you do get excited. Also no one will have any hard feelings.
4) Thinking about her and living with your wife will do no good at all. You have to get over it, unless you divorce your wife and find a third girl, which I personaly would never do.
Good luck!
By: ***Star***Dec 30 2003 7:56pmFLAGyour sis in law may look good, but is only a different version of your wife,
very close ot being the same,
why are you look at her and not your wife?
she is the same, I have been there,
if you want out do it,
doing your sister in law will only lead to tears and really bad things, even If she has bigger tits than you wife.
Like the picture on my desktop, She may look good now, but someone somewhere is sick of putting up with her e.
sirpsychosisDec 31 2003 10:19amFLAGJust do her man trust me you will like it do them both at the same time yea now that sounds like a winner to me
That or save her for me i only have 4 months left ot go on my prison term
Take care
The guys at Boyd County Prison Camp
Boyd County Kentucky
CAPT** Blue BallsJan 04 2004 9:54pmFLAGUm ok im shure that was really helpfull capt bb
joes mammaJan 04 2004 9:58pmFLAGGo for it man, you only live once. So long as she agrees to keep it secret, who are you hurting.
Anon 39 year old from UKJan 05 2004 4:12pmFLAGyour married and u r in love with your sister in law? IN NEED HELP U SICK SICK MAN!
AnonymousJan 17 2004 6:47pmFLAG her continuously. You will like it
xxJan 18 2004 4:12pmFLAGi think you should not tell your wife and forget about her sister well if you really love your wife that is what you should do but if you think you love her sister more then just explain and get a divorce ,marry her sister, and never talk to your wife again
lil miss bitchFeb 13 2004 5:52pmFLAG both of them!
come sex with me girlFeb 26 2004 3:17pmFLAGsame problem.... pls advice
beeMar 30 2004 3:11amFLAGDONT follow through on your feelings. Your feelings for her may drive you wild with desire at times, but so what. Your vow was for your wife and not the sis-in-law! Make the decision to be loyal and a man of honor now and shun the temptation when it comes. If necessary, masterbate - but dont get involved with her.
MeMyselfandIApr 12 2004 4:29pmFLAGGo for it, her. Because after that, you will understand that she is very normal. Now you are excited because you haven't had sex with her but after, things will change.
AdamApr 17 2004 9:52amFLAGU just go on a long drive with ur sister-in-law, tell her everything, she aggreed or disaggreed, her and forget her.
JohnApr 18 2004 8:58amFLAGI liked my sister in law.. didnt know what to do... then last week she came on to me.. sex was great. wife never needs to know.. nor does sis in laws hubby.. I have my cake and eat it.. and the cake tastes damn good!..
MeSep 11 2005 8:27amFLAGislander
I AGREE WITH YOU BCAUSE AM VERY FOND OF MY SIS IN LAW TO AS I HAVE SEEN MINE ***** AND AM IN LOVE WITH HER HAVE YOU SEEN HER KNICKERS N BRA AND IF YOU HAVE WHAT COLOUR R THEY
Sexysteve 49/m/ northern irelandMay 17 2006 4:33amFLAGall those who say go ahead need help!!!
AnonymousMay 17 2006 7:40amFLAGyou must divorce your wife immediately, as you don't deserve to be with her, and marry the s-i-l. Repent.
jojoDec 27 2006 3:24pmFLAGhey i know what you mean i have one very attractive sister in law, my wifes sister she is very attractive and could fall in love with her easily but the thing that has stopped me from doing anything is that i love my wife and i have a women that loves me, why would i want to break up what i have, my sil will not want to hurt her sister either and does not see me that way. stay layal and just think of her as your real blood sister. enjoy her friendship but remeber at the end of the day she is just your sister
maleApr 20 2007 3:06amFLAG
THE WERE ARE IN MY JUST ASK CANNOT GET LONG JUST A LONG
KATHYMay 21 2007 8:01pmFLAGI LOVE BABY IN IT JUST GET A LITTLE FIND BECOUSE U ASK GET.
