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How do i hug my boyfriend?

The Problem: I have been dating my boyfriend for a week. I am young so i dont know how

Asked by: 101smart at 12:03:37 PM, Thursday, May 06, 2010 PDT FLAG

Advice

Just open ur arms and just kinda of fall into his arms. Hold him close and everything will fall into place

Love master May 24 2010 6:36pm FLAG


ok how bout you politely ask for a hug? lol

Princess Heather-ann Jun 02 2010 8:36pm FLAG
lol, alright you go up close to him and wrap your arms around him. not like tight but like a normal hug...

Anonymous Jun 03 2010 9:07pm FLAG
ohmigod, i am soo glad it's not just me!!! lol. my boyfriend is like a head shorter than me, how the do i hug him??? x

Anonymous Jun 10 2010 1:31pm FLAG
ok if he's ur boyfriend then y cant u hug him??

aababy Jun 27 2010 9:25pm FLAG
Is it because ur afraid to or u just dont know how to? Did u know that the first time i hugged my boyfriend we fell over? It was SOO ing funny... We were hugging and we just like felt tht we were moving and we FELL! It was HILLAROUS!

NotMuchHelpButSomething Jul 27 2010 9:13pm FLAG
i thinkk u open ur arms and go for it lean close and rest ur head on his shoulders,(: but if hes wayyy taller then put ur head in his chest and breath thru ur nose,(: HAVE FUN.!!!!!!!(: and be gentall.!!!

LoveYoooh,<3 Aug 10 2010 11:21pm FLAG
this happn to me last night lol but jus put your arms around his neck and he will put his around your waist! simple good luck....next step slow dancing lol

Girlygirl Aug 28 2010 9:50pm FLAG
ok, i'm no expert but every time i get a boyfriend (not often :( ) i get nurous when i wanna hug him, i have the same problem at the moment, ok as the others say, put your arms around his neck, if hes alot taller than you rest your head on his chest or his shoulder :) good luck, now its my turn to go in for a hug :)

Me Aug 30 2010 11:53am FLAG
I no how u feel I love my bf but he is shorter idk how to hug him he is short :(((( help plz?!?!?!

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Abbynoimal Sep 26 2010 4:52pm FLAG
I am and i was in ur same position and all u have to do is Just act all happy and normal when u c him and be like hi!!!! And just hug him as if u were hugging another one o ur friends tt r boys and it will b so easy and jsut say something good that happened either that morning or at nite for u to tell him and it will seem completely normal and u guys will hug all the time. - hope this helps!

Kelly Sep 30 2010 3:54pm FLAG
Well Its Pretty Easy Me and My Bf Hug ALOT and For No Reason Sometimes Too Ahhh Its So Cute I Love It(:

BreeBree Nov 03 2010 3:30pm FLAG
honey hugging your boyfriend is so simple put your arms around his neck and he put his hand around your waist lol.

love master of all time tanj u very much. Nov 11 2010 3:37pm FLAG
Been trying to hug but i just can't get a thing right after all i don't even know how to kiss...help

Mathabo Dec 13 2010 7:16am FLAG
i am and i have a bf that is way smaller than me who woould i kiss him but i realy like him and i want my kiss so bad

melissa luciano Jan 09 2011 9:01am FLAG
well, my boyfriend is a few inches shorter than i am, and we have no probelm hugging. normally, i put my arms around his neck (he likes that) and he puts his hands around my waiste or under my blouse or on my butt. there is no need to be scared, confidence is key and your boyfriend will appreciate that. im and me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 and a 1/2 months.

frances, xox Jan 09 2011 6:04pm FLAG
make sure you smell good:)

a person:) Jan 09 2011 6:47pm FLAG
Guess walk up and hug him,he will hug u backkk cuzzz its ur boyfriend (: andmakkke suure u smeel goood and crap <3

ryans girl (: Feb 08 2011 12:01pm FLAG
If he is shoter than u than you should sit down. And than hug him.

Anonymous Feb 16 2011 3:28pm FLAG
hope it helps

Anonymous Feb 16 2011 3:29pm FLAG
hope it helps

Anonymous Feb 16 2011 3:30pm FLAG
I have a BF who is shorter than me. Just put ure arms around his neck... and yes... Make sure u smell good

forever_young1 Mar 24 2011 4:38pm FLAG
My bf is shorter than me by like 4 inches and i wuz soooo nervous about hugging him 4 the first time and i wz wrried about nothing i just put my arm around his neck and he puts his arm around my lower back and its soo amazing!

Anonymous Mar 30 2011 7:41pm FLAG
Yes! Make sure u smell good and make sure u keep ur balance :) i kindof tripped when i hugged my bf for the 1st time :/ but he thought it was adorable ;)

Anonymous Mar 30 2011 7:43pm FLAG
Smell nice and hug over the shoukders and he might kiss yuh

Daniels girl :) Apr 06 2011 8:51pm FLAG
So today i hugged my bf for the first time he is so gental it awesom

Anonymous Jun 17 2011 3:16pm FLAG
I was asked out by my crush on saturday i said yed im so nervous to hug him :/ btw im ! xx HELP ME OLDER GIRLS!

