The Problem: We me and this guy friend are really close and he likes my bf but I'm starting to like him. he's pokking me and hitting me like he's flerting but when I ask him if he likes me he said he doesn't. what do I do?
Asked by: sEXyOnE at
07:43:23 AM, Wednesday, March 19, 2003 EST
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LIKE MAKE OUT WITH HIM AND HE'LL LIKE LOVE YOU!! DAHH
thedarkyoshiMar 19 2003 8:12pmFLAGhAhA i am in the same situation right now.. well the problem is that we talk on the phone all the time about my best friend because she dumped him and i have no idea what do eider
CoNfUsEdJun 23 2003 11:19amFLAGI am in the same situation ask him how he feels about a real close friend likeing him but dont tell him it is u untill he says he would be okay w/ it x-press ur feelinmgs he just might be shy 2~
Kelly~Aug 02 2003 3:39pmFLAGall i can say is i told my frend how i felt and
wer dating well sortof i havent kissed him. but go for it!!!!!!!!!1
monkeySep 11 2003 8:59pmFLAGhave some one ask him out for you and see what happens
angeleyesSep 13 2003 12:55pmFLAG
sit him down and tell him how you feel.
By the way I need help== see I like my best friends friend what should I do.
MELSep 14 2003 4:34pmFLAGtalk to ur best friend to see how they feel. ; my guy friend flirts with me and stuff but sumtimes he's a total jerk, but then he pays for the tickets for the homecoming dance> anyone have advice
what should i do/Oct 01 2003 5:56pmFLAGi have the same problem i have a real close guyfriend and i really like him but when i have ppl ask him if he likes me he says no but he alwayz flirts w/ me and hugs me and we totally act like were going out what should i do?
a confused gurlOct 25 2003 10:33pmFLAGi like my best guy friend, a lot, but he doesnt like me, he used to but not anymore, what should i do?
lostNov 06 2003 2:41pmFLAGI am going though the same situation with this guy named kyle and this guy named troy and they like to touch my ass and poke me in my sides and i just desided to ask one of them out and see what they said about it and the kyle guy said he didn't know so my advice to you all is just don't be shy around him your friend is just going to have to live I mean she dosen't have the guts to go up to him and ask him and my friends always have problems like these so if anyone wants to become another one of my friends and I will continue to give you advice here is my e-mail address(shannon_spice89@yahoo.com)so my lines are getting low so I better go b-o-n-c-e like a basket ball c-ya later.
gurl with confidenceNov 24 2003 1:05pmFLAGhe probolly likes u i think he dose guys are jerks when they like u they will hit u and say rude things and it is cuz they like u when they r jerks it is their way of saying i like u but they r just stupid and have to be mean about it LOL LMAO well i hope my advice has u helped u well peace out
Tay gurlNov 24 2003 3:59pmFLAGhey al of you! i waz in the exact same situation. i had my best buddy tell him and later i asked if he waz ok with me liking him. he didnt like me but guys taka girl buddies as a chance 2 flirt its just sumthin ur there 4, according 2 them.that may not make u 2 happy, but i know these things...
a helperNov 29 2003 8:12amFLAGim in the same sitch!!!! well i think im going to swollow my fear and go for it !!
samanthaDec 02 2003 3:57pmFLAGi think you should just go for it i like a guy to he is really sweet and hugs me and holds my hand but im scared to ask but nobady gets anywear by just waiting for them to make the first move cause mabey he is shy and really likes u!!! well bye hope every thig works out ok!!!??
same sitch but scared!!!~~~~~~~~~~~Dec 02 2003 4:02pmFLAGhey...dont haveone of your friends talk to him for you, i think that might make things worse. next time you guys hang out just talk to him and tell him how you feel. if your guys are really that close and he ends up being weird about you likeing him you guys will still be friends. me and my really close friend daniel...he came over to my house at like 0 the other morning and we made out and held hands and the next day it was like nothing happened...he was totally fine with it and he totally repsects me not being ready to have sex yet so my advice to you is to just let him know how you feel. it wont hurt to try:)
LorLinApr 17 2004 6:21pmFLAGI'm totally in the same situation!!!Geeze,He like loves my friend and here I am just totally flirting like a fool.My friend's going out w/the guy I used to like and i'm scurred she'll take my lover away!We flirt on the phone all night,but then he all over my friend whos got a boyfriend.HHHEEELLP!!!!!!!!!
