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Question: I have always been attracted to smaller weaker men. Thats why I married one. It might be because they have to use intelligence and persnality to compensate for what is lacking. Yet it might be something else also. If you are a female who prefers smaller men what are the reasons?
Created by: Missy2004 at 01:28:57 AM, Monday, October 24, 2005 PDT

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I like the idea of an intelligent caring man. One who is not slef-absorbed. Many bigger guys you won`t find that. I don`t need a big man to protect me as I am pretty big and strong lady myself. In fact I prefer to have a physically dominat role in a relationship because it just seems natural for me. Finally, just knowing I can kick his butt if I wanted to does give me a rush :)

SharonOct 25 2005 4:20am


Sharon, are you in a relationship with a small man at the moment? If so, do you 'boss' him around and how does he feel about that?

MikeOct 26 2005 5:57am
Missy and Sharon, you are both very important trail-blazers in what is possibly one of the most vital developments in history. Up until recently, men dominated and women were regarded as weaker and therefore inferior. This led to centuries of male agression and warfare, because the feminine characteristics of kindness, caring and tolerant compassion were undervalued simply because they were seen as feminine, therefore inferior to the masculine traits of power, conquest and dominance. Now, with girls and women being free to discover and develop their own strength potential in every respect, feminine qualities are being balanced by the more positive of masculine values, namely physical and mental strength, courage, endurance and drive towards self-betterment. As future wives and mothers, girls of this generation can freely attain levels of strength that were frowned upon as being "butch" and "unladylike" just one generation ago. Already most schoolgirls of 10 to 14 years of age are as big as or bigger and stronger than boys of the same age. This was also true in the past, but at a certain age girls were expected to become "the weaker sex" in order to attract boyfriends and boost male egos. So even if a girl was way stronger than her boyfriend, she kept it well hidden. Nowdays, however, there is a growing number of men who are powerfully attracted to stronger women, and more and more girls and women are realizing the freedom and even the erotic excitement of being "stronger than a man." One very important point in this new development is for women NOT to masculinize their physical strength by using it aggressively, to "kick butt" (unless it is necessary) but to use it protectively and sensitively, preserving the best of femininity, within the utmost achievements of physical strength. Dominance by superior female strength should only be enjoyed by both partners in a relationship, by mutual consent. Many men - myself include - secretly yearn for the 'feel' of a stronger woman. To be beaten at armwrestling or lifted and carried by a strong lady is an exciting turn-on, but no-one wants to be bullied by someone stronger than they are. The sad fact that stronger men still abuse their weaker spouses is not reason enough for stronger women to do likewise. Superior women are way above that - and that is precisely why the female half of the human race must become the stronger half - to protect and preserve themselves, and humanity, from rampant male aggression. I would like to see strong women the world over, be self-driven and united in the purpose of restoring balance and insisting on an end to the senseless violence and testosterone-induced conflict that is tearing us apart. Encourage your daughters to become as strong as they can be, and encourage your sons and husbands to do the same, if they wish, but to respect - even welcome - the possibility that the women in their lives may be far, far stronger than they can ever hope to be.

AlanOct 27 2005 10:27am
I am also attracted to smaller men, and I always have dated boys and men that are smaller than me, and weaker too. I am rather big at 5'11 and 184 pounds, naturally strong from the start and years of working out has made me a very strong woman. I discovered that I liked smaller guys when I was around 17-18. My girlfriends could never undstand why I always picked the smaller guys. I liked to dominate physically from the start, no abuse only showed the guy that I was stronger. Carrying him, armwrestling, wrestling etc. I liked to show bigger guys how strong I was as well but they could never take a loss as well as the smaller ones. Being big and strong I want more to protect than to be protected. I love when my man comes to me with a cork that he can't get out of the wine bottle, when he can't lift anything heavy. My current husband is aboout 5?7 and only 132 pounds, I love him and take care of him.

Mona LisaOct 27 2005 12:02pm
Mona Lisa, you are exactly the type of woman I described above. Your husband is a very lucky man to have a strong woman like you at his side.

AlanOct 27 2005 12:27pm
It `s a safety issue for me. I have been with men who were much bigger and stronger--and all were very abusive. The man I am with now is very kind and gentle. He is a little on the quiet side but very reflective. He has never lost his temper or said unkind things. I seemed to have taken a dominant role in this relationship, but maybe thats because I am 5 inches taller and 40 lbs heavier. It synonomus with nature-The bigger dog will always take charge. One thing I can be reassured, he wont lay a hand on me because he knows I can kick his ass.

DeniseOct 28 2005 7:28am
True, in the world of physical nature the "bigger dog" takes charge, but this overlooks the mental, emotional and spiritual dimensions, each of which has its own specific strengths and weaknesses. So a smaller, weaker man (or woman) may be extremely strong psychologically or morally or personality-wise. And vice versa. The special aim for physically strong men and women is now the blending and balancing of strengths in ALL dimensions of life. To balance physical strength with kindness and sensitivity to thee needs and feelings of others. To use one's superior size and muscle-power protectively instead of aggressively. And to respect others for what they are best at. Traditional male/female roles of the stronger/weaker sex are now a thing of the past and both genders can incorporate the strengths and qualities of the opposite sex without being stigmatized by "macho jocks" as being "butch" or "girly-man" effeminate.

AlanOct 28 2005 9:09am
Mona Lisa - where are you from? 31/10/05

Daniel (uk)Oct 31 2005 10:14am
I like this board! I am an attractive woman who is fairly tall and strong(5`10 190 pounds). I am only turned on by men who exhibit delicate features, and who are much smaller and weaker than I. I have to be the physically dominant person in any relationship.My husband is 5`2 130 lbs. It is a complete role reversal I know, but he is cutest little thing. We have been married for 10 years now.:)

MeganNov 01 2005 8:15am
I am Greek-American, now living in Greece. My father was a big man from the Peloponese and my mother is a big mulata Cuban woman. They met in Miami. Greece is a good country for a woman with my taste in men. Many small delicate men around (and good looking).

Mona LisaNov 01 2005 10:54am
Megan, are you strong enough to lift your husband over your head?

crismossNov 01 2005 12:58pm
Crismoss I lift him off his feet everytime I hug him in my arms. He is just adorable and a wonderful man

MeganNov 04 2005 7:36am
Wow Megan! Your husband is one lucky guy!

malebitchNov 05 2005 3:07pm
But Megan, can you lift your husband high over your head??

crismossNov 07 2005 2:11pm
my husband is smaller than me. he knows i am stronger and faster on my feet. but i would never hurt him.

jennyNov 20 2005 8:25am
Jenny, he must enjoy your being stronger. What a lucky guy.

AnonymousNov 20 2005 7:41pm
its not really a subject, i'm just 30 lbs heavier a little taller, but most of all i'm built stronger..thicker legs,bigger hips..etc. when we make love i can lock him down pretty good.

jennyNov 22 2005 7:55am
Jenny, what is your husband's reaction to all of this? Does he struggle or just enjoy or probably both?

WowserNov 22 2005 11:27am
I am in the same position as Jenny, I am bigger than my current boyfriend. Quite a bit bigger actually. I enjoy being stronger and on top when it comes to lovemaking. I am sure more and more women will find that being in charge is a lot of fun.

Mona LisaNov 22 2005 10:23pm
Jenny is right, it is really no big deal. She is 30 lbs heavier(which is quite a bit), so it should not come as any shock that she might be physically stronger. From my observation,women are more open to the idea of being the physically dominant partner in a relationship. It`s the vast majority of men that seem to have a problem with it. The male ego is a fragile one, and it has it`s roots in physical strength. Frequently, men just can`t overcome it.And when they realize that some women are physically stronger, it crushes their whole male identity. I know some men who are very small. You might say roughly 60 percent of the female population is stronger than they. And yet, despite the obvious, they still can`t overcome that culturally induced male identity to accept the concept that women are physically stronger than they. This one guy I know is 5`3 115 lbs. He even gets devastated when a woman holds the door for him or the female bagger offers to help him out with the grceries. The consequence is that they have isolated themselves in a social shell.And until they accept their reality,they will remain a real life version of the "40 yr old virgin". Now, I cannot deny there are women who do like bigger stronger men. But from what I see they are usually uncomfortable with their own femininity and they need that bigger stronger partner to make them feel safe and feel like a lady. So the idea of the prom and beauty queen chasing after the football jocks is pretty much mythical. In fact in some cases, the opposite is true. Look at Tom Cruise and Nicolle Kidman or his latest girlfriend, Katie Holmes. They both tower over him and maybe a little stronger. Attractive women, who have more confidence in their femininity, don`t neccessarily want the jocks as they do the smaller "pretty boys".

BrianNov 23 2005 5:58am
Jenny is right, it is really no big deal. She is 30 lbs heavier(which is quite a bit), so it should not come as any shock that she might be physically stronger. From my observation,women are more open to the idea of being the physically dominant partner in a relationship. It`s the vast majority of men that seem to have a problem with it. The male ego is a fragile one, and it has it`s roots in physical strength. Frequently, men just can`t overcome it.And when they realize that some women are physically stronger, it crushes their whole male identity. I know some men who are very small. You might say roughly 60 percent of the female population is stronger than they. And yet, despite the obvious, they still can`t overcome that culturally induced male identity to accept the concept that women are physically stronger than they. This one guy I know is 5`3 115 lbs. He even gets devastated when a woman holds the door for him or the female bagger offers to help him out with the grceries. The consequence is that they have isolated themselves in a social shell.And until they accept their reality,they will remain a real life version of the "40 yr old virgin". Now, I cannot deny there are women who do like bigger stronger men. But from what I see they are usually uncomfortable with their own femininity and they need that bigger stronger partner to make them feel safe and feel like a lady. So the idea of the prom and beauty queen chasing after the football jocks is pretty much mythical. In fact in some cases, the opposite is true. Look at Tom Cruise and Nicolle Kidman or his latest girlfriend, Katie Holmes. They both tower over him and maybe a little stronger. Attractive women, who have more confidence in their femininity, don`t neccessarily want the jocks as they do the smaller "pretty boys".

BrianNov 23 2005 7:04am
Mona Lisa, I will put the same question to you that I did to Jenny, what is your current boyfriend's reaction to all of this? Does he struggle or just enjoy or probably both?

WowserNov 23 2005 9:28am
My boyfriend loves his big strong girlfriend BUT he would die if I told his macho friends that I am stronger EVEN if it is so obvious who is the stronger. I don't need to prove I am stronger than my boyfriends pals, but I love to be stronger than my boyfriends. My boyfriend struggles when it comes to some love wrestling and I sometimes let him get the upper hand but at the end I am the winner.

AnonymousNov 25 2005 12:46pm
The last posting came from the strong fingers of...

Mona LisaNov 25 2005 12:48pm
Mona Lisa, thanks for the response. Are you the one who makes decisions or are you equal partners when it comes to that? Your boyfriend is a very lucky guy, but I think he knows that.

WowserNov 26 2005 4:02am
We'll make most decisions together but I think I have the last word more often than my boyfriend. I sometimes for fun say that I will wrestle him down in public if we don't do things my way. He is a bit nervous about this, he never knows if I am joking or not.

Mona LisaNov 30 2005 12:18am
I love it! Thanks.

WowserNov 30 2005 2:01pm
Since I was a teenager I have had a thing for smaller guys. When I was 15 I dated an 18 year old boy/man that was smaller and weaker than me. He had big difficulties in finding girls his age since he was smaller than most of the girls in school and they all went for the sporty macho guys. I found out that this shy, small and rather weak guy was a wonderful person. For me it was great since I already from the start took the initiative and dominated our relationship. He was really ashamed from the beginning to be smaller and weaker than a girl 3 years younger than him but after a while he seemed to like the situation. We were together for almost 4 years. Since this relationship I tried to date guys that was bigger than me, I didn't have any problems finding men that wanted to go out with me but I never really liked any of these guys. They were either full of themselves or just rude. I then met a man that was younger than me (20 to my 23 years old). He reminded me of my first boyfriend, small, almost delicate, but with a good sense of humour and a warm heart. I could once again be the strong one in the relationship. I didn't let this guy out of my grasp, we are married with children and are nowadays in our 40's. Since weight and hight seem to be interesting for many people on this and other board I'm 5'10, 186 pounds today, he is 5?7 and only 135 pounds.

MarianneDec 01 2005 9:54am
mariane, can you out wrestle him? do you over power him in bed?

johnDec 01 2005 6:36pm
Wow excellent story Marianne!

AnonymousDec 02 2005 6:05am
I can do whatever I like with him since I am a lot stronger. I never treat him in a bad way though, I like my little man too much to hurt him.

MarianneDec 03 2005 11:21am
Being able to have your way and completely controlling their body against their will is what I love. It gives me that feeling of complete conqest. I see why alot of men like smaller women. Well alot women like smaller men for the exact same reasons.

AnneDec 03 2005 4:43pm
Being able to have your way and completely controlling their body against their will is what I love. It gives me that feeling of complete conqest. I see why alot of men like smaller women. Well alot women like smaller men for the exact same reasons.

AnneDec 03 2005 5:05pm
Marianne at 5`3 122, I am smaller than your husband :)

AnonymousDec 04 2005 7:25am
Anne, what are your respective heights and weights? I take it your man enjoys your power?

WowserDec 04 2005 9:05am
marianne..you sound like the ultimate woman..strong and sexy...and you use youe power to make him feel good!!!

paul j.Dec 06 2005 5:58am
i always like dating taller women. but lets be real. a thin boned short man can easily handle a larger woman. women just cant handle a man in a physical situation.

paul janosDec 09 2005 1:50pm
Paul Janos, you are so wrong but I guess you are not more than a child that try to provoke us big strong women. I just can say that even smaller women can handle bigger men, there are so many male couch potatoes nowadays and so many women that work out hard. I am sure you like to meet one of us Paul, a woman that easily can put you in place.

