Does it hurt when you finger yourself for the first time?!!
The Problem: I am , a virgin and really want to finger myself. I tend to just rub down there at the moment through my underwear but that's getting boring and I want to go further, does it hurt though and how do I go about doing this....? please help me and be totally honest about any pain :)
Asked by: anonymous97 at
02:54:43 AM, Saturday, April 07, 2012 PDT
GemmaBirchApr 07 2012 10:23amFLAGUm, yes! You will break your hymen...
Kawaii NekoApr 07 2012 10:26amFLAGIf you need help email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
AnonymousApr 07 2012 10:48amFLAGDon't email him, he's probably a creep.
Kawaii NekoApr 07 2012 11:04amFLAGjus put spit on ur finger and rub it in to make it super wet and rub down till u feel the hole then go in and it wont hurt unless u have lng nails and does anyone wann jw
thatoneguyApr 07 2012 11:09amFLAG
it doesnt hurt much for most when the 'pop their cherry' or basically break their hymen. Besides if u do a lot of sports it could already be broken
kitty -boo boo-Apr 07 2012 11:47amFLAGput water down there and wet ur finger and go for it
randomgirlApr 07 2012 3:18pmFLAGPsssh, I break hymens for a living
kitty - boo boo -Apr 07 2012 6:14pmFLAGjennbaker84@hotmail.com if you need advice
jenny k.Apr 07 2012 9:12pmFLAGit may hurt it may not, it depends on ur pain tolerance, but i suggest fingering ur self before a penis goes up there!!!!!
Erica monAug 19 2012 3:58amFLAGJust ask a boy to fck u
Sex feanAug 19 2012 4:01amFLAGI'm and a virgin. Last night I used the end of a toothbrush to finger myself. I Went to far at moments but I casually took it out and didn't go to far, Because it hurts when your not use to all that pressure on your 'cherry'. But it dosent hurt if ypu don't go that far. And once you get tired of fingering use household items. Like a hotdog, Or a vibrating toothbrush. Anything that'll make you feel good. Make sure you don't go to far, and make sure your alone! Don't want your parents or siblings walking in!!!xD Oh and make sure the items are cleaned! AND HAVE FUN!!!!!;D
MysteryGirlSep 16 2012 5:48amFLAGAhaha hotdog:S?^
Anyway, yeah it feels weird but doesnt hurt..
And another thing, dont email them people 'for advice' they could be creeps:/
MoiOct 25 2012 5:53amFLAGIt may feel a bit awkward. But it doesn't hurt. Eventually you will get used to it, depending on you. Every girl is different. Household items may work, although I prefer just a finger. Simulation to the cl*t, to me, is the best way to go.
RynxDec 16 2012 8:03pmFLAGNo it doesn't hurt, Maybe a little bit when you first start but it will go away
BrittDec 19 2012 1:59pmFLAGActually it doesn't hurt unless u go to deep I usually use gloves because their clean and smooth so ur finger will slip in better
lola Feb 18 2013 12:19pmFLAGI'm also ..I have rubed my cl*t bevore..but I'm soooooo scared to finger myself for the first time..I'm too scared that it will hurt to much!!help??
someoneMar 17 2013 3:48amFLAGI'm and still virgin (wow shocker this day in age) but what everyone else has said is true. Just take it slow and be gentle at first. If it hurts too much then stop. If you find that you start bleeding that is normal the first time. Just make sure you're ready, don't tense up, you have to just relax. It might feel uncomfortable at first but when you get used to it, the feeling is amazing.
AnonymousMar 21 2013 3:48pmFLAGDo you bleed when you "pop your cherry" my boyfriend wants to take my virginity but I don't want to bleed all over. Help?
RandomApr 06 2013 9:09pmFLAGi am and i am scared of fingering my self but i really want to i do alot of sports does that mean my cherry pop.help.me please
shannonxxApr 11 2013 2:03pmFLAGI am , and have already rubbed on my cl*t, but I wanna try to finger myself but I'm too scared that it will hurt...(And I also have long nails so I probably should cut them before I finger myself.)
