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For sure, women have much more stamina in this area. Men climax quickly and then drift off to sleep, while women can experience several orgasms. This is a clear indication of the superiority of females.
Who could believe that Women are not superior in this area, too? Looks like everybody agree that They are superior without any question!
Nick NJul 13 2009 2:39am
I'm unsure about women being superior sexual organisms, but considering what they have to endure 9 months later, they deserve to enjoy sex more for longer.
an intelligent life formJul 13 2009 10:24am
Although I do not believe that women are superior to men biologically, I am a guy (A REAL LIVE WIRE!!!) who does admit that women have the definite advantage sexually because only women (and girls, of course) possess THE CLITORIS which happens to be the only organ whose sole function is sexual pleasure. The clitoris is indeed one of nature's wonders!!! A man's penis is highly sensitive erotically but a woman's clitoris is far more sensitive erotically with far more nerve endings; hence more pleasure for the ladies (THOSE LUCKY STIFFS!!!). Although I have never experienced a woman's high level of sexual pleasure myself (simply because I am not a woman which means I do not have a clitoris), when a man goes down on a woman's clitoris, SHE LOSES ALL CONTROL and SHE GOES COMPLETELY OUT OF HER MIND!!! I have gone down on many a woman's clitoris so I know this. Any guy (or lady, for that matter) who has gone down on a woman's clitoris knows exactly what I am pointing out here!!!
A guy WHO JUST LOVES THE CLITORIS!!!Jul 13 2009 11:45am
It's not even close. Women's orgasms are like tidal waves. The male orgasm is a merely a toy squirt gun by comparison.
AnonymousJul 15 2009 5:23pm
Women's orgasms are like tidal waves because women's orgasms are CLITORAL. Never underestimate THE POWER OF THE CLITORIS!!!
A guy WHO JUST LOVES THE CLITORIS!!!Jul 16 2009 2:34am
Toy squirt gun, that is at its best. My hubby when he can usually dribbles out. A males penis at organism is something to be hummored.
BethJul 16 2009 4:50pm
When comparing male and Female sexual organs, keep in mind that the clitoris can be as large as a penis, though most of it is internal, and it is many times more sensitive than the penis - and gives Women multiple orgasms..... but also the vagina is not merely a 'hole', but it is a muscular organ which is larger and much stronger than the penis. The vagina is muscle - the penis is basically a bit of 'pumped up' flesh. In fact the vagina can actually be strong enough to break the penis in two. Look it up! Men think they are 'penetrating' a woman when they have sex - but it's really the other way around - The Vagina captures the penis and can crush it - and experiemce more pleasure than the male can imagine!
vgrrlJul 17 2009 9:50pm
I TOTALLY AGREE!!! Even though I am the one who is RAMMING her like a jackhammer, my penis is always completely under the control of a woman while it remains inside her vagina. One day, I gently whispered "contract" to a booty call while I was still inside her. I suddenly felt the wonderful power of her immensely strong vaginal muscles closing entirely all around my firmly-erect (but blissfully TRAPPED!!!) penis. I knew right then and there that I was TOTALLY POSSESSED AND CONQUERED!!! P.S.: About two decades ago, Dr. Helen O'Connell, an Australian urologist, brought the true size and shape of a woman's ENTIRE clitoris to the world's attention. That is why I have long known the true size and shape of a woman's ENTIRE clitoris (internal AND external) although the Glans Clitoris is actually THE ULTIMATE HOT SPOT. Dr. O'connell, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
A guy WHO JUST LOVES THE CLITORIS!!!Jul 19 2009 3:51pm
my wife is able to control her vagina muscles,once we had sex she get angry about me,gone absolutely mad and she just screamed once and started grunting,i get trapped inside her.i couldnt move an inch,if i did she would rip my penis of me only with her amazingly strong vagina muscles as she flex them.i felt like she is made off steel,she would crush a horse penis if she wanted to.
AnonymousJul 22 2009 9:39am
I'm not sure about women being sexually superior, but they do have more options. For example, a woman may receive her man anally if it pleased her, but short of wearing a strap-on, she would not be able to give him the same. Women can also do it with two men at once, (now that's multitasking 4 ya!) whereas men can only fcuk one woman at a time. (unless second woman wears a strap-on).
an intelligent life formJul 23 2009 11:47am
We don't like to admit it, but it seems women are superior in many ways. If nothing else, they seem to have strengths which give them the advantage when it comes to adapting to the progress of modern society. There is no way to deny that they are advancing further than men intellectually, from pre-school on up. In a world where information and education are the keys to success, women will no doubt dominate the work force. Almost every study that comes along indicates they are the stronger sex overall.
BobJul 24 2009 8:18am
There is no doubt women are vastly superior as biological sexual organisms. When you consider their greater longevity, pain tolerance, physical endurance, and intellectual capacity, a strong case is made that they are superior across the board. It seems hard to believe there is even a debate on this issue.
Steve HughesJul 26 2009 3:49am
Of course women are sexually superior. Since we males are modified females, a penis is just an overdeveloped clitoris and is frankly inferior in every way to the original. Aesthetically: female genitals are elegant and beautiful while male genitals just look silly. Sensitivity-wise, the clitoris has many more nerve endings to be stimulated. Just by observing my girlfriend, I can tell that the female capacity for sexual enjoyment is *much* greater than men's -- the female orgasm must be mind-blowing and they can have more than just one! I can only look on in awe and envy. The tidal wave/squirt gun comparison between female and male orgasms is right on the money. Female eroticism is deeper, fuller, more emotionally resonant. Men have always secretly understood and envied this, which is a big part of misogyny. The more mature and enlightened path is to humbly recognize female superiority and understand that we were created to serve and please them, NOT the other way around.