Frazzels girl! x Jun 27 2011 12:39pm FLAG
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Anonymous Sep 19 2011 6:37am FLAG
Hes not my bf yet but we want to hug and well im freaked out!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous Sep 19 2011 6:38am FLAG
Just u should act in a normal way!! U can hug ur bf whenever u want and in what way u want cz the important thing is that u love eachother :) just a single hug is enough for some boyfriends!:)....do not get shy cz at d end if u love eachother u can do anything that makes both of u feel comfortable..

Titana Sep 24 2011 8:15am FLAG
I know how ya feel! I've hugged my b/f twice now and i'm startin to get bit more comfortable but i feel like i can't hug him when he's with friends even though i know i can. JUST GO FOR IT!! if u hug him i'll hug my boyfriend too.xx goooood luck.xxxxx

The Nervous Aquarious Oct 04 2011 7:55am FLAG
l have a bf..... btw SEXY!!!! he's shorter than me by 5 inches but we hug p.s. just say your cold and you'll get a hug it happened to me 2day.(tall sexy sKinny chick) and he rubbed my stomach when i told him to feel my stomach and make sure you don't smell MUSKY! not attractive

5 Star Bitch Oct 25 2011 8:11pm FLAG
Same problem here. I love him to pieces but whenever I'm about to hug him all I can think of is how will he react and what will he thing and ugh. It's really confusing. But I'm gonna make myself.

Moi:) Oct 30 2011 11:40pm FLAG
Well its pretty simple I have hugged my boyfriends and I was nervous it didnt feel right but my best guy friend asked me out finally we have known eachother since we were 9 were btw anyways I promised him a hug tommorrow hope it goes good

WithmyBestFriend Oct 31 2011 6:12pm FLAG
Haha you eleven year olds... :) not in a bad way. Basically fo you guys i'd say don't ru, a lasting relationship (even if it drags on at times) where you are sure about eachother and take it deathly slowly is much better than a short one where you waste your first hug. :o i'm and i finally have a boyfriend, we've liked eachother since we were little eleven year olds, and it got so complicated at times but finally, this freshmen year he asked me to homecoming, and a month or so later we awkwardly said we were dating by text message, and that's where i am now. Dating the love of my life, after what felt like decades. :) do not give up hope as long a you are "crushing" on someone for their persona and not their looks or just to know what it's like to kiss. If you fin a guy, stick with it. You will learn so much. And as much a i have said, i am still young and have never hugged him, or hugged any guy. I long to finally open up to eachothe in the real world and show him how i feel about him, not by text message. I will look forward to it so much, and i think the Lord will guide me there if my intentions are good, as i truly love him. Yes i'm sure i'm dragging on, but don't give up hope, because in the darkest hour of your darkest day you will think that most relationships won't last so long that i should still be chasing after this, but they do. Goodthings come to those who wait, and who really are willing to put their effort in.

Gabrielle Oct 31 2011 7:25pm FLAG
Haha! Ipod fail cause idk what 'ruPOO' wa suppose to say... Oh well, :P

Gabrielle Oct 31 2011 7:28pm FLAG
hy boyfriend is up to my chin..we have tried hugging welll it was sweet but a little. just go in for the hug!!!

Katie Nov 10 2011 6:13pm FLAG
Just wrap your arms around him and automatically you will get these butterfly feelings in your tummy and your body will do the rest...

Trenisha Nov 23 2011 12:23pm FLAG
I had my first hug about two or three months ago. He was my first bf and I thought I loved him. And I am . But about a month and a half ago we broke up. He liked my best friend. Uhh yeah.:P but when I hugged him, it was the happiest moment of my life. It. Was. Amazing. but yet I didn't wrap my arms aroundhis neck. I wrapped them just around his back. On Monday I'm supposed to hug my new boyfriend. But should I wrap my arms around his back or neck?

Anonymous Nov 25 2011 8:18pm FLAG
I had my first hug about two or three months ago. He was my first bf and I thought I loved him. And I am . But about a month and a half ago we broke up. He liked my best friend. Uhh yeah.:P but when I hugged him, it was the happiest moment of my life. It. Was. Amazing. but yet I didn't wrap my arms aroundhis neck. I wrapped them just around his back. On Monday I'm supposed to hug my new boyfriend. But should I wrap my arms around his back or neck?

Anonymous Nov 25 2011 8:19pm FLAG
neck

<3 Nov 26 2011 10:01pm FLAG
I tried to hug my bf when we were walking to class but he was to nervous! Were and I'm going to hug him on the next school day... I'm really scared that he won't hug back and I'll get embarrassed!

A person Nov 26 2011 10:09pm FLAG
I tried hugging my boyfriend by his locker and he wouldn't hug back! I'm and he's !

