The Problem: Im seriously wanting to become a stripper,im and in REALLY good shape but everytime i tell sumone that this will be my career in a few years they tell me not to,is there something about being a stripper that im not seeing?
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07:30:52 AM, Friday, November 02, 2007 EDT
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being a stripper at might SEEM like a good idea right now, but, you may one day regret it. I have several friends, including a girl I dated, that was a stripper, and although she made a LOT of money, in the end, it set her up to be raped. When you are in a room full of drunk men, showing your body, the alcohol can take over and make men do things that they orinarily wouldn't do. Think long and hard before you choose this path. I have a daughter, and if she came to me with this, I would steer her with the same advice I give to you.
A "Friend"-
I understand what your saying but a girl can get raped even if she?s not a stripper, I went to a party over the summer where a guy 5+ my age tried to rape me but luckily my guy friend was watching out for me and stopped anything from happening?so other than that factor the tips are great and its not like I?d be doing it forever, but I?ll keep what you said in mind it really was great advice ^_^?
stripperNov 03 2007 5:39amFLAGYou're most welcome. But, let me just reitterate that, being in a "rape" situation once is much different than putting yourself in that position on a nightly basis. You add your nudity, the dancing, the mood, AND the alcohol each night, you increase your odds of meeting unsavory characters. Much like playing Russian Roulette, eventually you're going to find that ONE bullet in the chamber. I don't condemn you for your choice by ANY means, and there are many ways to do things safely, even in this situation. Like I said in my earlier post, I have a daughter nearly your age ... and I put HER in the scenario of "What Would I Do If It Were Her" and short of me trying to protect her and hold her hand (that would be kind of wrong to do that in a Gentleman's Club, huh? LOL) I would just hope for the best for her.
A "Friend"Nov 03 2007 7:09amFLAGi agree wit both of ya'll friend and stripper, really good advice but as a stripper u have a bigger chance of being raped...if i ever go to a party with alcohol, i never drink, leave early like after a couple hours,incase cops, and always try to have a friend, so we can look after each other, but we usually don't go to parties with alcohol, if we find some we always try to get our other friends that might start drinkin out of there asap, insted of getting caught by the cops
000Nov 04 2007 8:50amFLAGwell 000 unlike u im rlly good at not sticking to my plan of not drinking and it just happened that i passed out on the bed and some guy just came in and started groping me and .<
stripperNov 04 2007 9:32amFLAGErrr alcohol really isnt that bad....like evrything in life...do so in moderation =]
Hmmm back 2 the topic well being a stripper is kind of no offence but setting low values for yourself.....a good education is always a better idea =] (By all means strippers are no bad people at all but you will fell better that you have a ahcieved something in your life.)
korn1Nov 04 2007 12:14pmFLAG
Stripper, with the comment "I am really good at NOT sticking to my plan of NOT drinking" followed by "I passed out on the bed and some guy just started groping me" ... doesn't that answer your question as to your career choice? What if you aren't around a friend that will be able to stop someone that decides that, after seeing you dance for him, or rub against him, he wants to rape you? Just food for thought. :-)
A "Friend"Nov 04 2007 1:20pmFLAGAll I have to say about this is keep your options open, you won't be young forever so you need something for when the beauty fades.
Leahh Lethal _x_Nov 04 2007 1:56pmFLAGyou can cover your body that help
AnonymousNov 07 2007 5:24pmFLAGwell A "friend" i want to meet up with you to get some more.... "advice" (;
stripperNov 07 2007 6:57pmFLAGfirst of all, LOL, a "Friend" is not a "fag". But only a small minded little idiot with nothing more intelligent to say would say so, and then, not identify him/herself. Secondly, Stripper, "meet up with me?" Meaning ....... ?
A "Friend"Nov 07 2007 8:08pmFLAGFriend is a fag it no matter what you say
AnonymousNov 08 2007 2:29pmFLAGAnonymous is a tard, an extremely big tard actually no matter what anonymous says it'sstill true.
Leahh Lethal _x_Nov 08 2007 2:40pmFLAGA friend-
I never wrote "meet up with me" that was some dumbass with no ing life ^_^ Im really grateful for your advide it rlly did give me something to think about <3
THE REAL stripperNov 08 2007 3:44pmFLAGThe box above changes the page if you add the advice-DON'T USE IT
Roxy !-!Nov 12 2007 11:34pmFLAGOkaii Im an outspoken person so, it means you are a slut, whore, and maybe become a prostitute. Why wont you just work at a clothing store or as a waitress. N wen you say just for a few years it might be forever. You may never kno some1 can just grab you den rape you but if you just like a stranger to rape you like dat den you are really becomin a whore or a slut.