Ed GSep 21 2009 2:50pm
Males are greatly short changed in the orgasm department just as the male has been short changed in almost all other areas so no wonder so many males re bitter at women. (it is not our fault you were born with balls) Some researches think that if a male had the equivalent of a female orgasm it would kill the male as the male brain could not handle it. When an orgasm has been achieved through sex, you can measure theta waves. These are also said to cause the "running high" feeling of euphoria experienced sometimes by marathon runners. If theta waves are taken as a criterion, the entire brain emits theta waves when women reach an orgasm that are close to 10 times stronger than when men climax. So, if theta waves are an indication of an orgasm's strength, then women experience an orgasm that is physically impossible for men to go through. Putting it a little crudely, if the intensity of a woman's orgasm was played through a man's brain, there's a danger that the shock to his system would kill him. That risk makes it impossible to experiment on a man at the moment. And men can never become women. It is so nice to be a woman and not an inferior male This and so much more shows me beyond a doubt that women are indeed the superior gender This was written by a male in another thread: Males have been short changed in the orgasm department and I am so sorry to say you are right that we males have been short changed in so many areas that even I would have to admit women are the superior gender. I know my wife is in cloud 9 for a long time after she has an orgasm and she states it effects every area of her body. I know that when I have one, my prick may throb a few times and it spits out some fluid but that seems about the extent of it. I even often wonder if ejaculation is an indication we have even had an orgasm and I have often wondered that if women have that intense an orgasm, have we males even had one at all if all we get is a throbbing c0ck once in a while
KimberlyMay 11 2010 10:17am
As a 13 year-old boy I found out the hard way (no pun intended) which sex is superior in both form and function. Actively homosexual since the age of nine, I had little experience with girls under my belt (again, no pun). By the age of 13 I already had a large penis: 8 inches erect. in those days boys wore speedos for swimming. We didn't know from board shorts. Next door lived an 11 year-old girl named Vicki Heinz. She had a built-in pool in her back yard and parents that both worked. Needless to say I took advantage of that to use her pool as often as I could during the hot Arizona summer months. School was out and as I would later discover Vicki and her girlfriends were more than happy to watch me splash about in her pool. My wet speedo did not conceal much and the girls took full advantage of that in return for my basically using Vicki only as a place to swim, saving me a trip walking to a public pool. Other than that we weren't friends. Well, one day as you must have guessed, my speedo slipped off as I bounded up the steps out of the pool. For the first time, other than my little sister, my burgeoning young, perpetually half-hard penis and my testicles were exposed to girls - four giggling, staring, hopelessly happy preteen, girls. Vicki jumped in to the pool, as I incorrectly thought, to retrieve my speedo for me. Wrong. We boys really are the stupid creatures that girls are convinced we are! She tossed them to one of the other girls, Stacy and the four of them roared with laughter as I ran around the walled-in backyard, wiener and balls flopping, chasing Stacy, hopping on my big, clumsy bare feet like an idiot over the hot cocrete surrounding the pool . Who new girls could run faster than a boy and a boy two years older at that? I got really mad and for a moment I still remember forgetting how horribly embarrassed I was. It wasn't like they had stopped staring. Then, as every boy dreads and as had happened to me up in front of the classroom earlier that very year, I popped a huge embarrassment boner. At least at school I had clothes on and the girls could only laugh at the tent my jeans had become while the other boys in the room slunk down low in their seats, squirming. I was buttnaked in Vicki's backyard, out smarted and outrun by four little pipsqueak girls! But something happened as my penis rose up toward my belly-button. The little darlings got quiet. They moved in closer and Vicki simply reached right out and grabbed my hard-on. Hum, I thought, this might not be half bad. So, yes I quelled the waves of almost nausea-like shame that were washing over me as if I was still in the pool and let them each take a turn squeezing my boner and balls. I almost sprayed my nuts out all over the eager little twirps until they got a little too eager, squeezing my nuts too hard. But once I explained that my balls could not take the same hard squeezing (I actually yelped "ouch!") as they were giving my rock hard penis, they took control. Vicki grew impatient. I could actually see she had developed a wet spot on her bikini bottom. I had no idea what girls did for sex except from hearing my 8 year-old sister rubbing out what sounded like excruciating moans for an hour or so every night after she'd gone to bed. Vicki wrapped her fist around my boner and literally lead me toward the house, dragging me by my dick in to her bedroom. Once we all got there the real deal began. I was scared to death. My homosexual resume up to that point had consisted exclusively of mutual jerk-off handjobs with other boys. I had never seen girl parts up close and did not want to now. My older brother had told me horror stories about how vagina's can "rip your dick off" and other castration nightmares - and he had sex with girls all the time! Vicki was way ahead of me. She always was. Though two years younger, she was in the same grade I was! I hated smart girls and they all seemed to be just that. But there she was on her frilly little bed scouping her stuffed animal collection on to the floor while Stacy and Kathy and the other girl whose name I've forgotten, crowded on to the foot of the bed. I stood there as Vicki got herself situated, with my boner in Kathy's overjoyed face while Stacy tickled and rubbed my nut sac as if trying to coax a genie out. Like 8-plus inches of veiny, uncircumcised penis wasn't enough! I would soon find out that no boy ever has enough to compete with, let alone win this, the most personal battle-of-the-sexes! Vicki said "now" and before I knew it she pulled me down on top of her. I had no way of knowing it then, but Miss Vicki had become quite the accomplished expert at using her mother's poorly hidden dildo to get her little 11 year-old self off while Mom was away at work everyday. My penis slipped right in - all the way back to my now aching balls. But suddenly her vagina became tight as a vise. It was