AnonymousMay 09 2013 11:05amFLAGI have tried it but I bleed it didn't hurt but I am wonderin what that meant help plez ???
nobodyMay 12 2013 11:04amFLAGi tried afew times and it hurts and im tight how can i enjoy it without those things
AnonymousMay 24 2013 1:18pmFLAGI really wanna finger myself but not sure if it wil hurt
AnonymousJun 02 2013 10:06amFLAGUse a fake penis or water bottle
AnonymousJun 02 2013 9:09pmFLAGI just fingered myself for the first time not even mins ago. If you take a pencil and rub around a bit before then slip fingers in it works better!
Someone(;Jun 14 2013 9:01pmFLAGI finger myself al the time, my is increbily loose now!
Lizzie EdgeJun 25 2013 10:07amFLAGIs it wrong that I have tried double anal and I'm only ?
Suhad BasraJun 25 2013 10:08amFLAGi want to anally fist myself
Thomas GveroJun 25 2013 10:08amFLAGis it wrong that i've had sex with my sister
Mark HutchingsJun 26 2013 9:06amFLAGI really want to finger myself. I am and I rub myself hard down my knickers. I make my vagina go all tingly and I get soo hard. I want to finger myself but I'm scared. Help?
annonymusJun 28 2013 7:26amFLAG
Im four**** n yesterday I tried to finger myself but I felt this mushy thing nd um afraid to go further
BbeJun 29 2013 6:58amFLAGi guess its ok to duck your sister but i wouldn't let it happen again and if it does don't cum in her
Lilly lovell Jul 06 2013 1:11amFLAGShould I finger myself or will it hurt??
AnonymousJul 21 2013 11:22pmFLAGOh god I am and I have never touched myself but don't finger yourself at this age! Maybe just rub yourself or something if you really have to but your too young and I would never to it plus it probably does hurt
SomebodyJul 22 2013 3:05pmFLAGI'm eleven and I want to finger myself. But I'm afraid that it will hurt or start bleeding. What should I do?
girl you dont knowJul 25 2013 4:59pmFLAGI just like fingered myself, and it does hurt cuz im not used to it. I do it evey once n a while. And i also just took it anal. But, make sure ladies that you use clean iteams when u finger yourself. I like that hotdog idea! I will try it. But, i would put a condom on the hotdog cuz the stuff it was made by so u dont get an infection. Just to be safe. I am a virgin, but ready to have sex, but im scared cuz the pain.
AnonymousJul 27 2013 1:44amFLAGI just turned a few days ago and fingered myself and To be honest, it doesn't hurt unless you stick it (whatever your using) up to far, but it does feel kinda uncomftorable. You have to loosen yourself, which may take awhile, then, it will feel good...(so I've heard.) but yea, just take it steady at first!
Meemee101Jul 30 2013 5:41amFLAGi'm and i want to finger myself but i don't know what to do :/ i haven't broken my hymen so will it hurt loads?!?!?
AnonymousAug 01 2013 10:42amFLAGIm and I never touched my self
Ye should be ∕̴ɩshames of yerselfs !!!!!
If yer mommys ever find out god forbid ye tramps
never mind yea whoreAug 02 2013 10:38amFLAGThis girl needs to get in both holes while you pull her hair and make her call you daddy and bust a nut on her tits
AnonymousAug 04 2013 2:21amFLAGI'm 19 years old and still a virgin
Sacred to lose it :/
Anonymous Aug 04 2013 12:41pmFLAGWhen will my cherry stop bleeding if I finger my self
mimi loveSep 01 2013 7:25amFLAGI'm and turning 18 next month! i was going to had sex with a guy and he was going to finger me but i fell scared and stop it! I'm a virgin! but i want to have sex and finger my self!
