i LOVE to flirt and here r some of the things i do u can hug him touch his leg arm face u can give him a massge when hes sitting down if ure kinda shy then u can spend alot of time with him maybe talk a little say hi when u c him smile alot touch his arm ya i g2g go so if i have anymore i'll be sure to tell u ... good luck
hope i'm being helpfullApr 03 2004 3:50pmFLAGAll guys go for different girls. Just be yourself, if you act like someone else, then you're not really showing the real you. And that means, the bloke is falling in love with the fake you.
JacintaApr 04 2004 10:01pmFLAGIf you want practical ways...seriously just a massage is good b/c it appeals to the very practical need to not have sore muscles/cramps, and also feels nice & flirtatious.
energetic texanApr 05 2004 1:20pmFLAGsmile at him, flirt with him, be nice to him, be sweet to him. u kno if he likes u if he tends to get a little redwhen he sees u or when he looks happy to see u, sayo u, IMs u sometimes, eye contact, tends to stick up for u sometimes, may even make fun of u in a joking way, u catch him looking at u, when u talk to him he doest look directly at u or if he does u might notice his eyes looking all around ur face then to ur lips. thats all i remember and im positive about this stuff too. hopei helped <3
hellohelloOct 23 2004 2:57pmFLAGmake sure your yourself! if he is always hanging around u then take it as a sign!
pigluvrOct 26 2004 3:10pmFLAG
If you want to get a guy to like you its simple.Get to know him inside an out what he likes to do what he hates and wants.dont act like u like him play hard to get.Guys like it when its a challenge to get a gurl.And never change yourself for the guy.
louisiana gurlOct 26 2004 6:31pmFLAGOk, I think you should just be really nice to him and he'll catch on!
Lovely GURLOct 29 2004 5:47amFLAGget to know the guy befor you say you love him because i did that once and it did not work out and also be self confident. a guy likes girls that are not whinny all the time. always smile
confusedNov 12 2004 7:38pmFLAGgive him ur phone # and tell him to call you.
If he doesn't get his and call him when he doesn't call you. If he calls you it's a pretty good sign but even better when it's he forgot a homework assignment and he called u for the assignment!! GOOD SIGN!!
Dakota's gurlNov 23 2004 4:09pmFLAGI have the same problem as you. Nothing anyone said here helped me. We need guys to answer on this page.
skewlgurlNov 23 2004 5:46pmFLAGbe a flirt to him and only him, say hi and smile to him. look into his eyes when you talk to him or vise versa.
y monkeyDec 02 2004 7:05pmFLAGIm on the same page as you! I no he likes me now too becasue his best friend told me but always flirt and smile around him but dont like throw your self at him talk to him and make a relationship
more than crushingDec 03 2004 3:36pmFLAGWhen you feel you really like a guy more than just a crush don't just stand there and wait for him to make the first move go for it!!!
The ExpertsDec 03 2004 5:28pmFLAGDon't pretend you're someone who you're not. That way he would only be falling for a liar. If you like someone, you want them to be honest with you, so you should be honest to him! Oh, and saying I love you, when you don't mean it, is also a LIE!!!
Shay Hermann Lover!!Dec 16 2004 2:20pmFLAGIf he is playful around you dont think he's just playing cause were not sometimes its best if you make a girl laugh.So if they make fun of you in a funny way they are just trying to see the pretty smile
KY GUYJan 19 2005 5:52pmFLAGyou can always tell when a guy likes you , he is always lookin at you and flirting with you only.
remember always smile, and try to look your best for him.. and if he asked how old you are that is a big sign, they wanna go out with someone there age. well plz take my advive.
coolchickFeb 03 2005 7:36pmFLAGI'am finally talking to my crush because i started to talk to him when we started to talk more and more he told me to not be shy and to feel comfortable with him and be myself he said that if i start to feel more and more comfortable and not shyyy that i will get him(and you know what that means)So i'm saying be yourself but being funny is a great way to flirt and like you!!! DONT BE BORING!! compliment his looks but try not to make him conceited! Always be yourself remember and always smile and look you unique best!!!!JUST GO FOR it!! its hard at first but once you catch on you'll forget your SHYNESS and everything will go out smoothly trust me it works now that i'm talking to my crush!!!yay!!hope it helps CIAO!!