CruellaDec 11 2005 4:48am
My first experience with a bigger woman was some years ago when I as a 25 year old was out dancing. I am a rather small man at 5'8 and only 133 pounds, some say goodlooking but in the past my size had made it difficult for me to find a woman that could cope with a rather small man. This evening I was approached by a good looking but rather big woman in her 30's. We danced for a while and then she suggested we should go to her place. We had some more drinks and soon we were making out in her sofa. She told me that she only dated smaller men and the main reason for that was that she wanted to have her way with the guys she took home. I realized that she was not only 40 pounds and a couple of inches bigger than me but also a lot stronger! She let me feel her impressive muscles and at the end she carried me into her bedroom. The day after she told me that she was a busy woman and didn't really have time for a serious relationship. About once or twice a month she went out dancing to find a smaller man to bring home for sex and some cuddling. I didn't know what to say, this was a total role reversal and I felt a bit hurt. She could see this and she said she wanted to see me again. We actually dated for a while before she ended the relationship. Since then I have had several dates with bigger women, I realized that there are quite a few girls that like to be the dominant partner. I am not a real submissive but I have to admit that I like bigger woman (in Holland where I live a lot of woman are bigger than me). I am now in a relationship with a woman that is both bigger and stronger than me and I am happy. Just wanted to share this with everbody here.

HeinDec 11 2005 9:26am
hein.They must have alot of big people in holland because in america 5`8 is pretty average for a guy, but 133 is still on the light side.

AnonymousDec 11 2005 9:40am
I think that Dutch people are among the tallest in the world and when it comes to women I really think that they are the biggest. Women in Holland are not only tall but big boned in general. I am not sure but 5'8 seem to be the average hight for a Dutch woman today. My current girlfriend is 6'1 and 188 pounds, making her a lot bigger than me. People are looking at us when we walking together and I will often here comments like, "look out for that woman, she could kill you" and she will hear "why don't you pick a real man your own size". But in general people are OK with our size difference. The reason for some women to date smaller men, like the first big woman I dated, is to be in control. If you are out for a one night stand it is of course safer to be with a man that you can deal with if it should come to physical struggle. I still believe that a big majority of women prefer her man to be bigger, stronger and the dominant partner but I also think that more and more women prefer to be in charge.

HeinDec 12 2005 12:02am
if she is that big..you can be rough with her and she could take it. but still you could handle her.

paulDec 12 2005 8:47am
It all depends on her athleticism.

AnonymousDec 12 2005 7:20pm
Your right about one thing paul, I can be rough with her without hurting her. The thing is that if she is too rough with me I will probably end up in hospital. Luckilly she is a nice person. Most of the 55 pounds she has on me are muscle and big bones. If we were two men my size we might be able to take her in a wrestling match. My girlfriends sister is 5'10 and 167 pounds, she is a lot stronger than me as well. I probably can't take their mother either in an armwrestling match since she is naturally big boned and strong just like her daugthers. I don't understand why some men have difficulties in understanding that a big strong woman always would be stronger than a small, slim man. It is proved numerous times that the female muscle is stronger than the male of similar size. If we have a woman with bigger, harder muscles than her man, there is just no way that the man can be stronger. I think that many women have hidden their strength in the past, not to embarass their men's fragile egoes. I can cope with being smaller and weaker than my girlfriend, I am probably stronger than men and women that are of the same size and smaller then me. That's how it goes.

HeinDec 13 2005 12:10am
I don't understand why some men have difficulties in understanding that a big strong woman always would be stronger than a small, slim man. If you are 6ft 220 lbs, its probably hard to picture a woman stronger than any man, since they have never experienced it. But at 5`5 122 lbs, probably 40 percent of the adult female population is stronger than me. I know it because I experienced it. And I wasnt holding back either.

AnonymousDec 13 2005 8:09am
even a 5'2" man could handle a 6' wt. trained woman. men will always control the love making.

johnDec 15 2005 7:41pm
Tell us more anonymous

observerDec 17 2005 12:31pm
even a 5'2" man could handle a 6' wt. trained woman. men will always control the love making...thats has to be the stupidest thing i ever read. a larger woman could crush a smaller man.

cindyDec 19 2005 7:45pm
A hypothetical 6ft tall 190 lb woman could LITERALLY kill a 5`2 120 lb man. Size is always a major factor, and that is the only reason why men are supposedly the superior sex

observerDec 20 2005 2:40am
she could only kill him if she had the element of surprise. a man will aleways handle a woman..why do you think old men marry young women? because the man is stronger.

paulDec 20 2005 7:57pm
Paul, in the group of couples you are referring to, young women with older men, statistics says in the US and Norway that it is more common that women beat their men rather then the opposite. You are probably one of those men Paul. Look for help.

ClaireDec 20 2005 11:26pm
claire, please post where you got this info.

paulDec 21 2005 8:14am
you just need to google something like "women abusing men", "women beating men" etc. There are plenty of links. The studies I have seen are in the American case rather old but it was dealing with the subject of age, where older men married younger women and got beaten up since they were weaker. Something similar was shown in a German studie. The Norwegian gallup could show that women hit their men more frequently than the other way around, I think that men in general hit harder so I still think women suffer more from being abused than men. I am sure that women can be rather aggressive but it is very seldom mentioned or discussed. I have (regretfully) hit men in the passed, some of them have been smaller than me and that would put me in the same place as most abusive men, being bigger and stonger. But as a woman it is socially OK to hit a man.

ClaireDec 23 2005 11:41am
clair, how strong are you? could you have beaten up the males?please tell us more.

paulDec 24 2005 1:23pm
I am quite sure that I am stronger then most women and men my size. I have beaten up a couple of men when I was younger, I am not proud of it since I was bigger and stronger then these guys. I have been athletic all my life and I am pretty tough, fighting is a lot about being tough. The poor guys I beat up weren't tough and didn't really know what to do, they treated me badly but when I came back at them physically they got scared, when they realized I was stronger they begged me to stop hitting them. I really don't think it is OK for a big strong person, man or woman, to beat somebody weaker then themselves. But I don't know, if somebody treats me bad I might still hit that person.

ClaireDec 26 2005 11:57am
Hi Claire, What is your height and weight and are you muscular...do you work out, and for how long have you been doing it...Did you play sports, and who taught you how to fight?? Do you intimidate men??!! Were you shocked or surprised the first time you beat up a guy??

Curious FrankDec 27 2005 1:22am
Ok, well I`m 5`5 122 lbs and not very athletic. Claire I can assume you probably are stronger than me?

AnonymousDec 27 2005 8:22am
Anonymous, I don`t know what her height and weight is,but it sounds like she could potentially kill you!

carlDec 27 2005 9:34am
I'?m 6' and 189 pounds, not all of it muscle but I am very strong. Anonymous, I could probably beat you with one arm behind my back BUT you are so much smaller than me it would be wrong to hit you. I was treated badly as a child but discovered I was stronger than most kids and by beating some of them up they stopped mobbing me.

ClaireDec 31 2005 3:33am
claire, you are still only a woman..most small men could still pin you to the ground in like 5 seconds!

jimmyDec 31 2005 10:05am
But Jimmy,I consider a small man between 135 to 150. At 122 annymous is more than just small. That "man" is completely helpless in any physical confrontation.Take note, even my 12 yr old daughter is bigger than that.

LisaDec 31 2005 4:54pm
lisa, how tall are you? have a ever dated a smaller man? if you did..did you ever out physical him?

allenJan 03 2006 4:42am
a man can still handle a broad. 110 pound man agfainst 200 pound female athlete..man wins..and everyone here knows it!

scottJan 04 2006 6:21am
gary...go away..no one cares.

jennyJan 07 2006 4:40pm
Gary....the answer is YES..I AM ALOT STRONGER AS ARE MOST WOMEN! If you have ever danced or had any type of physical contact with a woman you would know and wouldn`t be advertising stupid polls here!

KatrinaJan 13 2006 5:57am
Have any of you "big, strong" women here ever lifted your man above your heads? If so, what were your respective sizes?

crismossJan 13 2006 1:39pm
a man can still handle a broad. 110 pound man agfainst 200 pound female athlete..man wins..and everyone here knows it!

scottJan 14 2006 7:28am
scott..you are on drugs.

kenJan 14 2006 7:13pm
scott, my little sister would break you in half.she is 5'10"..160 lbs. she plays college volleyball.

samJan 21 2006 12:35pm
Well I'm 5'6 and don't date taller women. But I'm sure if I did, she would not be able to overpower me. I have never fought a women though,but it doesn't matter.

MichaelJan 22 2006 3:50pm
Megan, you have one lucky husband.

HERboyFeb 02 2006 9:02pm
LOL where can you find online dating site that matches big strong women with smaller weaker men?

AnonymousFeb 09 2006 6:36am
LOL where can you find online dating site that matches big strong women with smaller weaker men?

AnonymousFeb 09 2006 7:36am
It's encouraging to see that views and roles seem to be shifting...... for the better:) As a 3 month preme, I was always small fof my age and carries through to today. I'm 5'9"/145 (175cm) When I was growing up, lots of girls were bigger and taller than me. Often times stronger too. At 17 I was only 5'3". I had an inferiority complex because of that. An early childhood experience cemented my strong preference for taller women. I'm happy that I have several online female friends that enjoy their height advantage over me. A 6'7" Aussie gal even wants to marry me!!!! Her 6'5" girl friend thinks I'm cute too! Australia is quite a hike from my New England home. My personality falls into the nice, sweet, quiet, intelligent type. My Aussie likes that. The challenge has always been to find a very, very tall woman (real life, not online) who will have a smaller fellow like me. I tried running ads on Yahoo, Match and some tall dating sites without much success . I've tagged along with some tall buddies to Tall Club (TCI) parties without much success. My romances have been sprinkled with some very tall woman. I lost my virginity to a 6'3" buxom, blond amazon while in college. It appreas that the old ways are changing though. Younger women seem to be more open to taking a smaller male for their partner whereas the older generation of women seek the "big, strong man." I would hardly call myself undesirable as I'm degreed, easy on the eyes and rather well endowed for a little nipper. Until then, I'll keep searching for my amazon love. <3

BruceMar 12 2006 9:05am
As I small guy, I also have a submissive nature, especially around big, tall, strong women. I think that would appeal to several women on this this board. The advantage for the woman is she will never lose an argument;) She will also find obedience and loyalty in her smaller male partner. Personally, I like the idea of knowing that my woman can physically dominate me with her size and strength inside and outside the bedroom. Of course, I'm not not intimidated by a woman who has a significant size agvantage, as many men are. If there are any women on the board who would like to connect with me, I'd like to hear from them:) <3 Then, perhaps we can find what we're both looking for.

BruceMar 12 2006 11:21am
5'9" is not small

susanMar 12 2006 11:31am
Susan, compared to a woman who is taller than me, I'm small & there are lots of them.

BruceMar 12 2006 2:08pm
Kudos to Missy, Sharon and all the other big women of the board. This is visionary. Perhaps it truly is a dawning of a new age. The time where women their place as the rulers. It is a known fact that the human female is biologically and phsyiologically superior to the male. The female life expectancy is greater than that of a male, and her body is more complex for reproduction and nurturing. She has a natural ability to lift smaller ones and her strong lower body, well, um, I'll leave that to your imagination. Part of growing up included watching the girls tower over boys A tall female friend confided in me that this is whe way it should be, and I was in total agreement. This topic really ecxites me, and I'd welcome input from others.

BruceMar 12 2006 4:11pm
Well I am a guy whose 5`3. Almost half of all women are taller than me. I`m not talking about just a few inches either. I can barely look over their shoulder. In other words, they tower over me. I dunno whether they are all stronger, but my guess is they probably are. I don`t know where you come from, but 5`9 is average.

my two centsMar 13 2006 1:11am
My biggest turn on was when I had a 6'1"/265 lbs. amazon move in with me for a while. I'm not kidding when I say she could simply slide her arm underneath me and lift me off the floor while talking to her girlfriend on the phone. It was effortless for her. I'd balance myself by placing my hands on her shoulders. If the mood struck, she could lift me off the sofa, carry me into the bedroom and have her way while I was underneath her. The woman definitely enjoyed having a significant size advantage over me, and so did I:)

BruceMar 13 2006 1:35pm
Thanks Susan, all I need is another female in my life to bych at me. Thanks.

BruceMar 13 2006 5:30pm
hey bruce, you ever been lifted overhead?

anonMar 17 2006 3:26pm
Unfortunately no. I've never been lifted overhead. That would be a dream come true. My tall (6'3") Aussie friend could do it. She's really strong. I'm trying to get the cash together to make the trip. The woman wants me for her little husband:)

BruceMar 18 2006 8:04am
I`m 5`3 120 lbs, I have been lifted off the ground(Ususally unintentionally in a hug by a woman), but never overhead. I figured when my feet are airborn when a woman hugs me, indicates she is physically stronger. What I found also is that once they discover they are the physically dominant one in the embrace, they come back for more.

AnonymousMar 18 2006 8:28am
I am not suprised to see "Wowser" contributing to this thread... Stop dreaming guy's and go and do something usefull

Freak_FinderMar 24 2006 12:05pm
I have an open question to the big women. I'm assuming that you also like to control and dominate your smaller male during sex? How do you feel about it? My amazon partner liked the feeling of dominating, controlling me and being able to position my penis for her maximum pleasure. This was always done with me, underneath her.

BruceMar 26 2006 1:12pm
Sharon, I would like to connect with you, seems like we have a strong mutual interest here.

BruceMar 26 2006 1:16pm
This is a nice forum. Big, strong women who have the honesty to admit they like smaller, weaker men. As posted, I too have a penchant for tall, strong women and would very much like to connect with one.