GreekanonymousSep 04 2013 4:29amFLAGSpread your legs and just get it over with
AnonymousSep 04 2013 6:58amFLAGwhat d y re u guys sooo concern abt loosing ur virginity?
maryharmSep 06 2013 11:27amFLAGDo you orgasm better with rubbing your cl*t or going in with your fingers- plus do you always bleed?
AnonSep 19 2013 6:27amFLAGshove your finger in and go really fast
guestSep 21 2013 10:42amFLAGput a vibrating tooth brush on your . then lick your finger and put it back. try watching *** to get yourself in the mood. watch redtube
guestSep 21 2013 10:50amFLAGI think I fingered myself but I didn't even put all my finger in just like a tiny bit of the tip and it really hurt!! Is that normal :( ?
anonnn Sep 22 2013 6:36amFLAGYou must have a super tight pu$$y how old are you
AnonymousSep 23 2013 3:53amFLAGHow come when I finger myself I don't feel good, like everyone says it should????????
Anonymous BitchSep 29 2013 8:05pmFLAGI'm 20 and still virgin. I tried just a day ago for the first time because before this I didn't had the need to do it but let me tell you. It hurt like a hell. I mean not when you're just rubbing but rubbing didn't help me so I went far but as it started hurting and I was left hanging. Still am. Trying to find another way. And hopefully I will find it! if it hurts that much, I might stay virgin forever or I'm just a sensitive coward. But oh well let's see
Coward, desperate, still hanging CHICK Oct 02 2013 5:43pmFLAGI'm finger all the time it feels really good I love licking my fingers after ......
Anonymous Oct 13 2013 3:46pmFLAGI don't know if I actually fingered myself, but I put the tip of my finger in and it hurt really bad :c is that a bad thing??
Some Person With Problems c};Oct 13 2013 5:48pmFLAGIm,and i tried it just now and i dont know how far to go how many inches should i go?
kittylovemuttOct 14 2013 5:19pmFLAGPut your hole finger in slowly it shouldnt hurt to bad or if you have a boy friend have him lick and suck your p u ssy that will feel real good do it alone because you will moan pretty load and you don't wont your parents to hear you
AnonymousOct 15 2013 3:58amFLAGIm and iv tried fingering myself but im scared to stick sumthing up there.. what should i do???
AnonymousOct 26 2013 2:49amFLAGI am , i have been rubbing myself down there for a long time now and wanted to try something else, i fingered myself for the first time a couple of days ago, it is so different to anything I have ever felt, i used only 1 finger because i was scared it would hurt but now i want to take another step forward and use more fingers
meeeeee:))Nov 01 2013 2:52amFLAGIm nd °̩ am really scared ... (Gettin d hibbie jibbies) nd °̩ jst wanted 2 knw how 2 finger myy self or am °̩ 2 small? Sum1 HELP mee pweez!!! :'(
Anonymous CHICK! :p Nov 09 2013 2:08pmFLAGI'm and I've rubbed myself for a long time and I really wanna finger my self and I've tryed and it dosent Hirt it's just uncomfortable and I Ned's help .!!!
RandomNov 10 2013 7:20pmFLAGI'm and my best friend wants to finger me but I have never even touched myself down there and I'm scared!
😃Nov 25 2013 12:02amFLAGDon't b scared it feels REALLY good ^^
DestinyNov 30 2013 6:40pmFLAGgosh guys dont be so like that i dont wanna try it no and isearched this because my friend dared me too and annoymous person- dont listen to him hes a pedo
meDec 06 2013 2:09pmFLAGI am and i thought about fingering myself...but I'm such a chicke..lol..I'm too young anyways so what's the point?
