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Him or her?

The Problem: My boyfriend or girlfriend? Am girl btw.

Asked by: ion29 at 06:18:21 PM, Wednesday, March 11, 2015 EDT FLAG

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Care to elaborate the situation?

AtturneyFenixWrong Mar 11 2015 3:19pm FLAG


I've got a boyfriend and we've been dating for about four years now. He's a nice, smart and pretty cute as well. The only problem is he isn't really that great in bed. My girlfriend, I've met for a year. We met at this sorority party. We had a few drinks and kinda bumped in the night. She's pretty and liked by many guys, as well as a closet lesbian. We're a bit different from each other (eg. I prefer romance like the Notebook, but she's more into action like the Avengers). Despite that, she's awesome at bed. She knows that I have a boyfriend, but my boyfriend doesn't know about her. It's been getting complicated lately and. I'm not sure who to choose. One is nice, but weak in sex, while the other is out of my comfort zone, but great in bed. Help pls?

ion29 Mar 11 2015 3:27pm FLAG
PICK ME INSTEAD! I'VE GOT A LARGE d*ck YOU CAN SUCK ALL DAY!

bigpenis Mar 11 2015 3:29pm FLAG
On the one hand you're going to break a nice guy's heart, but on the other you'll be left unsatisfied. The question isn't really who is a better partner, but rather, which is the right choice. To be honest, I'd pick the boyfriend. Rather than looking for a replacement, you should find ways to fix his weakness. Not to mention the girl is a closet lesbian. How long do you think she can keep it a secret? I have a feeling that if she were caught, she would deny you like Peter.

AtturneyFenixWrong Mar 11 2015 3:33pm FLAG
The boyfriend. Relations with the same sex is a mortal sin.

truepath Mar 11 2015 3:35pm FLAG
Wanna kik?

fff Mar 11 2015 3:36pm FLAG
The girlfriend. You should pick the peron who also makes you happy. Also, I'm certain the guy has been cheating on you. How do I know this? Because all men are filthy liars that enjoy desecrating everything. Whenever a man sees a "sexy" woman, the first thing that comes to his mind is doing her. My advice, go to a community of lesbians that castrates any man who enters.

Femathiest disciple Mar 11 2015 3:44pm FLAG
Him. If a had. A gf who wuznt satisfied in bed, id rather she tell me. And help me get better thann dump my a$$. And. Id be. Pretty pissed too so just sit him down and talk to him

HAMF Mar 11 2015 3:52pm FLAG
Btw. Imm greatttttt in beddd

HAMF Mar 11 2015 3:53pm FLAG
And don't cheat on him again break up with ur girll and. Stayy with ur man I'm dooin u a favoor

HAMF Mar 11 2015 3:54pm FLAG
If that's your reason then you really deserve nobody.

Shreve Mar 11 2015 4:46pm FLAG
Lol thts. The redneck style shreve

HAMF Mar 11 2015 4:49pm FLAG
Honestly dont be listening to these dumba^ss virgins such as hamf or whoever the s wicked intense.

Anonymous Mar 11 2015 5:25pm FLAG
Just be honest with him and introduce the chick to him and go for it from there. Happy endings

Anonymous Mar 11 2015 5:25pm FLAG
^Um, what do you mean by, "go for it from there"?

ion29 Mar 11 2015 6:31pm FLAG
Lol u had me til "go for it from there"...

HAMF Mar 11 2015 7:50pm FLAG
wtf pick a different name sh1t b1tch @fff

ff Mar 11 2015 8:50pm FLAG
just pick her... the guy doesn't deserve you.

Anonymous Mar 12 2015 1:20pm FLAG
This post reminds me of the early likelike, something like eight years ago. I am a guy and I would never cheat, but four years is a long time. I would not be with someone for that long, then again, haven't been in that situation. You are taking a greater risk by going with the girl, that is for sure. Its all about what makes you happy, because in the end, an unhappy relationship is not a relationship.

Anonymous Mar 12 2015 5:29pm FLAG
Thanks, I'll consider the advice you all gave. But, err... if I do decide to break up with my boyfriend, how exactly do I tell him? Like I said, he's a really nice guy. He hasn't done me wrong. How exactly do I tell him that it's over, because sex isn't satisfying, without sounding like a relation was built entirely on that?

ion29 Mar 13 2015 12:39am FLAG
Sex can easily be fixed. Try new things or help him to improve. Four years is a very long time to be together. More than most couples are before they get married nowadays.

Anonymous Mar 13 2015 9:32am FLAG
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