American IdolMar 07 2004 9:38pmFLAGdido to American Idol(i agree)
happybutsadgrlMar 10 2004 2:54pmFLAGjust play with his d*ck on the outside of the pants, thatll tease him abit, then put ur hand down slow, slowly care ress his d*ck with the top of fingers the when ur ready and he is.if he has a small d*ck use ur two front fingers, place them at the top of the foreskin and just keep pushing up and down if you wnat it to get saucier let him lick u out then finish off with you suckng his d*ck
AnonymousMar 17 2004 10:21amFLAGuse lube...it makes a normal hand job feel wetter and warmer, lyk intercourse. once you've got everything warmed up, move your hand to the top and let it slide between ur fingers (careful 2 watch ur nails) this symulates the feeling of a man first entering a woman. Then put your hands together letting your fingers lace between each ther creating a hole in the middle. put his d*ck in the hole and instead of just going up and down get a twisting motion also.
GoOdGirlOct 25 2004 5:01pmFLAG
First, you must squeeze as HARD as possible. this gives the guy the impression that you want to get more intamate with him. then you must scratch it.(they like it) then flick the ball sack three times. then your ready!!!
tom, aka pimpOct 29 2004 3:28pmFLAGPut his penis in your mouth and quit asking how to give a good hand job
jerisOct 30 2004 1:25amFLAGplay with the balls a lil bit first, then move upward toward the shaft. make sure to give the head lovin' too because it is very sensitive! go slowly then faster as he gets closer to coming!
jmhNov 04 2004 6:52pmFLAGYa know, a better question might be how do I get a girl to give me an hj?
some faggotNov 06 2004 12:40amFLAGquit asking how do i give a hand job just suck it as hard as you can
pimpNov 10 2004 6:31pmFLAGteas him alot before hand. then go slow, teasing my a bit more, then start going faster and faster.
tegdimJan 05 2005 5:46pmFLAGActually..can i ask how to give good head?i want his orgasm to increase so i dont have to do it for so long.
signed: dazed and confuzed babeJan 16 2005 11:30amFLAGWell first you want to dig your nails into his balls(try to pop them) then you want to tickle it till he has blue balls, then you just do it all normal and when he cums you want to make him eat it and lick you fingers off, then have sex
jordan and roxiJan 19 2005 3:57pmFLAGfirst makeout with him, to loosen u guys both up, move next to him and slowly tickle ur way down under his pants and underwear/boxers.. rub ur hand over it up and down on top of the shaft for a little bit.. then slide under and do the same thing, take off his pants and underwear/boxers slowly... slide down using ur fingers on ur way down to ur knees.. first before u put ur mouth on it.. lick the tip a few times... thisll get him going.. tease him a little bit... lick the top... as ur holding the balls and the bottom of his d*ck.. put ur mouth on it.. suck.. dont blow.. suck. slowly but firmly.. repeat this process.. you dont have to swollow. but they liek it when you do, shows them ur not afraid.
hope this works! -L*Feb 09 2005 4:36pmFLAGSCREW SUCKIN IT HAVE SEX BITCHES !!
fmfmfmfmMar 05 2005 7:09pmFLAG
get a life ass its ccalled live and learn
haha NOMar 12 2005 3:49pmFLAGjust get his shaft up and start banging it on ur tits
poulterApr 22 2005 12:43pmFLAGumm just give him oral sex it feels much better than a hand job they can do that them selves but they cant suck there own d*cks
person who nowsMay 18 2005 10:04amFLAGwho the ing base, have sex and dont worry about how to give hand jobs or head
a whoreJun 12 2005 5:20pmFLAGI deffinatly need some advise on head!!!
ms bitchJun 16 2005 3:24pmFLAGJUST SUCK THE KNOB d*ck HEAD
HOEJun 16 2005 4:53pmFLAGhey look im in the same position i need to know how to give a good hand job im scared i need to know what to dow ith out my boyfriend knwoing ive never doen it before
girl in need of some helpJun 26 2005 5:19pmFLAGwhata re the steps to giving a hand job how to i get to doing it
i learnedJun 26 2005 5:22pmFLAGya'll are so immature... it's not like girls cant finger themselves either but it's way more pleasureable when someone other than urself does it. the initial question was how to give a good handjob, not advice on if u should give handjobs.
rolling her eyesJul 03 2005 9:42pmFLAGthere arent really steps, it's just a matter of getting comfortable w/the guy. like start out kissing and get some heavy petting going and then just work your way down w/ ur hands.
a galJul 03 2005 9:43pmFLAGwellz ive onli give hand twice buh da guyz seemed to like it u jst gotta be comfortable arround da guy n plz make sure u actualli like him ur not just doing it for the sake of doing it it makes it so much easier n so much more pleasureable if u like da person its better if u can find out ur own tecknicks coz like da guyz will always like to c somin new n dont do it if ur not ready kz peace chiakz n fellz mwazzz
timAug 09 2005 10:21pmFLAGmy man tells me that heads better than hand, so do it like that... and they like it when you are gonna swallow, but show them first... yea, its hot!
lalaAug 13 2005 12:48amFLAGjust rip his damn pants off
H to the ornyAug 14 2005 11:45pmFLAGone amazingly good head technique is when she lubes up her fingers with spit and wraps thumb and finger around the base of the u know what. when u put ur mouth on it u only go half way down, and while ur going down , u bring ur lubed fingers up from the base and meet the mouth, do really really slow at first , then after a while u can start doing a twisty motion with ur mouth or hand , or both.
nice guyAug 18 2005 2:27pmFLAGone amazingly good head technique is when she lubes up her fingers with spit and wraps thumb and finger around the base of the u know what. when u put ur mouth on it u only go half way down, and while ur going down , u bring ur lubed fingers up from the base and meet the mouth, then bring ur mouth up ass u bring ur lubed finger back down. do really really slow at first , then after a while u can start doing a twisty motion with ur mouth or hand , or both.
nice guyAug 18 2005 2:28pmFLAGone amazingly good head technique is when she lubes up her fingers with spit and wraps thumb and finger around the base of the u know what. when u put ur mouth on it u only go half way down, and while ur going down , u bring ur lubed fingers up from the base and meet the mouth, then bring ur mouth up ass u bring ur lubed fingers back down. do really really slow at first , then after a while u can start doing a twisty motion with ur mouth or hand , or both.
nice guyAug 18 2005 2:29pmFLAGjust HELP ME ive nva done it b4 and i dnt want my boifriend to know iv never givin a hand job
needs all the help i can getSep 12 2005 3:32pmFLAG
HELP I WANNA GIVE A GOOD HAND JOB
nauhgty girl w/ bad habitSep 12 2005 3:37pmFLAGJust !!!!!!
screwing the neighborNov 02 2005 9:01pmFLAGgod some people give sum crap advice huh!! y cum on here to make fun u twats. i thought i'd find sum tips on here dat i didnt already kno, obviously not. Look i been wiv my fella for nearly 2 years n our sex lifes great!! sex is great but it aint everything thou to make it last its sumtimes gd to have a back up like a hand job it keeps things interesting . for example u cant just start in in the cinema or sumwhere like that but a hand job is a great way to descretely please!! my bloke can really get me going finguring me in the cinema and he has all different methods that work but i wanna kno how to really suprise him by throwing sum wicked suprises in. I even teased with ice da ova day and he went wild, ya gotat keep da ova person guessin ya should neva b scared to get freaky. so ignore da twats dat say just start humping cos dey really aint gotta clue, sex is so much more than just putting it in and out!! gd luck if u follow their advice.
sum 1 dat kno's how to please her manNov 09 2005 8:43amFLAGTease Please and take payment! lol just kidding, they like noises they enjoy it more if tehy think you do. my bloke goes wild if i quietly start moaning, its a guarenteed method of gettign ur bloke to experience the buggest hard on!!
happily in loveNov 09 2005 8:46amFLAGwith da vlow job problem as freaky as ya might find it if its ya first blow job, pull out da whipped cream. they will go wild thinking you've dun it a thousand times, really its just a great way to learn a blow job technique. as u lick it off they will go wild!! take ya time with it, byda time its all licked off they will be so hot that the noises will guide the way on what you should do next and they wont have a clue how inexperienced you are instead they will think u r a sex goddess
pro sucka!! (it cums!! with practice)) excuse the pun!!Nov 09 2005 8:49amFLAGok how to give your man the best head ok....