BruceMar 26 2006 1:20pm
Well, I wasn't smaller and weaker to start with. When I met my wife about 25 years ago (we were about 20 years old then) she was 169 cm and 60 kgs and I was 182 cm and 63 kgs, very slim and sinewy. As you can understand my wife was bigger then me in most bodyparts, weighing in almost the same as me on a smaller frame. About 15 years and three kids later my wife had gained a lot of weight and the scale showed 80 kgs! I was up to 72, not only sinewy anymore but a bit flabby. The strangest thing was that my wife's muscles had grown quite a lot with each child, she became stronger and stronger, got wider shoulders and hips. Of course she had gained fat as well and we decided to do something about our overweight situation. This was about 10 years ago. I took up running and soon was down to my 63 kgs again, I have a long distance runner type of body. My wife dropped down to 75 but couldn't loose any more weight. She worked out with weights, from the start to burn fat but after a while to gain strength. She is today 12 kgs heavier than me despite being 13 cms shorter, most of that is muscle. Her shoulders are massive and wider than mine, her upper arms a lot more muscular with good biceps and triceps, her hips, buttocks and thighs are very muscular and strong and her calves really big. Except for being shorter all her bodyparts are bigger than mine. Already after our first child we started to notice the change in her body and her increasing strength. She could beat me at armwrestling and wrestling. The difference today is huge when it comes to strength. She has once lifted our family at the same time. I was on her shoulders with one kid in my arms, then she had one kid on each arm. She often lifts me up saying that I am as light as a kid. She has lifted me over her head a couple of times, nothing strange with that when she is working out with 80kg benchpresses for reps several times a week. As you can understand from this posting I admire and love my big, strong wife. She is happy with our situation, she would love to be taller than me though but that is the only thing where I can beat her.

Slim ErikApr 13 2006 12:40am
Since women are so superior, let THEM fight the wars while us weak and stupid men stay home and enjoy life without women. Contrary to popular belief, us men can be very happy without sex. Being away from women helps us males to focus our minds and find true meaning. And save lots of money.

Kung Fu MasterApr 15 2006 10:10pm
You must be joking Kung Fu Master, I will rather be with bigger, stronger women or smaller and weaker than be without them. A life without women would be very, very sad and empty.

Slim ErikApr 18 2006 11:27pm
I am making an open invitation to strong wives/girlfriends to tell their stories and for the husbands/boyfriends to respond. I am researching for a possible feature documentary on the way women are becoming physically stronger and fitter and being more the dominant partner. I need couples or singles to be honest and open about their relationships and possibly appear on film recounting their stories. Would be nice to hear from any interested parties. I and the film company are based in the UK but will look to source any stories or experiences in Europe, USA or elsewhere. My email address is dflexer01@hotmail.com - look forward to hearing from anyone with an interesting story. Thank you for your attention.

Daniel (21/04/06)Apr 22 2006 12:03am
Excellent video. thank you thank you!!

AnonymousApr 23 2006 5:24pm
Great Clip! It just goes to show you what I have believed all along. Most women have a problem with shorter -smaller men because it is the men who feel unconfident and insecure. Most men just can`t accept that a woman can be taller and stronger. They have such fragile egos. If you are a shorter guy, who exudes confidence, and loves to be around bigger women. she will love ya, and sweep you off your feet

BruceApr 24 2006 5:35am
Btw I am a different Bruce. Thanks for the clip brother bruce

BruceApr 26 2006 6:24am
That picture looks scary :=)

AnonymousApr 27 2006 6:00pm
I was married to a big, strong man for 25 years, he was dominant and wanted to decide everything. Now I was a big woman, 6'1 and 185 lbs (now even bigger at 197 lbs)and almost as strong as my husband (now ex). He was 40 lbs heavier and stronger in his upper body but he never laid a hand on me, I think he was a bit intimidated about my size and he also knew I was strong. He acted more and more as an *sshole and I decided to leave him when our kids left home. A year ago I met this man, completely different to my first husband. 5'9 tall and 138 lbs. He is everything that my first husband wasn't, considerate, funny, easy going and handsome. As you can understand he is also a lot weaker. I am probably more than twice as strong as him and this doesn't bother him a bit. When we are home it is a complete role reversal. He cooks, he is cleaning the house, he is shopping. I dig the garden, change the tires on the car. I carry everything heavy. We are both happy with this situation. Some people have comments like how can you stay with this tiny man but when people meet him they are charmed. He is manly but also small and weak. Small men rocks.

BoubolinasOct 31 2006 2:27am
boubolinas, how do you know you are stronger than he is? the average 135 lb male is strong than the average 200 woman. i think he is just a nice guy. but ..he probably could kickj you but if he was angered.

lanceNov 01 2006 10:52am
Lance, your just too sweet, I guess you are small and weak just like my new husband. I have big strong muscles where my husband have small (but hard) ones. I can benchpress more than double what he can, I can carry loads he could never lift etc. But I really don't need to prove anything.

BoubolinasNov 02 2006 12:50pm
boubolinas, have you ever over powered in the the bedroom? i bet he would like that.

lanceNov 02 2006 2:17pm
You just have a guess if I have over powered him in our bedroom. It's good to be big and strong.

BoubolinasNov 03 2006 6:41am
Boubolinas, have you ever lifted your new husband over your head? If yes, please describe the situation. yhanks.

AnonymousNov 04 2006 3:11pm
Never lifted him over my head but several times lifted him in my arms.

BoubolinasNov 05 2006 1:40pm
To Missy, the creator of this poll. Could you tell us a bit about your life married to a husband smaller than you? Here is my story. I am a small man, only 162cm and 50 kgs (with clothes and a full stomach). When I was younger I was looking for women smaller than me, but being a Norwegian it is just very hard to find smaller women. I didn't have any problems finding women that liked to be my friend, I have always been quite open and social. But of course in the long run you like to find a woman that can be more than your friend. About a year ago I was at a party, I played the piano and everybody was singing, we had a good time. Suddenly this big woman sits down beside me, she puts her big arm around me and sings. I feel like a child beside this lady but I can also feel the warmth from her big body. Later on that evening I am looking for a place to sit but all seats are taken. This big, dark lady pats her knee and asks me to sit in her lap. I am a bit drunk and sit down. I am surprised how firm her big thighs are, and how strong she seem to be. We had a great evening, I was sitting in her lap for maybe an hour. When I am about to leave she asks me if I like to come home with her. She is probably 180 cm, and I would say close to 90 kgs, in her high heals she is a head taller than me. She looks at me with her warm eyes and I am drowning (and have been drowned since that evening). This big woman later admits that she has a thing for small cute men (is that me?). I had until that day never layed my eye on a big woman so I was surprised that I fell for her. We are now a couple, people around us have difficulties to deal with us. My wife is just so much bigger and stronger than me, and that is of course not the norm. But we are happy and our families have now excepted this strange couple even if they often make fun of me (I can take it). The strange thing is that after I met my wife I have been approached by several big ladies that seem to have an interest in me. But I am a one woman man. 2006-11-15

ShortyNov 15 2006 1:46am
have u ever been lifted overhead shorty?

anonNov 17 2006 9:41am
Never been lifted overhead, but quite a few times I have been thrown over my partners shoulder and cradle carried. Being as small as me means that many people can carry you and I get my share of being lifted here and there. Sometimes it annoys me.

ShortyNov 20 2006 1:51am
Big Womyn are so dominant you are right to be contented shorty.

Lou RollsNov 20 2006 11:20pm
I met short men who married taller women, and they seem to be oppressed by feelings of inferiority that are so thick, you could cut them with a knife -- despite the fact that those feelings are unspoken, thought waves travel.

NathanNov 23 2006 7:32pm
#114 - 2/8/07

UpdateFeb 08 2007 12:01am
#0115 - (Wed.) 4/4/07

UpdateApr 04 2007 1:34pm
I would like to add my own experience. I stand 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs. Despite my small frame, I am a very manly male. Many women that I date are bigger and stronger than I am. I find strong women arousing sexually.

MarkMay 13 2007 5:50am
I have dated many women that were physically strong; there were several that were (much) stronger than me. As our respective relationships progressed, I became more open with these women, letting them know that I was especially attracted to physically strong women, "the stronger the better," I would tell them. Each one of these women welcomed the opportunity to explore her newfound position in our relationship, either subtly or overtly taking charge when she wanted. I was a willing mate, doing as I was told, acknowledging that I was weaker, and she could do with me as she pleased. It was enlightening to the women and a tremendous turn on for me (and them).

somethingaboutastrongwoman@yahoo.comJun 15 2007 9:09am
There's more to the whole strength issue than mere size. The physics of the male body is such that both his upper and lower body are significantly stronger than that of a comparably sized female. Women, don't go reading this site and getting the idea that just because you are bigger than some man that he doesn't pose a threat to you.

Dose of RealityJul 09 2007 6:42pm
Edgar Rice Burroughs wrote a vignette about a primitive tribe where the Women were broad shouldered muscular six footers while the males were about five feet and thin. When it wasn't mating season males lived in the forest and the Superior Women lived in caves. When mating season came the Women went into the forest to hunt for the males who tried to avoid the Women because they knew their more dominant spouses would beat them while they were in captivity. There are scenes of Women capturing recalcatrant males, stunning them with bludgeons, and throwing them over the shoulder or dragging them back to the caves for sex or discipline. If the smaller male does not give complete obedience while in captivity he is punished. In one scene "a huge Woman, broader and heavier than(other tribe members)" drags a male to Her cave pushes him in "accelerates his speed with a well placed kick". Burroughs presented this tribe as unatural but it seems like a well ordered society.

obedient husbandJul 09 2007 6:48pm
what does it mean to be much stronger? I have known some women who are substantially stronger or slightly than their husbands. But a woman MUCH stronger? Thats sorta like comparing a 40 yr old woman and a 9 yr old boy. so what is much stronger???

AnonymousJul 28 2007 8:26am
I think by much stronger most people are thinking of a situation where the Woman can physically dominate and punish the male without his consent. If the Wife can administer a hard spanking to Her husband whether he wants to submit or not, then She is the stronger one.

obedient husbandJul 28 2007 10:07am
much stronger means, she can dominate you or beat you up without your consent.And no matter how hard you try to fight back it wont phase her. Believe it or not, there are some women who are this much stronger than some men

ripleyJul 28 2007 3:41pm
www.tallwomen.org - greatest site in the world for tall women

AnonymousOct 31 2007 2:38am
When I first saw this poll, a plurality of Women stated that their reason for preferring smaller males was that a smaller male was less threatening. I see that choice has now dropped to third behind Women who like being the physically larger partner for affirmative reasons rather than for the essentially negative one of a male being "less threatening". Males were created by the Goddess for use by big strong Amazons and I salute and bow before the powerfully built Women who have been voting on this site.

obedient husbandNov 25 2007 5:26pm
I think women just feel safer with a smaller guy than herself. She knows that he will never get out of line because she is the physically dominant partner. she also knows that if he did hit her in rage, she would beat him till he is 6ft under! If a woman is with a guy who is a foot taller and more than 40 lbs heavier, she would be totally helpless if happened to be abusive

wellNov 27 2007 8:33am
obediant husband, i think the change is also part of a change that is happening in society. For so long, Women had to fear men. As society changed, Women felt safer on the growing number of occasions that they were stronger than their partner. Now, as the evolution continues, Women like to be in control and actively look to be with men who are not so macho, not so big. This is seen in some recent polls that show Women prefer men who are more feminine in appearance, i.e., smaller.

thomasDec 11 2007 8:47pm
Are you ladies wiccans?

AnonymousJan 29 2008 8:35am
even the average small man could beat up a woman..so it has nothing to do with a woman feeling safer. i think its just that some people like some people period.

AnonymousFeb 22 2008 12:35pm
even the average small man could beat up a woman..so it has nothing to do with a woman feeling safer. i think its just that some people like some people period. Anonymous -----------------------------------------
I am amale, 5`5 125 lbs. While I am in shape,I dont think I stand any chance against maybe a 5`10 180 lb woman.
You must be on another planet !!!

AnonymousFeb 24 2008 7:20am
I am a 5'10 180 lb woman. My boyfriend is a bit smaller, 5'9 and 168 lbs. We both got surprised the first time we wrestled, when he got on top of me he just couldn't force my arms down even if he put his body weight behind. I could press his arms up and easily throw him off me and then pin him. I have even let him start our wrestling matches sitting high up on my chest pressing my shoulders down with his knees and still he can't beat me. I can slam his arms down when we armwrestle. As I said we were both surprised that I was so much stronger, none of us are gym rats, I do a lot of pushups and yoga and he is running. I guess I was just born very strong.

ninnieFeb 26 2008 11:30pm
ninnie you are 12 lbs heavier Thats quite substantial and why you are stronger

lolMar 07 2008 5:31am
I workout 5 days a week. and at 5`9, I weigh in at 190. Knowing that I can beat to death my partner if he gets out of line is a real comfort for me. Would I ever? I worked this hard in the gym for the purpose of physical dominion. I could never rule it out, and he knows the writing on the wall too.My David is only 5`3 and 119 lbs. He is in awe of my power and knows that I could be the last face he ever sees. Hence he has been a great husband and we have been married now for 15 yrs.

AmandaMar 09 2008 5:35am
He used to fear me, but he has aceepted his new purpose and that is to serve me.

AmandaMar 09 2008 5:58am
PHYSICAL DOMINATION is something to be cherished, it is how the mother earth has been created. The big devouring the small. Creating a balance spiritually and universally

AmandaMar 09 2008 7:29am
Being big, powerful is my religon and what I live for. Those smaller and weaker are under my dominion, which is only the natural law of the universe.
My goal is to get bigger and stronger to better serve the Goddess and mother earth.

AmandaMar 09 2008 8:02am
Your full of crap Amanda, the big and strong are supposed to be nice and carying.

