The Problem: I'm a 12 yr old girl. I juss wanted to know if it was normal for a young girl like me to bee soo ? And I'm always thinking of guys and having sex :/ is this normal too? And I really wanna have sex but I kno what could happen. What do I do ? Something besides me having sex and ending up pregnant!
Asked by: xoashanteDuh at
02:42:26 AM, Tuesday, June 07, 2011 PDT
It's very normal darling, I used to feel like that when I was your age
taostJun 07 2011 12:01pmFLAGi say explore that part of your life as soon as you feel comfortable (i read an article that said many people actually start masturbation in their toddler years... mind you it isnt sexual, it just soothes them at that point. but i digress)
be happy that you have the chance to explore it at such an early age... i didnt :/
Salah-Ad-DinJun 07 2011 4:01pmFLAGto answer your question: go to any health department. they will supply you with birth control (condoms, pills, etc) so that you can safely enjoy the part of life i missed out on
lah-Ad-DinJun 07 2011 4:03pmFLAGthe above was supposed to say Salah-Ad-Din
Salah-Ad-DinJun 07 2011 4:03pmFLAGWhat's up with toast posting heck dogs? Df?! . Anyways thank u guys for commentin and giving advice :)
xoashanteDuhJun 07 2011 4:53pmFLAGhey xoashante you should text me :) 8177039944 please. im 14
joey23Jun 07 2011 5:21pmFLAGI would not recommend texting this person. For all you know, he could be someone my age like in his 40's and wanting to get off to a young girl.
Cowboy CasinovaJun 07 2011 11:14pmFLAGBIRTH CONTROL? SHE SAYS SHE IS HORNY NOT GETTING INTO SEX. She says she wants to, but is afraid of what could happen other then getting pregnant... BTW! That was not me posting Dogs...
taostJun 08 2011 3:56amFLAGif you remember i also said that she should explore that side of life taost. please read all of my statements through before bickering at me. and actually at the end she DOES say she wants to have sex
Salah-Ad-DinJun 08 2011 3:12pmFLAGagain try something called READING THE FULL STATEMENT, idiot. you ALMOST deserve to get stalked by whomever is doing that if you cant even read my stuff completely through... and hers
Salah-Ad-DinJun 08 2011 3:13pmFLAGYou never complety read mine either xD I agreed, she does want to try sex. teenager, just like the rest of them, but I never feel the need for sex. I hardly masturbate even... So yeah... Obviously you should take your own advice xD
taostJun 08 2011 4:13pmFLAGLolz DRAMA! PPL CALM DOWN!!! I'm not having sex at this age! Did any of y'all READ??????! I SAID I WANNA HAVE SEX SOO BAD CAUSE IM HORNY BUT DONT WANNA BCUZ I KNOW I CAN GET PREGNANT. LIKE DUHHH. GROW UP!
xoashanteDuhJun 08 2011 5:38pmFLAGwhich is why i suggested birth control. i was unaware of the intent behind the message and do so apologize :P im here to give advice. i believed that the only apprehension youhad was a fear of pregnancy, and gave advice specific to that particular problem. if you had other apprehensions to it or werent then that should have been made clear... i think the other issue is a differentiation in interpretation :P
Salah-Ad-DinJun 08 2011 9:33pmFLAGBirth control like ing dogs is good too xD I would know BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT I DO!
taostJun 08 2011 11:46pmFLAGWell i have the same problem and ima boy xD but ya just feel comfortable with wut u do. dont get presured into doing somethings ur not ready for.Im ready to make that steap with a very dear friend but r u?
Tybug24Jun 09 2011 12:57amFLAGIf u ever feel like u need 2 talk e-mail me at email@example.com
And i know there is messed up ppl in the world so if ya feel uncomfortable thats ok but ill be here p.s. i dont check e-mail very often so if i dont reply for a while dats y
Tybug24Jun 09 2011 1:01amFLAGi am a guy an an i m 14 we should talk firstname.lastname@example.org
treJun 11 2011 7:43pmFLAGi am a guy an an i m 14 we should talk email@example.com
treJun 11 2011 7:53pmFLAGSend me a hot pic firstname.lastname@example.org we could talk
BenJun 14 2011 7:50pmFLAGI also have the same experince . When i sex thoughts i used to put my finger in the it is wonderfull and it will have a heavenly joy
AnonymousJun 16 2011 2:35amFLAGI say just trade s with me!
GuyJun 22 2011 4:27pmFLAGLol sassy 12-year old. also not very smart. Get back to me once you've gone through sex ED. Get a guy, get an 18-year old friend to buy you a condom or go to health department, and maybe some birth control pills, and have sex and bam! no pregnacy.
YOU-RETARD-THATS-MY-LEG!Jun 26 2011 6:00pmFLAGOh my god u pedos.
yyyyyyJun 27 2011 11:44pmFLAGNOO NO NOOOOOOO AND NO
xoashanteDuhJul 01 2011 9:04amFLAGmastrabate, thats all, im in the same situation, dont email any of these idiots!