Anonymous Nov 27 2011 7:39pm FLAG
me and my boyfriend have been dating 4 about 2 months and he hasnt huggd me or heldmyhand or anything. i try to give him hints like im cold or my hands are cold and lets compare hand sizes. how can i get him to hold my hand. p.s.we r both shy and i dont want to just grab his hand i want him to make the first move. any advice

yellowrocks Nov 28 2011 6:35pm FLAG
Hi I'm and I broke up with my bf in our first year at high school, we recently got back together but then he dumped me for my friend then they finished and we got back together a few days ago, now she is calling me a slag and other names what shall I do because I really love him and I've fallen out with my friend.... HELP!!!!! Please also he's smaller than me how do I kiss him???

amber Nov 30 2011 4:50am FLAG
my boyfriend is really short so it is like mega ing awkward

anonymous Dec 02 2011 4:27pm FLAG
ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months now and he has only put his arm around me once, at a hayride, but he hasnt done anything else, not even hugged me or held my hand. At my school,after lunch everyone goes and sits in the gym and he sits by me and he always sits really close to me, but i am friends with his friends and he is friends with my friends, but anyway how do i get him to hold my hand or put his arm around my waist. oh and he alwayys pulls my hair (he`'s playing of course) and he has poked my side like once. p.s. we are both kinda shy around each other and i don't want to ask him about it or i don't want to make the first move. I want to give him hints that i want him to hold my hand. PLEASE HELP!!!!

victoryismine Dec 03 2011 1:05pm FLAG
ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months now and he has only put his arm around me once, at a hayride, but he hasnt done anything else, not even hugged me or held my hand. At my school,after lunch everyone goes and sits in the gym and he sits by me and he always sits really close to me, but i am friends with his friends and he is friends with my friends, but anyway how do i get him to hold my hand or put his arm around my waist. oh and he alwayys pulls my hair (he`'s playing of course) and he has poked my side like once. p.s. we are both kinda shy around each other and i don't want to ask him about it or i don't want to make the first move. I want to give him hints that i want him to hold my hand. PLEASE HELP!!!!

victoryismine Dec 03 2011 1:05pm FLAG
Ok so I'm in year 7 and my new boyfriend is in year 8. We're head over heels 4 eachother, but it's kinda awkward for me to go up to him coz idk his friends very well and he's older so i don't wanna make a fool of myself. We hugged today and i swear i heard angels singing!!! He's so soft, warm and he's sssooooo kind!! I'm soz but i gotta tell u how it all started!!!! OK so we were both going on this drama skl trip thing. AHH we're both good at drama YAY!!! Anyway, on the coach he was sitting behind me and he kept trying to get my attention so then after a while i got talking to him and realised i really liked him. His friend who he was sitting next to kept hinting to me that he liked me and tht the boy i was talking bout says i'm pretty. BTW his name's Will. Such a cute name. So when we arrived at the theatre we were given the tickets and realised tht we were sitting next to eachother. He was gonna put his arm round me in the performance but he didn't know if i wanted him 2 cuz he didn't wanna upset me. AWWWW!! so then on the way home we sat next to eachother on the coach and chatted 4 England!! We can tell eachother absolutely anything! I ADORE his eyes!!!! They're stunning!!! WOW I'M SOOO LUCKY 2 HAV HIM!!!!!!!! I'm gonna giv him the best hugg he's ever had tomoz!! yes yes i am!!!!!xxx<3

Sooo in love!!!xxxx(also known as nervous aquarious in previous Dec 05 2011 8:19am FLAG
Just give him time im gonna get my hug Monday.btw his name is jacob.hot name!!!!!!!!!he is my bf.Im soooo happy.he has dark hair,black eyes,glasses,wears a blue jacket all the time,andhe is hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I just u get ur hug. Im just gonna ask him 4time a hug.good luck

Madelyn Killion Dec 09 2011 8:03pm FLAG
wow i have neeeded all dis. my bf is smaller and its really awkward. he comes up to me and im like " what" cos he doesnt make any clues he wants a hug. i hug sitting down cos i am so tall.

Elz x Dec 16 2011 4:00pm FLAG
My boyfriend is 5'8 & i'm 4'10 ; uhmm. I havent hugged him either and weve been dating for 2 weeks, but i dated him last year & liked him for 3 years. BHA, just wantd to post .

My mom Jan 01 2012 11:31pm FLAG
My bf is about 4 inches shorter than me and it bothers all my friends but all I care about is that me and my bf love eachother to death. :) and he will grow eventually lol. O and I'm like 5'5 and he's about 5'1

Ej Jan 25 2012 8:18pm FLAG
theres this new guy in my class n weve been 2gether for like a week but i totally adore everything about him even though were kinda shy around eachother but today we walked around cuddling n stuff :] n my bff is going out with his bff so we like doubledate 2gether n its so sweet n ive always wanted to give him a REAL hug but hes like 1 inch shorter then me n im nervous ...here was our last convo: aww ily ur so sweet !! ily 2!! r u sure!?! yes!aww i love u sooo much :]-in love

heather, tuscaloosa, alabama Feb 07 2012 7:35pm FLAG
Go in for the hug! Im actually gonna hug my boyfriend for the first time. I'm gonna ask him to give me a hug and im gonna wrap my arms around his neck, so excited to show him some love (:

