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Female-dominated relationships (ladies only)

Question: I would like to know how women think about relationships were the woman is dominant and the man submissive. This subject seems very actual and I wonder how women honestly think about this. Comments from anyone are welcome but only lady voters please. Thank you for taking the time.
Created by: modernman at 12:10:48 AM, Thursday, January 06, 2005 PST


In the 12 years of my marriage, I've spent about 6 years in the gym during the day when my husband is at work. As a result I've become more muscular than him as he has an office job and by any comparison of physical strength, I'm about twice as strong. It wasn't until last year that I decided that we should wrestle and found this to be very erotic for my self. This wasn't his idea but mine and I don't know why I find it exiting but realizing that you are far stronger than your husband is enjoyable. I use my muscles to pin him and add just enough pain and then I ask him to fight back but he can't stop me. Sometimes I ask him why during is entrapment and force him to discribe my power and his lack of physical strength to do anything and what his muscles feel like while I smash or stretch them. I know this is weird but it makes me wet. I sometimes have an orgasm when I do bar dips when I tense my abs, when I reach the point that I can barely do another dip if I think about how I have more muscles than my husband, I can do several more dips as I orgasm, no one knows this because it's hidden behind the groan and struggle of the exercise. After wrestling him it mostly ends in some sex of my choice. I do like to compare my muscles to his by asking him to flex and then seeing the big difference in size. The more I become muscular the more sexual it has become to me. I hope this is enlightening

Dominant WifeFeb 03 2005 11:05am

Well, it may be enlightening but it also makes me jealous of your husband. How big are your arms and what are your measurements in general and how do you compare to your husband besides being bigger? How does your husband react to your superior muscle size and strength?

WowserMar 13 2005 10:35pm
It is typical of today's woman to do what Dominant Wife does, take it easy while her man does the hard work. He goes to work to pay for her days at the gym and then uses his love for her to abuse and enslave him. That is true inferiority at its best. She is not a modern woman, but a female chauvinist pig and an oppressor, and it wouldn't surprise me in the least to find out that her husband has been neutered.

Rick IJun 10 2005 5:58am
Dominant wife that is incredibly sexy. I wish i were in your husband's place

dennisAug 30 2005 9:32am
poor, poor, neanderthal Rick I. the world is leaving you and other wildly insecure males like you far, far behind, my boy. personally, i don't find pumped, muscular Women attractive, but i dream of a Woman who'll "use my love for Her to abuse and enslave me" - even Rick I could get that part right. and to Ms. Dominant Wife i say that Your predilections *used* to be weird...but they're not any more. more and more Women are discovering their power over men (which takes many forms including the physical, the intellectual, the emotional, and of course the sexual) and what a turn-on it is for both parties when She exercises it. i'd encourage You to embrace it in all aspects of Your relationship. drive Your man into submission and keep him there and i bet You'll have a happier and longer-lasting relationship than most people You know. check out and if You need some support and encouragement, and enjoy!

tigerJan 06 2006 8:13pm
Man and woman have been created, that is to say, willed by God: on the one hand, in perfect equality as human persons; on the other, in their respective beings as man and woman. ?Being man? or ?being woman? is a reality which is good and willed by God: man and woman possess an inalienable dignity which comes to them immediately from God their creator. Man and woman are both with one and the same dignity ?in the image of God.? Man and woman were made ?for each other? ? not that God left them half-made and incomplete: he created them to be a communion of persons, in which each can be a ?helpmate? to the other, for they are equal as persons ? and complementary as masculine and feminine. Catechism of the Catholic Church, paras. 369 and 372.

AnonymousJul 07 2006 11:42am
Dominant Wife, your hypocrisy is amazing!! When husbands beat their wives, women complain that men are violent, the police arrest the husband, who goes to jail for assault, while the woman can go to a shelter for battered women. But when a you beat your a husband (you know, the man who pays your bills, the man who you claimed to LOVE when you were dating him) and cause him pain and humiliation. You show no regret for your disgraceful behaviour. On the contrary, you say its erotic and you are very proud of yourself. If wives can be proud of husband-beating, then why can't husbands be proud of wife-beating? And when is somebody going to build a shelter for battered husbands? Dominant Wife, your hypocrisy, ingratitude, cruelty and unrepentant attitude make you totally disgusting.