already sopping wet and quite warm against the skin of my penis. As I tried to hump in and out, she squealed and I felt her muscles milking really hard at me. It actually hurt and I had to beg her not to squeeze it so hard. She just laughed and continued, what I correctly (finally!) assumed was, cumming. I was 13 here. Boys are not known for sexual stamina. I was not to prove an exception on that hot summer day, the only naked one (Vicki had merely pulled her bikini bottom to one side), sweat pouring off me while my head pounded and my dick was being milked stupid. The other girls stared, of course and laughed as I must have been making embarrassing panting sounds. Kathy still recalled every embarrassing detail when I was a senior and she a junior in high school. But compared to Vicki I was a deaf-mute. I probably lastd 30 seconds, tops (or less) inside her, but the whole time she rubbed at what I would later learn was her clit and made these otherworldly almost echo-like, moaning noises which I found to be quite distracting. But I was not long for this rodeo as she bucked and refused to hold still as I asked so I could nut. But nut I did anyway. She literally milked the dick snot out of me, in what had to be my biggest sperm srayer yet. I collapsed on top of her as my orgasm quickly ended and left me with the unsavory task of turning to face three oggle-eyed girls with what I knew from experience would be a rapily shriveling penis. I hate that part. Women are so unforgiving as they grin at our sexual undoing. Vicki, however was still cuming and did not wish to do so with a spent, naked, sweaty and panting boy pressing his full dead weight against her. She bent her knee, shouted "get off" (I thought I just had) and kneed me in the balls - though not as hard as Kathy had squeezed them earler, which had brought tears to my eyes. I jumped back. My dick fell out and I rolled on to my back on the floor. Eight disdainful little girls eyes glared down at me, only softening in to gleeful glimmering pools of joy when they focused on my now drained and useless boy parts. Vicki had finally finished with what was my first ever witnessed female orgasm. I had to ask her what had just happened. I said with disbelief in my stupid boy voice, something like "was that one orgasm or ten?". She shot back, and this I still recall, "One! It's just that one girls orgasm is like ten of a boys!" Ouch! I was handed back my speedo, slipped my shruken weenie and still sore balls in to it as fast as I could and slunk off toward home - GAY FOR LIFE! I never used Vicki's pool again! '
Mr.MikeJun 06 2010 5:37pm
LOLJun 06 2010 6:37pm
Has anyone on this page actually ever had sex? im a guy and when i have an orgasm its f*cking intense sometimes i loose peripheral vision and the sensation is like a drug anyway the sensation from masterbation is not the same as orgasms acheived from intercourse it is as much more mental and emotional experience the problem is if you get bored of someone and loose the emotional connection then the sex looses its potency.Anyhow that's another story, guys if you want to know how to achieve power full lengthy orgasms ill let you into a little secret i learned many years ago you must train your body. Here is a simple exercise i call the mental orgasm. At night when alone (its cheating if your gf/random lay is next to you) Focus on gaining an erection and then on the sensation in the penis now move the fantasy on, think of an attractive woman you like (not a love interest an erotic interest) and begin to imagine an encounter that may lead to sex imagine the foreplay the undressing the kissing the touch of their body the look of desire in their face. All the while you are not to begin masturbation nor at any point, the objective is to attain an orgasm through pure mental effort with no physical stimulus. It is not likely you will achieve a mental orgasm on the first try but the more times you try this exercise the deeper you capacity for sexual stimulation becomes and hence you orgasms become far more powerful and lengthy. I bet you try this tonight and don't worry I all-ready know i'm a f*cking legend who just improved your sex-life forever and when you get that first multiple orgasm and tunnel vision and the girls looking at you like what the hell was that? you will say thank God for that random dude who just couldn't sleep that random night. Oh and sometimes girls have very short orgasms so what the f*ck is all this nonsense above? i ask you (I say we have the random brain farts of some seriously disturbed characters most probably virgins rampant homosexuals lesbians and feminists.)
Light of illuminationJun 06 2010 7:32pm
To Light of illumination: It's the law of averages dude! What you claim to have mastered sounds great and people having hands free mental orgasms is nothing new. It is almost exclusively women who enjoy this ability. one of these nights while your in random sleeplessness mode go on line and look up the facts. They are there if you are open minded enough to accept them! Sign me: "Rampant Homosexual."
Mr. MikeJun 07 2010 7:26am
I just read a scientific report that found the average male orgasm lasts a mere 4 seconds! For teenage boys it averages 5 seconds while in men over 30 it is only 3 seconds long. Quite dismal in and of itself. Girls and women have orgasms that average 45 seconds but can easily ride out for 1 to 2 minutes!!! Being that they are multi-orgasmic, each subsequent orgasm lasts a little longer and feels more intense. In boys and men a follow-up orgasm, in addition to being rare, is less intense and does not last as long as the first. "Male orgasm tends to be a one-shot, flash-in-the-pan", the report said. Female orgasm, on the other hand, "...results in a trance-like almost out-of-the-body experience so intense and durable in duration that the impact on a girls brain alone would probably kill a boy or man." This really puts in to perspective, what, for me as a gay man, has been the rare experience of female orgasm.
Mr. MikeJun 07 2010 2:16pm
Boys tend to reach orgasm faster than girls, but usually girls orgasms last a lot longer and girls can have multiple orgasms - one after another, in a row. So although a boy can come to orgasm faster (not really a plus when your inside a girl, if you ask me), girls orgasms are of longer duration. When I'm having sex with my girlfriend (she's 20, I'm 18) usually her orgasms last about 30 seconds each and she has 5 or 6 in a row! She's in orgasm for 3 minutes straight! That is actually quite a difference, compared to me. I always have only one orgasm which would maybe be 4 or 5 seconds, then that is it for a while. The most she ever had at one time was 12, which was about 6 minutes of non stop orgasm!I also think girls have much stonger, intenser orgasms. So 3 minutes for them must equal 100 of our orgasms. Kinda unfair when you think about it.