NeishaNov 18 2007 2:41pmFLAGwow Neisha that made NO SENSE AT ALL,maybe you ought to look into learning to speak with PROPER grammer,sorry if im using words that are "TOO BIG" for someone like u ^_^ but yea,who r YOU to judge who is a slut or not? I bet u r just an immature little girl whose never had a worry in her ignorant little world,just b/c someone wants to be a stripper doesnt make them a whore.ANYONE could b a whore,even your mom,and most likely you >.<
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Neisha, I'm an outspoken person, it doesn't mean "I'm gonna make someone feel bad coz i can" She wants to be a stripper-Not a prostitute-BIG FUCKING DIFFERENCE
RoxxiNov 20 2007 1:11pmFLAGstriper-there is nothing wrong with wanting that. that is just who u r. who cares.
phi phiDec 18 2007 12:12pmFLAGWhy? That's my f. u.cking question. Is it because you like attention? I don't know, if you want to fall into the statistic of murder rates to over 30%, go right ahead. I hope you DO get murdered, for being that slutty.
Miss RawJan 01 2008 1:31amFLAGSlut's sleep with people, strippers strip, theres a big difference, so if she does get murdered it'll probably never have anything to do with this. You on the other hand if you acty this bitchy in real life, you will be murdered sooner than you think.
Leahh fuckin LethalJan 01 2008 3:56amFLAGActually, honey, there is no difference. How is that a real analogy? It doesn't even fit the pattern. Strippers ARE slut... either that, they're just gold diggers. 2005's statistic shows that 27% of strippers died in Philly alone.
And my words kill bitches, but it doesn't kill me, honey. :) I bet you are "stripper".
Miss RawJan 01 2008 2:11pmFLAG"There's a big difference"? LoL! What is the difference? Sluts are those that want attention using their body's. So you're saying strippers aren't sluts because they... strip? Lol. I don't think my s here agree with you.
Miss RawJan 01 2008 2:13pmFLAGAnother big difference, working as a stripper pays money for sure, whereas being a slut, there is no garuntee you'll get paid, strippers don't necaserrally sleep with people, slut on the otherhand do. I'm am not a slut or a stripper, Newsflash, s Can't Be Hired as Strippers, but you have made it quite high in the slut buissness.
The Rawwrr Whore Leahh (LOL AT NAME)Jan 05 2008 12:28pmFLAGStrippers can get raped easily. Guys might think oh she is a slut or hore or w.e but are you really risking all the guys seeing your body? I just think that even though you have a so called "perfect shape" don't use it on being a stripper. The reason I emphasis on perfect shape was because there is NO PERFECT SHAPE! Just don't be a stripper. & you are hearing this from a . But the problem is that you are & really don't know any better. If you are a slut, or (w)hore go ahead & be a stripper, you'll be embarassing your parents.
AneishaMar 06 2008 6:47pmFLAGNo, just because you are in good shape does not mean you are fit to be a foxy stripper and you are to young. Don't make a mistake you will regret. I had friend who was a stripper. Now she is dead beacause some mother-f**king n****r came in her house, raped her, killed her, and cut here breasts off!
AnonymousMar 30 2008 2:41pmFLAGeww anonymous!!! any ways...u gotta think what your future might be and how you want it to be. 95% of the time you cant turn back from stripping, dancing,hooker ect
wheels n axlsApr 27 2008 8:33amFLAGAnonymous sucks d*ck
rotflolJun 24 2008 10:14amFLAGMiss Raw+ anonymous= 2 mean jerk bitch jerks! now sweetie u can do whatu feel is right if.( dont let any1 judge u for being u.) p.s. anonymous is a stupid little 8year old that fond this website while looking for ***.
guitarlvrDec 17 2010 8:40pmFLAGummmmmm id comment but i dont wanna ^_^ lmfao
stripperJan 13 2011 9:37pmFLAGI luv u..dont b a stripper u know me very wel
AnonymousFeb 03 2011 1:39amFLAGHm, well if its your job choice then pick it, but you could probably earn more money in a higher education job :)
blahMar 07 2011 2:59pmFLAGDont do it i'd been ther before, before i become a singer!
Katy parryMar 12 2011 9:36pmFLAGThere is such a stigma on dancer's
you need to take these things into consideration.
1. Do you have tough skin? Because guys are pigs and as much as you are a human being.. they dont always see you like that.
2. Could you live with the fact that your parents might find out one day?
If your not worried about that you will be fine.
But its a dark industry be careful
Ex stripperMay 17 2011 11:04pmFLAGkaty PERRY we all know that isnt you
ragina:)Jun 20 2011 2:10amFLAGi want to be a strippeer to imdats been my dream to become one and when i get older ill become one
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