esavage34@charter.comNov 08 2004 4:24pmFLAGif u really like him give him the hint and see what happends it happend to me and like weve been together for a month and 2 weeks
SeXy NiKkIDec 09 2004 3:26pmFLAGI have the same problem. Ive like my best guy friend for over a year now and he is now dating my friend. And I like him so much that Im trying to keep them together cuz I like seeing him happy and hate it when he is sad. I would do anything even give him up to see him with a smile on his face. What should I do?
DecisionsFeb 03 2005 3:41pmFLAG
I am in the same situation right now...me and my friend allie have this guy friend and allie likes him and so do i but i havnt told any one yet.... but just either ask him out or tell him how you feel and let the wind blow where it does :)
~*~Becca~*~Feb 12 2005 5:25pmFLAGomg! this is SO scary!!! i don't know you but i'm having the same issue!! this guy and me grew up together and he likes my best friend! i hate to talk bad about her but i don't understand what he sees in her! i mean YEAH! he "hits " me like he's flirting with me but then again.. he said so himself that he likes my best friend and she likes him.. but i told her to lay off him... and she WON'T! omg i'm having the same problem! this is scary!
ashMar 03 2005 7:35pmFLAGSame thing is going on right now with me and my best friend told him and it hurts me because he says he'll call and i'll wait till 2 or 3 am and he never calls
KakaMar 10 2005 2:18pmFLAGOmg the same thing here! My best friend told him i liked him and hes kinda acting strange around me but then on some days he'll follow me around and act like everything is normal and he acts like hes interested and then some nights he says he'll call and i'll wait up till 2 or 3 am and he never does
*~Kaka*~Mar 10 2005 2:24pmFLAGi'm having a weird problem. i like one of my guy friends and he says he has feelings for me but right now he likes the "manhoe" lifestyle and likes having a variety of choices. someone let me know what to do...i'm going crazy!!!
chrisApr 04 2005 4:23pmFLAGtell him how you feel and see what he said
kristinApr 26 2005 6:44pmFLAGWow....seems like everyone is "having the same problems". I guess I'll join the club^_^. lol well thats how i got here actually, looking for advice, but looks like no one really has advice but would rather just tell their own stories.
ShayMay 20 2005 11:40pmFLAGok i am kinda in the same situation... the only problem is i know its really hard to tell! i know iknow we all go thru it.... but if you are going to make it more than a friendsship that you can still be freinds after it,b/c we all know it sux to lose a friend, neways if he cant seem to handel that maybe you should think about it! but if hes one of those guys that u know u can be freinds with no matter what, than totaly go for it! dont let the chance pass you up cuz u might later regret it!
hannahJun 21 2005 6:59pmFLAGI am in the same situation i like my guy friend but i dont no if he likes me it seems like they flirt with you and like you but in the end they just confuse you.
LaurenSep 15 2005 8:07pmFLAGi feel like that to because i have a best guy friend and all of these girls like him. I dont want to ruin our friendship but now i feel like i am starting to like him
...Oct 24 2005 9:51pmFLAGi feel like that to because i have a best guy friend and all of these girls like him. I dont want to ruin our friendship but now i feel like i am starting to like him
...Oct 24 2005 9:52pmFLAGi feel like that to because i have a best guy friend and all of these girls like him. I dont want to ruin our friendship but now i feel like i am starting to like him
...Oct 24 2005 9:52pmFLAGahh im so confused:( ..i have a really good guy friend and i went over to his house and we kissed and did a lot more...he SWEARS hes not using me and we have gone out before..he calls me practically every single day and supposedly he likes me..but why arent we going out then?? I know he doesnt do this with other girls and most girls at my school dont like him like that..and hes verrrryy shy and ive never seen him like this before...so is he using me???