I-Love-You-KyleJul 01 2011 6:02pmFLAGim 12 too and a guy im always too just masturbate thats what i do :P
I can haz cheezburger?Jul 05 2011 9:15amFLAGomg girl i have the same thing but i was super im 13 now and have had "it" 2 times it feels so good well i loved it BUT what ever you do where a condom!
hihihihiJul 07 2011 3:55amFLAGomg im twelve to im a girl and just masterbate NO SEX thats how my ten year old couisn got pregnet
random hobosJul 14 2011 11:03pmFLAGI'm 12 but I have thought about it and had dreams but never actually had sex but I really really want to ...; my friend has done it with her boyfriend who lives 2 houses down from her and she said it felt good but hurted
KkkJul 15 2011 8:21pmFLAGI feel the same way but I tried laying down in the shower and it kind of works.I can just walk into a Health Department and ask for birth control pills and condoms... or can I. I really want to have sex and get my sexual desires over with but I dont want to have sex at 12
QU33NAug 09 2011 6:09pmFLAGOh-Emm-Geee Me 2 lawlz Im also 12,Goshh I wish I knew a guy Who like wouldn't tell peoplez,If I did Im prettyy sure we'd be ing riteee naw lol,Think up a fantacy,Wankk to it XD My fantacy is like a hawt Bisexual Skater/Emo guyy & his buddy screw meh whie I suck him off Pretty odd tho XD
T-RexxAug 13 2011 12:28pmFLAGIm almost 13 and im always really and i really want to have sex but i masterbait with a hair bruch handle instead.
Sammie13Aug 18 2011 6:12amFLAGIm 12 and male, sext me 1(717)820-5395
HornyboiiSep 09 2011 1:13pmFLAGIm a 13 year old. really . I mix flour and water and put it in a condom then put it in..it feels so good. Using an electric toothbrush is also lush. Anyone up for email? ;)
Horny boiiOct 19 2011 6:19pmFLAGHow long ago were these posts?
?Nov 16 2011 10:52pmFLAGHow long ago were these posts?
?Nov 16 2011 10:54pmFLAGbut it out of your mind and entertain yourself with homework or watch spongebob when you watch spongebob all you can think about is how much of an idiot he is and wait till your married
a personMar 13 2012 7:48pmFLAGA woman needs to explore and learn what her body likes before losing her virginity. Start masturbating ASAP and don't be embarrassed.
emilieJul 11 2012 1:46pmFLAGdont email any of these guys im 13 female always lost my virginity already but it freakin hurts unless ur prepared just masterbate with a brush or something
girlJul 24 2012 2:38pmFLAGdont email any of these guys im 13 female always lost my virginity already but it freakin hurts unless ur prepared just masterbate with a brush or something
girlJul 24 2012 2:38pmFLAGim going through the same exact thing! I told my mom and she said it was perfectly normal, and if i wanted to i could masterbate! DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!! ur too young even to date!!! Do not throw away ur life like that, wait till ur eighteen. i am the same age as u, just masterbate and distract urself!
i am boredAug 08 2012 8:14pmFLAGUmm it's not good to masterbaute or watch porn.. Sadly I just watch porn on redtube
AnonymousJan 02 2013 3:44pmFLAGOmg I'm the exact same °̩ really want ² have sex and everyone keeps saying get a vibrator but where are TWELVE year old supposed ² get one!
just another girlMar 16 2013 11:34pmFLAGs.
As a 12 year old myself, I say with utter dismay; stop sticking fingers and d*cks in your hole you baby-sluts. It's normal but damn you don't have to go so far as to possibly hurt your 'gina. Masturbation is the best way to go. If you're that much of a ing idiot to not know how to pleasure yourself without toothbrushes and 13 year old man meat, then Google is your friend.
Go sApr 03 2013 12:10amFLAGbrush to masturbate dont do ittyyyyyytttttt
AnonymousApr 09 2013 11:30amFLAGheyy dont worry dude, its just your hormones kicking in, its totally normal, besides i get quite alot too so you are not alone! p.s. call me DD, im a massive fan of black veil brides. ;)
mrsjinxxMay 11 2013 9:23amFLAGI wanna do it to BAD will u do it with me
gabeMay 19 2013 6:14pmFLAGwhatever you do dont have sex.
anonimouseJul 24 2013 12:26pmFLAGLook I'm 12 too, what you need to do is............. NOTHING. Seriously make sex this special thing that you wait for, if you need to you can masturbate but porn is unrealistic and just imagine how your parents would feel. This feeling is normal but don't send s to any of those freaks. Just remember that you're not ready. I know everyone says your not ready but it's true. Stay Strong and please please please for your sake, Stay Virgin!!!
KeepCalmAndBlowMeAKissOct 15 9:58pmFLAGHey girl I feel your pain just masturbate
Mali Dec 21 7:50pmFLAGBut if u do have sex just use condo
S I'm 13 and pregnant it sucks just stick to masturbating
Mali Dec 21 7:51pmFLAGBuy girl hope you get better :)
Mali Dec 21 7:56pmFLAGTake a bath and while the tub fills up turn the water on realllllyyyyy hott and stick your under it it burns like hell but it feels amazing and makes you cummmm instantly
13Feb 03 8:18pmFLAGStick either a banana or like a long pole or a cucumber in there and move it up and down really fast ULL feel like you have to pee really bad but don't stop and eventually ull cummmmmm
13Feb 03 8:19pmFLAGI have a similar problem actually my step bro he's 15 asked me to have sexxxx with me and be is already tested he had to after his last GF so he's clean and he has condoms and birth control pxills and I wanna have sex with him so bad but I'm kinda scared so later on tonite I'm gonna tell that I just wanna start out with kissing then move to sex so if ur really find someone who'll have sexxxxx with you and start slow with kissing hope I helped I'm a bisexual too just saying
JasminLovesSexXxXxXx💓💓💓💓Feb 03 8:23pmFLAGMaster bate it will calm your hormones