The Problem: I have this crush and I really like him. I'm not going to say his name cuz it would be a bit embarassing. We're friends and all but I think I want to be more than friends! But I also think I ruined it! Cuz he liked me before and I liked him, he asked me out but I got scared so I said no! He did that a few times but I always said no cuz I was scared cuz he is such a playa! Whatever I think I ruined it and I wanna know how to get him to notice me again! Can you help?
Asked by: stupidgirl1706 at
10:19:16 AM, Friday, April 28, 2006 EDT
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mirrandaApr 28 2006 2:21pmFLAGJust start to flurt around him and ask him if he likes you enough to ask you out...
AnonymousApr 28 2006 6:04pmFLAGi need some advice on what i should do about a really close guy friend who i like a lot!!!!!!!! but i just found out that he likes my best friend we r like friends with benefits and he said he likes me but now he likes my best friend too
lilqApr 28 2006 10:28pmFLAGwell u can start by changing something about your look talk to them act normal and it might work
kimmyApr 29 2006 11:50amFLAG
i think show off a little
IreneSep 28 2006 4:14amFLAGlike wear mini skirts and little singlet tops so he starts getting atrracted 2 u again
sarahSep 28 2006 4:16amFLAGy dont u tell ur best friend dat he hates her so she doesnt talk 2 him so he can focuse on u more since he might give up on ur bestie
eilishSep 28 2006 4:17amFLAGthanx miranda now every1 knos bout me ye i saw this web so ha ha
your bestie the victum the 1 that luvs ur bestie and u cant takeSep 28 2006 4:19amFLAGand im joking
the 1 i sent is 2 trick u sozSep 28 2006 4:19amFLAG\
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxSep 28 2006 4:20amFLAGStart walking arond him and put your but in his face.Shake your butty while you walk.Wear many skirts and tops that show your breast a lot.
Hottest hoe in the world.Nov 27 2006 3:13pmFLAGHere is the thing he took a chance on you so it's your turn. Tell him the truth about how you feel and why you said no so many times to him. Than see what happens.
AAEDec 30 2006 7:37pmFLAG just play hard 2 get, trust me, sooner or later hes gunna come bak 2 you on his nees begging fro u to love him again
u know u love meJan 01 2007 7:29pmFLAGWell, it depends. Do you like him enough to put your friendship on the line, and if you do, will it be worth it? After all, you did say he was a player. I say not only wear cute trendy (non prostitute like) outfits, but flirt with other guys. Go out with a few and if he gets weird then he's jealous or he still likes you. Otherwise he'd be perfectly fine with you going out with someone else. This is a great way to tell if he likes you or LIKES you. If he LIKES you, then great! If he doesn't, then at least you don't lose your friendship.
CindyFeb 04 2007 4:36pmFLAGI don't think that using your physical appearance is a good idea to get him to like you. Sure, that'll work if you want a purely physical relationship. But, if you want something deep and actually meaningfull, than tell him how you feel. If you're too afraid to do that, drop subtle hints. Pull a slow smile (not too slow, or he'll think that you're a vampire), catch his eye. Say hello, ask for advice! There are tons to things you can do to see if he's intrested! I'm sure there's more to you than your body. As for the chiquita with the bestie issues....that sucks! I had the same thing happen to me, and it was so hurtful.
LoveGuruFeb 13 2007 2:49pmFLAGask him simple questions in a sexy way
ba mnMar 14 2007 9:29amFLAG
ask him if he likes you in a note
ashleyAug 08 2007 10:17amFLAGBe very SEXY around him!!!!!!!
Luv bugAug 08 2007 10:19amFLAGAsk him if he wants to have sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SomeoneAug 08 2007 10:20amFLAGi need adivce i like this guy andi don't know if he likes me too he looks at me and smiles at me and i have a twin sister and he keeps say hi (my name) to my sis and thinks it's me and i don't know if he likes or not and i don't know if he still does please help.....
hoppingAug 22 2007 1:23pmFLAGwhile walking down the hallway ( or watever) bump into him and knock down everything your holding see wat his reaction is
tjSep 06 2007 4:08amFLAG
hey a you have to do is be yourself. don't try to be anyone that you aren't. talk about what you both like. as things start to go ok then try and ask him out!
do your best! show the world who you really are!don't let anyone get in the way of your true love. good luck!!!
ask meJan 09 2008 1:24pmFLAGi think if u really like him u should ask him out, but if it doesn't work(like he said no), that's ok u can walk away proud of what u have done, and maybe he'll notice u more and he'll think of what he said, then he'll ask u out!!! wouldn't that be exciting!!! I think that will work because it worked on my cush!!!