N-VIOUS boyJun 08 2010 4:33pm
I often have half-hour long rolling orgasms. Sorry boys!
Lucky GirlJun 08 2010 6:21pm
When you think about it, it all balances out. Women have more and more intense orgasms, this is compensation for the agony of child birth.
an intelligent life formJun 09 2010 5:07pm
Yes, but unlike males, females do not have to use their reproductive organs to enjoy the orgasmic watershed that they have over us! Every time that a boy orgasms he shoots sperm. But a girl uses her clit to have orgasms - and the clitoris has no reproductive purpose. It is the only organ on the human body whose sole reason for being is ORGASM, ORGASM and still more ORGASM! We males have to urinate, ejaculate and have our pathetic version of orgasm via the penis. An economy that has left us short-changed when it comes to sexual pleasure.
Mr.MikeJun 09 2010 8:58pm
So, pleasure is sacrificed for economy, that's a trade off and nine tenths.
an intelligent lifeJun 10 2010 3:03pm
06/10/2010. As you see it. That 9/10's is a real bitch, however! I just think it's funny that males are so fixated on sex, yet we really don't have a clue what real orgasm is. I heard on OPRAH many years ago, a sex researcher who said that "women are orgasmic while men are only ejaculatory." As an after thought that has nothing to do with this post's subject matter, I think we should date our responses. Some of these posts are quite old and it is hard to tell if they are still active. Just a suggestion.
Mr. MikeJun 10 2010 8:04pm
my wife of 20 years would tell "dont start something you cant finish" the roll out of bed to take a shower. after our devorce i had a 5yr affair with her best friend during which time she told me over and over again that i was the best lover she ever had. many multi/orgasms for both of use, the difference between my wife and her/our friend was enormous, question is why/and what did we do differently. my current girl is twenty yr younger and does cause problems. recently we were involved sexually when the phone rang, i reached up and over her to answer, her daugther was on tge phone, f/p began a conversation that lasted long enought to cause my rt/leg to cramp. as i attempt to straighten it she asked me if he (my penis) was challenging ( her) her vagina, i said " sure thing" she drew her upper body away from me and began to use constrictive powers on me! as i struggled to maintain my erection my penis began to tremble then collapse. she began to laught and told her daughter that we were playing game, she was beatting me badly and i had no chance of ever winning against her. she said theyed would talk when she got home.her constrictive power continued t[ghten until (my penis) was numb. finally she was done, she asked me if i knew wht and my alterego had experiencdm . she said, FEMALE POWER!
poor little thingJul 05 2010 7:51pm
Yeah, this is all mostly bullpoo by males with Male Guilt. Fact: the clitoris is more sensitive only because the nerve endings are more tightly packed. The clitoris and the penis have exactly the same number of nerve endings. Fact: the male brain and the female brain are nearly identical, for all practical purposes, and any experience that women can have could potentially be experienced by a male as well. No death, sorry -- that's a myth. Fact: male orgasms can last more than 60 seconds, even longer. The myth that they last 3 seconds is -- a myth. No "science" has shown otherwise. Fact: a good percentage of women *never even have an orgasm*. Ever. They're capable physically but held back by god-only-knows what. Not by men: you're responsible for your own orgasms, ladies.
Your Worst NightmareJul 28 2010 8:56pm
7/29/2010. Ignorance really is bliss, isn't it kids! Shall we allow "Your Worst Nightmare" his sexual delusions? After ten years in a gender study he is hardly the first man I have encountered in such a degree of denial. As for my own coping mechanism to get beyond the unsavory reality of my own sexual inferiority as a male - I rejoice everyday in my lifelong homosexuality.
Mr. MikeJul 29 2010 8:08pm
i can have multiple orgasm easly after few months of "training" the keigel muscle and im not even into yoga or something,so...it can be done with just a little work and for those who say the clit is more sensitive do some research,the uncut penis has over 20.000 nerve endings
mister LOct 21 2010 7:16am
This topic reminds me of an experience I had when I was 18 and dating a guy a few years older. Like most guys, he was kind of full of himself when it came to sex and I was young and inexperienced, but multi-orgasmic. One day, while on the phone I got up the nerve to put him in his place. I challenged him to have sex and see who has the most orgasms. He quickly accepted. When we got down to it, he raced to his first orgasm but I beat him to it and had 2 more before he ejaculated. He needed a quick rest, I didn't. We started up again soon after and he was really working hard to catch up and com quick. Unfortunately for him, I got there first again. It took him longer this time and by the time I had my fifth or sixth, I think he realized it was hopeless. He managed to have his orgasm and we even managed one more round but I'd had 14 by then. His third orgasm lasted about 2 seconds. Most times, I could feel all of his throbbing but this one ended as soon as it got started. He pulled his poor penis out and it just hung limp. It looked so funny and defeated. I'll admit that my vagina was sore but I was still capable of continuing. No matter what we tried, his penis wouldn't repond and his testicles just hung low in his scrotum. To his credit, he offered to give more oral sex but I suggested we go out to the local diner. After dinner, I teased him and asked him if he wanted to have more sex.