J +M (: Feb 10 2012 6:53am FLAG
I have a boyfriend-Will. It started off with just hugging, and then he kissed me on the cheek, so the next day i kissed him on the cheek and then yesterday (Friday) we kissed on the lips, but it was only the type of kiss you would give your mum, like it was for not even a second, but on monday, we are gunna kiss for about 4 seconds!! I am soooo excited. I always hug him around his back, he hugs me around my back, should i put my arms around his kneck for the hug and then hold his hands for the kiss??? BTW, he comes up to about my mid-throat!! But i just bend down a little x

Paige Feb 26 2012 8:57am FLAG
My bf`s sister wants me to hug him but i think i will im just going to hug him and be myself i dont want to pmake him mad hes worried il be mad i wont im

rachel i rock Mar 09 2012 6:57pm FLAG
Okay so my bf and I have been together for a month and a half and we have texted about hugging and cuddling often but we have only actually hugged once and it was with one arm before leaving and We're supposed to hug TOMORROW!!! I don't know what to do when I see him were gonna hug HELP!!!

Peanutbutter1 Mar 14 2012 8:16am FLAG
Oh and I'm and hes but were in the same grade:)

Peanutbutter1 Mar 14 2012 8:17am FLAG
Okayy so ive had a crush on him for like, 4 years and we finally startered going out like 3 or 4 weeks ago and we were like best friends for 8 fricken years. He hugs alot of other girls and ya i get a little jelous but its who he is. Hes my chick magnet haha but we havnt held hands, hugged, kisse. We barely have anything to talk avout on the fone. I need a hug or else im gonna scream! Any advice? Oh and hes like a cm taller than me so neck or back? I also want it to be more romantic, not too romantic i mean im . Annd my mom got me one of those freakin purity rings so that ruins it. But im just gonna like, take it off. HELP!

taken<3 Mar 16 2012 6:35pm FLAG
Okayy so ive had a crush on him for like, 4 years and we finally startered going out like 3 or 4 weeks ago and we were like best friends for 8 fricken years. He hugs alot of other girls and ya i get a little jelous but its who he is. Hes my chick magnet haha but we havnt held hands, hugged, kisse. We barely have anything to talk avout on the fone. I need a hug or else im gonna scream! Any advice? Oh and hes like a cm taller than me so neck or back? I also want it to be more romantic, not too romantic i mean im . Annd my mom got me one of those freakin purity rings so that ruins it. But im just gonna like, take it off. HELP!

taken<3 Mar 16 2012 6:46pm FLAG
well everyday before skol wen we r about to go in we give each other a hug its not hard just go up to him and hig him im still nervous anout holdin his hand but he reaches for my hand so ya i wanna put my arms around his neck wen we hug but he always puts his arm around my neck so i hug him by the waist help

taken Mar 18 2012 5:56pm FLAG
so , i have been tgt with my boyfriend for about 1month , we havent really talk to each other in real life , we just text all day and stuff . But we're totally in love with each other . I rlly want to hug him , but i'm just afraid . I'll be meeting him this monday just before school . So yeahh.... Should i or should i not ? P.s. I'm a shy person

xoxo Apr 06 2012 8:25am FLAG
We r both and have 3 classes together. We have been dating for exactly a month today and we still haven't hugged or held hands or anything! I really want to hug him soon but he is about 4 inches shorter than me. I don't know how to hug him and I am afraid that he might not hug back if I hugged him first. My friends keep telling him to hug me (I don't tell them too they just think its all their business) but every time they tell him he says no and trys to run away. When I hear that of course I feel kind of sad. Like he doesn't want to hug me. But I am hoping that hes just really shy about it and actually does. WHAT DO I DO I NEED HELP!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE I NEED ADVICE!!!!

A+H=<3 Apr 10 2012 11:14pm FLAG
We r both and have 3 classes together. We have been dating for exactly a month today and we still haven't hugged or held hands or anything! I really want to hug him soon but he is about 4 inches shorter than me. I don't know how to hug him and I am afraid that he might not hug back if I hugged him first. My friends keep telling him to hug me (I don't tell them too they just think its all their business) but every time they tell him he says no and trys to run away. When I hear that of course I feel kind of sad. Like he doesn't want to hug me. But I am hoping that hes just really shy about it and actually does. WHAT DO I DO I NEED HELP!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE I NEED ADVICE!!!!

A+H=<3 Apr 10 2012 11:14pm FLAG
We r both and have 3 classes together. We have been dating for exactly a month today and we still haven't hugged or held hands or anything! I really want to hug him soon but he is about 4 inches shorter than me. I don't know how to hug him and I am afraid that he might not hug back if I hugged him first. My friends keep telling him to hug me (I don't tell them too they just think its all their business) but every time they tell him he says no and trys to run away. When I hear that of course I feel kind of sad. Like he doesn't want to hug me. But I am hoping that hes just really shy about it and actually does. WHAT DO I DO I NEED HELP!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE I NEED ADVICE!!!!

A+H=<3 Apr 10 2012 11:14pm FLAG
Sry it got posted 3 times.....idk what happened

A+H=<3 Apr 10 2012 11:15pm FLAG
Alright make a plan honey bun Im in 7th im he here was my plan. So I talk to my friend ( who is close to my bf ) and told her to tell my bf that I said to her I wanted him to hug me so she told him and now I'm happy!