BertMar 11 2008 1:15pm
Amanda, would you please email me or IM me? I really admire your strength and the way you think. Thank you.

somethingaboutastrongwoman@yahoo.comMar 12 2008 8:41am
Amanda if Wife would permit it, this owned male would bare his behind, prostrate himself, and grovel in the presence of Your power. Goddess created Woman in Her own image and created males so that Woman could have slaves. Most respectfully are You also the Alpha Earner and is your husband kept naked and in the kitchen? Wife occasionally loans me out to a Woman who is 5'9" 190, who is a successful Businesswoman and who owns both a husband and a boyfriend who are kept as Her property.

obedient husbandMar 13 2008 5:49pm
I should add that the Businesswoman is also a Priestess of the Goddess. By loaning me to Her, Wife is tithing to the Church and Wife enjoys inspecting the marks on my behind after I have spent a weekend as a slave to the Priestess.

obedient husbandMar 13 2008 5:59pm
I`m 5`5 but very small boned. I am 150 lbs, but the weight is all on my waist. So the doc says I am 30 lbs overweight. My arms, legs are very small. I do workout, but no matter what I do my benchpress max never gets above 70 lbs. Genetically, I am very weak in the muscle department. For me it is normal part of life knowing that most women are physically stronger. some are alot stronger. There are creepy women like Amanda, who would seek me out based on my physical weakness to use for bizarre purposes. That does exist, so I do have to watch my step. For the most part though, I havae no problems with women and actually like to be woman handled. Also I find that a smaller weaker guy, who is cute,actually brings out the nurturing instinct in women.

AnonymousMar 24 2008 7:00am
I`m 5`5 but very small boned. I am 150 lbs, but the weight is all on my waist. So the doc says I am 30 lbs overweight. My arms, legs are very small. I do workout, but no matter what I do my benchpress max never gets above 70 lbs. Genetically, I am very weak in the muscle department. For me it is normal part of life knowing that most women are physically stronger. some are alot stronger. There are creepy women like Amanda, who would seek me out based on my physical weakness to use for bizarre purposes. That does exist, so I do have to watch my step. For the most part though, I havae no problems with women and actually like to be woman handled. Also I find that a smaller weaker guy, who is cute,actually brings out the nurturing instinct in women.

AnonymousMar 24 2008 8:02am
I wish Megan didn?t drop off this thread, her posts reminded of someone I use to know. Back in high school I tried to date a 6?1? Megan, but unfortunately she preferred to kick my ass instead of going out with me!! I was two years older and I wasn?t a small guy at 6?3?, I also played football, so getting beat up regularly by a freshman girl wasn?t something I wanted advertised back then. I obviously know this Megan isn?t the same, but she just brought me back to the reason I became interested in these topics!!

STAMar 30 2008 4:10am
in my household woman are supirior my wife says she likes really small guys and i like big girls. i am 5'4" and 115 pounds i am as you can ssee extremly small and my wife is 6'6" and 220 ibsand really likes to work out.she benches 260 ibs easily and lifts me overher head for hourswith one hand!i have a son 18 years and a daughter 16 years. my daghter is 6'3" and way stronger than me and just as strong as my wife. my son is a little stronger than m but far from my daughter.my daughter likes carying him over her head and wersling him

AnonymousApr 04 2008 4:14pm
Anonymous, does your Wife use corporal discipline on you?

obedient husbandApr 05 2008 5:30pm
Anonymous: Is wifey a wicca girl?

AnonymousApr 07 2008 5:39pm
I am a small male 105 pounds and only 5 feet and very small boned i can bench 30 pounds maybe i would like to date a big girl

AnonymousApr 15 2008 2:07pm
I like bigger women because sometimes I like to be held tenderly and loved instead of doing all the lovin. And personally I think thats why we all like bigger women, we are vulnerable and desire to be loved.

AnonymousApr 18 2008 6:07am
I prefer smaller, skinnier men as well. Big muscular men don't do the trick at all, they look stupid with all these thick muscles and many of them are so full of themselves it's rediculous. The thin guys have a richer inside and are more gentle, and often more funny. Many of them have had problems with the fact that they aren't the jock type. They will grow and glow if us bigger women will give them their self esteam back. Another thing is that you can feel safe with a small man, I don't need a man to protect me, it is so much better to know that you can flatten the guy you take home out with one punch if he is out of line than to feel afraid that a bigger man could do the same and worse with you. I adore the slim guys.

DorothyJun 13 2008 8:22am
My boyfriend started me into weight training, now he's smaller than me and I found that I really like it. I have 15 inch biceps and his are 13 inches. I enjoy comparing my muscles to his and his lesser strength.

JanJun 14 2008 4:45pm
Isnt it true that smart, independent women prefer smaller skinnier men? I see alot of females who are high powered executives with men sometimes half their size.Whereaas, women of lower economic status with men much larger than they. I suppose for protection. My cousin for example is a high powered stock broker. Shes relatively tall at 5`11 but she married a man who was 5`6 and 30 lbs lighter. She said, she wouldnt have it any other way and adores him.

AnonymousJun 18 2008 6:58am
Does your cousin keep Her husband as a househusband and does She use corporal discipliine on him?

obedient husbandJun 19 2008 6:32pm
Heres my problem. I am far bigger and stronger than my husband. And I want to keep it that way. What do I do to discourage him from working out? He is a very small, frail man and I could probably kill with the least amount of my strength. I also know that even if he does workout, I will still be stronger. But being far stronger is what drew me to him. So what can I do to keep him cute and dainty? Any suggestions?

JanJun 21 2008 8:19am
By the way, I am not the same Jan who posted above.

JanJun 21 2008 8:22am
Jan have him go vegan. lotsa cardio. massages Reward him by embracing him in your loving arms

AnonymousJun 21 2008 8:30am
Jan, encourage him to run long distances and play sports like badminton. He will stay skinny and have good endurance but he will not be a lot stronger. You can focus on working out with heavy weights. If I may ask, why do you want to be a lot stronger? And how is he taking being a lot smaller and weaker than you? If he is OK with that I can't see any problem. I am sure that there are many cases where the woman would like to be with a smaller more delicate man, there are many men that would like to date a big strong woman, you just have to check the internet to see what I mean. I am a rather small man that have a thing for bigger women, unfortunately I haven't met the right woman so far, I mean the inside is still the most important thing and size comes next. I have a Dutch friend, he is 164 cm and his wife is 189 cm, she is not only very tall but also big and very strong. Me and my friend has tried to wrestle her but she can beat us both at the same time. I am so jealous. But I just need to keep on looking for the right woman, reading here is encouraging, there are women that really like to be with smaller men.

Little JohnJun 23 2008 1:35am
lol jan! why do you like him so weak? you have an insurance policy out on him?

red flag detectorJun 23 2008 7:53am
I have been dating this gal, we are about the same weight, I am a bit taller but she has bigger arms and legs. We were messing around in the back yard one evening last week and she got way mad cause I pinched her in the butt. She picked me up threw me down and pinned me. I couldn't believe her strength, it was like I was nothing! I had to say i was sorry and she let me up. I told her she was so strong and she said that's the way she is. She doesn't look like she has strong muscles, but when she flexes they are so hard and wide. I hope we wrestle this weekend, it was fun for me but i won't pinch her again.

same size guyAug 13 2008 6:31am
As a general rule, if she has bigger arms and legs. Not talking about bulging muscles, just circumference. She is stronger. I see couples all the time where the woman is larger and probably stronger. BUt the problem is more than often, she doesnt want to be stronger but small and dainty. So she will never wrestle him because she wants to feel like more of a lady. I see big strapping women with limbs the size of tree trunks in gyms doing 30 lbs on the vertical butterfly machines.ALways amuses me. You know they could do 100 lbs for atleast 12 reps. But they dont because they are ashamed of their build and strive to be smaller. So it is refreshing to see there are some women whose goal is to big and healthy and take a dominant role in a relationship.

AnonymousAug 14 2008 8:41am
I never thought I would go for a man smaller than me, of course that limited the possible amount of men I could date since I am around 6 feet and about 185 lbs but still. I married a big, burly strong man that I just adored from the start. He was very manly as in loud, aggressive, full of himself, bad listener etc. etc Of course I didn't find out this straight away since he was quite considerate the first year. After some time he spent more and more time with his friends going to watch basket ball and drink. I took care of the baby and the house as well as running a business. I also worked out as much as possible to stay strong and fit. Well, this ex-husband one night slapped me real hard when he was drunk, I just took the baby and left the house, the day after I filed for a divorce and then left the bastard. The slap was bad enough but he had behaved badly before. I sold our business and started to work full time for a big company. One of my co-workers, a man my age, quite often showed up bruised and sad. He never wanted to speak about it. One night when I was working late he was in his office, crying like a child. He told me his wife abused him physically and didn't dare to go home. Now he is about 5'5 and skinny so I believed him since I have seen his wife that is about the same size as me. I comforted him, he cried in my arms, and told him that I had left my husband after him slapping me. I told him he could sleep at my place that night and then do whatever was necesarry to leave his wife. I helped him as much as I could and he succeded to leave this awful woman. I realized that I really liked this small but sensitive and nice man. I felt strong and liked him for coming to me and crying in my arms. I don't think he should have left his wife without me. After some time he moved in with me and we became sexually intimate for the first time. It was such a difference to feel his small but rather hard body agains my stronger one. I liked to be the one on top and he seemed to be comfortable being with me, an equally big and strong woman that he had just left. We are now married and live a rather equal life, I would say I make the tougher decisions and also have the dominant role in our bedroom but we both love it that way. Sorry for the long posting but I wanted to tell that not all women want to have a big muscular man, small men are more sensitive and nice.

AnitaAug 27 2008 9:06am
Im 5`5 and about 135 lbs and have always been attracted to women much bigger than myself. When I am in the store my eyes are always seeking out that much taller woman with a very ample build.Not sure why I feel this way, but I am sensitive and weak. Not just physically, but psychologically. Like anitas new husband, I yearn for a strong shoulder to cry on. And desired not only to love , but to be loved.Like some women wanting a bigger male, I also want a bigger female to feel secure and protected.Im far from being gay, and never get aroused around other men. At the same time, I never get aroused by women who are smaller than me. If she is intelligent, tall, strong and feminine, she can sweep me off my feet. I am hers! the problem is there are few women like Anita, but I continue seeking. I am confident though that one day I will find her--my queen!
If you are strong single lady with those quallities and might like to hook up, email me at amador200812@yahoo.com
Thanks

BradAug 27 2008 11:11am
This post is funny. I wonder how many short guys are on here are using a woman's name pretending that tall women prefer short men... I can tell male dialogue from female dialogue. It's so obvious and "Anita" is a guy.

SebastianSep 15 2008 3:09pm
I am sure that my husband doesn't agree with you Sebastian, I'm a 100% woman, or should I say 150% woman since I am quite big. What should be in it for a man to make up stories to post on a board like this? Are you a woman Sebastian since you know how a woman would express herself in writing?

AnitaSep 15 2008 11:40pm
Most respectfully Anita, what is Your height and weight and how does it compare to Your husband's.

obedient husbandSep 23 2008 3:06pm
Actually Anita I should be whipped for inattention since You already gave these figures up above. This mere male begs forgiveness.

obedient husbandSep 23 2008 3:07pm
Hi everyone , good to hear all ur personal experiences and ideas, for me it is quiet obvious anythng whch is superior attracts this superiority doesn't meant for physical but also financial, beauty , caring etc and different people have different perspective. Likewise some do hv a gr8 charm in tall n strong amazons, and often really go for women mascularity rather feminization which is unnatural. For me domination by either sex is just a poo it should me rather mutual relationship in which all feel secure

Gg'sOct 09 2008 10:31pm
10-24-2008

AnonymousOct 23 2008 4:02pm
In some cultures women is supposed to be big and curvy while them men are very thin. Taller perhaps but lighter. I have seen this in India, where you have beutiful, curvy women that are used to hard labour and are strong (they don't need a gym), I have also seen this in West Africa. Since I have also been living in the States I have even there seen Big black mamas with skinny guys, men they could beat up as easy as that. In Europe it seems that a lot of men dream of being with a big, strong woman that can dominate them, especially sexually. I am not sure of the other way around though. I have always been looking for men as big or slightly bigger than me but I don't care if they are weaker. And my best relationship was with a smaller, and a lot weaker guy. He left me for an even bigger woman that little bastard.

CharlottaNov 04 2008 12:30pm
Ms. Charlotta, what is your height and weight, your former boyfriend's stats, and the figures on the Woman he is currently with. If you got him back would you beat him?

obedient husbandNov 05 2008 6:06pm
if any big or strong or full figured with height, sexy lady, or girl wants to enjoy with me or wanna only VEG chat with me or share her experiences, then can email me. Jugal

jugalpakistan@yahoo.co.in and gmail.comNov 06 2008 1:39am
obedient husband, I am 178 cm and 78 kgs, my ex-boyfriend was 169 cm and 62 kgs. His current girlfriend is probably 185 cm and close to 100 kgs. I don't think I would take my ex-boyfriend back since he hurt me leaving me. I wouldn't beat him, I don't think it is right to beat somebody so much smaller.

CharlottaNov 10 2008 11:21pm
Ms. Charlotta, I hope his current Girlfriend beats him. It would serve him right. If my math is right She is well over 6 ft. and about 220 lbs. He would be about 5'8" and less than 140. She could give his behind a hiding!

obedient husbandNov 14 2008 5:44pm
She would kill him with a simple slap to his face, I don't want him dead.

CharlottaNov 17 2008 7:49am
Charlotta, You are a very good person. I am also a very large woman. If that lowly little bastard back stabbed me, I would have beaten him to death! Pure and simple! He would not pull that with me! Im come from a very wealthy family.And we have immense influence in this community! They wouldnt touch me! Charlotta, the only reason a woman of our size would be with a much smaller man is that they are obedient and respectful! They know they are physically vulnerable, and aware of the deadly consequences. If your little ex knew what `could happen`it would be a much different story.