first to set the mood make out a little then start to move down and start kissing his tummy unbutton his pants while you are kissing his tummy and then slow take his pants off and kiss lower and lower once you get to his d*ck lick the tip of it and look at him kis and play with his balls with your tounge and then you should tease him a little by puting his d*ck in your mouth then taking it out and kiss the tip and lick it but then start puting it in your mouth more and more then go around at diff speeds and look at him some time and make sure yoou spit on it a little everytime you come up so it doesnt get too dry and DOINT SUCK but keep your mouth around it and the sides of the inside of your mouth around it too watch out for teeth and you can play with his balls you should swallow the cum cuz it shows them you can handle it and you could alway ask your man how he likes it but just have fun with it and dont get nurvus if you do you will gag so be cool with it and it will be fun for both of you
blow job betty!Nov 14 2005 1:11pmFLAGthe key to giving a good blow jobs is to not think about it just do it, if you think to hard you will get nervous and up. pretend its a lollipop always tease him a little bit by kissing it or licking it (but dont tease to much you gotta know when to stop)he'll want it even more and then just do the damn thing but most importantly relax and watch those teeth.
sex addictDec 08 2005 11:40amFLAGhmmm....... u all t very stange... and sex obssessd
meDec 26 2005 2:54amFLAGWell this is....interesting....ok new way of putting it. Hers the scene. Movie theater in the back...its dark....and u don't have lube in ur purse (how inconvenient)...and ur not ogin 2 give a god damn blow job in the theater! so...ur hand job technic is...??? and f**king is not the way to go ppl! hell if we all f**ked every day where the hell would we be!? we'd be freakin CHINA!!! so stop all that crap and lets hear the technics on how to give a FABTABULOUS (yes fabtabulous) hand job. GOT IT?!
the only dumb ass that makes sense in here!Jan 14 2006 9:53pmFLAGIt's All Good You Little Twats~!~
Brandons BitchJan 15 2006 9:53pmFLAGIt's All Good You Little Twats~!~
Brandons BitchJan 15 2006 9:53pmFLAGUm I am only but i have a boyfriend who is 18 and he is still a virgin but is use to messing around with peopl. But i have never done really anything so obviously i am very nervous but eager to please...what should i do?
Alabama bound!Feb 01 2006 1:40pmFLAGPPl PLL JUst suck the aaasss I love suckin d*ck so baddd it just feels great for the guy my nice hot toungue touchin him drives him crazy
TIna Berrios i live in yonkers newyorkFeb 12 2006 11:02amFLAGhow do i get someone to have sex with me?
me big d*ck Mar 29 2006 7:56pmFLAGfirm but soft grip on his d*ck, start going up and down slow and gradually get faster. reach a good speed and keep going to know if he likes it look at his reactions and try going a bit faster and she if he likes it better. make sure he cums cus if u leave him hanging there he wont like that and he'll really wanna release...
sxc eyre knows bestMar 29 2006 9:58pmFLAGi love mah boyfriend sps u sexy babe
sxc eyre knows bestMar 29 2006 9:59pmFLAGYou know what me and my best friend say....Be Good or Be Good at it thats all you need to kno
Hot MamasApr 11 2006 3:11pmFLAGwow sum fukin annoying ass people in hurr hhhmmm dumb asses get a fukin life she asked a ? if ur not gonna answer it then get the out u durr durr durrs yeah quick info for a hand job tease grab the d*ck not to hard move up and down slow then faster and sumtimes moan they like that not to hard u get better with practice k so there have fun
every1else in hurr sucks assApr 16 2006 12:05amFLAGi need help i have never given a hand job or a blow job or been fingered or anything else other than feel up and make out and i have lots of boyfriends it just never gets that far but now it has and i donno how to do it soo how do i give a hand job like i mean step by step help plz and im not like a perv dork i just need help
SOME1HELP ME PLZApr 24 2006 8:44amFLAG~LOOK GUYZ, IF ANY OF AL DONT NO HOW TO GIVE A GODDAM BLOW JOB OR HAND JOB, DONT WORRY CUZJUSS DO DA B3ST YOU CAN AND IF THEY DONT LIKE IT THEN TELL THEM TO GO GET IF FROM SOME 1 BETTA. LATAZ!!!!!!!~
TEXAZ_FINEST_HOMEGURLApr 25 2006 3:24pmFLAGanyone else have any advice for me ????
SOME! HELP M EPLZ
AnonymousApr 26 2006 2:31pmFLAGk so im just like this other girl.. iv had b/f and stuff but its never really gotton this far.. and now it has been... we been doin a few things over the pants but i just know he wants to go under... sooo wut do i do.. and i mean STEP by STEP.. even like.. how do i get his pants off?? (he ALWAYS wheres track pants:P) and how many fingers do i use I DONT WANT TO GIVE HIM A BL*WJ*B! just pls tell me all about givin a hand job please... wut can i use for lube or do i even need it? around how long will i have to do it.. assuming im doing it right.... just tell me everything u can and pls dont make fun of me or tell me somthing wrong.. i just need help
nervous*but wanns to have sum funMay 06 2006 3:21pmFLAGk so im just like this other girl.. iv had b/f and stuff but its never really gotton this far.. and now it has been... we been doin a few things over the pants but i just know he wants to go under... sooo wut do i do.. and i mean STEP by STEP.. even like.. how do i get his pants off?? (he ALWAYS wheres track pants:P) and how many fingers do i use I DONT WANT TO GIVE HIM A BL*WJ*B! just pls tell me all about givin a hand job please... wut can i use for lube or do i even need it? around how long will i have to do it.. assuming im doing it right.... just tell me everything u can and pls dont make fun of me or tell me somthing wrong.. i just need help
nervous*but wanns to have sum funMay 06 2006 4:27pmFLAGk so im just like this other girl.. iv had b/f and stuff but its never really gotton this far.. and now it has been... we been doin a few things over the pants but i just know he wants to go under... sooo wut do i do.. and i mean STEP by STEP.. even like.. how do i get his pants off?? (he ALWAYS wheres track pants:P) and how many fingers do i use I DONT WANT TO GIVE HIM A BL*WJ*B! just pls tell me all about givin a hand job please... wut can i use for lube or do i even need it? around how long will i have to do it.. assuming im doing it right.... just tell me everything u can and pls dont make fun of me or tell me somthing wrong.. i just need help
nervous*but wanns to have sum funMay 06 2006 4:27pmFLAGwhat you really need it comunication with him
gMay 15 2006 4:03pmFLAGstart rubing it slowly give it a lick or too.work your hand like it was your tongue on a tooties roll pop trying to get to the middle.
ninfoMay 28 2006 1:19pmFLAGyea i feel tha same i dunno wtf 2 do! 1 of meh mates ahs dun it shez good advice tho
?>?>?>?>?Jun 23 2006 2:38amFLAGjust fukin bite it off wit ya teeth!!
AnonymousJun 23 2006 2:38amFLAGWhat Should I Do To Make It More Interesting For My Bf. Sometimes He Starts Jacking Off While Im Giving Him Head? What Should I Do&why Does He Do It. Even If It Only Happend 1nce. Haha. Help Plz?
confused gurL =/Jun 30 2006 2:38pmFLAGgiving an awesome handjob definately has to start with making out. gets you both in the mood. start it with more loving kisses, but as you get more into it, they'll get deeper and more intimate... this is where body pressing and grinding (aka dry humping) comes in. let him feel around on your chest, hips, butt, and thighs. do the same to him... explore. go from his hips to penis (outside of his pants to let him know you want it). then, my favorite move to get in his pants, rub your hand, sensually, from his neck, lightly over his chest, nipple and stomach turning downward as you go. slip it in over his boxers, the anticipation will kill him... but not as insanely as the first time you touch it skin to skin. rub it softly then harder over his boxers then slip your hand in through the hole or in thru the top. some general tips now: rub it hard, but not for too long cause it will start to hurt him. start slow, get faster, then surprise him by hittin the brakes with hard slow, INTENSE, rubbing. another: make both hands circles and and let him penetrate your hand, continue down shaft, penetrate other hand, down... one after another a couple times. you can also lightly scratch with your nails... this brings up- NO BITING! hello! ow! you don't want him biting you, do you? no. moving on... twist once in a while for something fresh. go from playing with the whole penis to just the head. its softer so it will slip easier in your hand. don't forget your lotion! keep him lubed: 1 because it will feel more like having sex and 2 b/c it will hurt to rub hard without slip. plus- his moan to the slippery sensation will turn you on and make you want to pleasure him even more!!! lastly- for you inexperienced girls- don't be afraid!! go for it girl! everyone has to start somewhere. plus- your guy should know (and probably does, you just hope he hasn't figured it out ;) ) that you arn't really experience. it might keep him from going farther then you're comfortable with. also, it's okay to talk while or after youre going at it. ask him what he likes what he doesn't what you could do better. being open with each other will make your relationship soo much stronger. okay a couple other things that i just thought of after all that- a few tips- leave the light on... he'll LOVE seeing you do naughty things to him!! :D also, when he touches you or you get really hot touchinng him, tell him or moan in pleasure. i love hearing my guy moan and he tells me how much he loves to hear me do it. it proves yall are doing something right. other then all that... JUST HAVE FUN!!! relax and go for it!
wanna help, have CONFIDENCE!Jul 10 2006 1:01amFLAGkiss his neck, suck and nibble his ears.
me againJul 10 2006 1:02amFLAGfirst dig in his pants and pull his pants down suck it take it out ur mouth and go up and down really fast
secqretJul 14 2006 3:54pmFLAGJust have fun with him*!* It well come naturally!!!!!!!!