KellieMar 20 2011 2:58pm
I used to think us men had it better, but now I know woman were dealt a royal flush when it comes to pleasure. My girlfriend orgasms easily and needs virtually no warm up. Seeing her explode within 30 seconds after using her Magic Wand and go on for 10 mintutes non-stop with a series of huge orgasms has me throughly convinced there is NO comparison who is superior sexually. All I can say when she comes back to me after going into her own little world head back, groaning with her eyes glazed is "my good God"
RHMSep 27 2011 5:44pm
We males don't really have orgasms to speak of. All we get is a very brief, slightly pleasurable feeling lasting maybe two or three seconds before ejaculation. I just don't see why men like sex so much. It's really not that great for us. That's why I haven't had sex for many years.
Angry Man 2Mar 25 2012 9:33pm
indeed sex is a depletion experience for us males, ever wondered what we get out of stupidity ?
G-1Apr 28 2012 1:40am
Kellie, that is so amazing. It must have felt so good to put his penis in it's proper place. Guys like him think their balls and penis are so powerful, strong and superior, but once you teach them how weak in comparison he is to the female, he is left with nothing but a shriveled up tube of flesh and two empty and useless nuts between his legs! Haha, That is what I call defeat! Girls are so superior to Guys.
burtonfan111Apr 30 2012 1:50pm
Quite a bit of interesting, and somewhat witty quips.. but loads of misinformation and unfortunate attitudes. The question itself, is odd really, but we don't realize that these days, because, like lemmings, we buy into the idea that there needs to be a superior sex declared for every aspect of daily life. While it is interesting, and even intriguing, the real question is are you the best, sexually, that you can be. Based on the answers seen on this page, I think most guys are not. And that's a shame. Sexual ability (drop the word "performance" from your vocabulary) and the satisfaction of your lover must be a huge priority if you want to be the best you can be. The result is COMPLETE orgasm control, longer orgasms, and quicker recovery time. Today, times are different, and it's like Lewis & Clark, when it comes to women and sexual discovery and exploration. So, my point is, we (men) need to become masters of our own bodies, so that we don't have to worry about "keeping up." To feel less than an equal partner and participant in the bedroom is difficult and unnecessary. S Now back to the original question: while each individual is unique, women, as a whole, are quite sexual beings. While I have control of my orgasms, I sure as hell didn't start out that way. No, some foreplay, a look at the female naked body, in I went, and soon, out I came. It was overwhelming. So yes, sexually, women are superior in some respects. That's why it's worth the work to be able to fully satisfy them. Get to that point, and you will have women not quite sure who's superior. They won't have an orgasm, you will give them one. But it takes two, and many women aren't that great in the sack. But, what do I know.. I'm only an expert on myself. Good luck. (Note: Someone made a comment about women performing better academically now. While I applaud their apparent efforts, the downturn in boys performance is clearly due to the changes in instruction methods over the past two decades. Boys brain structures didn't suddenly change in the early 90's. Info to the contrary is incorrect.)
Your Wife's Tennis InstructorJul 18 2012 3:51am
1989 - in an experiement with a cumbersome video camera, male and female were filmed in 15 minute span to masturbate and orgasm for analysis. The male brought an adult magazine and kleenex. He predictably stroked his penis only, mindful of the 15 minutes, he backed off, trying to prevent a premature climax. He would lightly grasp his testes at times, but the focuss was on stroking the shaft, and faster it got to where (in the 5th minute)he grunted like a beast then propelled 3 considerable ejaculations accompanied by primal grunts, then minor contractions, although of a non-orgasmic sensation ensured despite violently jerking the penis as if to milk it dry. Analysing the video showed his balls tighten with the orignal grunt which was reported the very peak of his orgasmic pleasure felt in his penis for almost 2 seconds - at this point the magazine as discarded. The orgasm was timed at 6 seconds. For the remaining 10 minutes, he wiped his ejaculate and casually read his magazine. Meanwhile, a 19 year female volunteered for the same experiement, she brought baby oil and a vibrator. She started off slowly by massaging her breasts with her fingers abd stomach. By the 2nd minute her hand was lightly stroking the top of her vagina, and soon her clitoris. The vertical then roundish stimulation of her clit yielded to heavier breathing, and with increasing speed, she indicated she was cumming. Her eyes her closed, her nipples enlarged. The climax was timed at 22 seconds. This climax occurred in the 6th minute of the session. After going "whew" and coohing instead of grunting during climax, she rubbed a little more oil on her body, reached for the vibe and applied it directly to her clit; she held it with good pressure and within 1 minute was experiencing a second climax timed at 28 seconds, then another and 2 more lasting 25 and 30 seconds each. The pained look in her face correlated to pleasures uncomprehended by the male. Seeing that she had 4 minutes remaining, be utilized the 6 inch vibrator like a penis and applied it within, while using her fingers on her clit to offer a grand finale off the chart orgasm that lasted almost 40 seconds! This climax had the best of both worlds - pleasure from the clit and convulsions within her vagina. We later compared the male & female orgasms on split sceen and found the quickness of the male climax to be lame, the pleasure felt only in the penis for a precious few seconds, and only having one climax in 15 minutes, vs. Michelle's whose orgasm was not only much more eurphoric, and so much long lasting and who could have multiples. In the 15 minutes, she had about five or six climaxes of intense pleasure lasting approx. 140 seconds total - to his laughable 6 second male climax. This ws true. Of course the male did not realize he can go on to have more orgasms in the 15 minutes if he would have known the outcome, but he was bound by a refrctory period, and even if he was able to get it up again, a second climax would have been less pleasurable (imagine that) and likely would have lasted an absurd 2-3 seconds.