JENNIFERMay 21 2007 8:03pmFLAGHey, buddy I have the same feelings for my sil and it's been over twenty years I don't know what to tell you. I know its hard but you don't want to start any trouble in the family. My sil loves to tease me by comming out and dressing in front of me she's not completly but with the see through underware and bra not on all the way just hanging there she might as well be . I have to run home and masturbate, sorry buddy don't know to tell you but just hang in there I know how you feel.
Hang onSep 16 2007 1:48pmFLAGMy sis in law kisses better and makes me feel better then my wife ever has. But I love my wife and i'm in love with my sis in law. HELP!!!!!
Lusting hardOct 15 2007 10:38pmFLAGgo for it i did my wife was 30 her sisterand great
still with bothFeb 25 2008 11:22amFLAGOH MY GOODNESS! WHAT A BUNCH OF FREAKS!! Although I do have the hots for my brother-in-law. He's my forbidden fruit. He's so gorgeous, I could eat him up with a spoon!
God Forgive MeJun 25 2008 6:42amFLAGTHAS OK. U TELL THE TRUE TOO YOUR WIFE AND YOUR SISTER IF YOU LOVE YOUR SISTER MORE GO WITH HER . IF SHE LOVE YOU THE SAME WAY.GOOD LOCK
LOVELYMar 03 2009 10:59amFLAGWhat if your not married and you want to her
AnonymousSep 08 2010 1:44pmFLAGhi guys ive got feelings for my sil ive felt like this for years where very close she even tells me her privert life issuies and stuff. like 4 years ago i managed to make her ma.....te me and ive touched her aswell she seemed to like it then after some time she like changed her mind of doing theses things every one in the familly know how much weakness i have for her and how much i love her. lately i confest that i want her and love her my wife knows this aswell i never hide anything from my wife . but ever since ive told my sil how about i love her she has changed she told me she dosnt feel the same way but i know she does but wont admit it if she didnt feel anything for me why did she f...k around with me then?
puyo putaFeb 07 2013 6:58amFLAGed mine In her puissie
putaFeb 07 2013 6:59amFLAGIf u love the wife, then don't do anything. Let it go. But on the other hand, you hate or dislike your wife, I don't blame you. Go for it, but I think in the end, what do you got? Two ladies, one wife totally pissed, her sister who can't commit cause, well you're family. And a whole bunch of relatives shaking their heads in disbelief. Bang it if you can but don't expect like a new marriage from it or something as the two sisters might leave you eventually. Sister love could be strong.
JoeFeb 21 2013 11:43pmFLAGWife is family feeling, SIL is sex feeling or new love feeling. I have the same story, I always go outside together with my SIL and I feel love her since then. But at last I feel just want to taste of new love and sex. I want keep it secret forever . I want to confess but if the answer is positive if fine, but if she refuse, some days she might tell this to my wife and I am dead! what is the best way? pls help!
SandraJun 23 2013 7:39pmFLAGI also have the same problem. I am attracted to my sil. I love my wife dearly and have no intention of breaking up with her. My sil is no saint and I guess thats what attracts me to her. Lately we have become very close, even go out for drinks together. Last week we went out to a club and i got a chance to hold her body really close to me and touched her all over.. We had some very naughty dances.. I was so bloody and I could tell she was too. She is staying with us at the moment and looking for a job.
It is hard fantasizing about her and loving my wife, so I have decided that I am not gonna keep these feelings to myself cus they are driving me mad. If I get it out in the open then maybe I will realise that she is just a normal person and the feeling will go away..
So today, i will have a matured discussion with my sil, tell her how I feel and ask her to advise me on how to move on. In this way she will be aware and maybe avoid things that could encourage me such as hugs and kisses. Also, it will mean when the going gets tough we can talk about it. People here like being judgemental and acting holier than thou, we are human beings and these things happen - what matters is how we manage them. Given a chance will I bang my sil? Oh yes - cus I am curious like that.
ThaboSep 29 2013 8:03pmFLAGWell right now mi love mi sisterinlaw she love me too how can love wrong anytime she make di move mi a stick her meat
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