idkidkidklolllDec 07 2013 10:36pmFLAGHey bitches! Y'all go on n finger yourselves,it feels so GREAT! U cud just get someone to suck ur puusy n then try it
lolDec 22 2013 10:38amFLAGDont do it you.dirty hoe
aidanDec 22 2013 10:38amFLAGI did it for the first time last night didn't hurt but it was weird :/
Anonymous Dec 25 2013 11:43amFLAGI'm and I'm a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have sex and finger each other and it doesn't hurt when we can't find a fake penis we use he end if a razor and stick it in our Vagina but of corse we take off the roadie part all if should try lesbian sex once you'll like it
Girl lover Dec 29 2013 12:56amFLAGtry to avoid that kind of stuff
someoneJan 02 2014 9:29pmFLAGOk so I'm and I've been fingering myself for about a week now,I really want to pop my hymen because I'm scared that sex will hurt but I'm scared that if I finger my self to deep it will hburt when it pops,what should I do?advice?
anonymousJan 08 2014 4:02pmFLAGim 18,19 in a month.still a virgin..sorta scared to finger myself but really want to. and hey woah!-s fingering already?!
AnonymousJan 09 2014 6:01amFLAG-s? You children need to chill and just enjoy life instead of worrying how to finger yourself and if it is gonna hurt or not. Wait until your older to have sex or anything. Some of these comments are just oh my. Take it slow and enjoy being young while you are bc you do not want to have sex at such a young age and end up with a baby that you sure as hell aren't going to take care of. I know you're young and curious but just give it time instead of just forcing up there.
AnonymousJan 21 2014 8:48pmFLAGOMG your and .... Really?? Enjoy your life. Stop worrying about sex.
cyntel gladeMar 09 2014 10:19amFLAGI'm fif****. I've been humping my bed since forever and wanted to try fingering me. I've taken all the steps and I've stopped at the hole, I'm just so afraid to go in. But I've done bjs already
nymphoMar 09 2014 10:38pmFLAGI fingered my self with a marker..but I started to feel this mushy ...and itkinda hurted ....and how to finger yourself in the buthole..?
lulu..Mar 12 2014 12:58pmFLAGI'm a little scared to im and im wet and all the time and i use toothbrushes and water before and ive stuck a brush handle up my ass and if felt awesome but im afraid to finger myself
SexybitchMar 16 2014 6:07amFLAGI always rub myself now i want to finger myself.
But then i felt that squish thing nd moved along and found
a hole!! Hurts when i touch it
kizzaMar 16 2014 2:26pmFLAGi wanted to finger , I've been humping forever . I'm going on . i think I'm just going to let my boyfriend do it first or should i test it out ? idk . I'm confused .
nobody Mar 20 2014 9:30amFLAGI am a girl that is obsessed with my vagina.
nobodyMar 20 2014 9:30amFLAGJust push until your finger goes in and it will feel good after a while take your time though and also don't email those creeps up there and also if you have a bf and you haven't had sex yet just play around a bit with him get him to finger you it will feel better and won't hurt as much
sex goddessMar 22 2014 11:25pmFLAGIt does kinda hurt. I tried and got a little far, but it really hurted me. I could barley take my finger out. I got my finger wet, but it still hurted. I'll just let my boyfriend do it. He had sex with a lot of virgins anyway.
Youdon'tknowmynameMar 28 2014 3:13pmFLAGWell I have fingrd myself before , just go slow and when havimg sex tell him to go slow because your walls are sesative and hold on to him xd ohn and sorry for errors I'm on my tablet
gurly Apr 08 2014 6:15amFLAGI just fingered myself for the first time it's a little uncomfortable at first but work thro the pain and just keep pushing deeper because it feels amazing and there's hardly any pain at all It feels so good!!