J 1989Aug 08 2012 4:02pm
Dam J 1989, your making the Male Body sound inferior to the female. But if he did challenge her, he could have had three good orgasms in the 15 mins.
burtonfan111Aug 10 2012 9:35am
Aside from all other areas, are women superior as sexual organisms on a biological level? Of cours we are. We like to enjoy ourselves and celebrate it. Have you ever seen a man wanking himself off? He looks so stupid. He feals a pressure in his balls and had to wank. Quick strokes and he cums. His penis get limp and weak and then the man lay there like dead as if all the strength left his body with his semen. It´s so funny to see. My friend cried often "No, no, no..." when he comes. It sounds so funny when he desperatly try not to come. It´s a fact that the male sex is inferior to the female sex. We are able to enjoy ourselves even much longer than the males...
ladyAug 24 2012 12:17pm
1Sep 05 2012 11:58am
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Any man who has sex with woman all know the invinsible power of their vagina,my wife has never been outlasted yet and always finishes me off on top,since our first time as teenagers as soon as we engage in intercourse its woman against man and she is on a mission to make me cum as fast as she can.The harder I try to last longer the tighter And wetter she gets,and the more she enjoys it when I cum in her.my wife is invinsible
D409Oct 09 2012 6:52am
Wow, this site is weird. Anyway, they've done lots of studies, and concluded that male and female orgasm are basically the same. They measured the strength of contractions in the body, and found that the strength of orgasm is very much the same. Also, they had male and female students describe the sensations of orgasm, replacing giveaway words like "penis" and "vagina" with "genitals" and such. The researchers were not told if it was written by a male or female, and they could not find any difference. Women do have longer orgasms, but men have them more often, so it all evens out. Also, both sexes can prolong their orgasms. A skilled man, or one with a skilled lover, can have a 30-second penile orgasm. Women can also learn to prolong theirs, and the longest-ever recorded female orgasm was 46 seconds (there may be longer ones that were never recorded, though). Though admittedly, male orgasms can get weaker if you have them every day. I don't know where this belief that the female orgasm is full-body and the male is concentrated in the genital area comes from. Speaking as a man, I know it can (and usually does) spread into the body. In addition, it's a common myth that the clitoris has more nerve endings than the head of the penis. The truth is, they have the same number, about 8,000. The clit is more sensitive than the head because they are packed in there more tightly. But on every man's penis, there is something called a frenulum, a layer of membrane that is the equivalent of the clit. Some aggressive circumcisions cut out the frenulum or render it null, but most men have it there. While multiples are easier for women to achieve, men can have them too. Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. With those kinds of exercises, they can be separated. A man can learn how to do them properly and have multiples, each one stronger than the next. It is also worth noting that while women have G-spots, men have something more powerful: the prostate. Inside every man's *sshole, there is a chestnut-shaped bump, about two inches in. Look up "prostate massage" to learn to do it. Anyway, if you massage that, you're basically stimulating you're prostate, which has large bundles of nerves on either end. The orgasms are 400% (yes, 400%) more intense than a regular penile orgasm, and can last up to 5 minutes. You read that right, 5 minutes. Remember, the longest female orgasm recorded was 46 seconds (though that's only recorded, it might be possible to have it longer). More and more men are learning how to do this.
Armored-DiplomacyDec 13 2012 11:23am
Correction to my previous post, prostate orgasms do not last 5 minutes in the actual orgasmic sense, orgasmic feelings and maybe contractions can, but no actual orgasm can last more than a minute.
Armored-DiplomacyJan 01 2013 9:25pm
I read the whole thread and wondered who posts all these funny made up stories. For 25 years of my life I was a woman. Actually I should say a man in a female body and I wanted to change that. Six years ago I finally had my final operation and I think I’ve sorted things out finally. Terrible experience... Now - as a woman I enjoyed a few orgasms in a row quite frequently. As a man I must say this is the only thing I miss. BUT… The fact also is that while being unable to repeat orgasm I definitely feel that male orgasm is A LOT more intense. The physical reactions are basically the same - contractions, building up excitement etc. It's the intensity of the very orgasmic experience that's noticaably different. A female one is like wave – it is a little longer and sometimes repeatable. On the other hand as a man I started to feel orgasm as a powerful explosion - a little shorter and the excitement level drops immediately but it is absolutely more intense. I would never ever dare to say whose sexual experience is better. Now I feel that the sad truth is both sexes are imperfect. I would like to have a few orgasms in a short period of time like I used to but then I’d never want to give up the intensity of male orgasms and the wonderful extremely pleasurable feeling in my penis while making love. I know about so called dry orgasms and male multiple orgasms but tbh I don’t believe these dry orgasms are worth the effort... Anyway I feel like laughing when I read some of the posts above – they’re written either by kids or totally immature persons. The thing is it’s not only my view – I’ve lots of medical stuff and the stories of people who changed sex like me. They all have the same story and the same experiences. Enjoy who you are because believe me – both sexes have their strengths and weaknesses and they enjoy sex equally. It’s your sex drive and health and your partner that influences your sex life most.
XexMar 29 2013 8:56am
"Let me quote this: German sexologist Rolf Degen conducted an extensive research to find out the average duration of orgasm in humans. The average female orgasm lasts for 1.7 seconds. The average male orgasm lasts for 12.4 seconds. It just so happens that a woman spends 1 hour and 24 second in the state of bliss during her entire life, whereas a man enjoys 9 hours and 18 seconds of orgasm in total. The German research contradicts to the general opinion according to which the female orgasm is longer than the male orgasm.
