This is frustrating, bcasuee I agree with the premise of the article entirely, but you left so much on the floor! The perception of value women nowadays is skewed, and it reflects in what they value in men and what they value in themselves. You're right, a lot (if not most) younger women have no idea what constitutes a good woman (or man for that matter) and they tend to think they add value to a relationship in ways that are almost purely superficial. Women are, at the same time, completely practical beings and wholly impractical in their dating habits, or should I say expectations? Women won't date a guy who doesn't bring anything to the table, and that's practical, but what they expect their potential mates to bring to the table is completely impractical. You can't have a 6'3, muscled, monied, handsome, Godly, driven, talented, honest, faithful man bcasuee only like 3 of those dudes exist who embody all those characteristics, and they're married. The ones who come close to that and are single don't want you, they just wanna f*ck you, bcasuee everyone wants them, so they don't have to commit. I'm not saying expectations should be lowered, I'm saying the focus should change. And don't date for potential without drive either, a guy might be the most talented schmuck in the world, but until he decides he wants to make something of his talents you're wasting your time trying to build him into something he'll choose not to be. I'm off topic. Value. Value is placed incorrectly. A lot of beautiful women think bcasuee they are beautiful they shouldn't be asked to bring anything else to the table. Like that makes them a good woman by default. Education and success ditto. A lot of educated women think they automatically rank as good' women bcasuee their education makes them a catch. Oh, and how about the chick who wakes up and sucks her man's dick every morning? .. Okay, we like her, but providing a steady diet of bomb sex doesn't automatically make you a catch either. Above all, a good woman will be judged by her character. Nothing else. The sooner we all realize that the sooner we'll all have the Black Love of Obama & Michelle, Will & Jada.

JuCHZMtdLSOMGIjFiBNJul 02 2012 3:52pm