AnonymousApr 14 2014 7:35pmFLAGI'm and was a virgin up to 8 hours ago. My boyfriend raped me. I bleeded a lot. Is it safe to finger myself or use a tampon the next time I get my period
Not_a_virgin_anymoreApr 19 2014 5:25amFLAGI'm twelve and was a virgin up to 8 hours ago. My boyfriend raped me. I bleeded a lot. Is it safe to finger myself or use a tampon the next time I get my period
Not_a_virgin_anymoreApr 19 2014 5:26amFLAGNot_a_virgib_anymore I really hope u told the police and your parents. This is a serious thing, people like him can't be free to rape others, they need to get help. He could be doing to more girls, I hope u mean ex boyfriend, and don't say tht like we're in love. If it were love u could leave that person and in years to come you WOULD meet again and could never stay away. Not some ass making u believe otherwise.
An angel Apr 25 2014 11:51pmFLAGI'm and I really wna finger myself and I wana !!! Help mee.. but I awso wna Be a virgin hw do I finger myself without being hurt??
wna finger Apr 26 2014 1:39pmFLAGIt won't hurt trust me it feels and when your ready ask your boyfriend to finger you....JUST HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!
experience girlApr 27 2014 9:46pmFLAGI have the same problem but I don't even know if I broke my hymen yet? dafuq
girlMay 12 2014 8:19pmFLAGIt won't hurt as long as you're wet and ready. If not, there a chance that you can slightly tear, not break the hymen if you're not wet enough. The hymen doesn't break, it's a little circular thing around the vagina that can be stretched so that sex never hurts and if you don't use it, it tightens back up.
I'm just sayingMay 15 2014 9:16pmFLAGwhat the is hymen
virgin May 22 2014 11:26pmFLAGI wanna fingrr myself but m tooo scared dt I might put it in d wrong place...plzz help me!!!
suzan johnMay 23 2014 1:41pmFLAGI really do want to finger my self and Iv been giving my self cl*toal orgasms for ever!! But I can't bring myself to finger my self, I'm always soaking wet so it won't be hard to get in but it just feels strange when I put the tip of my finger in! Eww help me!!
Virgin ballsMay 25 2014 5:00amFLAGI'm .. And never fingered myself just always been running down their I wanna try fingering but I am to scared I might just have my bf do it
unexperienced Aug 22 2014 3:12amFLAGI don't knw if I even fingered myself I jst put the tip of mi finger in and it really hurt is it hurting becoz mi finger wasn't wet? And which direction should i finger myself I dnt wanna damage anything...plz help
meOct 04 2014 3:04amFLAGYou need to break your hymen, I would look up how to do that though but if it hurts still depending on your age have sex if u feel comfortable doing that but if it hurts bad talk to your doctor about it they get asked alot plus there are some disorders that can affect your vag if you keep doing and it hurts, otherwise use a carrot! Clean it and put it in a condom first find onevthat suits you size wise hope I helped! !!!
that-girlNov 17 2014 7:51pmFLAGYou need to be dripping to finger yourself. When you're too or too in heat, sliding your finger inside becomes much easier.
ErenFeb 05 2015 11:56pmFLAGI need help fingering myself I can never get wet enough usually I have someone tell me dirty things and then it works so someone please help me and that someone is my friend we are both bisexuals so will a girl please help me 😔
someone_make_me_soaking_wet_pleaseFeb 15 2015 10:22pmFLAGMaybe u should start with rubbing the cl*t. At first it feels realm weird and feels like u need to pee but keep doing that faster and harder. U r still a virgin if u finger yourself just don't let a guy finger u. That will have disastrous consequences.
virgin Jun 12 7:38amFLAGI try but it seems like there is something blocking it and it won't go in someone help
noyfbJun 20 10:17pmFLAGI try to put my finger in it but its like something is blocking it it doesn't wanna go in someone help
scared virgenJun 20 10:18pmFLAGJust relax and its normal that you want to discover parts of your body at any age just try slowly to find the area
a personJun 23 10:49pmFLAGJust chill and enjoy childhood! You are ing eleven! My god!
the only person on this site with a brainJun 25 8:48pmFLAGim twelve and ive already given my boyfriend a blow job and a hand job and i want to finger myself but whenever i try it hurts