HSG (High School Graduate)Jul 28 2006 2:20pm
HSG, I really believe you misread Dominant Wife's words. She isn't talking about abusing her husband only that she is stronger and can do with him physically as she wishes (and all be told, as he wishes too, I would imagine). You talk about her hypocrisy and yet she did not write anything hypocritical. I also like the part where you indicate she should be grateful. Grateful for what? She is married to him and I doubt very much that he found her on the street or in the woods, abandoned, and therefore she should be "grateful" for him rescuing her. I certainly don't make light of your apparent dislike for a strong woman but it would suggest that you need to open your mind a little and realize that women are certainly allowed to be the dominant one in a relationship if both partners agree. Do you really think that if her husband wasn't OK with her being stronger and dominant that he would stay? An abused woman in a marriage might sometimes feel that she cannot leave her husband because she would have no way of making a living. Therefore, since Dominant Wife is supposed to be "cruel" and abusive in her relationship with her husband, why doesn't he walk if he is not happy with it? It is certainly not because he cannot make it on his own since he is the one with the job for which she is supposed to be grateful. Etc.

RobAug 02 2006 4:04pm
Goddess created Woman in Her own image and created males so that Woman could have slaves. That is why Wife-beating is wrong but Husband-beating is appropriate. Wife beating is unatural, like water flowing upstream or the sun setting in the morning but husband-beating is in accord with natural law. That is why most male-dominant couples are pathological and unhappy while couples where the Wife exercises loving but very firm discipline with Her male are generally happy. That is why "Dominant Wife" is not being hypocritcal and why HSG is so angry. If Dominant Wife were to add HSG to Her harem and discipline him regulary he would be much better adjusted and happier.

obedient husbandMay 11 2007 7:22pm

AnonymousMar 29 2008 8:23pm
obedient husband is a failure as a man and piece of poo

AnonymousAug 07 2008 7:36am
How does your poor husband take it, being womanhandled like that? Is he frustrated, unhappy or does he actually like being physically outclassed by a woman? I am bigger and I am sure stronger than my husband but I think he would leave me if I kicked his ass in a wrestling match, and I don't want that to happen.

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AnonymousDec 07 2008 6:23pm
My wife is stronger than me, I don't mind at all. When we wrestle she wins but she would never hurt me. When she has me over her shoulders carrying me to the bedroom and tells me what she has planned it is not humiliating but exciting. We often do role reversal and afterwards I feel save in her arms. I think I am pretty lucky to have a strong lady like this!!

AnonymousApr 30 2009 10:08am
Women can talk all they want about being superior and taking over the world crap, but mindless anarchy will always keep that kind of crappy talk in the kitchen, where it and women belong.

Gloria SteinamNov 30 2009 12:16pm
You people really need to wake up to reality. Please!?!

AnonymousNov 30 2009 1:55pm
I would love to serve a dominate woman!

cfnmguyMay 12 2011 4:48pm
Rob If the woman was the one with the Job and earning power (or if they each had well paying jobs) and the husband were forcibly dominating the wife and humiliating her like that and she did not leave him, most people who found out about the situation would still say he was abusing her even if she did not leave him just because she had a job and could afford to leave.

Abuse goes both waysMay 29 2011 7:08am
I f*cking hate people. What has the world come to? Regardless of gender, people should be free to do whatever gets them hot and bothered so long as it's mutual. In any case, people need to 1) mind their own damn business 2) respect the will of others and 3) STOP TALKING ABOUT ENSLAVING PEOPLE in a way that isn't just a sexual thing. I have spoken!

some guyJul 28 2011 9:24am
Been reading these polls for awhile about strong muscular bigger women etc. Think most are very bogus myself. Am a professional white male, 50 years old 5'10" 190, athletic not a bodybuilder tho. Am here by challenging any big strong muscular woman, bodybuilder, powerlifter, whatever, bigger the better, stronger the better. Challenge is to any female who will come meet me here in oklahoma, and literally use her full size, strength, muscle and power to lift me, crush me with full strength, lift, carry, throw me around the room like a rag doll, bodyslam etc, without regard to injury to me. Seriously using ALL her full size, power and muscle on me for 2 hours. No mercy asked, will sign injury waiver as well or release of liabilities to you etc. Any women takers, all you have to do is contact me at and put likelike challenge in your subject line. Cash prize if you come to do this and claim it is 2500 dollars. Will make a nice Christmas if any really tough or muscular women exist in real life besides these stupid polls. I am extemely serious. Lets see if any really huge big strong or muscular powerful women exist, or if they just talk talk talk.

sjsh99Dec 01 2011 12:07pm
Dominant wifes husband is very blessed to have a rugged woman like her! Tiger i could not agree with you more. I love a big strong kind of masculine woman and it feels very good to be held in the arms of a woman like that as well. I have a post men who prefer BIG STRONG WOMEN feel free to check it out. Its a nonjudgemental zone.