TaraNov 21 2008 11:42am
Charlotta, You are a very good person. I am also a very large woman. If that lowly little bastard back stabbed me, I would have beaten him to death! Pure and simple! He would not pull that with me! Im come from a very wealthy family.And we have immense influence in this community! They wouldnt touch me! Charlotta, the only reason a woman of our size would be with a much smaller man is that they are obedient and respectful! They know they are physically vulnerable, and aware of the deadly consequences. If your little ex knew what `could happen`it would be a much different story.

TaraNov 21 2008 12:08pm
Most respectfully Ms. Tara, what is your height and weight and have you disciplined males in the past?

obedient husbandNov 24 2008 7:48pm
I'm a woman and 5,0 and 110 lbs. So what only big women can be stronger than men? I have that same dominent personality. Even though I am small and I don't want a boyfriend who is under 5 ft, could I still be stronger and take care of a bigger guy. I don't see why small women can't be as strong as big women. I am athletic!

mikkaelaNov 26 2008 11:55pm
mikkaela. COuld you take a guy and set him on your lap? Could you lift a guy off the ground in a deep embrace? I dont think so....

AnonymousNov 28 2008 12:07pm
I think smaller men desiring larger women is only natural.Smaller men feel more vulnerable and seek out larger mates in order to feel protected.And very large women dont need the protection as many women. therefore they have a need to take on that nurtering role as the protector. Thats why I am always seeing 5`11 200 lb woman paired with a smaller, 130 lb man.

AnonymousNov 28 2008 12:17pm
12/04/2008

AnonymousDec 04 2008 6:30am
Hi dis is venkat.I am 78kgs and 5'10" and wanted to be lifted by one of the strong women

venkatDec 10 2008 8:57am
12/23/08

AnonymousDec 23 2008 2:21pm
MY WIFE WEIGHS 135 LBS AND I WEIGHT 180 LBS.SHE HAS 15 INCH BICEPS AND CAN BEAT ME AT ARM WRESTLING EVEN IF I USE BOTH HANDS,SHE CAN DO EEP KNEE BENDS WITH ME ON HER BACK AS IF I WEIGH NOTHING.SHE CAN LIFT A 100 LB TV.I CANNOT LIFT THAT TV AT ALL.

AnonymousDec 28 2008 3:00pm
WHAT IS MORE AMAZING ABOUT MY WIFES BICEPS IS THAT SHE IS NOT EVEN TRYING TO BE STRONG BUT HAS DECEIDED THAT IT IS BETTER TO KEEP PUMPING IRON THAN HAVE FLABBY UGLY ARMS,CAN YOU IMAGINE HER ARMS IF SHE REALLY WANTED TO GET BIGGER

ALEX THE HUSBANDDec 28 2008 3:04pm
Alex, my wife has bigger muscles than me and has never worked out with weights. She always had big muscles, especially her biceps. She is a very physical person that likes to carry stuff, likes to hike, canoing, rowing etc. but she has never done that regurlarely. I am the opposite, I have been working out for a few years two times a week, when my wife's muscles still were bigger I gave up since it was very booring to lift weights. I just like the way it is now, she is just stronger, no problem.

Another husbandJan 29 2009 6:00am
Do any of you women like (or have) tiny men with huge c*cks, or is that threating somehow?

5'2"and 8.5"by 5.75"Feb 15 2009 10:06am
My BF is big and strong but that doesn't matter because I got female power over him by just sqeezing or biting his balls. He just can't resist to my touch or bite.

LindaFeb 17 2009 2:18am
linda - how big is his c*ck. ya like em big?

5'2"and 8.5"by 5.75"Feb 21 2009 11:53am
Sebastian Wrote: "" This post is funny. I wonder how many short guys are on here are using a woman's name pretending that tall women prefer short men... I can tell male dialogue from female dialogue. It's so obvious and "Anita" is a guy. "" RIGHT !!! Professional fakers with long stories are all around... I am male, I definately like/want/adore a much stronger woman, but the fact is: they DON'T show up !! LOL Reality is quite different from wishes... so, it is bad to turn (honest) wishes into faked stories...

WigFeb 27 2009 12:42pm
I am sure that most women prefer men bigger than themselves but there are exceptions to this rule. I met my wife about 10 years ago, she was then 175 cm and about 78 kgs, I was 178 cm and 60 kgs, today my wife is around 80 kgs and I am 61-62. She works out 3 times a week and has big muscles underneath a firm layer of fat, she looke very feminine but is strong as an ox. She has always enjoyed being physically stronger than me and I have enjoyed being weaker. I know it is strange for a man to sit in his wife's lap, or to get carried in her arms but we love this role reversal. She thinks bigger men looks vulgar. I have never laid an eye on a smaller women. My wife's mother is dating a smaller man (the father has died), my sister-in-law is married to a smaller man. A couple of my wife's female friends tells us that they find our relationship refreshing. Some of them have divorced abusive bigger men. Us smaller guys aren't as threatening I guess.

DortmundMar 02 2009 12:53am
Do any of you women like (or have) tiny men with huge c*cks, or is that threating somehow?......What? No responses? do you all like small dicks? ...Well?

5'2"and 8.5"by 5.75Mar 02 2009 6:20am
5'2"and 8.5"by 5.75: I am an average sized guy in height and weight, but I lack size down below. I am only 4.5 x 4.3 fully erect. I love to hear from guys that are well endowed. Tell me about yourself.

bsized4point5@yahoo.comMar 02 2009 3:09pm
03/03/2009

AnonymousMar 03 2009 11:33am
Big Strong Women are hot but if Mikkaela has the will, I am sure She can have as many slaves as She wishes, irrespective of Her physical stature.

obedient husbandMar 06 2009 6:10pm
I love that I have gone from a big football player bf to a small skinny guy. He encourages me to go to the gym, lift weights and build muscle. I am 5'10'', 155 he is 5'8'', 145 and doesn't work out a bit. He is kind and gental loves being the weaker sex...his helplessness is a turn on to me and my strength is one for him, so role reversal! It's so nice not to have a 240 pound guy lay on me and try and control me. I am in control and all I have to do is flex and my arms have more horse power and he melts

i like itMay 08 2009 5:11am
"I like it" I like it

would love itMay 12 2009 7:54am
WOmen who want to be in control in a relationship generally go for smaller weaker men. But they dont know where to look, so they remain single Smaller weaker men who want to be loved and nurtured prefer bigger stronger women, but again they dont know where to look. Someone needs to get creative and start a singles club for those who prefer role reversals

AnonymousMay 20 2009 6:05am
Hey Venkat, did you find anyone

SandyMay 21 2009 12:17am
I am a spanked husband. My wife is 6'2" tall and weighs about 190 lbs., I am 5'10" and 165 lbs. and on our honeymoon she caught me on our balcony looking at the scantily clad ladies poolside while waiting for her to change into her swimsuit. She grabbed me by my ear and dragged me back into our room sat on our bed and in one quick motion pulled me down over her knee and my suit off at the same time and brought her hand down on my exposed bottom. As my spanking continued our door opened and in walked our housekeeper (a 60+ woman also tall 6'3") who stopped in her tracks taking in the sight before her. as I tried getting up my new wife held me down saying where do yo think you are going? I'm not done with you yet. Betty stood there smiling as my bare bottomed spanking went on I became even more embarrassed as I started begging Amanda to stop and I won't do that again and kicking my legs. Betty said sorry to intrude on you kids buy it seems like you have things well in hand honey your marriage should do well enjoy yourself dear as I can clearly see who will be wearing the pants and who won't be in your marriage.

markiee in VirginiaMay 21 2009 5:29am
I am a spanked husband. My wife is 6'2" tall and weighs about 190 lbs., I am 5'10" and 165 lbs. and on our honeymoon she caught me on our balcony looking at the scantily clad ladies poolside while waiting for her to change into her swimsuit. She grabbed me by my ear and dragged me back into our room sat on our bed and in one quick motion pulled me down over her knee and my suit off at the same time and brought her hand down on my exposed bottom. As my spanking continued our door opened and in walked our housekeeper (a 60+ woman also tall 6'3") who stopped in her tracks taking in the sight before her. as I tried getting up my new wife held me down saying where do yo think you are going? I'm not done with you yet. Betty stood there smiling as my bare bottomed spanking went on I became even more embarrassed as I started begging Amanda to stop and I won't do that again and kicking my legs. Betty said sorry to intrude on you kids buy it seems like you have things well in hand honey your marriage should do well enjoy yourself dear as I can clearly see who will be wearing the pants and who won't be in your marriage.

markiee in VirginiaMay 21 2009 5:34am
I am a spanked husband. My wife is 6'2" tall and weighs about 190 lbs., I am 5'10" and 165 lbs. and on our honeymoon she caught me on our balcony looking at the scantily clad ladies poolside while waiting for her to change into her swimsuit. She grabbed me by my ear and dragged me back into our room sat on our bed and in one quick motion pulled me down over her knee and my suit off at the same time and brought her hand down on my exposed bottom. As my spanking continued our door opened and in walked our housekeeper (a 60+ woman also tall 6'3") who stopped in her tracks taking in the sight before her. as I tried getting up my new wife held me down saying where do yo think you are going? I'm not done with you yet. Betty stood there smiling as my bare bottomed spanking went on I became even more embarrassed as I started begging Amanda to stop and I won't do that again and kicking my legs. Betty said sorry to intrude on you kids buy it seems like you have things well in hand honey your marriage should do well enjoy yourself dear as I can clearly see who will be wearing the pants and who won't be in your marriage.

markiee in VirginiaMay 21 2009 5:37am
I have a gf who is 6'4" and 220 lbs. She has massive thighs and biceps. Can lift me off the ground with one arm under my crotch.

twlMay 21 2009 6:14am
Big and strong, just like small and weak, is not determined by height. Height doesn't matter. I am a small, weak guy. In other words, I AM VERY SKINNY!!! But I am also VERY TALL!!! I am TALLER and LIGHTER than ALL of my big strong girlfriends. In fact, I am WAY TALLER and MUCH LIGHTER than ALL of my very short big strong girlfriends, one of whom actually grabbed me and lifted me over her head!!! Take it from a guy who knows: Small and weak does not always mean short just like big and strong does not always mean tall.

A guy who is TALL, SKINNY, SMALL AND WEAK!!!Jul 04 2009 2:36am
Women PREFER to be the stronger heavier partner, as long as her smaller male partner is secure with himself. Theres the fine line, most men would be insecure unless they were the stronger dominant partner.Women, first and foremost, want men who are secure with themselves. And thats why they end up choosing bigger males

AnonymousJul 22 2009 10:50am
I am 5ft3 and 125lbs and the lady in my life is 6 ft,im not sure what she weighs but I know I cant pick her up.She Is always in charge tottally in control,I do exactly as she ordesrs me to do.I am confidant with myself enough that I am happy belonging to her ,as she has made it quite clear I am her property.I do get spanked whenever I disobey her.I and She are both very happy together.

RamiroAug 03 2009 11:08am
i am 16 and im 5ft2 ive i still got a child sized body my sister is 15 and 5ft8 she is a lot stronger than me. she has a woman's body when we went shopping once a woman thought she was my mother

trayAug 29 2009 10:52pm
i am a small weak man 45 years old i married a large strong woman we have a 17 year old daughter who grew to be larger and stronger than her mother now they both boss me around if i dont do what i am told they kick my butt i am starting to get tired of this what should i do

battered husbandAug 31 2009 8:21am
get as far as you can from these women. You should never be with a person that beats you up, doesn't matter if you are a man or woman. There is always a risk for guys like us that like our women big and strong, some of them are sadistic bitches and they you're in trouble since the world really doesn't give a sh..it if you are an abused man. I talk from experience. I haven't got a clue why I like big, powerfully built women but I do. My first wife was from the start a great, big strong woman, an amazon. After about a year she started to show other sides of her personality. She started to threaten me when I didn't want to do things her way and one evening when I refused to do the dishes she hit me with a uppercut the floored me. She kicked me a few times and left me on the floor. When she noticed I was almost out she got regrets and carried me to bed and told me she was sorry. After a month more she slapped me really hard, she is 90 kgs and I am 64 so a slap with all those kgs behind her she once again floored me. She then lifted me up and kept on slapping me until I started to bleed. Again she was sorry but now I was really scared of this woman and wanted out. When I told her I was about to leave her she got extremely angry. I fled from the house to a friend. The day after I went back to the house when I thought she was at work. She waited for me, she was ice cold. She forced me to take my clothes off, no problem for her. She had a camera rigged in our bed room. She filmed us when she first was slapping me around, when she sat down on the bed and hauled me over her thighs and spanked me and when she at the end made me do things to her that I don't want to tell you. She then promised to have the film out on the internet if I left her. Luckily I went to the police and told them all about the abuse, and the police officer (a woman) actually belived me and they followed me home where they found the film that actually was used against my wife as evidence. She is now in prison but I fear for the day when she will be out. I am now living with a very nice (and rather big and strong9 woman.

victimSep 04 2009 5:00am
Your Wife's discipline may have been excessive but you disobeyed Her command to do the dishes. Certainly you deserved a painful beating on your bare behind. And of course if She married you She has the right to use you sexually in any way She wishes.

obedient husbandSep 06 2009 8:24pm
beatiful story! in january i will make a brief vacation in sweden because iknow i can meet some beatiful girls tall and strong.

italiaOct 03 2009 5:37pm
Battered husband, I would suggest talking first of all. Try to get them to imagine how you feel. But on the other hand, maybe you are annoying them in some way you are not aware of. What sort of things do they get you to do, and what are your respective sizes?