Awesome Apr 24 2012 6:34pm FLAG
Thanks. We have almost been together for 2 months and still nothing. I will try to have my friend talk to him. But today he seemed like he was trying to hold my hand when we were walking together. He kept bumping my hand and I knew what he was doing but I got nervous and froze! I regret it now...

A+H=<3 May 01 2012 5:02pm FLAG
Ugggh more problems... ok so my boyfriend STILL hasn't hugged me... surprise surprise... but hes like a total class clown (in a cute way) and is not shy at all... then someone says something to us about us and he turns bright red and gets kinda mad??? Now he has been hanging out with his friends who hang out with some 7th graders (remember I'm on 6th) and they r Blonde (so am I) and pretty and I see him laughing and enjoying himself... I cant help but get SUPER JEALOUS!!! what. Do. I. Dooooooo!!!!!

A+H=<3 May 09 2012 11:00pm FLAG
YAY!!! I GOT MY HUG!!! :) :) :) :) :) Hey "Awesome" I took your advice and it worked!! Except this time it went way different than what he'd usually do... my bff went up to him and told him to hug me and he said "OK" while before he'd turn red and say no and run away he was really shy. But now I think he is getting more used to this whole BF/GF thing he's not as shy as he used to be about it. YAY!!!! I LOVE LIFE!!!!!:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :):) :)

A+H=<3 May 14 2012 8:25pm FLAG
I had my first hug on Monday!!! The guy is so adorable hes like perfect for me!!! We're going to be together forever!!!!!

:) :) :) :) :) FIRST HUG :) :) :) :) :) May 16 2012 4:58pm FLAG
I got Asked out 4 days ago My Bf is really shy but i'm Not all u hav to do is walk Lear each Other And Ur Friends will dry And push use together i Hughes My Bf And Know One Seen so we did it again by ourselves hugging may Seen hard for some but really After use hug u hav a really good Feeling its Totally W?rth it!!

Hope ur gelord :) May 25 2012 5:53am FLAG
My bf is really sweet and he hugs me like 10 to times every time he sees me. He also gets very shaky and nervous. What do you think this means???????????? This isn't really advice but I need a ANSWER!!!!!!

@love is life@ Jun 04 2012 1:07am FLAG
ok so me and my bf have been together for 5 mounts and he hasnt event held my hand and i want to really bad what do i do??????

C+A= <3 Jun 17 2012 8:27pm FLAG
this is 4 @love is life@ i think ur bf is happy but are u in frount of people cuz he might nervous in fount of people.

C+A= <3 Jun 17 2012 9:28pm FLAG
this is 4 @love is life@ i think ur bf is happy but are u in frount of people cuz he might nervous in fount of people.

C+A= <3 Jun 17 2012 9:28pm FLAG
this is 4 @love is life@ i think ur bf is happy but are u in frount of people cuz he might nervous in fount of people.

C+A= <3 Jun 17 2012 9:29pm FLAG
K dude I just wanted to know where to put my arms cuz I'm taller then him lol ... My first bf was taller then me so I hugged him around the neck and he hugged me kinda low around the waist with his hands in the small of my back. But this guy is shorter then me (not by much- were like almost the same height) so idk if it's different or not cause when I hug my guy friends that are shorter then me, I go around their back sooo.... But I want this to be special, I really like him sooo help please lol

LittleBird<3 Jun 18 2012 3:51pm FLAG
just hug him around his back

C+A= <3 Jun 18 2012 10:54pm FLAG
Ihad my first hug on the first day we went out nad i was so shy my friend made me hug him i wanted to so we did then yesterday we wnet to hug but there was a very big group of people around us to watch us hug and we both got really shy and now i want to hold his hand how do i give him hints that i want to because we are never alone eaither his or my friend are near us and when we get close we both freak out what can u do help plz!!!

a shy girl Jul 23 2012 6:36am FLAG
Ihad my first hug on the first day we went out nad i was so shy my friend made me hug him i wanted to so we did then yesterday we wnet to hug but there was a very big group of people around us to watch us hug and we both got really shy and now i want to hold his hand how do i give him hints that i want to because we are never alone eaither his or my friend are near us and when we get close we both freak out what can u do help plz!!!

a shy girl Jul 23 2012 6:36am FLAG
Hey ok so there's a really cute guy in my class and My friend asked him if he liked me. He got bright red and turned away from her but didn't leave and she asked if he liked me again and he shrugged still bright bright bright red almost purple and she asked again and he said I don't know. Then later in the only class I have with him, he kept looking at me ans smiling at me. Then I was working on the floor with one of my friends and right next to an empty desk. So he comes over and said I think ill sit here. I got so happy and I kept putting my arms on the desk and asking him questions (about the work) and stuff. But I don't know if we are really going out or not. I need help!!!!!! Someone give me some advice pleassssseeee!!!!!! I really like him and hope hes my bf. (We are both )