Br3Jul 19 2006 7:18amFLAGa few days ago i jerked off my man for the first time. he loved it! what i like to do to get him hard is start by making out. when he is really gettin into the kiss slowly pull away. lick your way around his lips. if he tries to get your tongue pull back. my man loves this. he always begs for me to stick it in his mouth. since we are pressed together very tightly i can feel him get hard so i slowly brought my hand to his d*ck...on the outside of his pants. i rubbed it slowly then got a little faster until he couldnt take it anymore. i took his pants down and licked off all the pre cum. he LOVED that. then i gently squeezed the head until more came out. after i got him lubed up with his own pre cum i jerked him off. right before he came i sucked his d*ck long and hard. he couldnt help but explode in my mouth. hope this advice helps. good luck!!
wouldn't ya like to knowAug 12 2006 3:55pmFLAG him!!!!
bitches aint got nothin on meAug 12 2006 4:00pmFLAGHey- i need advice also on how to do a good hand job. HELP!
Lovely Girly GirlAug 23 2006 12:18amFLAGjerk him off slowly at first then do it faster and faster then when you feel that hes gonna cum start sucking his d*ick and swallow that cum.
iv givin lotz of handjobzSep 16 2006 3:48pmFLAGyo handjobs, 69 is wear its at
straight outta comptonSep 16 2006 3:52pmFLAGim & my boyfriends & im sopose to give him a hj & ive never done it b4 what the f**ck do i do !!
ii need advice.Nov 07 2006 5:56pmFLAGto give a good blow job start by licking the sides of his d***k then tickle the head with your tounge then put it in your mouth and nibble gently and then start sucking but going deeper as you go along untill the hole thing is in your mouth then speed up untill your chocking the climb on top of him and him so hard the let him cum all over you in your mouth every where
dont you want a piece of my boys?....Nov 15 2006 1:08amFLAGi have a questionn..
okayy so im not very old, you caould say thir****.lol yeaa alls my boyfriend and i have done are makeoutt. he wants to do a tun more if you kno what i mean. well i cant just skip ahead so i need to kno how to give a nice handjob, and bl*wj*b. do you just like..rub it softly with the plam of you hand while moving it up and down starting at the bottom? lol let me kno if im gonna do it wrong. also...head. do i just suck it? lol i need to knoo some tricks plase share some. guy think about when you where four**** plese and get back to me.
in need of help asapNov 18 2006 2:23pmFLAGfirst of all dont be embarassed by anything you shouldnt have to be!!!be comfortable around him otherwise things will seem awkward for the both of you!!start off just making out not hot and heavy at first work into it.pull back every once in awhile my guy loves that it makes them want it even more. start by rubbing the outside of his pants on his d*ck. slowly work you hand into his pants dont just stick your hand right down there it ruins it all!!try using lotion or some sort of lube like warming lube this makes it feel better for him than just rubbing it dry you need some sort of slip.start slow working your hands around his head then up and down. go down to his balls every once in awhile (they like that)you should be good from there
little secrets confinedDec 11 2006 1:22pmFLAGyeah i started wondering the same thing awhile ago.
tease him a lot...by his balls slowly up and down his shaft spin around with one finger at the head. Maybe kiss him here or there. then you're ready to go. i wouldn't go slow. most guys dont like it.
meDec 31 2006 5:41pmFLAGListen Im a guy, Im telling you, the best hand job Ive ever had was:
we were just making out it was our first date and then shue lifted my shirt a little and rested her hand on my stomach for a moment.
She then slowly slipped her hands a little lower, finger tips in my pants. She waited to see how I reacted and I knew, and so I took her hand and guided her down.
We ed each other that night. Some cowgirl style yee hah
slutJan 17 2007 3:53pmFLAGwhen your done giving head or a hand job, what do you do from there? and how long should all of this fun stuff last?
~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Jan 18 2007 10:56amFLAGIt turns guys on when they know that the girl is inexperieced with handjobs and sex. Makes them feel special, just keep on talking with the guy and ask him if your doing it right.
nbJan 21 2007 1:29amFLAGwhat ever you do, just watch your nails and teeth...and make sure you are ready emotionally to handle doing all of this naughty stuff.. Just think; Am i ready for this, does he really like me or just the prospect, will he still like me afterwards? will he help me or make me embarasses and akward...make sure you are ready for this
~Advice adviser...Feb 03 2007 11:13amFLAGstart of kissing first and whispering dirty things in his ear. then lightly whisp your fingers all over him .also lick him. then slolwy grasp your hands around his penis using circular movements. make sure you keep him occupied in other ways will doing this like the licking or bite him in a sexual way.
N/AFeb 06 2007 9:12amFLAGu know wat guys the men really love when you breath really heavy and warm the penis up my man loves it oh and u ass holes that are saying just have sex some of us are afraid to get pregnant we are not whores ok cya
candyFeb 26 2007 6:52pmFLAGif the girl is ***** it makes it a million times better
then
studMar 03 2007 6:36pmFLAGok im and my boyfriend is and hes alreay had lots of experience... so i wanna show him that i know how to get DOWN but i dont really know how to giv hj or bj and about lube wat can u use..or will he even like it?? in need of advice!!
AIMar 20 2007 9:30pmFLAGMy man enjoys it best if I take my time & enjoy it! If you are not sure how to do it or if you are not willing to let him blow a phat nutt all over your face and in your mouth then don't even try. First thing as you are sucking his C*ck, play with his balls using lots of lube and then gentally stick your finger in his ass!!! Yes in his ass!!! he will enjoy and when he is ready to explode make him watch as he bust a phat nutt in your face, but you too must be making eye contact with him. look at every expression he makes as his sweet hot cum is shoutn all over you, moan and tell him how you love his c*ck. tell him to give how you are his nasty whore, and to give it to you. The more you make him feek as he is your master and you are there to serve his every wish, the better he will enjoy you given him head!!!!!!!
hotluvnmamaMar 22 2007 12:04pmFLAGdon't let your first time be to some jerk senior in his truck at 1am on your sisters birthday!
sophomore virginMar 30 2007 8:37pmFLAGGet behind him, pushing yourself into his bottom, kiss his neck and reach around and rub his c*ck through his pants until he gets hard.....then unzip him, reach in and stroke his shaft until you feel pre cum, put your thumb in his slit and gently rub it in a circle....undo his pants and drop them taking off his underwear as well, stay behind him and jack his c*ck squeezing it hard when he gets close stop, get bottomless and push your in deep stroke his c*ck hard, tight and fast, he will start thrusting back and forth groaning trying to get your finger out and then thrusting into your hand, as he starts to go crazy hold your hand still and tight and push your finger in deep, make hime thrust until he cums, when he ejaculates catch him because he might pass out.
meApr 14 2007 2:13pmFLAGWhat really makes my guy go crazy is when we first start off by making out every once and a while I pull away just out of his reach or bite his bottom lip and suck. He always wants me to suck on his lip and neck. So after that i give him little kisses or sometimes lick my way down to his lower stomach. I rub him hard outside of his pants then slowly undo his pants. Once they're out of the way I slowly start stroking his shaft teasing his a bit until he sweats and moans out 'Harder!' I obay and pick up my pace while talking dirty to him. I make sure to moan in his ear or while kissing him making him antsy. I let him cum all over my stomach when he's ready to. Sometimes it's so good he starts to shake.
After that preformance I'll surely get whatever I want for a whileee =]]
Hope I was of some help. I was nervous my first time but I didn't think to hard about it.