stephany from texasFeb 19 2005 8:07pmFLAGbe ur self and nobody else
ErikaMar 29 2005 4:25pmFLAG
I like chicks who are hot
dApr 07 2005 4:41pmFLAGlistn galz...............am havin srious troubl gettn guyz...but i thnk makn dem , hangn out with em, helpn dem out with deir work really help.............work on da lookz by da way..
if he starez at u, callz u n standz up 4 u it meanz he really likez u...TRUST ME IT REALLY WORKZ!!!!!!
ice_queen_0@hotmail.comApr 08 2005 10:46pmFLAGOk I got this crush on somebody.My friends said he likes me and he writes my name on his folders.They gave his phone#.They did everything but that doesnt mean nothing.This wat i'm trying to tell if you ask him out without gettin to now him thats pretty bad.But heres the thing when I ask him out he said he already had a girlfriend.My friends says theres one good thing.Theuy said if he dumbs his gf he probly ask me.ppl say im 2 good 4 him.People say i shoild get someone nice.But dont want nice.I want wild,actilective,sweat,and flirty.Just be your self and just chat to him before you do that.Just promise me just be youself and have fun with him or flirt him.Ok thats all it takes i now because i had a bf for sixyears.
starrynight957Apr 23 2005 4:55amFLAGwell i think u shouldnt act like ur bad and just try to get to know the guy and then u can write him or her a letter and u give it to him u dont give it to someone else and tell them to give it to him or her because then he will think that the person who gave it to him wrote it and they like him and then it will be ruend.But if u dont want to write a letter then dont just ask him if he can keep a secret and if u can talk to him in private and then tell him how much u like him a if u can get to know him then go ahead and i garente u can get someone by doing that i just bey u can
nellylovrApr 26 2005 1:29pmFLAGwell i think u shouldnt act like ur bad and just try to get to know the guy and then u can write him or her a letter and u give it to him u dont give it to someone else and tell them to give it to him or her because then he will think that the person who gave it to him wrote it and they like him and then it will be ruend.But if u dont want to write a letter then dont just ask him if he can keep a secret and if u can talk to him in private and then tell him how much u like him a if u can get to know him then go ahead and i garente u can get someone by doing that i just bet u can
nellylovrApr 26 2005 1:32pmFLAGjust try to get his # and if he says no then just ask him some other questions and if he just walks away the he dont like u or he is just to shy but do anything just dont try to show off in front of him then he deffently wont like u and he will think that u r just plain dimd and he will start saying romures about u and mor
love nelly 4 everApr 26 2005 1:36pmFLAGhey yall. i am like in the same postion. i really like this guy at school and he just keeps saying IDK! and so wat i think is to just be ur self SMILE and say hi and call him dont wait around to for him MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! k? trust me guys it really works!
preppy chickApr 29 2005 4:10pmFLAGwell first do you know what guy you want pick someone you would like to go out with then make them notice make you move
heythereMay 02 2005 10:23amFLAGwell first do you know what guy you want pick someone you would like to go out with then make them notice make you move
hey thereMay 02 2005 10:23amFLAG find out what he likes & dosen`t like. That`s so obvious!! Mabey he likes a preppy chick or mabey a girl who makes funny ( actually funny ) jokes. First ask your friends your joke & see what they think. But be sure to find a guy who likes you for who you are, not how you dress to impess!
popular&coolMay 27 2005 5:33pmFLAGguys can be gay! but you luv'em! I like like this guy on my baseball team and he's got a great butt, but don't let that fool you! lol! I just look at him like i'm all that and he know's i am! But act sexy around him! Don't be a nerd. Unless ur luvr is a nerd! lol! Act how he would want you to act! I act like a jock in the games, but other than that I act like a girl. Lipgloss, tight jeans, Abercrombie & Fitch shirts, flipflops, etc. YOu know the drill girl! Strut ur Stuff! And shake what ur mamma GAVE ya! lol!
Hottie wit a body579Jun 12 2005 4:56pmFLAGI hope my advice works! B/c it worked for me! We're going out now and we've made out and all that good stuff! lol! So be true to ur self. Just don't get too crazy wit ur luvr', you don't wanna ruin your young life if you know what i mean! (PREGNANCY?)AHHHHHHHHHHH! I'm nowwhere near that stuff so yu cn use my advice. BE SEXY and FINE at the same time. IN RAIN OR SHINE IT"S FLIRTIN" TIME!