The Flurty GirlMar 31 2008 12:52pmFLAGhave u ever had a crush that u couldn't stop thinking about then u tell ur best friend then she tells u that she likes him the same way? i did i don't know what to do~!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Flurty GirlMar 31 2008 12:56pmFLAGhave u ever had a crush that u couldn't stop thinking about then u tell ur best friend then she tells u that she likes him the same way? i did i don't know what to do~!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Flurty GirlMar 31 2008 12:56pmFLAGbueno mija, heres some advice.
we all don't know what you did, or how you did it, so now the advice varies.
pero anyways..you should do a series of things to get him to notice you.
1.talk to some of his friends or hang out with some of his friends.
2.wear a scent.perfume such as ANY victoira secret perfume, or curves crush, etc, [but not one that smells too strong, and don't put too much]
3then you gradually starts tlking to him.
4. And whenever you know he's at a distance, act calm, b/c guys don't like it when you act like an airhead.
5nThen you starts talking to him more and more. [but sdon't be TOO friendly, because then he'll see you like a friend] b/c when guys sense that your too friendly too them, they'll think your not interested in them for them in a relationship, more like your interested in them for a bff.
hope everything goes good with you girl! :)
much <3
pablo gurillaApr 12 2008 6:03pmFLAGDONT change ur self keep ur self what ever u r . just show him ur importance dontgive gave him to much responce from ur site but have a look on him but she should also knows about ur katty look but u r not going to say any thing from the front after this result is going to be infront of u
loveguru@flurt.comMay 25 2008 10:05pmFLAGsmile at him when you see him and try to catch his attension so he smiles back at you for a start.
annonymousJun 23 2008 1:38pmFLAGif he is older than you and you feel stupid send some notes with no name on it and tell him how you feel.
bad girl goodJun 23 2008 1:40pmFLAGinvite him to your house and say i can't fix this can you. Then gradually he may understand you in a different way.
good girl badJun 23 2008 1:42pmFLAGif you haven't got the guts to talk to him then
get his friend to tell you about his personalaty
and were he likes to go.
good girl badJun 23 2008 1:44pmFLAGif you know he likes to go to concerts invite him to one and then you could do it daily like every week then say how you feel once you know him better.
good girl badJun 23 2008 1:46pmFLAGdont start to dress sluty guys dont want a girl like that if you do they will not like at you as a girlfriend type more like someone thats easy!!!
??????Nov 11 2008 9:11amFLAGi really like dis guy but my friend keeps flirting wid him wut shud i do?
I LUV DANNYFeb 07 2009 11:32amFLAGhave a crush on this hot guy from church and l'm really in love wat shld l do
randyApr 20 2009 7:20amFLAG
all i have to say is get your friends to ask the boy/girl if he likes you
keyonniaAug 11 2009 5:50amFLAGi need help chooseing a boyfriend well its this group of boy at my school that likes me well what can i say im sexy wit a CAPITAL S all of them are HOT but i dont know who to choose without be\reaking some of there hearts so please help me coose before the begining of school please im begging for your help
keyonniaAug 11 2009 5:55amFLAGlet us wait for the right time!
i also experiencing now that of situation. i like him so much and sad to know that he has a gf. and his gf is my neighbor..
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STUPIDITYAug 21 2009 4:30amFLAGI REALLY LIKE THIS GUY...BUT MY BFF(NOT ANYMORE) TOLD EVERY1 IN MY 1ST PERIOD..... RYAN(A GUY IN MY CLASS) TOLD THE GUY I LIKE... BUT WENEVR RYAN TOLD ME RYAN SAID HE ACTED LIKE HE LIKES ME TOO....WAT DO I DO.......HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IN LOVE WITH CALEBMar 29 2010 8:08amFLAGI WANNA HAVE SEX WITH A GURL...BUT I DONT KNOW ANY LESBIANS...IF UR A LESBO OR BI... THEN TXT ME...ME 3 IS 502-598-8021.....
I LOVE GURLSMar 29 2010 8:29amFLAGI WANNA HAVE SEX WITH A GURL...BUT I DONT KNOW ANY LESBIANS...IF UR A LESBO OR BI... THEN TXT ME...MY# IS 502-598-8021.....
I LOVE GURLSMar 29 2010 8:30amFLAGOR KISS AND TOUCH A GURL OR EVEN TLK TO A GURL AND MASTERBATE
I LOVE GURLSMar 29 2010 8:30amFLAGi like this guy and hes in all of my classes. i think he might be dropping hints but im not sure. does he like me?
woogsApr 16 2012 6:49pmFLAGmy crush is so cute but he won,t notice me so i would start constantly or try bumping into him or try wearing sexy clothes and putting on tons of makeup and doing your hair also put perfume on then walk by him that will sure get to him hopefally he will get the hints.
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