A+D=<3 Aug 24 2012 10:56pm FLAG
Hi, my bf and I are both and each others 1sts.. We dating for almost a month now and it couldn't be better, but its real complicated cos our parents are real strict and we both not allowed to date till we which means we can't go on dates and only see each other at school. Anyway, every morning, break and afternoon he likes giving me loooooong hugs and last week we were hugging and I felt he's hand on my butt and like I didn't know what to think or do.. So I just carried on hugging him now its becoming a usual thing, and I'm liking it but I don't know what to do while he's busy touching my ass, I mean I just stand there like a chop. Surely there's something I can do while we hugging?? Any advice would help ;;) thanks**

*_N+C=<3_* Aug 26 2012 6:15am FLAG
lol

emily Sep 01 2012 8:05pm FLAG
hey,my bf and i are both .acutally we were best of friends ..but as they say never have a boy as ur best friend.anyway we fall in love .we were in the same class. we start dating at 18.our first date was at the resturant .there we had our first kiss where he pull me and hug me like this is the first and last time he hug me as if it was no tomarrw? and so fore i love my bf alot ?

mandy Sep 01 2012 8:12pm FLAG
hey i wish i can have my bf back i do not no wat happen to him he is runing aftr a nun skulled girl who do no tcare a damm abt him?

arie Sep 01 2012 8:13pm FLAG
Ok i hugged my BF for the first time today and tommorow is friday so i am getting my hug and kiss tommorow at the buses in middle school and today i only hugged him around the back so he put his arm around my neck but tommorow im gettin my hug and yeah its more romantic to hug him around the neck and if u r nervous dont be just ask ur BF AND HE WILL GIVE U A HUG THATS WHAT I DID IF NOT JUST WALK UP TO HIM AND HUG HIM

Just do this and u will get your BF to hug u Sep 06 2012 3:05pm FLAG
Okayz, Me And My Boyfriend are both , but he's two months yonger than me and about the same hight but a lil shorter than me...idk how to hug him, where do I put my handzz? :( we usually talk through text, and we have only gone out on 2 dates, and tomorrow is the first day bak at school (gonna be in year 9) and I haven't seen him for about 3 weeks... I really wanna hug him, but its really awkward and he's really shy. I'm always the one to do stuff first, but he's the one who asked me out... We liked eachother from year 7 and we started goin out about a month ago...Please Help!!!! :) xx

ToastLover(Random :D) Sep 06 2012 10:28pm FLAG
Heyy I'm my bf and me started dating yesterday we gonna hug tomorrow I'm so freaking scared we about same size

someone Oct 15 2012 5:23pm FLAG
Ok so... I'm and I had a HUGE crush on a guy for 4 years and this year I FOUND OUT THAT HE LIKES ME BACK!!!!XD he did admit that he was scared to tell me and he had someone else tell me and then I sent him a huge paragraph on how much I love him and stuff... And now he's not that shy around me any more :D hes been asking me to meet him somewhere but we haven't found out a day yet... AND HE'S COMING TO MY HALLOWEEN PARTY THIS YEAR!!! XD I'm hopeing to get a hug from him during my party..... HELP ME I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!! P.S. if u have a crush on a guy for YEARS just tell him how u feel :) it totally worked for me and life is goooood! :D

Catlover10 Oct 24 2012 5:51pm FLAG
well me and my bf have been together for ten days and we are in year six. hes a badboy and he has got lots of bad boys mates and im scared of hugging him or arsking. older gitls help me please. i want my kiss to

wouldnt you like to no Nov 04 2012 1:53pm FLAG
my bf and i hug all the time 5 pr 6 times a day, we also haven't had our first kiss, but i hope it happens fast. we have been dating for 1year and 2 months!! just put your arms around his neck and he will grab your butt or waist!!! ENJOY!!!!!! his name is montana ingram!!!!!!

i love him!!!!! Nov 19 2012 9:01pm FLAG
he will grab for your butt,waist,and boobs!!!!!!! i love ig when he did it

montana and me Nov 19 2012 9:04pm FLAG
i need help i fast i scared to hug him

have been dating for a week Dec 29 2012 9:49pm FLAG
Just Hug him. Duh!!! Lol

Butter cup Jan 10 2013 8:30pm FLAG
if u hug him and get it over with u will be fine

c+l=<3 Jan 12 2013 7:49pm FLAG
Help! I sawy boyfriend talking and laughing with his ex today! Am I overreacting or ships I be worried

Luvergirl103 Jan 18 2013 6:43pm FLAG
Haha, all you little kids saying "We are going to be together forever!" If he's taller than you, hug him from around the neck, he should lean down a bit. My boyfriends like 4 inches taller than me, so it'a cute when I hug him. :3 Oh, and I'm in Year 7, and he's turning in like 4 days, in year 9 (: He's a cutie.

Kaitlyn(: Jan 29 2013 7:19am FLAG
I really need advice... my boyfriend Ron asked me out on Valentines day it has been one day and i already hug him is that bad? Are we moving to fast??!!??! I am paranoid right now please help!!!