JellybeanApr 28 2007 2:12amFLAGWell, first get on a couch or perferably a bed :) then start making out, then maybe a little dry humping, feels good and it gets everybody . Second start rubbing up his shirt with his clothes on then as you go down on his chest reach under his shirt going down rubbing his d*ck over his pants. Then unbutton his pants and then rub him over his boxers, then reach under his boxers and start rubbing. After he gets hard grab his d*ck witht the other hand and get lotion or some kind of lube. (PLAY WITH THE BALLS, IT WILL GET HIM OFF HARDER AND FASTER) the start jerking the hell out of his d*ck until he cums. After he cums lighty jack him until he is completely done cumming.
Your mom.May 01 2007 12:51pmFLAGHere for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side. You can prop yourself up on your elbows.
The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter).
Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.
One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a little extra 'push' to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.
You contact lens wearers will no doubt remember the difficulty you had overcoming the involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in your lenses, but with practice and patience it became very easy to do. The same applies to deep throating! Be patient and practice the technique as often as possible.
After you've learned to take in the entire length, you can begin working on some 'advanced techniques' that will add even more pleasure. Some of these techniques are letting you partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis in your throat. If you don't like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the head of his penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of you tongue when he ejaculates.
You'll also be able to perform a "throat massage" on his penis while it's in your throat. This technique will drive your partner wild with passion as your throat muscles massage his penis. This is accomplished by actually making a swallowing motion while the entire length if his penis is deep in your throat. You'll also be able to lick his balls while he's in your throat.
If you've never been deep throated, you're probably wondering what it really feels like. Most men report that they feel a "pleasurable ring of tightness" around the circumference of the penis just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft.
Remember: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force throat muscles open, go slow and be patient! While learning deep throat, it's better that the giver maintain the "superior" position, i.e. where the giver controls the depth and frequency of penetration. After you've become very comfortable with taking a penis deep in your throat, you'll be able to accept a more passive roll and let your partner control the depth. An excellent position for this is you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. Your partner will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position. This position provides an excellent view of your neck and throat for your partner. On of the most exciting visual aspects of deep throat is your partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis slides in deep.
While learning to perform deep throat, it's best of you are fully relaxed before starting. Take a nice, long, hot, bath. Listen to some soft music. Drink a glass of wine. Have you partner give you a long sensual body massage .... or do whatever relaxes you the best. The more relaxed you are when you begin, the easier it will be to learn the deep throat technique.
As related earlier, lubrication is extremely important. Saliva will do, but there are other lubricants you can buy that are slicker and will last longer. The best I've found is, believe it or not, Albolene, a makeup remover! It's completely odorless and tasteless and in non toxic. It has been used in the adult film industry for years as a sexual lubricant. It can be purchased at any large drugstore. Another trick the adult film stars who perform deep throat use is spraying a topical anesthetic on the back of the tongue and throat to deaden it. The most commonly used is Lidocaine spray. Lidocaine is available by prescription only! Lidocaine is what a physician uses to deaden the tongue and throat when they use an endoscope to look in to your stomach. Lidocaine is also prescribed for people with very sore throats and those with canker sores in the mouth. An over the counter equivalent is Axon, a type of aerosol sore throat spray. I hope this information is helpful.
love momMay 02 2007 11:40amFLAGfirst make out 4 a lil bit then u tease him by rubbing his d*ck from tha out side of his pants then slowly move down and rubb up and down u play wid tha head and then JUST SHOV IT IN YA BITCHEZ
kinky whoreMay 25 2007 7:47pmFLAGwhen he cums after you give him a handjob do you just let it go all over you? or in his pants or what?
my boyfriend sneaks into my room sometimes and i really dont want him cuming all over my bed for my parents to see.
new at this..Jun 01 2007 10:06pmFLAGGRAB THE TITI AND SUCK.......QUIT ASKIN AND JUS SUCK EM OFF U MITE LYK IT I DID.......
SHELIAJun 04 2007 10:05amFLAGI'm in this too.. I dont want my BF to know Ive never done it before, but I really want to give him a HJ.. advice anyone?
The soon to be bad girlJun 07 2007 9:26pmFLAGim thir**** but not a virgin. the way i loved my ex to do it was to tease me abit then to start rubbing me hard on the outside of my pants then wen i was good and hard then she would unzip my pants and lick my head abit then she would move up and down slowly as normal then gradually get faster and faster then when was about to cum then she would get down on all fours and open her mouth and get ready to swallow a big sticky load!
the virginJun 09 2007 12:12amFLAGi normally kiss the head of his penis and slowly slide my lips over it until it is all in my mouth....suck on it and than slowly slide up and use ur tongue to make circular motion around the head and than go back down and lick the skin between his balls and penis and then suck again or repeat until he comes...or throws u on the bed and rips ur clothes off of u and u have hott sex
tragiclilemogurlJun 10 2007 12:56amFLAGWow, people, s on their knees? Maybe I'm just a bit old fashioned, but what on earth are you thinking. A bit of advice, no relationship you are going to have at that age will last for very long. In the end you will most likely regret doing it, certianly doing it that early. Wait a while, make sure the relationship is worth it.
ashamed of youJun 10 2007 10:42pmFLAGJust like all the other ppl said start slow and then get faster... he'll love it! And always end with a moan or a passionite kiss! Good luck!
<3Jun 13 2007 3:49pmFLAG.. i gave myman head n he loved it.. all you have to do is just feel comfortable thats key.. but more less. just tease it slowly.. dry humping is great for this.. it gets him n me too.. n then just slwoly place it in ur mouth n kick it.. n lick the head.. u can use ur hands at the base of the balls that always feels really good on them.. moan while ur doin it.. n scream his name they love it.. n then when ur comfortable then place the whole d*ck in ur mouth... n suck... remember to look at him while u do it.. it gives u feedback on whether they like it or not
....hott latina...Jun 15 2007 8:42amFLAGdon't be nervous... JUST GO FOR IT GIRLS!!! have confidence and even if you don't know what you're doing... pretend you do
like my advice will help anyoneJul 08 2007 9:28pmFLAGim and my bf is .. i was a virgin when i met him and hes experienced. i was worried about hj's even though weve already had sex id never done tht. so the other night my bf was hard so u rubbed over his boxers then slipped my hand in and i stroked it until he couldnt take it anymore and moved my hand up and down which i continued myself until he came he said he enjoyed it but we later realised that night that i had tore his foreskin when i turned over because i had a dead arm . i gave advice but can anyone help me , what happens if u rip foreskin does it heal?
natashaJul 14 2007 1:51pmFLAGso i'm and all i've done is make out...of course i'm super horney all the time but man how do i do anything with anyone
the one who will always be a virgin at everythingJul 17 2007 5:26pmFLAGi have read all of your adivce's
thank you so much it really helped me a lot
i am still a virgin but my boyfriend isnt and i am worried that he wont like what i will do or something
but about 2 days ago we were on the phone and i was so so i started to figner myself and moan about 2 mintues later i herd him moaning knowing he was jacking him self off
after that day i am not embarssed to talk about sex to him and stuff
but i am nervous that he wont like something that i will do
cause if i do something wrong and he tells me i will be so embarssed
but my friend just said when it is about to happen relax and dont be afraid to ask him to help you or lead you into some moves
i know this is stupid but i am still a virgin
but after it happens i will tell you guys so advice
a virgin who wants to bang her boyfriendJul 29 2007 6:47pmFLAGyou just need to be chill and listen to what your guy wants. usually, he'll tell you what feels good and what could be improved. don't just go and have sex or give a bj because you think you need to. honestly, hjs are better for being able to deal with the possible depressing emotions when the relationship ends.
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what do i know anyway xDOct 02 2007 12:42pmFLAGlearning from these sites is all well n gud - but the best way to find out what he likes is to ask him. if u cant or r 2 embarassd u shudn b at this stage with him anyway. often theyl even say what feels gud and if they like something theyl ask u 2 keep doing it. learnin from experience and what he has to say is the only way ur gonna get good at it, everyone starts from knowing nothing!! dont panic, jus go with the flow
what u need to hear evn tho u probs dnt want 2Oct 08 2007 2:26amFLAGpeople just need to relax and go with what is happening. most likely your guy wont care about your skill if its your first time giving him a handjob. he will be so excited your so eager to go for it that he will be so turned on about his girl wanting to make him happy. just be confident and relaxed. it will take the course its suppost to!
best advice youll get on hereOct 13 2007 12:51pmFLAGI think the best advice is to find out what he likes, even if you are not comfortable with talking about sex it will turn both of you on. You kind of just have to go by the moment, if you try to follow "steps" you will be thinking too much, which will stop you from getting all hot and bothered... I think the biggest turn on for guys is confidence. I used to worried about doing something wrong, and it always put a strain on the way things were going.. you just have to let go of all your thoughts and be in the moment.. Even if you don't know what to do, your body and his body will let you know what you both like and dislike! So just be confident and don't worry about anything...