SteveOct 11 2009 12:45pm
Keep in mind a guy wants a big stronger woman for masochistic tendencies. But what's worse, a bigger stronger woman who chooses a smaller weaker man is done for sadistic reasons. At the minimum, she will get a sexual rush by dominating and physically hurting you in some way. So you will get far more than simple wrestling. But if you take obedient husbands advice and obey her, it might work...

AnonymousOct 17 2009 11:51am
Keep in mind a guy wants a big stronger woman for masochistic tendencies. But what's worse, a bigger stronger woman who chooses a smaller weaker man is done for sadistic reasons. At the minimum, she will get a sexual rush by dominating and physically hurting you in some way. So you will get far more than simple wrestling. But if you take obedient husbands advice and obey her, it might work...

AnonymousOct 17 2009 1:14pm
i`m 5ft-7ins and weigh 140lbs & a lady friend of mine who is much heavier & stronger than me,grabbed hold of me when i had annoyed her & she stripped me naked, she then threw me face down over the sofa arm and slapped my naked bottom with a table tenis bat with such force it made me cry

donOct 29 2009 12:26pm
I am a tall bony man (WITH A BONER!!!). A boner is what a tall bony man gets when a short stocky woman either outlifts him or lifts him over her head.

A tall bony man (WITH A BONER!!!)Nov 03 2009 3:01pm
I'm 5'5" and 115 pounds and I love having tall, attractive, athletic, amazon women that are over 6' tall and like 200 pounds sit on my lap... even if it means getting crushed and squashed totally flat! I love being their personal seat cushion... it's such a turn on! It's the absolute bestt when a fit, attractive, physically dominating woman sits on my lap, is totally happy with me being her personal seat cushion, and says to me slyly, "Gee... I hope I'm not too big for you... 'cause I'm very comfy sitting here on your lap... so I hope I'm not completely smashing you flat, but even if I am, I'm comfy and not getting up... sorry." Do any of the amazing women on this message board sit on their smaller men? Does it turn you on to be squashing them either by accident or on purpose? Do you not worry about it 'cause your first/only concern is being comfy? Are any of you awesome women interested in sitting my lap sometime and using me as your seat cushion and possibly flattening me like a pancake? Let me know! ;-)

One Comfy Lap For An AmazonNov 08 2009 3:19am
I'm 5'5" and 115 pounds and I love having tall, attractive, athletic, amazon women that are over 6' tall and like 200 pounds sit on my lap... even if it means getting crushed and squashed totally flat! I love being their personal seat cushion... it's such a turn on! It's the absolute bestt when a fit, attractive, physically dominating woman sits on my lap, is totally happy with me being her personal seat cushion, and says to me slyly, "Gee... I hope I'm not too big for you... 'cause I'm very comfy sitting here on your lap... so I hope I'm not completely smashing you flat, but even if I am, I'm comfy and not getting up... sorry." Do any of the amazing women on this message board sit on their smaller men? Does it turn you on to be squashing them either by accident or on purpose? Do you not worry about it 'cause your first/only concern is being comfy? Are any of you awesome women interested in sitting my lap sometime and using me as your seat cushion and possibly flattening me like a pancake? Let me know! ;-)

One Comfy Lap For An AmazonNov 08 2009 3:20am
I'm 5'5" and 115 pounds and I love having tall, attractive, athletic, amazon women that are over 6' tall and like 200 pounds sit on my lap... even if it means getting crushed and squashed totally flat! I love being their personal seat cushion... it's such a turn on! It's the absolute bestt when a fit, attractive, physically dominating woman sits on my lap, is totally happy with me being her personal seat cushion, and says to me slyly, "Gee... I hope I'm not too big for you... 'cause I'm very comfy sitting here on your lap... so I hope I'm not completely smashing you flat, but even if I am, I'm comfy and not getting up... sorry." Do any of the amazing women on this message board sit on their smaller men? Does it turn you on to be squashing them either by accident or on purpose? Do you not worry about it 'cause your first/only concern is being comfy? Are any of you awesome women interested in sitting my lap sometime and using me as your seat cushion and possibly flattening me like a pancake? Let me know! ;-)

One Comfy Lap For An AmazonNov 08 2009 3:20am
Oh and by the way, the tallest, most phyically perfect woman I have had the pleasure of being her personal seat cushion was 6'5" and 215 pounds (a full 12" taller than me and 100 pounds heavier than me). Whenever she'd sit on my lap for more than 10 minutes, she would almost have to peel me off the seat afterwards! She could envelop me and make me almost completely disappear! It was so amazing... and she loved it too! So any of you awesome ladies have simular stories or is interested in sitting on me sometime? ;-)

One Comfy Lap For An AmazonNov 08 2009 3:29am
Wife loaned me to a 6' 200 lb Woman one weekend who took me to a party and used me as both a seat cushion and a whipping boy.

obedient husbandNov 13 2009 5:17pm
I remember a great news story about a short, very stocky girl, something like 220lbs at about 5ft2, who had a shoplifting habit and had beaten the poo out of a 6 ft security guard. The guy had been in hospital for 3 months he was so badly damaged. She had been unarmed but incredibly powerful and had thrown him against the wall with sheer brute force. He was not a particularly small guy. And here he was being interviewed about it. He was terrified to go back to work in case she came back. She was also interviewed. She had a record of beating up security guards. She was only about 23 or 25 years old, and her tits and arms bulged in her sweater. By the time I finished watching this 4 or 5 minute piece on TV I had to rush to the bathroom and shoot my load!

I can't get enough of tough muscly bitches!Dec 22 2009 4:15pm
As women become more independent and liberated, you will see more couples where the woman is the bigger stronger partner. In fact when I was christmas shopping, I would say the woman was the taller, heavier partner in about 2 out of 10 couples. That was unheard of 20 yrs ago! And I THINK the day will come when a woman will be seeking out a small cute little guy as first choice as a mate.

AnonymousDec 27 2009 10:56am
12/28/09 I'm 48, 5'4', 175 lbs and I have always been attracted to much taller and stronger women. Although I am not dating anyone right now, I have dated women who were much taller and stronger, and we both enjoyed it very much. I am currently living in central Florida and would love to meet an amazon who enjoys being the physical stronger and larger partner in our relationship. Feel free to contact me at ricbbb@yahoo.com.

ricbbbDec 29 2009 6:48pm
Ricbbb you are short, but to be a small weak man you need to lose at the minimum 30 lbs

AnonymousDec 30 2009 10:42am
Anonymous, with all due respect, your opinion is simply that, you're opinion. As I mentioned, I have dated women who enjoyed me just the way I am and I am sure there are more women out there.

ricbbbDec 31 2009 10:21am
I have been married 6 years, and we have a marriage similar to those discussed here. My wife is a voluptuous full-figured woman, 5'11", 290lbs, with 58"-37"-64" measurements, 16" arms and 31" thighs. I am 5'2", 125lbs, with 32"-41"-33" measurements, 11"arms, and 19" legs. My wife does like to workout at our gym and she is naturally strong (she did shotput in track in high school and was good at basketball, softball, and volleyball). I am the total opposite, always been very weak and fragile, and have gotten fairly soft with no exercise and a bad sweet tooth (my body fat at 33% is higher than my wifes at 31% even thous she outweighs me by more than double - she carries her extra weight in her hips and thighs and I carry all mine in my waist). She is very strong in her lower body, and she can leg press 720 (8 45 lb weights on each side) 8 to 10 times or add me to the weight and do the 850lb 2 or 3 times. I can only do 190lb (4 45lb weights) 4 or 5 times, so my wife is about 4 times my strength. We like to wrestle sometimes before lovemaking, as it is a turn on to us both how easily she can over power me, pin me and hold me down completely helpless. She is very loving and nurturing and has never hurt me or threatened to hurt me. She has protected me though, laying out a drunk guy at a bar when she found him pushing me around and making fun of me when she met me there.

WayneJan 18 2010 11:46am
By the way, there is a british web site called Petticoated at www.petticoated.com that exists for men and women in female dominated homes can write in with their experiences. Some of these articles in the magazine are very interesting, some women appear to want to dominate their men in a loving way, but some in a domineering fashion that often gains control of the husband by humiliating him in front of others. The impression I get is that some men may like this, at least at first, while others may find things have gone a little far, and they have become little more than children in their household, giving up all control to their domineering wives.

WayneJan 18 2010 11:53am
I'm 5'9 and 280lbs and I just started seeing a man that is 5' and about 85 lbs we haven't seen eah other since high school so I am really scared since I gained so much weight. We get along great and he keeps me in my place but I can tell in his last realatinship he took a more sumissive role and would in our relationship too. I go to see him next weekend for the first time in 10 yrs and I am scared my weight is considerable the height difference doesn't bother me me at al1 and he claims it doesn't matter to him. Do these types of relationships work out? We click together in every way but I am not certain of the physical.

ExtremeDifferenceMar 07 2010 7:57am
Never get drunk and crush him by misstake Extreme Difference. But if you like each other - go for it!

AnonymousMar 07 2010 11:17pm
I am a tall, strong woman at 8 feet 320 pounds and my husband is a spineless twig of a man. It is sometimes difficult when he eats me out and his head gets stuck inside me.

HELENAMar 27 2010 11:49pm
HELENA, have you forgottehn him inside you and remembered to remove him when you came to work?

AnonymousApr 12 2010 11:39am
Hi I'm a 5 foot 100 pound sumissive to my amazon 6 foot 6 inch 250 pound amazon wife. She works outside the home while I stay home and plays house husband. I promised that I would love, honor, and obey. If I don't obey she spanks me good, followed by the best sex in my life. I love it and my love for her continues. Married to my amazon wife is great

BobApr 13 2010 10:42pm
Bob, is your wife pretty loving to you? Does she give you the normal love and nurture which mark a woman?

IndonymousApr 26 2010 9:37am
Most of the comments here looks funny and seems someone is writing abt theur own fantasy..the truth is 80 % WOMEN refer taller and stringer men

AgJun 13 2010 12:29am
80% "REFER taller and STRINGER men?" Your grade school teacher, probably a Woman, should have whipped your butt with a ruler after She saw your spelling test.

obedient husbandJun 13 2010 3:41pm
That just goes to show ya...any freak of a woman can get laid.

Reality is rare these daysJul 22 2010 11:43am
Ag, still there is that 20%. That 20 percent are big strong women. And big strong women do prefer smaller weaker men. Meaning men who are smaller and weaker than the average male

AnonymousAug 10 2010 11:41am
Get a tape measure. measure their forearms, upper arms, legs and torso. If they stretch the tape measure a little more in those areas, they are stronger

no rocket scienceAug 30 2010 7:14am
I'm a smaller man 5ft 5in. I'm very attracted to big tall strong women. I would love to meet and have a relationship with a big tall strong woman. Are there web sites that are for this type of meeting?

realmark211@yahoo.comSep 09 2010 10:23pm
I'm a smaller guy 5ft 5in. I'm very attracted to big tall strong women.where can I meet this type of woman? Any web sites?

realmark211@yahoo.comSep 11 2010 12:50pm
I'm a smaller guy 5ft 5in. I'm very attracted to big tall strong women.where can I meet this type of woman? Any web sites?

realmark211@yahoo.comSep 11 2010 12:52pm
I am BBW as they say, 5'11 and 250 lbs. I am over weight, yes, but I have a rather nice figure, wide shoulders, big boobs, big but rather firm upper arms, a rather narrow waist for a big girl like me, wide hips, big thighs and calves. And I am very strong, I have been working out all my life to avoid gettin bigger, it is a struggle but I am OK with my size right now. And I fancy smaller men, not too hard to find since I am taller than the average man and a lot heavier, and I would say also stronger. My ideal man is perhaps half my weight and 5 inches shorter. Sounds strange but it has always been like that. I am a big sister that had to take care of my two smaller brothers when our mom was working. I became their extra mother and I liked it. My first boyfriend was a small guy, he was 18 and I was 15 but it was a role reversal since I was so much bigger than him so I was the dominant part in that relationship. We were together for almost 10 years. After a couple of small guys I am now married to a lovely little man. 5'5 and 128 lbs. The perfect match.

BBWSep 28 2010 11:59pm
Wauu! I'm quite surprised to find out that there are so many women out there who actually like petite men (below 5foot6). I met in my life a few of them but they were afraid to show it and afraid that I might not like them (cause of their size) and they never tried anything of a romantic/sensual nature. However, the truth is, I have a weekness for tall and athletic women :P That's right, even if I like women of all sizes, I feel this instant attraction towards taller women (not gigantic, but just taller, like from 5.7 to 6.2). If any of you amazonic ladies want to know me, contact me at: shortman700@yahoo.com

ShortyOct 09 2010 5:35pm
I once dated a man from India who to my supprise was much weaker physically to me.I will admit I had about 40 lbs on him and my bones are much thicker than his.I was about the same height at 5ft6 and 175lbs but he was much skinner at 135 lbs.I played college varsity soccer at the division 1 level so my legs were always exceptionally strong. I was always an Irish tomboy type but I never thought it would be so easily to totally overpower an audult male of the opposite sex so easily until we wresled each other a few times.He assumed he was going to be stronger than me but I just overpowered him with my leg scissors and I literally could knock the wind out of him.It was so one sided I think I could have killed him if I wanted to. I must say it felt really good and sexually gratifying knowing I could dominate so easily physically.I do believe in certain cultures the men are very weak especially Indian men which has me thinking.If you would take an above average women in athletic ability from Jamaca or Norway and match them up against an average man from India I thing the women would win in a wrestling match.