Semi PreppyDec 12 2011 1:03pm
i love power woman. i work for dominate woman and i never use the word, "No" unless given permission to do so by her. i am a swm

boyFeb 05 2012 8:06pm
I am a SWM who love physically stronger women. I would love to meet, build a friendship with leading to a relationship. The stronger the better, or with a woman who is strong but want to build to be really strong. Email me at

Chris PApr 27 2012 7:04pm
I am 52 year old and my wife is 27 she was a musclegirl already when we got together but for about 4 years ago she forced me to wrestle her as she told me for fun .i had not a chance agaisnt her she throw me down and got ontop of me . i really struggle and tryed to get her off me but she only laughed and pinned me down to the floor . the thing is when i finely had to submit i saw in her face that all the wrestling had made her hot and we had the best sex after that. she is still working out at the gym and is a buff women today and she still force me to fight her and she has begin to dominate me too. i really love her and i have at last begin to like it even if i really got embarrest in the beginning

mixwrestguyJun 10 2012 6:04pm
I am a strong and dominant wife and my husband loves it. He is a musician in a touring band and is away a lot on the road. Sometimes up to three months at a time. About a year ago I started to work out. Went to the gym about three days a week. At first he didn't really notice much. But after about six months he started to pay me compliments about how good and fit I was looking. It made me feel good and inspired me to keep at it. I could feel my strength and endurance increasing. He was due in for a two week break and I couldn't wait for him to experience my new strength. He came in and I was sure to be wearing a tank top so I could show off my arms. We had a great dinner and sat back and relaxed in the living room. I flexed a little for him and I knew he saw because he smiled and said looks like the gym is paying off you look great! I giggled and playfully pulled him up into my lap. He is thin and not muscular at all. He said cool and we made out for a while with him on my lap. He said that he couldn't beleive how strong looking I had gotten. We both looked at each other and were thinking the same thing. I quickly stood up and not realising it picked my husband up in my arms. Holding him in a cradle carry he just put his arms around my neck and kissed me. I put him down and said sorry!! No need he said that was awesome! I did a double bicep pose for him his eyes got big and I said I glad you like them! We went up stairs and had the best sex ever. We now wrestle regularly, he's no match for me but we have fun. He loves for me to lift him. It is great as foreplay, he lets me piggyback him and my favorite is OTS or fireman carry. On my shoulders he rides and I can hold him for quite a while. He came home recently and I met him at the door. He went over my shoulder and I carried him to the bedroom. I was wearing a strap on and now my domination was complete.

chiristinaJan 11 2013 3:06pm
I have a similar story, I got on a weight loss program which got me into weights. My husband is a little shorter than me and weighs about 20 lbs. less. I wanted to show him how strong I was getting so I challenged him to arm wrestle. It was no contest I won easily. Next up was wrestling I wrestled him and got him pinned and exhausted. I then pulled him up and hoisted him over my shoulders. I carried him upstairs easily and I had already been using a strap on. But the combination of my strength and domination, we had the best night of our lives and it was now the way we do it now. He loves it and so do I!!!

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My little man is the submissive and when we were growing up as friends next door I did all the growing and he had a rare disease that stopped his growth earlier on and in my case I came from two very tall parents and even had a last minute added growth spurt when going to college! I'll go back and give history but now not only is he submissive in the bed room to me, but I am the dominant one in our entire relationship. I wanted both roles as the one who makes all the decisions, but I also wanted to take on the male role in some ways and do all the physical and semi masculine things and not make him feminine...but domesticated and he does all the household chores, work, cooking, cleaning, and little by little have role reversed in many ways. When our friends hang out with us or come over we recently decided that it's easy for them to see who is in charge not only by my drastic size, body, intelligence and wealth, but our roles and by making it clear how submissive snd subservient he has become to me and my over all control. I do all the outside work on our rental including the lawn and car work and I won't lie I love to show off my staggering height, body, strength, and muscles. He only stands 4'5" tall and I tshs an Amazon 6'9-3/4" tall. With any shoes it's almost 6'11! I love it that my legs are as long as about 3/4 of his entire body!

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