Someone that caresOct 14 2007 12:23pmFLAGwell. yesterday was the first time that ive ever given a hj. I dont have a boyfriend, but a best friend that i fool around with. He is extremly expirienced and i am not. i was so nervous that i couldnt even unbutton his pants. I told him that i was nervous but that i wanted to do this. So after a while i finally got the courage to unbutton his pants and grab onto it. I openly said that i didnt kno what to do and he said "just play with it. I kno that sounds dumb, but really its the best thing ever" so i started going up and down the shaft and after a while i was worried that i wasnt doin anything for him. So i asked "am i doin anything for you?" and he said "yea...but maybe you just need some more motivation" so he started fingerin me which made me go faster on him until he cummed.
so all in all...just play with it. and my guy also said that it was SOOO hot to hear me moan and finger myself while i was doin stuff to him.
24/7Nov 07 2007 11:15amFLAGhi i woul like advice but in msn better im if some can help me pleasy a naughty sexy girl here is my email h_cuadra@hotmail.com thank you.
RyanNov 17 2007 6:18amFLAGI just gave my new boyfriend a "handjob" tonight. Although this isnt really a handjob it might be fun for those of you who are alittle scared. We'd been making out for a while plus dry humping so he was very hard. Spend some time trailing your fingers up and down his chest and slipping your fingers gently under his pants until you feel some hair. Play with him and watch his expressions, eyes closing are good, as is heavy breathing, etc. After I unzipped his pants I just rubbed him slowly through his boxers (this is prolly better than a real handjob if you don't have any lube) Make sure you watch his face the whole time, you'll figure out from his expression what he likes prety quickly. Tell him that you "love him" or hes hott or whatever is appropriate. Also when my guy really liked it when i LIGHTLY ran my nails up and down his shaft over the boxers. He came pretty quickly.
DSANov 18 2007 8:28pmFLAGim and my bfs ive only started goin out wit mt fella and he wants a wank(hand-job)frm me. he knows ive neva done it b4 and he sed tats ok and i can practise alot on him but i want 2 surprise him and b gud so i dont need alot of practise.!!! please help and dont tell me 2 suck! i dont wanna have sex or give him a blo-job! hello im only im not a dirty slut!!! plz help xxxxxxxxxxxx
help me!!!!!Nov 20 2007 1:26pmFLAGstick your finger his azz!!!
azz fkerNov 23 2007 9:53pmFLAGMy advice to those out there wanting to give their boyfriends a HJ is this
TEASE THEM
it really does drive guys crazy
my bf and i have been mucking around with each other for ages and i found that the best way to start him of is buy making out and just when hes really getting into it half pull away but not in a rejecting way, teasing him like this makes him go crazy and pretty much beg for more
then when u guys get hot n heavy making out start slowly making your way down his body start at the back of his head, down his neck, lightly slide down his chest and rub outside of his pants for a bit, then when you can tell he is begging for more slowly slide your fingers then whole hand into his pants and rub up and down. Dont concentrate too much on the balls but dont copletely forget about him either
DONT FORGET
teasing drives them crazy!
x
Only one giving ACTUAL adviceDec 26 2007 5:43amFLAGWELL IVE STARTED DEIN DIS LAD
N I NEARLY GAVE HIM A HAND JOB
BUT I INT WANNA DO IT WRONGG
BUT THN WHEN WE MADE OUT THERE WAS NO PASSION OR SENSASTION OMG
WHATS WRONG ARE WE MEANT TO GO OUT
HELPDec 26 2007 11:22amFLAGits not going to be so hard (thats what she said) and uhhh dont think about it too much
the guy will telll you what he likes and what he doesnt. its best to talk about it with your lover before
iluvuDec 27 2007 10:09pmFLAGhey i think its really good to communicate alot so if hes fingering u look at him moan and thell him it feels good! if he gose down on u moan and run your fingers through his hair if you give him a hj ask him how it feels if he wants u 2 go faster or harder and if u give him head massage the inside of his leg he gose crazy over it!!! enjoy and relax!!!:)
jizluvinit!!!Jan 05 2008 6:21pmFLAGis way too young kids
mamacitaJan 06 2008 11:02amFLAGHey look.
I'm right and I have a boyfriend.
We're so in love.
Like no joke.
People think a three year age gap is a huge difference but to us it isn't.
He doesn't care about sex or any of that kind of .
He loves me.
Trust me I know he does.
It's hard to beleive.
But we're meant to be.
Well.
I really wanna give him a hand job and blow job.
He's never had that done before and he's a virgin.
He said he'll wait till I'm 18 till we have sex.
But I really wanna do everything but sex.
I love him.
Any tips on how to give him a blow job and hand job? Thank you.
We're in love and I'm ready.Jan 07 2008 5:59amFLAGwell i kinda already gave my boyfriend a hand job and i like stopped in the middle cause i didnt want him to cum. i told him that then he told me to just catch it next time... im not sure if this is a bad idea or not? but i DONT want to let him cum on me or anywhere like that.. help please?
asdfghjklJan 10 2008 2:09pmFLAGhey this advice has been really helpful, my boyfriend fingad me 1nce but i neva came, i didnt find it arousing, ive never had an prgasm! so since that, i only give him oral, i dont know whats wrong with me! i wish i was normal! but now i know how to please him at least
****Jan 12 2008 1:04pmFLAGguys find it hard to make a girl come.
the trick is to rub against the cl*t.. not too hard.. but in soft circular motions. especially just above the cl*t. after a bit of practise on yourself, youll know where to put a mans hand when you want orgasm. also after having one orgasm, its easy to get the next few for a woman. but with men, its a totally different story.
icantblevitomg.Jan 12 2008 1:40pmFLAGWell, when I gave my first handjob, I didn't know what to do. My boyfriend just got done fingering me and I wanted to return the favor. I layed on his lap for a while massaging his legs working my way up to his d*ck. I then started gently rubbing it through his pants just to tease him a bit. Then I started to unzip his pants and I told him that I didn't really know how to give one as I smiled cutely. He started to smile and guided me through it. He obviously enjoyed it by his reactions. What I'm trying to get at is that maybe you should ask your man how to do it. In a wierd way, your bonding and becoming more intimate with your boyfriend.
a good girlJan 21 2008 5:17pmFLAGI want too give my boyfriend a hand job, butt im scared incase i do it wrong,i get the general idea but, i dont want to do it wrongg.
Neeed Some Help Babes,xFeb 04 2008 10:44amFLAGOk I just got my first h.j a couple of days a go and it was great. Really what guys like is just grab the shaft and stroke it up and down. We also like it when you moan softly and say things like "do you like that" etc. And that girl who doesn't want his bf to cum. That is the whole point of the thing don't go half way through a h.j and then stop, that's worse then not giving one at all
john the manFeb 07 2008 8:29pmFLAG
if you wanna give a guy a hand job, feel him up first my rubbing him in his pants. then go down his pants a go up and down on his shaft, make sure to go all the way up to his head. switch it up too, dont just go up and down, turn your hand around his d*ck, in a circular motion and go up and down while doing that.
If you wanna give head, all you need to work is your tongue. LOTS AND LOTS OF TONGUE! make sure to suck on his head! he will love it! try to stick it all in, if you cant then stick as much as possible. if your tongue gets tired then take it out of your mouth and give him a handjob until you want to continue. dont stop until he cums.
(THIS REALLY WORKS! I GOT COMPLIMENTS EVERYTIME!)
have fun kids!
a very experienced girlFeb 25 2008 3:03pmFLAG
if you wanna give a guy a hand job, feel him up first my rubbing him in his pants. then go down his pants a go up and down on his shaft, make sure to go all the way up to his head. switch it up too, dont just go up and down, turn your hand around his d*ck, in a circular motion and go up and down while doing that.
If you wanna give head, all you need to work is your tongue. LOTS AND LOTS OF TONGUE! make sure to suck on his head! he will love it! try to stick it all in, if you cant then stick as much as possible. if your tongue gets tired then take it out of your mouth and give him a handjob until you want to continue. dont stop until he cums.