Anonymous Feb 15 2013 5:29pm FLAG
I've been dating my best friend for 5 months 6 in acouple of days and we are both really shy when it comes to relationships and we have only hugged 2 times (he told me that he never hugged me when we were just friends because he has always liked me and we have been best friends for acouple years now and I hugged him acouple of times when we weren't dating but he hugged me the 2 times we hugged while dating) yesterday he called me after school and told me that he wants to start hugging more and he seemed really nervous. And after we talked I was thinking and I knew he was going to be all shy and not do it and I knew I was ganna do the same thing and that's what ended up happening we were both too shy (I knew because we talked about this several times before) but after reading stuff on here and seei that I'm not alone on this I'm going to hug him tommarow :)

SomeRandomGirl! Mar 05 2013 6:07pm FLAG
Okay so I hugged him today and it was amazing it took some guts but I did it after school when I saw my mums car I said bye (his name) then I hugged him and walked over to the car. It's not that hard once you do it and its worth it! My advise is don't be nervous I'm sure you've done this before maybe with a friend and smile after the hug. :)

SomeRandomGirl! Mar 06 2013 3:42pm FLAG
Me and my boyfriend hug but we hug like friends would hug (like one arm up and one arm down) but I'm wondering if I should hug him around the neck (we are almost the same height he's like 1 cm taller than me)

Person!!! Mar 08 2013 9:04am FLAG
My boyfriend and I hugged once and it was nice, but the key is to be comfortable because you don't want a hug that is awkward and uncomfortable. Snuggle or cuddle is the best key. I'm sure it will be the best few seconds of your life :)

Nyan cat loves rainbows Mar 18 2013 10:21pm FLAG
I'd like to think hugging your boyfriend is like squeezing your teddy bear when you were a child. You hug him with all your love and as a bonus, seal it with a kiss. Just DON'T squeeze him too tight, obviously, and don't mess up. Good luck sweetie ^_^

Pink fluffy unicorns dancing on rainbows Mar 18 2013 10:25pm FLAG
I have this boyfriend who is so sweet and hes a muslim( i dont care i loive him to bits) we have been going out for like 2 months amd i hugged him for the firsst time a few days ago, im frigid and im never had my first kiss yet.. I am menna be meeting him at school tomoz on b floor to hug him again but i really wanna know how to stop being frigid help me please!! Sorry for spelling mistakess my phone dodged xxxx

jodie xxx Mar 19 2013 3:46pm FLAG
Please help me:)

jodie xxx Mar 19 2013 3:50pm FLAG
I have a similer story haha im to scared to hug and kiss imn well frigid

lol Mar 20 2013 10:49am FLAG
I am ment to be kissing my boyfriend tomorrow, im. Frigid as well but things gunna happen these days lol, im really scared but i have to get over my fear all m,y friends have kissed n hugged and im there but one is still but got off woth someone-.-

happy to help just ask me:) xoxoxo Mar 20 2013 3:22pm FLAG
well all u need to do is dont be nervous and slowly sit or stand little more closer to him and put one arm around him and breath then just put ur ozther arm around him and move more close

holly<3david Mar 23 2013 12:23pm FLAG
Same Problem, I searched for help, Both of us are like freaking shy and we are desperate to hug eachother he said I have to hug him first 2 prove that I like him. I'm and we have been dating for 2 weeks or so. We really love eachother yet we are so shyy any advice

Lisa <3 Km May 13 2013 12:36pm FLAG
well i had the same problem me and my bf have been dating for 1month and a week and still we havnt hug yet but imma do it on friday, so this is what imma first hold his hand then imma lean closer and just put my head on his shoulder(btw were going to be sitting down if anyoneis wondering):) wish me luck!

me:) May 23 2013 8:06pm FLAG
Just hug him everything will be alright if he loves u and u love him then go for it I did and I'm

? Jul 02 2013 12:51pm FLAG
My boyfriend wanted to hug me so badly last day of skwl n he said if I don't he gona b angry !!! I was ready 2 hug him but my mum came n picked me up so I cudnt hug him wat do I do back 2 skwl is on a few days wat doo I do ??????

lover Jul 08 2013 2:37pm FLAG
ok so i have a short bf and and a ex bf who was tall ok if he is short all you got to do is just open ur arms and ask if u can have a hug and if he says no you say fine get thts what i did and now i just hug him and im in middle school today s his birthday i gave him a big hug but when wewal out of school hesay can i have a hug hes so sweet i love him but yeah thts all you have to do its like hugging ur friend but its a guy and u love him in a duffrent way

wills girl ally Oct 03 2013 7:50pm FLAG
Wrap your arms around like his chest and he shall wrap his arms around your waist that's how u should hug him

cutie 3 Oct 18 2013 10:14pm FLAG
pFF3AD Thanks again for the blog post. Much obliged.

dUDSigETYoHlr Oct 24 2013 3:06pm FLAG
I'm still trying to hug my bf but we're both really shy and we don't have the guts to do it. What should I do!!!!

Anonymous Nov 02 2013 8:01pm FLAG
mK1K0D Thanks a lot for the blog post.Much thanks again. Awesome.

jGOmSSqGgDLQ Nov 17 2013 7:59pm FLAG
I want to hug my bf, but i am a little shy when he is around.. he is also a inch shorter than me ..so..should i ask him to hug me or should i hug him.. and should we have it while sitting?what shoud i do.. m really confused..

myself Nov 23 2013 6:52am FLAG
I am going through the same exact problem. It is NOT hard. All you do is walk up to him start a friendly convo, and when you are done with your convo hug him. It is as easy as that.