ErinOct 25 2010 11:22am
Used to date the big guys, bigger than me and most of the time stronger. It all stopped when I was with a big hunk of a man, that hit me hard. I was weaker than him but hit him back as hard as I could, so he actually went down to my surprise. Well I am not a small lady, 6 feet and about 190 lbs but this guy was 6'4 and 230-240 lbs. He was furious and beat me up badly. I of course left the bastard and promised to never be with a man again that I couldn't deal with physically. I found out that many small men were fantastic. Considerate, loving and funny, it seems that their lack of size had developed other sides. I got a kick out of being bigger and stronger and often wrestled these guys down to show them who was boss. Some hated that and left me, some loved it a bit too much and wanted me to make them my slaves and some just took it natural, being smaller than me would also make them weaker. At last I found the perfect man for me. 5'8 and slim. It is often the complete role reversal with us. I feel big and protective, I help him out with things he cannot carry, he sleeps in my arms, I sometimes carry him in my arms etc. And we both love it. To Erin I can say that a big woman from the countries you mention would whip the floor with smaller men. Many women don't realize they are a lot stronger then some men, and most men most of the time think they are stronger than most women. Well, that is not the case.

SofieNov 15 2010 11:25pm
My wife's best friend is 6'2 and 225 lbs, very fit and very very strong. Her husband is about the same size as me, 5'9 and perhaps 145-150 lbs. We are very close and often play games, I have armwrestled this big lady for fun and didn't have a chance. She one day last summer got the idea that she could win over me and her husband in a wrestling match. We were on, we should be able to take this big lady down together. We agreed that I should attack her head and neack in an attempt to secure a head lock while he should try to trip her, then we should pin her together, he would take care of her legs and I her upper body. Well, things didn't really work according to our plan. I had a grip on her neck but she stood errect with me hanging from her neck at the same time her husband suddenly was trapped between his wife's thighs in a standing head scissors. She just sat down with her husband still stuck between her huge thighs and then she started to loosen up my grip, and soon had me in a headlock. Her next move was to keep me with one arm in a strong head lock that i couldn't get out of and then secure a head scissors on her husband, she lay down with me under her upper body, my head still in her grip and then started to squeeze us both. We almost gave up at the same time. My wife was screaming with delight, she loved the way this big woman handled us two men. We had expected to win this but we weren't even close. My wife then continued the humiliation later winning for the first time over me when we armwrestled. I was probably weak from the "wrestling match".

ONov 24 2010 6:28am
How about a tall stocky man against a short thin woman? Here is my story and I am 6'4" 220 lbs. I love the hard bodies like my wife. 5'6" 140 lbs. Runs 30 miles a week, lifts weights 3 X a week. (benches reps at 150 lbs) and can do 50 pull ups. She has a six pack stomach and is visually muscular. I am 6'4" and 220 lbs and in pretty good shape but nothing like her. Her stamina leads to wins always in the final 40 minutes of our hour wrestling foreplay. Here is what happened last week. I experienced a hold which I have never seen discussed on any forum I have ever been on and it was inescapable. My wife and I were wrestling and I had her in a pretty good position moving toward a submission. She was on her back and I was across her torso at a right angle with my back to her chest. I had a hold of one of her legs and was going for a headlock for a reverse body pin. She quickly pulled her head away and wrapped her right arm over the top of my right arm and back under my back. She then Scissored my left arm in a figure four tight tro my shoulder and pulled both arms down to the floor. She was on her back with total control of both if my arms with my back across her torso. I could not move. To sit up I would have to bring her entire weight with me. I could not roll out as she controlled both of my arms out to the sides of my body. Her left arm was free and she started to play with my nipples which she knows I like. She then said I know you like that but how do you like this. She threw her pelvis up and pulled down with her legs and her right arm. I was stretched so far I had to tap immediately. She of course did not release me for several more minutes and several submissions. She also made me beg to let me go. It was a completely dominating hold. Congrats to my wife for teaching an old diog a new trick

MikeDec 09 2010 10:44pm
Some of the women on this thread don't seem right in the head. I'd steer clear of them if I were a small guy. It's your life little guys, just be careful with it.

Big JimJan 01 2011 2:06am
"Many women don't realize they are a lot stronger then some men, and most men most of the time think they are stronger than most women. Well, that is not the case." Unfortunately, you don't know what you're talking about. From your point of view, you might think that is the case but the average man, all things being equal, is stronger than the average woman. Of course, you get a small percentage at the tail ends of the distribution that make it seem, for some, not to be the case.

Big Jim AgainJan 01 2011 2:11am
"Many women don't realize they are a lot stronger then some men, and most men most of the time think they are stronger than most women. Well, that is not the case." Unfortunately, you don't know what you're talking about. From your point of view, you might think that is the case but the average man, all things being equal, is stronger than the average woman. Of course, you get a small percentage at the tail ends of the distribution that make it seem, for some, not to be the case.

Big Jim AgainJan 01 2011 2:57am
We are talking about men here who are less than 1% of the male population. I believe you are sincere and feel sorry for you, but you are not rep of the male pop as a whole. My wife is in hysterics at some of these womens comments -- and she is twice the size of the GaryCa. So my advice to you guys, watch your back!!

AnonymousJan 02 2011 3:25am
men are bigger = stronger some men are smaller = probably weaker some men are the same size = probably weaker since it is proven that female muscles are of better quality and have more endurance. One true story from life. We had an armwrestling tournament during a 3 day conference where women and men met. Places 1-3 were men but 4th came a woman, places 7 and 8 were women as well as nr 10. 4 women out of the 10 best were women! The trend where I am working is that 75% of the women work out more than once a week, 65% work out more than twice a week. They all work out at gyms. 55% of the men work out more than once a week in a gym, 32% work out more than twice a week. 45% of the men play golf and 56% jogg regularely. So even if the women in general are smaller they work out more and women today work out a lot harder than they used to. I am a jogger and tennis player. I lost to 9 of the 36 women over that conference weekend, and won only 8 matches against women and lost the same amount of matches to men. We didn't have time to have a match against everybody so it was a qualifying type of tournament. I have to say I was surprised about the outcome. I am not a big strong man but in decent shape. I met 2 of the ladies that came top 10 and lost big time, outclassed is more the term. We all got an introduction to armwrestling before the tournament started. It was funny to see how the respect for our women at work changed, when several men knew they were physically weaker than some ore many of the women. And the women seemed to be as surprised as us men. I win over my wife when we armwrestle, rather easy with my left arm but I have to fight like hell with my right. I always loose big time to my sister-in-law, she is very athletic and strong from years of track and field and weight lifting.

AnonymousFeb 03 2011 6:14am
Bigger woman think of your hubby as your baby carry him around ,mother him cradle him as his mother ,his loving mother not dominatrix ,let him reciprocate love both of u to each other ---Big strong loving mother to naughty mischeivous son who wants love & cuddling ,cradle carrying ,being nursed ,drink milk from mummy's big breast !!! show mummy enormous boner ! kiss mummy ,kiss sonny love love love !

Ashesh GhoseFeb 09 2011 2:43pm
LOL I am 5'4 and I weigh 100 lbs is this normal? (I'm 16)

The Other GuyMar 01 2011 5:33pm
LOL I am 5'4 and I weigh 100 lbs is this normal? (I'm 16)

The Other GuyMar 01 2011 5:34pm
true story im a male 5ft 4 115lbs i dont like it at it makes me insecure and shy i havent but before this story i havent been with a girl since 18 where the girl was 2 inches smaller a 10lbs lighter but about a yr ago i was out and to my surprise a pretty big girl liked me i was out at a lounge n she came up to me and started talking to me she was 5ft 11 190lbs curvy thick and i was so stunned that she liked me that before you know it being that i havent been with a girl in so long i went along with it we exchange numbers she called me a couple days later we started dating and i fell in love with her i was imbarressed the size difference but i really loved her she is a very dominat insercure controlling and jealous girl. even during sex she has to be so controlling and dominant and during sex she just humiliates me and overpowers me. she always has to throw it in my face that im small puny and that she can kick my ass. she loves to show her strength against me by pusing me around picking me up and humilating me. she makes me feel more inscure. she can do whatever she wants she can go out and hangout with whoever come home whenever and i cant do anything at all or she yells n hits me and threating to leave me. to be honest she is much stronger then me i am scared of her and of her leaving me i love her very much. she is so jealous that on time a sales lady called one time and she didnt like the way i talked to her on the phone she thought i was flirting that she ripped the phone out of my hands broke it and pressed me up against the wall hard ripped my shirt in half punched me in the stomach slapped me several times in the face and choked me she beat me up so bad that i peed my pants. its to the point where she took total control she takes advantage and i dont know what to do i even caught her cheating and having sex with a much bigger and stronger man but i didnt do anything because i was scared of the guy and her i just really love her but can somene on here give me advice on how i can fix this or what i can do so she treat me right and we can have a normal relationship.

anonymousApr 10 2011 5:58am
im very attracted to big tall strong women. i would only love to bring pleasure her and make her feel good every waking moment. i would love to meet her. are you out there?

LMRApr 11 2011 1:18am
its LMR again, by the way im a smaller guy(im 5ft 5in).

LMRApr 11 2011 1:25am
anonymous ,just leave her go to apolice station ,file a complaint & make a notarized affadavit in front of a magistrate ---court will pass arestraining order & she will be jailed for stalking if she comes within 100 ft. of your residence

Ashesh GhoseApr 15 2011 10:00am
i dont want to leave her i really love her the sex is great n i dont know if ill get another girl and if i ever did she would really humilate me n have sex with everyone i know she threating to leave me if i give her a hard time if she wants to sleep with someone else so i let her and she does it in front of me and she humilates me infront of the other guy i just want her to love me more wat can i do to change her witout leaving her

anonymousApr 15 2011 1:46pm
Anonymous there's a "battered baby" syndrome or a Stockholm Syndrome where victims fall in love with their abusers ---you seem to be a prime example ---really no help for it She's lost all respect for you she will continue to disrespect ,cuckold & abuse you & you probably grow hard @ the thought of this daily abuse ---both of you need serious counselling boy !

Ashesh GhoseApr 19 2011 12:32pm
I am used to being with very strong willed brazen men (thug types) who have been there to protect me in times of crisis situations or at the very least, put out the vibe that they arent to be reckoned with. The problem with those men was that on the one hand they were protective of me as long as I wasnt on the receiving end of their jealousy or wrath. Recently, I fell in love with a small man. Although he is a nice guy, he isnt able to protect me which is a turn off. I found myself in the midst of trouble (I dont live in the best neighborhood and cant afford to move to a better location. Hence, I got robbed) and he was quick to dart and protect himself leaving me feeling that he was a wimp and didnt care for my personal safety. He had a lot of "words of wisdom" to offer after the fact but that was about it. I look at him differently now as someone who really doesnt or cant have my back. Although the sex is great, that's about it.

Thugs-4-MeApr 21 2011 9:16am
To all the comments about a woman being physically stronger than even a small man.... I DISAGREE COMPLETELY. EVEN A 12 YR OLD BOY WILL COMPLETELY OVER POWER A LARGE WOMAN WITH HIS STRENGTH. IT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR A WOMAN TO BE STRONGER THAN EVEN THE SMALLEST MAN... OR EVEN A YOUNG BOY. A woman may be able to get in a punch in the face or two even kicks but when he has had enough and pins you to the ground, whoa to you!

FEMALE: 5'5" 253.5 LBSApr 21 2011 9:25am
size means everything..a larger woman can easily over power a small guy.

AnonymousApr 22 2011 8:04am
anonymous. I knew a guy 5`2 110 lbs. He dated a 5`9 200 lb woman. She was very jealous any time he talked to any woman. One day though, he caught her with a 6`4 220 lb man.According to the police report, she dragged him into the basement and beat him to death.. She has been released from jail after 8 yrs, and he is still deceased :(

.Apr 25 2011 9:23am
I still remember the night of our marriage. Carrying my puny little husband across the threshold was the highlight of the whole day!!

Tall TinaMay 11 2011 2:09pm
I would seriously like to know where exactly in the world are these tall girls who like short guys? Where, when and how can I connect with you ladies? Not to disrespect anyone, but these super tall girls posting here prefering and dating much smaller guys sound way too unbelievable to be true. Modern women still have no use for short guys and I'm having a hard time accepting the posts from this forum as truths. I encourage you ladies to respond and tell me I'm wrong in between the usual trolls looking for kicks. I've always dreamed of dating a tall, busty, curvy, leggy woman, but I've never met one. I've never even had the privilege of meeting an amazing physical specimen of a woman like any of the ladies posting here. Tall and voluptuous is a rare combination. It's even more rare if she's beyond 6'0 and has some weight, curves and muscles. I'm a short guy at 5'5, but I'm not a weakling. I'm a semi-fit 190 lbs, can still benchpress more than my own weight and squat 500+ lbs. Ladies, does this make me less attractive in your eyes because I'm not a weakling? A lot of the ladies here seem to favour the smaller, skinnier weak type guys. Do any of you ladies like short guys that have some muscles and are in decent shape? I would like to know. Thank you to those shorter men and taller women couples who are proudly making a difference. Keep it up!

JacksonMay 27 2011 2:24pm
One more thing, I'd like to respond to the above female who posted about 12 year old boys being able to overpower a large woman. Tell that to any of the former American Gladiator ladies and some of the current ones. If I was a 12 year old boy, I wouldn't dare mess with Zap(Ray Hollitt), Ice(Lori Fetrick) or Shannon Hall(Dallas). Not to say I wouldn't mess with them now LOL. Gabriella Reece could kick the crap out of a lot of normal sized men. Not too many young guys would mess with Lucia Rijker or Layla Ali either. One more thing, one of the best ladies I've ever met was a 5'9 nurse at least 170 lbs who had no problems lifting me into my bed and the bathtub during an extended hospital stay. There are reasons why many nurses and therapists keep fit by lifting weights and exercising on their off days. They are the ones lifting and transferring patients from place to place and bed to bed. Peace to all.

