The Problem: so like im â‘and my boyfriend is ⑯ and like we both go to church every Sunday and Wednesday and like he comes to sit beside me and well while the pastor is preaching i hold out my hand to try to tell him that I wanna hold his ,u know,but every time I hold out my hand he never ends up holding mine , but i dont think he knows that i want to hold his hand, and i really want to!so what do I do?!?! :( please help me!!!!!!
Asked by: blessed Gurl at
12:38:15 AM, Saturday, February 25, 2017 EST
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this is why people think fourteen year olds are retarded
country Gurl Feb 25 2017 10:00amFLAGUmm OK well generally asking him is a good idea kik my theheartofdragonwing and explain it more
AnonymousFeb 26 2017 11:43pmFLAGSorry but i dont have kik
country Gurl Feb 27 2017 12:21pmFLAGSorry but i dont have kik
blessed country gurl 05Feb 27 2017 7:12pmFLAGSo i asked told my boyfriend why i kept holding my hand out and it made me feel really wierd but he felt wierd too so like now what do i do? :( please help me! :'(
blessed GurlFeb 27 2017 7:15pmFLAG
I told him** sorry auto correct._.
blessed GurlFeb 27 2017 7:16pmFLAGSo i told my boyfriend why i kept holding my hand out and it made me feel really wierd but he felt wierd too so like now what do i do? :( please help me! :'(
blessed GurlFeb 27 2017 7:17pmFLAGHmm well if he feels weird about holding hands maybe he isn't ready for a relationship cuase that's pretty basic
Theheartofdragonwing Feb 27 2017 9:45pmFLAGHolding hands cuddling and kissing are dating 101 lol
Theheartofdragonwing Feb 27 2017 9:46pmFLAGIm only 1.4
blessed GurlMar 01 2017 8:31amFLAGIm not allowed to kiss ._. Honestly i really wanna kiss him but....... im only 1.4 years old and yes im a ****
blessed GurlMar 01 2017 8:33amFLAGJUST TELL HIM YOU WANT HIM TO GRAB YOU BY THE PUZZY
DeenMar 01 2017 2:49pmFLAGNot allowed to kiss him that's ing kissing when it's done right is aboustly amazing I kinda miss dating cuase I enjoy kissing but then I also can't be dealing with all the drama that goes with it I'm so I've got some experience
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 04 2017 2:46pmFLAGSo ur only nothing worng with that I started dating at . U aren't allowed to kiss becuase of ur age????
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 04 2017 2:47pmFLAGCorrect
blessed GurlMar 04 2017 3:21pmFLAGNah that's ed up I know doing much worse then kissing
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 05 2017 3:57amFLAGAt least you're not having sex like I did. Hahah
EnemyMar 05 2017 10:51amFLAG
Yep don't see y it matters though as long as we aren't stupid and end with with a pregnant gf
blessed GurlMar 05 2017 7:08pmFLAGAll I can say is just grab his hand next time and if u wanna kiss him (in private obviously lol)
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 06 2017 6:24amFLAGLmao my idiot boyfriend (Lub yew fam) asked to see my hand and spread my fingers apart and laced them with his. Dork move and definitely not going down in the books as "subtle" but it got the job done. Another way to hold hands is if you're standing and your arms are hanging at your sides is just to slip your hands into his. If he declines or pulls his hand away its no biggie. Just know that he might have boundaries or may nawt feel all dat comfortable yet- or maybe he's never done this. Good luck (:
TheEbullientRoseMar 06 2017 5:21pmFLAGThx guys really appreciate the great advice! But how do i tell him that i want to kiss him without actually asking him or telling him that i want to kiss him
blessed GurlMar 07 2017 5:27pmFLAGWell not really alot u can do except just kissing him if u don't wanna ask or tell him to
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 07 2017 8:11pmFLAGBut doesn't that seem a little straight forward i mean me and my boyfriend have only been dating since January of this year
blessed GurlMar 07 2017 8:35pmFLAGJanuary ur kidding right. normally I start kissing after a week or 2. It might seem straight forward but once uve done it it'll be easy afterwards
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 08 2017 5:27amFLAGBut im so scared that he will open his eyes and be like oh my gosh your so gross!! :'(
blessed GurlMar 08 2017 1:16pmFLAGBelieve me there's nothing gross about kissing it's one of the most intimate things you can do to your bf. If he has any sense he'll go with it
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 08 2017 3:11pmFLAGIf u want tell him to close his eyes then go up and kiss him
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 09 2017 1:39amFLAGThen what do I do after I kiss him, lo ike what do i say or do once ive done it?
blessed GurlMar 09 2017 7:37amFLAGThen what do I do after I kiss him,like what do I say or do once I've done it?**
blessed GurlMar 09 2017 2:56pmFLAGUsually nothing happens for a little bit maybe a small smile then a return kiss if ur lucky usually u go back to what u were doing before u kissed him
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 09 2017 3:51pmFLAGOh ok thanks! But where would i go to kiss him? I mean like when we are in church there is not really a private spot so what do I do?
blessed GurlMar 09 2017 9:49pmFLAGLike i can't kiss him in public , so what do I do???? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!σ_σ
blessed GurlMar 09 2017 10:16pmFLAGFind a private spot to do it would be best
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 09 2017 11:51pmFLAGYou see him outside of church I presume maybe go see a movie or something it's dark so theres some privacy
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 09 2017 11:52pmFLAGThere's one thing tho x_x
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 6:29amFLAG
He lives with his grandma so after church he goes straight to find his grandma :(
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 6:31amFLAGIts ten twenty-five am here in Alabama
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 8:25amFLAGTheheartofdragonwing do u have the game hill cliff or wolf online?cuz i have both
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 9:23amFLAGHill Cliff Horse,dragons online,or wolf online*****
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 1:01pmFLAGNah I don't have any of those don't have a pc unfortunately only have my phone I have kik Skype and snapchat I prefer kik or Skype if u wanna talk on there let me know and I'll give u my username
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 10 2017 8:33pmFLAGI have a snapchat
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 8:39pmFLAGWhats ur snapchat mine is Aubrey
blessed GurlMar 10 2017 8:40pmFLAGMine is dragonwing4ever
Theheartofdragonwing Mar 11 2017 4:31pmFLAGOk tonights the night wish me luck imma tell him to close his syes AND then imma kiss him (phooooo)again wish me luck!!!!
blessed GurlMar 12 2017 3:18pmFLAGNevermind my stupid parents said that we were not going to church tonight and i spent over 2 !!!!!!!!!凸-.-凸 ヽ( ｀0´)ﾉ i leave my best friends house JUST so i could see my boyfriend but now im not even going to church
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