confused..please help:( i love u guysNov 20 2005 5:03pmFLAGI really like my best guy friend and we are so close.. I was drunk one night and kinda told him that the whole time he was dating bitch girls that he had the perfect girl right in front of him and he said.. well i guess i dont know tho.. ugh I really want to have a relationship with him!!!!!!!!!!
in lustDec 21 2005 8:11pmFLAGI really like my best guy friend we go to the same school and we are in the same grade. And i don't like seeing him with another girls are kissing them..And i don't like the girls he date And i wanna know why i don't like the girls he date?..And we been friends forever and it's just i really like him be he like's me as a friend and i just wanna be more than friends..
ChanneyJan 10 2006 12:55pmFLAGHELP. I like my best guy friend and I'm sorta getting signals from him. But I think he still likes my bestfriend. I want him to be happy but she has a boyfriend and I really really like him. But being the idiot I am I'm to shy to ask him. I keep hinting like saying "what would happen if we went out." But he doesn't seem to get it. I keep telling him to go out with other girls so he can be happy but I just hate saying that. IT HURTS.
help me please IT HURTSJan 31 2006 5:40pmFLAGTell him you have a boy and he will get all jealous and want to be your boy
jessFeb 14 2006 1:39pmFLAGhey i am in the same spot i like him soooooo much but i dont want to tell him even though i think he knows he just got dumpedby his girl friend i want to see him happy more than anything and we r goin to this locken together and i want to be goin out wit him by then what do i do
abdarFeb 27 2006 7:23pmFLAG
I need help.. my best guy friend always flirts with me and kisses me on the bus what should i do?
!*megan nichole*!Mar 05 2006 3:37pmFLAGok so im in the same sitch as all of u gurls. but b4 i evn knew this guy i was best friends w/ his gurl. now we're not friends nemore and hes my bestfriend now & i am really starting to like him and he likes me back. but he has a gf. and i dont want him to cheat on her..but i really like him and thats the only way anything could ever b between us. and its so wrong. i kno. and would that make me seem like a whore??
~cOnFusEd~Mar 14 2006 12:24pmFLAGtell him that you kind of have felings for him and ask him if he has any for you. i did that with my guy friend. now we're dating. he mite like u back.
~KIT_KAT~Apr 16 2006 4:50pmFLAGI have the same problem like I like my best friend Dan and I just relized Ive liked him for a long time and I dumped my ex for him and I dk if he likes me but hes always touching me but ALWAYS disagrees with me but then hell like say Im delicious or w/e and then go on and mock me
AnonymousApr 23 2006 7:51pmFLAGsuprise suprise i am in the same situation as many of you are. This guy and I have been best friends for over a year. I wi were as simple as just telling him how I feel but it is way to complicated for that (or maybe i am just making it seem that way). Anyways, its nice to know that im not the only one going through this crap! Peace out! P.S. guys are such idiots at times
LeahApr 25 2006 6:53pmFLAGsuprise suprise i am in the same situation as many of you are. This guy and I have been best friends for over a year. I want it to be as simple as just telling him how I feel but it is way to complicated for that (or maybe i am just making it seem that way). Anyways, its nice to know that im not the only one going through this crap! Peace out! P.S. guys are such idiots at times
LeahApr 25 2006 6:54pmFLAGOmg!! I love my best guy friend and I have told him I liked him before but then he liked my other bestfriend. Then she left our school then he liked me and then he dumped me but we're still bestfriends.He has liked almost all the pretty girls at our school and even some of the ugly ones over me. I still like him and he flirts with me all the time. What should I do?
MichelMay 03 2006 3:29pmFLAGYou just need to make things clear to a guy they just don't pick up on signs that you give them. Make it plan as day that you like him.