Hottie wit a body579 (again)Jun 12 2005 4:59pmFLAGGOD MADE MUD
GOD MADE DIRT
GOD MADE GUYS SO GIRLS CAN FLIRT!
Isn't that the "BEES KNEES!"
Hottie wit a body579 (again)Jun 12 2005 5:00pmFLAGGirls, don't be someone your not. I know you hear that alot but it is truthfull. Make sure the guy you like, likes you back. DOnt go after something you can't get. Just flirt, try to be sexy, and look for signs that he likes you. If he stairs at you, if he turns red around you, if he talks to you alot, if he's around you alot, you need to pay attention to these things. I have a crush well its more than a crush and I REALLY want this guy. He is my knite and shiny armor. Well i hope my advice helped.....
huskysoldier05Jul 18 2005 8:31pmFLAGBe yourself then if he doesn't like you after a while... Tell him how you feel. If he rejects you then he isn't worth it anyways. If he likes you back then play hard to get for a few days. After that then go for it!
TaraJul 27 2005 9:28pmFLAGbe yourself. dont be full of yourself. play hard to get...guys like that. dont care what people think of you. dress in your unique way. flirt and smile tons. be nice friendly and flirty. on msn i was talking to a guy and signed off because my bro needed to get on, right after i got off he called me and asked why i got off...thats a really good sign.
hope my advice helps!!
punk chickAug 07 2005 10:19amFLAGI think you should let him know you like him and then get to know get a good friend of his to mention your name when he is around and see what he does i am in a situation that he likes me but has a girl that is a firend of mine but i really like hima nd saw him first but ahe made the first move and they neva talk or nothin they try to keep it a secret but he is a dime and i am not gonna let him go becuz i like him so much but i just don't know what to do.
The man stealerSep 11 2005 1:23pmFLAGi think that you should just act like yourself and if they do not like you then they are not worth it
brittanySep 24 2005 1:43pmFLAGdont let a guy say i love u right away because he does not mean it and dont say it back if u dont mean it just act your self and dont act shy.
tottyfrootyOct 01 2005 9:40amFLAG
Well, I don't have advice yet, I have a question.
I am a freshman in high school, the guy I like is a senior in high school, is there any way he will go out w/ me?
movefreelyOct 05 2005 3:29pmFLAGIf the guy likes you, you'll know. If he smiles alot around you, if he makes you laugh, if he sticks up for you, if he looks into your eyes longer than others do, if he watches your lips sometimes when you talk, if you catch him lookin at u from the corner of your eye, if he says "i got your back..." if he asks if your ok, if he tries to memorize your # in two seconds, if you both have alot of things in common, if he says he's ADD around you (that means he's distracted, that's a good thing.) if you know he likes you, don't wait, don't let him pass u by... go for it! he wants it as much as you do, guys love girls that aren't afraid to make a move... be brave... just once... be spontaneous...be bold...
you know who...Oct 13 2005 8:15pmFLAGif a guy liks u he'll act weard around u but dont ever tell ur frendz to tell him cause ill ruin everything between u and him trust me it happend to me tanx 2 my frendz
johaOct 28 2005 2:02pmFLAGhey i like this guy but him and thhis other girl are talking and i think they are goin to go out soon but i really like him and i know for sure because everytime i see him i get bitterflies in my stomach.... but i dont know what to do to get him to like me .... o and i think this has to effect my problem im shy around boys but im not around my friends
signed annaNov 03 2005 4:24pmFLAGi like this guy but my friend likes him to but he doesent evan notice me oohh and yall who answer my question i am only ok well how do i do it he doesent like me well i dont think he likes me sombody please help me
EmmaNov 05 2005 4:57pmFLAGthink us girls should acting like we would when we r around r friends
k.m.kNov 21 2005 11:37amFLAGIt depends on the persona dn personality of that person.
Blondie2009@billyheads.comDec 19 2005 10:04amFLAGit realy depends on what the guy is like and what the guy is like and what the guy/girl are into for like the op[isit sex.