Anonymous Nov 29 2013 10:37am FLAG
TCnpRq Awesome article.Really looking forward to read more. Awesome.

vpsOgsmTE Dec 14 2013 12:45pm FLAG
well MYSELF i would first hug him just go for it he will not mind if you are (in love) he will hug you back take some risks

amazing advice Dec 20 2013 12:39pm FLAG
I Am and I have a bf. We text each other and say we are gonna hug but when we see each other in person nothing happens I need help what should I do

Kkblondegirl Dec 26 2013 9:06pm FLAG
fEP3OV Im obliged for the article post.Much thanks again. Keep writing.

DMUQUlGOJzhzEMUWR Jan 08 2014 6:50am FLAG
My bf and i have been dating for about a week, im sos he, when should i hug him, i love him btw

fluffy clouds Jan 11 2014 12:03pm FLAG
Vktvw1 Wow, great blog.Really looking forward to read more. Will read on...

YWiwphmEEhtGVwEE Jan 16 2014 4:23pm FLAG
Well for me it was after school nd we inmiddle scool nd he just like opend his arms nd I just fell Into him but it really isn't embarrassing but just be like hey look how cute lena nd exavien look nd it knda gives him the hint that you want to Hug him........good luck

Anonymous Jan 19 2014 9:49pm FLAG
GO FOR IT! ask! ive had alot of bf and ive hugged like 3 and i had to ask! im asking my bf tommarow to hugg me and he was talking bout kissn me soon... *never had my first kiss* my parents dont like him coz he was aressted in 4th grade but were now and their still not over it :( but just ask! and wear PERFUME he dont want to SMELL your ODOR.... baby girl dont worry bout nothing... and if he grabs ur butt so what! go with the flow! and just giggle a little and b over it! GOOD LUCK GURLL!

LET HIM GRAB UR BUTT HE THINKS UR SEXY!!!! Jan 28 2014 6:48pm FLAG
I'm having the exact same problem. We've been dating for nearly 2 months but I don't know how!!! Plus she's 10cm smaller than me. A few of his friends told me he wanted to hug me but he hasn't yet. How about asking him about it over message? That's what I m gonna do. Just say something like ' don't freak but would you hug me? ' or get one of your friends to say something

I love him so much!!! Mar 01 2014 12:47pm FLAG
My boyfriend asked me out on Valentine's day and on the first day we hugged in front of everybody.. Honestly this is the easiet thing you will ever do just put your arms around his neck my boyfriend is a few inches taller than me so it's easy.. Good luck!!!

Rinny Captorrr Mar 03 2014 2:47pm FLAG
v3FLLh wow, awesome blog.Much thanks again. Really Great.

hccuarCLgsTWMv Mar 22 2014 8:04am FLAG
Okay I speak from experience you think he'll be like wtf but sometimes he wants you to make the move so just put your arms out and maybe make a routine of it like when you meet or have to go like that

Anonymous Mar 26 2014 4:02pm FLAG
b7Afsf Major thankies for the post.Really thank you! Keep writing.

PEhyVHOcIGDWGlVpgI Apr 01 2014 3:42am FLAG
go 4 it GURLSS i own u now.... so just hug him

kisses -A Apr 03 2014 4:16pm FLAG
I'm and when I first started dating I was and I was very nervous about hugging him so I just decided I wanna get to kno him before we start embracing more. It worked out we still go 2 the same school and we have been together for 3 years. I suggest that you just give it time until you get to the point where you can do things with out him saying what are you doing. So I guess a month or 2

M+J=💍 Apr 07 2014 1:27pm FLAG
Well I have been dating this boy for like a month and he wants a hug but I don't know how to hug him!!! Help?? :o

nerdbunnyswag Apr 24 2014 4:28pm FLAG
Hi I'm my boyfriend and I have been dating for a yr. everyone says we r the cutest couple ever. We finish each other sentences we r just perfect. Not meaning to brag..!!! Not exactly perfect!!! We r very nervous round each other we say I love u but I haven't kissed him or hugged him.p.s he is to inches taller than me how do I hug him

A+S=❤and cutest couple May 08 2014 10:10pm FLAG
w7rAWM Really enjoyed this blog.Thanks Again. Will read on...

jckBICGsG Jun 04 11:19am FLAG
Me and my boyfriend, were both in yr 7, last year we dated all year then we broke up and got back together again a couple of weeks ago, he is like up to my eye level an I want to hug him but I don't know how to get him to hug me. We r both shy and his mate is always there who is annoying and takes mess out of us 4 talkin + text in each other. 2 of my mates who started dating just b4 we did hug all the time and I want to be confident like them. Last year he kissed me on the cheek a few times and we held hands sometimes but now we r in high school it's different. I want to hug him but I don't know how to get him to hug me. PLEASE HELP ME! What should I do to get him to want to????

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