JacksonMay 27 2011 3:01pm
To the puny guy who gets beaten up by his much larger cuckolding girlfriend. You want to fix things? Go to a psychiatrist and LEAVE her.

Why are there so many idiots in this world?Jun 12 2011 1:34am
To the puny guy who gets beaten up by his much larger cuckolding girlfriend. You want to fix things? Go to a psychiatrist and LEAVE her.

Why are there so many idiots in this world?Jun 12 2011 7:20am
I had an uplifting experience few years ago when i met a girl who was working with my wife. With my 5f6 and my 135 pounds, we were same height and weight. My wife told me that her friend could lift any guy at her job. I made a bet with the girl she couldn't lift me. We became friends and one day at my home, the girl told me she was ready to take the bet. It begins in my room when she bent down and lifted me across her shoulders like a puppet. Se carried me away in the appartment, made some squats and then return in my room. Before she putted me down, my c*ck was very hard and i was nearly to cum in my pants. She looked at me knowing that. Now i'm near 200 pounds, and i can take a bet with any girl here that i'm too heavy to be carried like that. If any woman here think she could lift and carry me, please make a post. I live in Canada and would enjoy have another uplifting experience and be dominate by taller women.

James from montrealJun 19 2011 10:09am
Wow

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MMSep 13 2011 4:09am
My girlfriend likes to pick me up and throw me around the house but its all in good fun, then she takes out her dildo and plays with my butt i love it

steveOct 02 2011 6:16pm
I wished I was 5ft1 instead of 6ft1.Then I would have to look up at all women and teen girls,even younger girls(13/14) would be much taller.(In Holland that is)

GethewilOct 05 2011 9:55am
It depends on how small.If his crown of his head only goes to my eye balls, that would be a stretch. Im ok being of equal strength or slightly more, but I don`t want to feel like I could kill him everytime I touched him....

DanaNov 15 2011 9:53am
Im 5'7'' 135 lbs. I was literally hoisted, lifted and carried by a big, strong, tall dominant woman once. She was 6'2'' about 255 lbs. She had absolutly no trouble at all whats so ever in doing it. There she stood in a one piece full bodied black bathingsuit with mint colored flower patterns on it and sandles. She took me under my arms and put her strong left leg up to her thigh between mine. Taking me under my arms and lifted me up real quickly using her thigh to push and lift me up to her waist. So fast that she knew my legs would spread open apart by the force alone. She placed me on her hips as my legs fell and wrapped around her waist automaticly. She then moved me to the side over her left hip and held me there with her left arm around me. I felt the fingers of her strong big hand digging into the right side of my waist. As she began to walk around I felt every movement of her big hip swaying with me as her strong arm held me in place against her. When I tried to slide down to get off. She stopped and began to laugh saying very ternly. "WHERE THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOUR GOING LITTLE MAN!" As she began to shake me on her hip with her arm and spanking me on the side of my right thigh with her other big hand. And began to take and carry me inside her house. I felt every step she took with me. So let me write this... That its easy to say no woman is ever able, capable, strong enough or big enough of taking, lifting, carrying, controling and dominating a man. When your being held on a big and strong womans hip feeling her big strong arm locked around you. Holding you in place with no effort at all. As shes litrally shaking you around like a rag doll with both her arms and hip. You quickly and literally become very weak, limp, unable to move just trying to slide off to no avail. To the very point of fainting and, alomost passing out. When your breath is shakin and taking out of you. I assure you, you will find it very difficult to breathe again normally. Knowing every time you tried to slide down, you felt one strong arm holding you and another spanking you. You stop moving because you cant anymore. And shes rocking you back and fourth with her hands locked together behind you. As you feel every powerful sway of her hip moving you helplessly. Sitting in place there unable to move with your head resting on her shoulder. Knowing she fully realizes whats shes doing to you and the effect its having on you. Her absolute dominant, physical, and psychological control over you. You start to wonder? To think? As your held in place weak and helpless. How did I get into this so easily? So quickly? That I never saw it coming ... So yes its very easy to say or write " NO WOMAN CAN EVER DO THAT! NOT TO ANY MAN! ESPECIALLY NOT TO ME! AND EVEN IF IT DID, I COULD STILL EASILY BREAK OUT OF IT!" Well things are easyer said (written) then done when its you who actually goes through it. To see it happen on a video or picture is not and will never be the same as having lived and experienced it. One friend I know saw such a video with a tall strong woman lifting and craddle carring a male. Shaking him vigorously in her arms into weak unable to move total submission. Thinking " OH! THATS IMPOSSIBLE! HES NOT EVEN REALLY TRYING TO GET AWAY! " Trust me HE IS! Until you feel the total weakness and submission that comes over you from being taken and held, carried like that by a big strong woman. You have absolutly no idea what your talking about. No idea what happens to you when you know the woman is literally doing it because shes very and fully aware of what its doing to you. When your being taken, held and carried that way unable to catch your breath, find the strength simplpy to move in her arms. All you can do is stare helplessly unable to move or breathe. Looking for someone, anyone who may be around to help you, to stop you as shes carrying you away into her house and bedroom. Knowing shes so big and strong no one is going to stop her anyway. Because of how big she is no one except a cop would even dare try to confront a big, determined, strong powerful woman! And yes this did happen to me years ago. And no I dont know what happend to her. All I said to her was " Nice bathing suit, I like the flowers" As I was walking past her yard in the alley. She was in a lawn chair reclining in her yard reading a magazine and a cold drink. She asked me if I wanted a drink as she stood up spreading her big legs and thighs to the sides of the chair barely holding her weight and size. I said " Yes, sure, why not?" As she walked towards me saying " Oh your a nice little one arent you." I just thought, "Huh?" As she walked past me to lock the wooden fence gate behind me. Next thing I knew she was carrying me into her house, then bedroom. So please dont tell me it could never happen.

domme_me_s_ticated@yahooNov 25 2011 11:59am
I'm a 6 foot 180 pound male with a nice body. The most enjoyable love making I've experienced has always been with a woman my height or taller. I have never met a woman stronger than me. As for the small weak men mentioned here- I greatly envy them! When ever I see a tall beautiful with a small cute and slightly fem guy ( typically she's 5'11" and he's 5') I feel a rush of excitement imagining them as lovers.

AudreApr 07 2012 11:43pm
Hi I am a 25 year old guy and I stand 4 feet 4 inches tall barefoot but I wear boots with 3 inch heels to be taller but I think I'm the shortest guy here yea know

2shortMay 03 2012 8:18am
I have always been attracted to stronger women. So sexy and confident. I am a professional, nice guy and single. would love to meet, chat and hopefully be with a stronger woman or a woman who would like a guy to encourage her to build muscle and power. If this is you, email me. really_4@yahoo.com

Chris PMay 13 2012 7:56pm
my wife and I are about the same size, 5'7" and 140 lbs. She has broader shoulders and likes to lift weights. She likes me to be slim and fit, so I cycle and to a lot of cardio. She is way stronger than I am, and we both like it that way.

jamboMay 26 2012 2:09pm
I have read so many messages here,and have always craved to be witha really big,thich,strong and dominant woman,who could do as she pleased.But really do not know where I could find them.I am an attractive,sweet,skinny and delicate man,and have always wanted to find a woman who naturally enjoys such men.But do not know where to find them.If someone has any information,or if you are a big,strong and dominant woman,that likes attractive,skinny and slavish men,who are well educated,but completely slavish inside,please email me at prince_slave6@yahoo.com.I can relocate,can even get married to the right person.

attractiveslaveJun 11 2012 12:09pm
Victim i do give a sh..t. And im sorry you had to put up with a Bitch like her! There is such a term as High Functioning Mentally ill. Please dont listen to these fools either victim. I am glad you got justice though it is so rare when it is reversed. Obedient husband you are a hypocrite! As an attorney at law you know that domestic violence is illegal DUH!!! I love BIG STRONG WOMEN TOO nice ones that is.

Brian in oceanside ca.Jul 17 2012 8:38pm
I know of no women who like shorter men. I wish it were different, but if you ask a women what is one of the most important attributes in a guy its he must be taller the her. I don;t think I have ever run across a couple where the man was shorter.

glove mtallJul 24 2012 11:47am
This big huge east European girl had kept her skinny underweight brother on the park seat & had gone to get cold drinks --a bunch of bullygirls turned up caught the poor wimp by his collar & started kickin' his balls ! He hollered " Leilaaaah " She bounded back i record time & literally swept the floor with those bullies !! Kicks , fists , blows , hair pullin' they were no match for her two passed out & 3 fled ! She had'nt heard of Sisterhood with white trashy skanks , obviously as she tenderly held her kid brother & nursed him !!

AGSep 08 2012 6:00am
i m small man my name is ramesh i m 5'2 and 54 kg i m from india i come to sebrai for to maake brige project since dated many girl in india and i was plaay boy here but in russia i see most woman taller than me i say i want too date a woman to my freind he say ok so i contacted a woman o orkut she as ready for date she call me at her home and i go i ring the bell she come say you are ramesh i never see such a woman in my life she was more than 6 feet and 100kg i say you are blythe i come inside her house she say you are india i say yes we talk long time then i ask hw much you are tall she say with little smile i m 6'5 and 172 kg and she ask my i tell i m 5'2 and 54kg she laugh i can understand i tell how much big you are and storng she tell she like man like mee i say can i lift you she laugh and tell you can't little man i say i will try se say ok i started lifting but cant lift her i try for 2 min i get tierd i asked her meaurment she tell 60',50',78 and my biceps 28'and thighs 50' i say your biceps is more than my waist i tell my meauserement chest 28' waist 26;,thigh is 17' and biceps is 8' she laugh and tell you are kid compare of mee i say no se say push me i try to push her but i cant push her a inch she say u are kid then she lift me and kiss me on my forehaed and say let go ,she take in her bed room she started undress me i refuse then she slap me i fall on bed and started crying she mouth her big hand on my mouth and undress my make me hard and could not move due to her weight than i sleep and i wook i was under her hand rounded with body i try to out but i can't she wook and smile you are my little boyfreind i will never laeave she make the vedio of beating and say i will post on youtube if you will not marry me i marry to her she rape me evey day she is nice but she get angered no one help me one day i beat her 4-5 paunch and kick and she only laugh say my little one you want beating she spanked me and she say you r mine

rameshFeb 11 2013 2:20am
I love tall girls and strong! unfortunately in my small town there are these girls! I am very small and weak .... I'm 166 cm (5.5) and weight only 55 kg (121 pounds)! I would love to be carried and lifted by a big strong girl! my mail is michelemickfrix@gmail.com

mick73Feb 12 2013 3:01pm
i am blythe ramesh wife i just check his lappy to disclose our relationship on public poolhe will suffer and he might be cry today

ramesh wifeFeb 13 2013 8:49am
5'2'' and 54 kg Indian Ramesh, Regardless of how 'exact' is your story with a 6'5'' and 172 kg Siberian Blythe, with such sharply differentiated measurements she can literally fold your body into a "Z" position, and conceal you completely inside her 50' humongous thighs.

Preferer_of_300_poundersAug 03 2013 11:03am
Are there any men out there who are interested in getting to know a 5'6" 265 lb. woman?

bamamomAug 17 2013 5:46pm
My boyfriend is a three feet shorter than me. I like to physically control him during sex. It makes me feel like a powerful giantess who shrinks her man to make him her plaything. He does as he's told or else and his mouth is right where I need it.

HeidiSep 16 2013 5:34am
My boyfriend is a three feet shorter than me. I like to physically control him during sex. It makes me feel like a powerful giantess who shrinks her man to make him her plaything. He does as he's told or else and his mouth is right where I need it.

HeidiSep 16 2013 5:37am
Bamamom, if I were not already property I would be. Several years ago Wife loaned me out to a 5'7" 250 lb. Businesswoman. I was well used. By the end of the evening my tongue and my behind were quite sore.

obedient husbandSep 16 2013 5:35pm
I'm enjoying reading this thread. I'm a smaller (5'7 65kg - whatever that is in pounds) and have struggled as the seemingly majority of girls like the big, tall macho men. I can't blame as it makes sense from an evolutionary point, but it's pretty disheartening. While I'm in my early 30s, I've just about resigned myself to a life alone (not in a self-pitying way, but trying to be realistic). Like most smaller guys, I'm sensitive, have average intelligence and have a good heart (I value loyalty to those I care about, like to help those in need etc etc). While I find it very easy to be friends with women (I used to live with two women and my current job has a lot of women, so I'm not one of those losers who are scared of women), but I've struggle with anything beyond that. Most of the women I've dated have been long-distance (all talk no action) or unavailable. I do have a thing for larger girls: at first I though I was being creepy, but now I'm starting to realise it's a natural thing among smaller guys, as most skinny girls avoid us for Chad McDouchebag. There's something alluring about a bigger girl: they're friendlier and often prettier than their skinny counterparts (and their big lips, big boobs, big butt is a nice bonus lol). I like the idea of a bigger woman who can take care of me, so I can relax, be myself and if I treat her right, I don't have to worry about losing her to a physically superior man. Anyway, that's my little rant.

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iWFDZFGubAuQrSIPvQqNov 20 2013 9:57pm
OK, There is a problem I am seeing here. I like strong women, mental and physically. The problem is that men by nature are the strongest gender. So, I am 178 cm 82 kg( 5' 10" 180 pounds if you prefer imperial) How do I find stronger woman than me by pure physic?

S. TomovDec 22 2013 10:07pm
The one reason women going to date smaller men is because they can then be the dominant partner.

hymatDec 27 2013 2:08pm
my girlfriend Is 6'0 190 lbs and I'm 5'7 150 she often wears platform heels making her nearly a foot taller. she does this because she loved being the bigger stronger one in the rrelationship.

adamJan 18 7:17am
I am 5'6" 130 lbs And women I'm attracted to are not attracted to me because I'm smaller. what can I do?

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