???????May 14 2006 7:35pmFLAGYou just need to make things clear to a guy they just don't pick up on signs that you give them. Make it plan as day that you like him.
???????May 14 2006 7:35pmFLAGMe and my best guy friend are so sexy.Like every night he comes over and we like make out and have sex but then the next day we act like nothing happend and just act like bestfriends! That is so hot!!!
dontcha wanna knowMay 28 2006 4:41pmFLAGOkkk...well i gues im not the only person i this situation... I have this guy friend and we got really close that we now call eachother bro/sis... Hes like whooped on my friend...shes like soooo beautiful and she really really dnt like him she says she will never go out wit him... n i like him i feel like were meant to be... i kinda wanna get wit him cuz i feel that we would love eachother if we were to get together... i mean sumtimes he be flirtin and all he says im hot/tempting/and fine... but if i was all that wouldnt he have tryed to get wit me?! I kno that he would be like the best guy in the world for me... oooo... n get this he always get mad weni talk bout the other guys i like he hatrs em all... so wat do yall think?! am i to late?! should i try it?! or fa get it?!
Qu33n @l3x!$... hit it bak up... PLZ...Jul 13 2006 4:30pmFLAGact all sluty and let him know he can get it when he want it and your here for him
dSep 09 2006 2:05pmFLAGTry a note. I just did that with one of my close guy friends and I found out that he feels the same way about me. We have been talking more and we are going to a dance together. Hope I helped.
JessicaSep 25 2006 4:39pmFLAGmy best friend is a guy, and i totaly love him
AnonymousSep 27 2006 3:12pmFLAGi'm in love too. just wait it out. you never know,
eoeoSep 27 2006 3:13pmFLAGHHHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLPPPPPPP ME I HAVE HAD THOS FRIEND SENCE PRE SCOL AND PEOPLE SAY THAT HE LIKES ME BUT I DONT NO IF HE DOSE OR NOT?? AND I THINK I MIGHT LIKE HIM MIXED EMOTIONS??????????/ WAT DO I DO
HART THROB CONFESTIONNov 16 2006 9:08pmFLAGHey..lost... I'm in d same situation as u n it reli getn me dwn :(
Sad :(Nov 25 2006 4:51amFLAGI have kinda the same problem...i told my best guy friend that loved him and he was flattered and he says he thinks im so pretty and loves my personality but doesnt want to go out..wats up eith that?
Confused*Dec 13 2006 6:57pmFLAGIm in the same situation i like my guy friend and he likes me but he wont ask me out ive evn left hints to him but he doesnt get i want him to ask me out helppppppppp!!!!!!!!!! then at sometimes i dont want to go out with him cause im scared it will ruen are friendship
myke scottJan 13 2007 8:45pmFLAGim in that same sich me and my best guy friend have been bff's sence pre-school and people say he likes me and i think i like him to and my friends think we would make a cute and good couple what should i do??????????????????
really confussedJan 15 2007 3:47pmFLAGok myke scott whoever you are, that is the advice all my friends have been giving me, i cant tell him i have already told him i like him but he just doesn't get the picture, i dont know what to do any more
alaJan 16 2007 12:08pmFLAGHey girl, i'm in the same situation right now. I tried to tell my best guy friend that I liked him but kept chickening out. Now, he has a girlfriend. Don't let that happen to you. Just face the music and tell him how you feel and if he doesn't like you back then move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
JuliannJan 29 2007 8:38pmFLAGIam sot of in th esame thing but we are both guys
JaroldFeb 02 2007 9:09pmFLAGIf you guys like that person go what your heart says that is what iwould do.
anthonyFeb 02 2007 9:14pmFLAGIf you guys like that person go what your heart says that is what iwould do.