LelelicMay 02 2013 10:24pm
wooah, these are the most bullpoo posts i've ever read about sex! Ok.. so you tellin me that female orgasm is superior? Then how the f*ck comes that males want sex 200% more than women? If it is soo astonishingly good for them they would want to f*ck all day long just like males, but i really dont see that at all. The clit and the penis has the same amount of nerve endings as i know, its just that on the clit all of them are on a tiny place, while on the penis its all spread over. I think it is really lame that women only can feel satisfaction on that little tiny spot, while i can greatly feel all over my penis while im penetrating a vagina, it feels good all around it, hell you can even make a women to get orgasm without even penetrating her.. how lame is that? And yeah they can get multi orgasms, one of my ex gf had like 6 in a row sometimes, but i always thought that they cant be that powerful if they can just go off like that one after an other.. and yeah the vagina can crush a dick, thats cool, well.. and we can f*ckin crush your skull with our bare hands after that if we want :3 (im not violent at all, just saying, male body has much more muscle) You say that man is just a modified women body, i say women body is God's 1.0 creature, while male body is the updated 2.0 version! so yea, i just had to write it out myself, cuz its kinda disturbing how biased the comments are on this wall. peace
Lain88May 10 2013 10:47am
Over the past few decades, the advances in technology have allowed us to take a closer look at what is happening within both the female and male brain. Male brains are larger than female brains, yet females can think and calculate faster than men can. Magnetic resonance imaging and other brain imaging techniques have shown that most female brains are more active than most male brains. Even when the female brain is resting it has been shown to be as active as an activated male brain. Considering such information, it appears that many girls will have an intelligence advantage over boys by being consistently engaged, even when they aren’t trying as hard as a boy. As a further result of MRI scans we are able to see and view the ways in which some boys and girls process information. Generally speaking, the female brain processes more responding stimulants, through more senses, and more completely than the male brain. When information content comes into the female brain it travels in through the limbic system up to the top four lobes of the brain where thinking occurs. On the other hand, many males seem to move this content through the limbic system down to the brain stem. Basically, this means that females are more likely to process the information faster and reach a conclusion, as more of the activity moves into the hemispheres that handle thinking. Comparatively, men take longer to process information than women because their brains have less neurons available for activity and the connections between those neurons are fewer in number than those found in women’s brains. It is hypothesized that because of this, women constantly operate on a superior level of awareness than men, as their brains are always taking in more sensory information. Because of the limited processing in male brains, they are more likely to need a rest period than in females. The study proved that many male brains frequently enter a reboot phase as they become overloaded easier than female brains, which aren’t as limited in terms of calculation. This phenomenon is similar to the fact that a computer with less RAM and a slower processing speed is more likely to lock up than one which is more powerful. In addition to processing speed and greater sensory intake, females also have a larger corpus callosum, which connects both brain hemispheres. Because the female brain can use both sides more efficiently and more effectively than the male brain, it is able to carry more information throughout more connections, increasing its speed and giving the female greater resources for thought. The differences between intelligence between the genders can be explained through biology. At conception, all life begins as female, marked by the XX chromosome. To roughly half of these embryos, a Y chromosome is introduced, turning the original female embryo into a male. Testosterone surges throughout the growth of the baby while in the womb at a much higher rate than in the female. This chemical transforms the original female brain, enlarging the sex and aggression centers. Testosterone also has been shown to kill off brain cells and damage connections within the brain, as while as put the male at a much higher risk for diseases and brain related disorders. To compensate for this, nature has made 105 males be conceived to every 100 females. Because males are more likely not to survive birth or to die at a younger age, their higher numbers shrink quickly, as females become roughly 52% of the population. These biological differences not only explain the limited cognitive abilities of the male brain in relation to the female, but also explain why females outlive males in humans as well as in the all animal kingdoms. These advantages of the female brain go even beyond intelligence. There are many different chemicals in the brain that affect the ways in which we act, feel, and respond in different situations. The feelings experienced as a result of these chemicals are caused by receptors in the brain which produce the effect of the chemical when activated. Because girls have more brain activity and more neurons in their brains than boys, they also have more receptors. A perfect example of a chemical reaction in the brain is orgasm. We feel orgasms as pleasurable because of the chemicals serotonin and oxytocin are released in our brain during climax. Because receptors are greater in number in the female brain then in men, orgasm will feel much better for a girl than it does for a boy. Brain scans show that during orgasm the female brain experiences 10 times the amount of pleasurable chemicals than in the male brain. In addition, the chemicals stick around in women’s brains longer than in the male brain, so the pleasurable experience lasts longer. Girls are also capable of multiple orgasms, so their brain remains ready to experience the pleasure over and over again for as long as she desires. Because of the refractory period men experience after they have an orgasm, they remain unable to have another orgasm for a period of time. This results in girls being capable of more powerful and longer lasting orgasms then in men, where orgasms are shorter, weaker, and fewer in number. In scientific studies, the equivalent of the male orgasm was played through the brains of volunteering women. Their experiences were recorded in written testimonies. Common remarks was that the intensity of the male orgasm was much weaker than what they normally experienced from orgasm and that the orgasm ended much quicker than they anticipated. When these women had female orgasms in the lab, they were much more vocal and their bodies contorted as their muscles contracted in response to the orgasm. When the same women experienced the male-style orgasm, they remained mostly quiet and stood almost completely still. They were actually quieter and moved less during the male orgasm then men who had their orgasms studied in the lab. Scientists hypothesized this was due to the females being used to experiencing a more powerful orgasm than the male-style orgasm that they experienced in the lab, while men experiencing the orgasm saw it as normal and had never felt anything better. Scientists were unable to allow the male volunteers of the study to experience the female orgasm, as the male brain is unable to handle the abundance of chemicals and activity the female orgasm provides. There was a theory that if the intensity of a girl’s orgasm was played through a boy’s brain, the shock to his system would kill him. Because of this, it appears the female orgasm remains a treat which can only be enjoyed by women. "I definitely feel very blessed that I was born female" study coordinator Sheryl Task joked. "If I was a man, I'd definitely be really jealous."