(THIS REALLY WORKS! I GOT COMPLIMENTS EVERYTIME!)
have fun kids!
a very experienced girlFeb 25 2008 3:03pmFLAGPress your body close to his. makeout for a whilee let him feel you against him then slowly move your hand down his body towards his pantss .. it will turn him on cos he knows where your going.. then rub and tickle him in his pantss it will drive him crazyyy slip ur hand into his boxers an play with his balls. move your hand up an down his d*ck slowly then fasterr usee plenty of lube or spit . he will get so hot
georgiaMar 06 2008 7:31amFLAGOK so well Imnot that good but I was hanging out with the guy and I just started liek physicly flirting.you know rubbing and stuff and he went to feel me up so I started rubbing outside the pants and teh first time he kinda "gided" my hand down there and "positioned" himslef in the position but after taht I just start rubbing and he gets ina postition that makes it easy and it just happens
just meMar 18 2008 5:37pmFLAGHelp Me. I have never given a handjob, but i need to know how and I'm scared he might come all over me.
please answerMar 26 2008 9:59amFLAGTELL HIM TO DO IT HIS FUKIN SELF :l
BekahMar 31 2008 12:57pmFLAGwow i wanna give my bf a hj but im freaking. im scared tht im gonna hurt him or something bcuz i have those fake nails...and i really dont want him coming on me. wht do i do with tht? im totally a virgin in only madeout and gotten a little touchy feely uptop (if u havent guessed ima girl) but ADVICE! pronto im going to his house soon!
mmtApr 07 2008 2:45pmFLAGcome to me i will tell you how to give him a handjob !!!!!!!!!!! you BITCH
JAMES BOND 007Apr 11 2008 9:16amFLAGHEY,im and mi bf is in may.4 his bday i told him id give him a SPECIAL present if yanO what a mean lol.But im scared coz ive neva dun nethin like tht b4 and i want to plz him.Were reali in luv nd will be 8 months soon.Hes fingered me a few times but thts it. Plz help me.
xO.
BabeS.Apr 16 2008 4:17amFLAGSome of you gave really good advice. Thanks! but some of you are just dumb s.
Mar?a (chuchena)Apr 22 2008 8:28pmFLAGOk so i like the guy to take control but i always seem 2 b the 1 that has 2 start it i don't kno wot 2 do to get them goin without makein it too obvious! plz help n thnxx if u do!
a girl who likes a mans controllApr 23 2008 4:36pmFLAGim dating a new guy and im ready to give him a hand job but ive never given one before. everytime i see him i want to do more, but im not ready for sex yet. what do i do?! i dont want it to be akward. hellllllp!!
the virginApr 24 2008 2:28pmFLAGim dating a guy but ive never gave head before and he sed he really wants me to but im scared that i dont know how and ill mess up
nervous and scaredApr 28 2008 7:30pmFLAGim so ready to give my bf a bj but ive never gave one please someone help me quick he wants one tom and if u help me ill let u know how it goes
and desperateApr 28 2008 7:33pmFLAGok so... i've only ever made out with a guy and he's felt my "chest" before but i want to give him a hand job. & he wants to finger me. we've talked about it and i'm still not 100% sure what i'm supposed to do!
i'm and he's . we both have had the same experience. should i give him a hand job while he fingers me? how should we be sitting?
Ali Bryanna SmithpetersMay 14 2008 7:43amFLAGok... so ive given a couple hj's before but i was readin this and people said to play with their balls.... is it like a gentle stroke/ massage or is it like a firm rough grab?? wat do u do?? and when i was givin the handjobs they've always cumed but how can i tell when there about to, cause i didnt even notice till they already had??
somewhat expereinced but curiousMay 23 2008 11:16pmFLAGPut it in ur mouth!
The ManMay 28 2008 3:43pmFLAGhave fun with it. u will like it
shelbyyyJun 01 2008 5:22pmFLAGhave fun with it. u will like it
shelbyyyJun 01 2008 5:22pmFLAGstop thinking, just do it.
waisting time reading all of these advice columns isnt going to help. just do it and youll learn what they like. how do you think all these people learned how? they did it. and give them hand, head, or . just do something besides reading about it.
wow.Jun 01 2008 9:03pmFLAGSo i've realized what to do while I'm doing it but who should go first? Should I give him a bj and then let him go down on me? Or what? And if any guy would like to answer this question: Why do ya'll find boobs so freaking hot? It's something that I've always wondered about and the guy I'm going to fool around with just said it was basically that we had them and ya'll didnt.. But I don't see how they're so attractive.
Virgin till he returns to town : )Jun 05 2008 11:25pmFLAGWell the best advice I think one can give is take your cues from him, if you don't want him to know that you're inexperienced just start initiating really slowly, get him warmed up. Then when you actually start listen and look for signs that he's enjoying it... like he might start breathing heavier, he might moan, or close his eyes or just look like he's loving it... or he might just say what he wants; faster, slower, don't stop. Just stay aware of what he's doing... and look like you're enjoying pleasing him :) give him a sly smile each time he fidgets from pleasure or whatever he does. Hope I was some help :)
oh and lubrication is a must, unless he has a foreskin... then it's not essential... but you'll want to be a little careful with it... it's anot as much of a delicate instrument as it's made out to be... but the skin around it is... take a firm grip... but don't choke and rip it... unless that's whay he's into.
Sex kitten (not whore... there's a difference)Jun 15 2008 3:10amFLAGiiiiiiiiiiiii like pie
nobodyJun 23 2008 10:02pmFLAGNobody here so far has mentioned how to use the foreskin..it is such an erotic part of the penis. Is that because most American men have been circumcised? Those who have are really missing out on the best of sensations because the foreskin is so full of nerve endings. Work it slowly over the head, and if giving oral, slip your tongue inside it and lick it backwards and forwards. It makes a handjob really easy too, just wank it up and down with special attention to where the foreskin slips over the ridge of the head - most men shoot it off really quickly if you do that.
StevieJun 27 2008 9:27pmFLAGyou can stimulate other parts of his body without even touching him down there. my guy loves when i gently touch his nipples and around his belly. also i've heard the inside of guy's thighs are super sensitive. so just explore his whole body and then make him super hot so once you do give him a handjob, he'll already be super aroused. heh. :D
meeeeAug 06 2008 11:55amFLAGA hand job is the manual stimulation of another person's genitals with the intent of causing an orgasm. The term "hand job" is a synonym for mutual masturbation (which can occur between two people of the opposite sex or of the same sex), however, "hand job" is most commonly used in reference to manual stimulation being performed on a male. This article will focus exclusively on the "hand job" as providing manual stimulation to a male.
The glans or "head" of the penis, one of the most sensitive parts of the penis
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The glans or "head" of the penis, one of the most sensitive parts of the penis
Hand jobs are one of many ways that a penis can be pleasured and the reasons for choosing to provide pleasure via a hand job can vary. Some men consider hand jobs to be an extremely pleasurable experience that ads variety to their sex lives, while others feel that a hand job is a variation on masturbation and is therefore less satisfying.
Some men who enjoy hand jobs feel that it is an opportunity for the entire focus of pleasure to be on them. The goal of their partner is solely to provide pleasure and the only job the receiver has is to lay back and enjoy. Also, hand jobs can be performed in such a manner that introduces an extremely wide variety of sensations and spontaneous variations while working towards an orgasm. The partner performing the hand job can also derive pleasure from watching the receiver enjoy themselves and sometimes feel a sense of power by being able to bring about an orgasm.
While masturbating, the women can also apply the start-stop technique to keep the erection prolonged. This is recommened by many therapists. Yet, this start-stop is often very frustrating to a man. Better rely on more successful techniques to keep a hard-on as long as you wish.
Other men, however, can sometimes feel that a hand job is less pleasurable than vaginal sex or other forms of stimulation. In addition to the feeling of the stimulation itself being somewhat familiar -- in that the method may be similar or identical to the male's normal method of masturbation -- there may also sometimes be a feeling of physical disconnect from their partner that can result from positioning or lack of stimulation to other parts of the body. Still others feel that anything short of vaginal sex does not count as sex.
As with any form of sexual expression, communication is key to understanding what your partner enjoys and doesn't enjoy.
Ultimately, if you're in relationship with your partner, the best thing to do is spend some time exploring his body and watching him respond to the different ways you touch him. In some cases, especially if you are new to touching a penis, it can be a very good idea to ask him to show you how he stimulates himself. This is not to say that you want to replicate what he does exactly as he does it, after all you want it to feel different and better than masturbation, but you can get a feel for whether he likes gentle caressing touches, or more aggressive contact.
Here are some basic ideas to get started with. If you're performing for the first time with a new partner, be sure to keep an eye on his face to see how he responds.
i used to be crap at hj's too. lmfao. but here's a good idea of how to do them.
jjownsyourASSAug 09 2008 6:59amFLAGwhat do i do if theres no lube?
meAug 13 2008 10:13amFLAGTo: sum 1 dat kno's how to please her man. Girl, that may be, but you've got to get hooked on phonics. Immediately!!