anthonyFeb 02 2007 9:15pmFLAGI think i beter pay atantion for you guys in need
antonyFeb 02 2007 9:18pmFLAGOkay well ive been in this stituation and i have recently found myslef in it yet again. Before i went for it and let him know how i feel and asked him out and it worked and then i broke up with him...i broke up with him then because i was afraid of getting to close and then loosing him...yeah i have some issues..anyways we were still good friends after that and then two years after that asked him out again and i convenced him to say yes..but he was going away for the res of the summer which sucked..then he came back and told his best friend tht nite and then told his best female friend tht morning on myspace, well i just happened to be commenting her becuz shes one of my best friends too and thts when i saw he was back and on myspace but not is screen name....now i know he was close to her but i was his girlfriend adn i thought i should know that he was back and he use to like her so i got pretty jealous then and i was talking to his best friend and he told me that my boyfriend didnt really like me so i got afraid he was gonna break up with me and just thinking about it hurt so much that i felt like dying and so i had to break up with him becuz everyonme says tht makes it hurt less, well a month or so after that i sent him a message telling exactly why i broke up with him and that maybeone day we could give it anohter shot becuz i still like him and he said we were done for good and then he dated my like best friend..which makes me mad becuz he never talks to her but tehy broke up and he got with another girl and i dated his twin brother and he told me that his brother did really like me he jsut wanted me for my body and i believed him adn broke up with his brother but anyways were still really good friends and we have lunch together everyday along with our other friend...well people always ask us if were going out or if we are going to and he always says no but not like eww no or NO just nope kinda no and so thats good right? i mean i really like him...i thought i was finally getting over him but i cant i just cant...he makes me smile when i dont want to and he always flirts with me....but he flirts with everyone.....but he told me be4 tht hed never go out with me again and we ended up going out for a second time so maybe we could a third time? what do you guys think? i could really use the help....and i dont wanna ask him out again if he really doesnt want to go out with me becuz then that could hurt our friendship...oh yeah and my mom gave him a ride to teh movies and she seemed to like him...but she acted so lame and at lunch today he said she was cool and funny...so thats a good thing right?
Help!Feb 20 2007 4:55pmFLAGi have no advice for any of u.... u guys are desprite!!!!
dont need to noMar 18 2007 9:12amFLAGi like my friend, but am really shy. i don't know if i should go up to him. he's asenior, and i'm a junior so he won't be here next year. i want to tell hi but am too shy to talk to him sometimes. he's just tooo cute!
AnonymousMay 22 2007 2:12pmFLAGyou should have one of your best female friends ask him out for you and see what he says. it worked with me so it whould work for you.
secretJun 16 2007 10:33pmFLAGbelieve it or not i'm in the same situation as well except i've already been out with him and he's dumped me for my friend but somehow i still love him anyway
lifeAug 06 2007 2:23amFLAGI like my best guy friend of yrs. He has had a crush on me before. But i have just started liking him over the past month or two and i told him. even though he said " I really hope me and this seinor can go out!" We still talk and are still best friends.! So go for it mabey it is ment to be and mabey its not. But if they are your best friend then they will still talk to you, but its up to you wether you tell them. REMEMBER!! YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. And life is about taking risks!!
In Love with best friendSep 25 2007 10:08amFLAGive loved my best guy riend evr sience 3 gr. and i still love hm now. im and i am hot to alot of guys except hm WAT WE DO?
hottie101Jan 10 2008 2:43pmFLAGgo up to him and and start flirting with him and tell him how you feel and ask one of your friends if they'll ask him if he likes you? Duh
In love with guy friendJan 22 2008 4:53pmFLAGHas your boy friend ever cheated on you?
well I had 2 boyfriends before and they where cousins they where in the same grade as me they went to a different school where i use to go. They said they liked me. Then they said they wanted to share me. And then the next day they said they wanted to brake up cause guess what they already had a gal friend.we were all best friends then i started to like them.Okay a guy ever has done that to you go talk to him or txt him or call him. I REALLY liked bolth of them. call him or convince him say why didn't you tell me before you had a gal friend? I loved you but now your some kind of player? ask him why he did that cause that's what i exsactly did.