from a scientific articleMay 18 2013 10:14am
@J 1989. Wow, I have to admit that as a male I find that study really humiliating. The difference between male and female orgasm is so large, our orgasms don't even feel 1/5 as good as women's. I wonder if you have any pictures of the brain scans experiencing orgasm shown in the study? I'd be interesting to see the difference, and I'm sure a lot of women would find it hilarious. The study above is even more bad news for men. I've told my girlfriend about other studies that proved women have better orgasms and she just loves to remind me and rub it in my face that her orgasms are better. She says she feels lucky she was born female and she hopes our kids are all girls so they get to experience the pleasure. I guess because of this I don't plan on telling her about how the female brain is smarter, as I'd have to deal with more bragging.
1emtysacJun 02 2013 12:37pm
OK, here's a REAL scientific report on male and female orgasms: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/body-sense/201004/male-and-female-orgasm-not-so-different Also, men are smarter than women: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200901/why-men-are-more-intelligent-women http://www.theatlanticwire.com/national/2012/09/even-science-professors-think-men-are-smarter-women/57259/ Admittedly, girls are more intelligent than boys, but grow up to be smarter than women: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/201010/girls-are-more-intelligent-boys-men-are-more-intelligent-w
Armored-DiplomacyJun 08 2013 9:57pm
^ all wrong. funny how articles about male supremacy are opinionated while articles about female superiority are based on facts. there's no shame in admitting the truth. one sex has to be superior so don't be mad its not yours (assuming youre a man)
LauraJun 11 9:06pm
Really? I've provided real actual articles, which link to real research, while you've provided nothing in the way of evidence. However, here are some of the actual studies cited in the Psychology Today orgasm article: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7458658 http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF01541570 http://www.reproduction-online.org/content/19/3/405.full.pdf http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF01541618 http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2FBF00289562 So that "opinionated" article cited all this hard data. Now you provide me some evidence.
Armored-DiplomacyJul 09 12:12am
PwKCGj Thanks for the blog.Really looking forward to read more. Awesome.
XVspQdgdSep 08 12:03am
While women may be stronger and better sexually, men have a 2 point higher IQ average than women. It could be argued that this is an insignificant diiference which would be true except for the fact that the male IQ bell curve is far more distributed. This means that most males will either be very intelligent or very dumb wheras women will be closer to the average female IQ. This makes men superior because if we wanted to, a high IQ man could use VERY precise magnetic resonance imaging on a female brain and induce the same orgasmic feeling in himself and probably amplify it 100 times! Intelligence wins against EVERYTHING... this leaves men with the advantage (although not by an immense margin).
A high IQ 15 year oldSep 08 6:56pm
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UuOMySRMcYfGHeLSep 13 5:27am
I see anyone can post here. So I know of a guy, lets call him "willy", well willy enjoys prostate orgasms exclusively. In fact it's the only way I, I mean he (willy) can achieve any sort of sexual gratification. This entails a daily ritual of going wrist deep into the anal cavity and stimulating the prostate with a vigorous knuckling. As you might imagine this can be quite a messy undertaking, especially given that at the moment of climax not only does the little nut shaped gland quiver and spasm in contraction, but the bowels also relax and contract in a rhythm that induces immediate release of a bowel movement. Hence the term cumming and crapping at the same time. Not sure this has much to do with the actual topic at hand, but is very interesting nonetheless.
David Banner aka TRAWSep 21 5:53pm
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DYmquXzjLlOct 15 10:23pm
Every human being who's had sex is going to have a different answer for this. As examples: Me and my friends have collectively agreed that men falling asleep after an orgasm is largely a myth, but it's well documented elsewhere. Most people seem to think that a man's penis is like this super-sensitive hotspot, and you can make him double over in pleasure with even a light touch, but I can barely feel anything that happens to it. One of my girlfriends actually felt insulted the first time she went down on me, because I couldn't feel it. More than once this topic has come up in conversation, and to demonstrate I have literally let people kick me in the schlong; I typically feel either nothing, or a slight pressure, and it's always followed with a punch to the arm, which hurts far more. And Kelli's story completely baffles me; if the girl cums multiple times while the man only cums once, doesn't that make the man a better lay than her? In a grander sense, it really bothers me how many of you people are describing sex as some sort of conflict. Shouldn't sex be the one scenario where nobody wins or loses (excluding rape, obviously), and everybody just enjoys some intimacy with their lover?
An AnonOct 16 3:17am
SURE IS MISANDRIC IN HERE, JESUS CHRIST.
Mr MRAOct 16 3:18am
Also, I actually have a transexual cousin (Female-to-Male), and he claims that his orgasms as a man are much more enjoyable by a long shot.
An AnonOct 16 3:20am
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XaRzbARApZlvrPPzFOct 16 4:35am
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FprscQysabYVTJOct 25 10:43pm
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FZJyLwrcUWaNCbhhMuOct 31 11:24pm
Re: F-to-M orgasms: keep in mind that the FTM, even with bottom surgery, still has the original female genital flesh. I'm not sure how the FTM above believes he can compare, since he does not have a flesh-and-blood operating penis, so does not, in fact, know what it is to orgasm through that organ or to ejaculate. He has some modification of his original female genitalia, with the added bonus of testosterone coursing through his system. Testosterone is known to grow the clitoris as well. So he's having a testosterone-fueled climax with his modifed-from-female genitalia. Ya, no wonder he likes his orgasms better as a "male".
xkyzNov 11 1:19pm
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