ShakespeareAug 29 2008 2:24pmFLAGlick it babe
hand jobs are for losers
Sep 13 2008 6:55pmFLAG'me' if there's no lube then just lick your hand or use his pre cum or something. all you losers who keep saying hand jobs are for losers, have you never heard of variety? it's all about mixing it up. Be confident and dont be afraid to ask for direction. Just make an 'ok' sign with you thumb and index finger, slide your hand down it and then wrap the rest of the fingers around. squeeze firmly whilst you move up and down, start slow then get faster as you get the hang of it. as you get up towards the head close the cirlce of the 'ok' sign so that you feel like you are squeezing it right to the end.have fun but only if you are ready!!
ohmygollygoshSep 16 2008 2:36pmFLAGwell i think that u should just take it in ur hands and go up and down gentle with ur nuckles...
gettin lucky!!!Dec 14 2008 10:44amFLAGgive him ur biggest finga up his ter!!!!!!!!!!
ooeopwtoJun 30 2009 6:45amFLAGhey gals
what amazes me is how unsure most of u are.
tech. is developed wit practice . it comes naturally when your reved up. and everyone likes different things no 2 guys r the same.
i personally found i like foreplay , kissing . caressing . hugging , which ultimatly leads to you wanting more ,,, try sliding your hands down and over his chest whilst kissing. up his thighs down his back what ever you feel comfortable with ,, but somehow make yourway down to his crotch. teasing him with your palms over his pants. when hes worked up , slide your hand into his pants and again start gently rubbing , whilst pulling his pants down.
then depending on his size get a firm grip on his shaft ,, not tight though.
if hes got a small penis use your index finger and thumb.
slowly at first pull up and down in a repetitive motion .
if hes uncircumsized then use your other hand to play with his foreskin , by play i mean gently pull , rub massage be creative also try and spit on your hand for lubricant, for guys who are uncut it generally makes the whole senstaion alot better .
now just generally gain speed when pulling up and down on his rod.
now when doing so it sometimes helps losening and tightening your grip as u move up and down , to give mixed motions.
if your feeling game ,, or just in the mood (LOL) while doing this lick or kiss the head of his penis (be generous with spit) .
gaurrentee hell like it ,, if not then just talk to him find out what he likes , be open hell be greatfull for it, trust me, because itll mean better head or hand for him.
tips:
make sure your plam / fingers are moist
try to get an even grip not to tight not to loose.
try and alternate between putting it in your mouth and playing with it.
try and look at him and talk to him while your doing it it breaks tension.
/f/ australia , libby brown :))))Jul 06 2009 7:09amFLAGi can show you
roytpwooOct 31 2009 9:05pmFLAGmmmm... u shud just him instead.
use your .
L O LNov 21 2009 4:50pmFLAGno lube? use viagra! HARDY HAR HAR
nah like really just use spit, saliva and a lot of cum
L O L AGAINNov 21 2009 4:51pmFLAGPlease any ladies in U.A.E please come to handjob with me funge1@gmail.com
fidasNov 28 2009 9:42pmFLAGDon't bother with asking on question sites, this has loads of different simple ideas to mix things up with your handjobs: www.handjobadvice.com
confidence is keyNov 29 2009 4:09pmFLAGwelll i know that my boyfriend loves it when i bite his pen*s as hard as possible! common girls dont be shy get right in there and pretend its a tootsie role and just chomp away! he will love it and will maybe even retrun the favour downtown.. i know this might sound crazy but honestly i know from experience with over 100 men that they love it :)
sincerely,
candy jane ;) call meee for a good ride (boys and girls welcome)
candy jane(L)Jan 10 2010 9:28pmFLAGumm, it always helps to askk the boy what hewants don't be shy about it. i was shy about it. but than i just startd to stroke he's c0ck and asked him if he wanted it faster and stuff; he aswered me and i repsonded. don't think to much about it(: if your ready youll do fine
click it bitchezJan 28 2010 1:45amFLAGHey guys I'm so right now so if anyone is looking for a good time add me ;)
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AnonymousJan 30 2010 2:42pmFLAGHey guys I'm so right now so if anyone is looking for a good time add me ;)
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AnonymousJan 30 2010 2:45pmFLAGWhen giveing a hand job do u have ur thumb pointing up or down? also should my face be closer to his d*ck or to his face? also my guy wears tighter pants so im thinking taking off his pants are a better option... should i just unzip them instead of actually pulling them down and how should i take his penis out of his boxers? please help:)
Ready to get it on;)Feb 17 2010 1:56pmFLAGive given alot of HJ's and my bf is the same age as me, we are going to have sex soon and i can't wait :D
clodagh hodgins (;Jun 27 2010 6:08pmFLAGHey guys(:
So I was looking at this site and saw a lot of good advice
I'm and my boyfriend is going to be in a month and we've been dating for almost 5 months and I've been thinking about giving him a hand job and I want to blow him but I almost gave him a hand job but I didn't know if he wanted to so I backed off
it's my first time doing it and I want it to be good
Any good advice?
sexiee-lexiee (;Jul 29 2010 5:53pmFLAGHey guys(:
So I was looking at this site and saw a lot of good advice
I'm and my boyfriend is going to be in a month and we've been dating for almost 5 months and I've been thinking about giving him a hand job and I want to blow him but I almost gave him a hand job but I didn't know if he wanted to so I backed off
it's my first time doing it and I want it to be good
Any good advice?
sexiee-lexiee (;Jul 29 2010 5:56pmFLAGebatj vas nekomu i bljatj takuju xujnju mne google vidal, da jobanij vrot, jobanie angliki!!!!!!!!
hand job is for gays and 10 yr old girls without face :CCCCCCC best advice for you is just to leave SEX for the pros! and dont you ever come back or else
ebatj vas nekomuAug 03 2010 11:40amFLAGok so likk im and i never gavv a bj or hj before nd i dont want my bf to kno i havnt so wat do i do plz help
virgin 101Sep 08 2010 5:11pmFLAGok so likk im and i never gavv a bj or hj before nd i dont want my bf to kno i havnt so wat do i do plz help
virgin 101Sep 08 2010 5:11pmFLAGokaay , heey guys im and i have done everything you can name :p
first of all with a hand job just start making out with your bf , and than start touching him outside of his pants . once you have dont that for a unzip him , slide your hands down there and play around . take his boxers off and start going at him . (: the head of the penis is more sensitive so he will like it more . just keep going back and forth from the middle to the end of the head of his d*ck . thats how you give a hand job(:
eajkbnf jagm (:Nov 14 2010 8:25pmFLAGBLOW JOB :D
1 . touch his c*ck
2 . give himm a hand job
3 . blow job = BLOW ON HIS C*ck (:
AnonymousNov 14 2010 8:27pmFLAGokay so this is how you a ;)
suck his d*ck .
make sure he is hard .
put it inside you .
and get it on .
dont worry his cum is still white not brown :)
AnonymousNov 14 2010 8:28pmFLAGsomeone help me bc i want my gf to give me a hj but i dont know how to ask her or tell her
pastaNov 27 2010 2:46pmFLAGOkkk I'm an I haven't really done anything but kissing and I met this really great guy and I wanna show him that I'm not such a pride! So I need to know how to give a great hj!
AnonymousDec 16 2010 1:14pmFLAGstart making out, then put your hand in his pants over his umm ''boxers'' start to rub not to fast not to firm infact go slow and press so he can feel it but enough to tease him then slide your hand up and into his ''boxers'' and then get to work ;)
Someone,,,,Dec 25 2010 11:28pmFLAGDon't wait to be asked. Give hand jobs generously. When you kiss him, reach for his penis and feel its length and limpness (or hardness.) Wear a chastity strap so that he knows he is not going to get into you. Sit so that he can see the strap and explain what it is and what it is for.
When kissing in a public place, stroke his penis through his clothes until the distinctive "tentpole" shape forms. This causes him embarrassment and makes him desperate for a "happy ending."
As you tease your boyfriend, undo your blouse so that he can see your upper body curves.
Wear perfume.
When you start to stroke it, his penis will be soft and about 1" long. Rest your fingers lightly on his penis and gently tickle, scratch and stroke it. It will harden and lengthen. This is a sign of excitement and it feels good to him.
Change the spot that you're tickling frequently: a penis has a tip, a base, a greyish "helmet," a foreskin that moves, a ridge behind the tip, left and right sides, an underside and a top side, and all those places give different pleasant sensations when stroked or scratched.
Keep your hands cold. Use an ice pack or a jug of cold water.
Make your hands pretty by painting your nails and wearing rings.
Give a range of sensations by wearing gloves or by holding his penis through a pair of your prettiest panties.
Put cold lotion or baby oil on your hands.