CheatingJan 22 2008 5:02pmFLAGJust wahtever you do dont wait for him and tell him how u fell
mick22Feb 23 2008 10:15amFLAGI HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME TOO BUT WHAT I DID WAS I FIRST TOLD MY BEST FRIEND THAT I LIKED THE SAME GUY SHE DID SHE WASNT HAPPY AT FIRST BUT THEN SHE GOT OVER IT AND THEN I WALKED UP TO THE GUY THAT I LIKE AND I TOLD HIM THAT I MAY BE IN LOVE WITH HIM AND THEN HE SAID THAT I WAS A PRETTY GIRL BUT HE LIKES MY BF SO WHAT U SHOULD DO IS JUST TELL HIM HOW U REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIM SO GEWD LUCK
LILCHOLA18Feb 27 2008 3:27pmFLAGI am in the same situation with liking my BGF. Just talk to him about it - alone. Maybe you'll understand better. Also, like I'm doing now, when my BGF said he needed to think about if he liked me or not, just give him some TIME and SPACE. It'll all work out.
Cool Goth Girl!Apr 11 2008 8:10pmFLAGI love my best guy friend he's also my neighbor and I have known him since we were little what should I do
loveatfirstsightOct 12 2008 1:28pmFLAGI love my best guy friend he's also my neighbor and I have known him since we were little what should I do
loveatfirstsightOct 12 2008 1:32pmFLAGI love my best guy friend he's also my neighbor and I have known him since we were little what should I do
loveatfirstsightOct 12 2008 1:35pmFLAGI am in the same situation but every time you ask him who do you love he says my best friend and he has been in love with her since primary reception and i love him loads and she is going out with someone else and he crys everynight coz she is going out with someone else and i am like get over it go out with me but he just won't and i really don't know what to do please help
lover him so muchOct 14 2008 8:59amFLAGgrrrrrr im in sort of the same situation but yeah my best friend who is a guy is starting to crush on this new girl at my school and she is gorgeous!!!!! and like he flirts with me and we hang out all the time and our families are god friends but he doesnt know how i feel and like he asked me to homecoming and we went and had a blast but a while back he told me i was like his sister... so yeah HELPPPP
wishing and wanting but not knowing...Oct 15 2008 12:24pmFLAGomg im in the same sitch my best guy friend is so cute but i like his brother to i think its good to im going to go 4 the change next one i get
**morgan**Nov 28 2008 2:46pmFLAGi am in the same thing but i have a boyfriend i dont know what to do
hrJun 11 2009 5:50pmFLAGiam in the same situation,
tell your best friend to tell him that you like him!
I hope I helped you!
(= ^_^=) KiTi CaTJun 12 2009 2:15pmFLAGOMG!! i've liked my BGF sinc i met him like 5 yrs ago and everybody says that we're so cute together, my friend told me that he told her liked me and wanted to ask me out but i waited and he never did. Then this year we've been seeing a lot more of each other and he's always flirting w/ me hugging me and stuff like that, but now i find out that he has a GF....UGH wat am i supposed to do??
heartborken and confusedOct 18 2009 8:31pmFLAGim in the same boat and him and i were SO close but he likes this other girl. my advise is to stay friends and dont tel him...i told my friend and it messed everything up and now i want him back as my bff
i miss himMar 05 2010 6:15pmFLAGdont do what i did! my best guy friend is really cute and i really really like him ALOT. ive liked him for like 4 or 5 months. this past week i found out that one of my best girl friends told him i like him (a complete backstabber!).
because i get so paraniod about these kind of things (btw, he was my first real crush) i freaked out. just a little while ago because i was soo afraid of confronting him, i told him we couldnt be friends anymore. :'( cry. it makes me soo depressed and sad inside. im so sad that writing this is making me cry. dont take the cowards way out! dont be like me
depressed untill the end :'( </3Mar 28 2010 5:57pmFLAGwat u guys have 2 do is take a chance go 4 it
carinaMar 11 2011 5:35pmFLAGIm having alot of trouble need help plzzzz
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