Your boyfriend also has sensitive testicles and the "B Spot" at the back of the scrotum. Don't forget them! Touch and tickle those spots too.
Do not allow your boyfriend to get close enough to play at penetration. Keep about 18" between his penis and your target area. If he mentions penetration, say "Not until six months after we're married."
When you change the position of your hands on his penis, give him pauses of twenty or thirty seconds. If you pause, the boyfriend develops a feeling of urgency and mild but insistent pain called "blue balls."
Talk sexily about girls, sex, underwear, penetration and intercourse as you stroke him.
When he pumps his white stuff, hold his penis firmly and steadily, and don't release your grip until after the pumping has stopped. Leave the mess for a little while before removing it with a damp flannel. Keep hold of the penis even after it has become limp again.
Boys LOVE girls who give repeat hand jobs. Give several hand jobs one after the other. A young boyfriend will accept ten or twenty hand jobs on a three hour date.
scjxIZfcFRFeb 05 2011 3:09amFLAGWht do u do with the cum after a hand job??
AnonymousFeb 13 2011 2:42pmFLAGWht do u do with the cum after a hand job??
AnonymousFeb 13 2011 2:43pmFLAGMy b/f likes it when i go hard at the bottom but softer on top and use either lube or spit i pefer to use my spite be careful on how hard you go though you dont want to hurt him
hippygirlMar 08 2011 5:08pmFLAGMy b/f likes it when i go hard at the bottom but softer on top and use either lube or spit i pefer to use my spite be careful on how hard you go though you dont want to hurt him
hippygirlMar 08 2011 5:22pmFLAGand im only but i have been give head since i was :)
hippygirlMar 08 2011 5:23pmFLAGand your somewhat happy about being a who gave guys heads at the age of . thats very sad don't try and grow up to fast little girl.
anonymousApr 09 2011 12:31amFLAGi agree, WHAT THE are /s doing :S
Older person who hates little slagsApr 22 2011 9:36amFLAGF*** the hand jobs, Give him what he wants.... spit,suck and swallow. In that order. Plus, you can do a great handjob during and really give hime a stroke.........
BIGGER whore 6969May 08 2011 11:46amFLAGdo you keep giving him a hj til he cums or whatever? or what?
lucyxoxolouMay 29 2011 3:56pmFLAGrip his damn pants off & suck the damn thing!
handjob hamMay 30 2011 5:34pmFLAGrip his damn pants off & suck the damn thing!
handjob hamMay 30 2011 5:34pmFLAGi need some advice too! i really like this guy and im thir**** and he is for**** but i dont what to do , im worried he will say no cause we dont know each other that well and we cant hang out cause he is for****, what should i do ?!?
im under your bed!Jun 12 2011 2:37pmFLAGi need some advice too! i really like this guy and im thir**** and he is for**** but i dont what to do , im worried he will say no cause we dont know each other that well and we cant hang out cause he is for****, what should i do ?!?
im under your bed!Jun 12 2011 2:39pmFLAGA good way to start it is kissing, or just even sit really close. Just gently rest your hand just above his knee. Move it SLIGHTLY up this thigh, maybe by an inch. Then don't move it at all. A little while later move it up on down on his thigh, but not too high up. Keep your hand there, and make sure he has a free hand. If he wants you to, and he knows you want to, he'll most likely guide your hand, and you'll get the hang of it. If he doesn't, just ask him too, hewont mind, knowing it's for his pleasure.
I gave one last nightJun 28 2011 7:17amFLAGIm 9 and pregenant! How do i tell my mum?
heeelllpppppppJul 06 2011 10:15amFLAGWalking around with him and saying your "sorry" for "accidently" rubbing his d**k on the outside of his pants makes some of them laugh. So always start on the outside and the while makeing out start kissing a little faster so you can make the move by getting in the pants. Starting slow like said is the key then get faster to make it more interesting. Some dont like the head to be touched after there done so touch it before the results not after. And after the finish keep gently going up and down just slowly. I learned this on my own its life <3
Learned by time! <3Jul 26 2011 7:22pmFLAGI want to give my guy a handjob but it just sounds soo awkward... Like I would deft be nervous and probably only really get so far as to go over his pants.. I would scream if I touched his d*ck! He says that just bein w me turns him on, and he made me " excited", but I want to really please him...
A girl named loveyAug 04 2011 11:11pmFLAGim totes getting licked out tomorrow guys. xoxo
btw, i have never gived a guy hand. but im going for the bl*wj*b & handjob at the same time. ;)
you.Jan 20 2012 9:35amFLAGOnly do it if your comfertable and only if he really likes you, you dont want to make a mistake! just rub him up ad down through his pants and get faster as you go along! hope that helps!
Be In LoveJan 22 2012 6:19amFLAGIf u r scared to touch his d*ck well ur probly not ready to give him a hj anyways so no matter watt he tells u make sure ur doing it for the right reasons like because u r ready and u want to and u feel like he really likes u and he just doesn't just want to get a little action from u. The first time I done it was actually only like 2weeks ago I'm , we started off kissing then he moved his hand down to my u no watt but on my pants started gentally rubbing my cl*t through my pants then I started rubbing his d*ck through his pants and when I felt that he was really hard I slowing and nervously put my hand in his pants and boxers and started stoking his massive d**k harder and faster until he cam (as he continued to please me)just remember to take things slow so that latter on when u look back on it u don't regret I.
here to help....hopefullyFeb 11 2012 2:53amFLAGJust wondering when giving a hand job without lube r u surpose to have ur hand lose enough to be able to comfortably move ur hand up and down or is it ment to be like tight so ur just moving the loose skin on his shaft and I agree with the coment from the person above when thinking about doing these sorts of things u have to think about his real intensions ; weather he is just using u or he really loves u because u don't want to regret anything u want to look back and say u have good first experiences with this sort of thing
AnonymousFeb 11 2012 3:06amFLAGJust wondering when giving a hand job without lube r u surpose to have ur hand lose enough to be able to comfortably move ur hand up and down or is it ment to be like tight so ur just moving the loose skin on his shaft and I agree with the coment from the person above when thinking about doing these sorts of things u have to think about his real intensions ; weather he is just using u or he really loves u because u don't want to regret anything u want to look back and say u have good first experiences with this sort of thing
AnonymousFeb 11 2012 3:07amFLAGJUS INSTEAD IT FEELS BETA !!!!! TRUST ME :)
$a$cy***girlFeb 16 2012 8:58amFLAGI felt my bf d*ck outside his pants and i kinda sorta want to do a hand job. What should i do first to get to the actual handjob? And will there be cum? and usually how much?
Anonymous girlMar 20 2012 5:03pmFLAGIf you want to practise hand jobs practise on me
The hory bastardMar 28 2012 9:49amFLAGlet him know u wnt it
kMay 18 2012 9:57pmFLAGSome tips for handjobs: i like it when my gf puts my d*ck in between her boobs n squeezes her hand in to fondle me. Would be better to tease the guy by making his d*ck slides in between ur boobs..let him cum over ur boobs..it is sure to excite him
Another position to try would be to go behind the guy n ask him to behind over..then cup his balls with one hand while ur other hand strokes his d*ck
coolsexMay 22 2012 12:54amFLAGhi i m /f n have only given a handjob once but my bf loves it. we were in the swimming pool at the side n i was facing him while one of my hands move down to stroke his penis outside his swimming trunks till its hard..let him finger u while u enjoy his d*ck
BdbrFbGIQoascKCikbSep 13 2012 1:24pmFLAGi gave a hand job to a and im im was so cool i got bored just pumming it for like 5 min but he said keep going it feels good
lea eatonNov 04 2012 11:50amFLAGLol girls yrs d should not be giving a yrs old boy a hand job that's 4your mom &dad to do
adviceNov 05 2012 5:20amFLAGgrab his d*ck and just rub on it as hard and as fast as you can. guys like it when you talk dirty. my boyfriend is and he lets me give him a handjob every time im with him. im so turned on right now by reading these. who wants to ? im horney!!!(; im a girl who is turning in december and my (;
this horney girlDec 02 2012 1:43pmFLAGUse lotion and stroke fast smile while you do it
Someone Dec 28 2012 8:45pmFLAGHow to get a d*ck sore
jameJan 01 2013 12:14pmFLAGHow can you get your d*ck to bleed
someoneJan 01 2013 12:16pmFLAGme and my bf are both virgins (both old enough) don't think he has ever masturbated. I want to give him a handjob, but get really nervous and back out.
ballerAug 23 2013 12:47pmFLAGtXpDgl Really informative blog article.Thanks Again. Fantastic.
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