Melissa2009Dec 21 2005 10:17amFLAGGIRLS OUT THERE IF YOU HAVE A CRUSH OUT THERE PLZ DONT ACT STUPID OR DUMB CUZ THEN HE'LL THINK YOUR KINDA BORING OR NOT THERE KIND.THE POINT HERE IS TO JUST BE YOURSELFS AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT OR HOW YOU FEEL.GOOD-LUCK!
SUGARBABEDec 21 2005 6:43pmFLAGyo, if u really think dat a u likes u den u'll noe 4 sho its easy, he'll start 2 like hug u stick up 4 u comment on what ur wearing or a new hair style, trys to talk 2 u all the time , touches ur hand and basiclly flirts with u if nun of these thing r happenin its either ur luvr is shy not interested or isn't sure about how u feel about him
da truth 4 evaJan 10 2006 2:12pmFLAGfirst of all,if you like somebody out there and you know he think's his too good for everybody never let them know that you like him cause he gonna start acting stupid,you could flirt with him, and if he likes you of course you have to find out sooner or later and then you'll can hook up.
jennyJan 19 2006 1:47pmFLAGhey i like this guy except for he likes me too but the only reason he wont go out with me os because i dont do n e thing you know so if guys dont really like you and just want to well..........you know then their not the right one for you
sarinaJan 26 2006 5:11pmFLAGHey, well i find getting a guy to focus on you is by singling him out. When you talk to him use his name, and touch his arm or have some contact (ex. wrestling etc.)because that can get a guy's attention, as it would a girl's. Act yourself too, and hopfully all is well.
someone you don't knowFeb 05 2006 4:59pmFLAGok people i have a ? ok? im a 6th grader girl and my school has teams and 1 team is like as big as 1 grade and he is on another team and i only see him occasionally. how do i get to him? and the year is almost over! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
regularcutiepieFeb 10 2006 9:27pmFLAGhey everyone. so i like this guy at school and he is really hot but i really want to go out with him but i think he likes another girl and i kinda talk to him a little bit and know we r talking more and more so just start little and get big. if u know what i mean
luvr 984Feb 18 2006 6:01pmFLAGjust be yourself an dhave fun around the fuy you like but don't be a nerd!!!!!
hottie101Feb 24 2006 6:18pmFLAGi will tell you but e-mail me at girlzrul_001@yahoo.com
melodyApr 20 2006 3:36pmFLAGif you want to know email me at r_jerome@yahoo.com i need a boyfriend
rebeccaMay 01 2006 7:27amFLAGmAKE SURE THAT YOUR NOT TO PREPPY, OR IF YOU FLIRT IN A WAY WHERE YOU KINDA OF HIT HIM MAKE SURE THAT YOU DONT HIT HIM HARD TO WHERE THERES GONNA LEAVE A BRUSE.IF YOUR GOING TO A MOVIE WITH HIM MAKE SURE THAT YOUR NOT TO MUCH INTO THE MOVIE OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOK STUPID.MAKE SURE THAT YOU LOOK AT HIM WHEN HE'S TALKING,IF YOUR GOOD FRIENDS AND YOU LIKE HIM CALL HIMOR MAYBE EVEN ASK HIM TO GO SOMEWHERE WITH YOU.AND GURLIES IF THE GUY LOOKS AT YOUR BOOBS THAT MEANS THAT HE'S NO GOOD AT ALL BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU FLIRT SO THAT HE KNOWS THAT YOU LIKE HIM JUST DONT FLIRT TOO MUCH!
GOOD INFO.GANGSTAMay 01 2006 5:46pmFLAGI'm in the same situation i like htis gut but i dont think he likes me even thought he was giving all the sign theres no way! but i got some info of the internet and well it kinda helps but we heard it a million times " be yourself" blah blah blah so im just gonna say go with the flow do whatever YOU think you should do about it. dont listen to others listen to your self but dont be all that confident were nopt perfect. Holla
WomenMay 01 2006 8:45pmFLAGthis* guy* signs* not* Sry making corrections to my advice!
WomenMay 01 2006 8:46pmFLAGi know everyone says to go for the guy and be urself-but what if that doesn't work??? I mean, I've been tryin really hard to get this one guy at school to talk to me more and tell me what or how he feels but its not workin!!!! I'm only and my mom says im too young to go out so is their some other way to.........you know get to know a guy and get him to tell you what or how they feel???
D.SMay 05 2006 2:06pmFLAGyea this is dumb so go after the guy or girl u want dont give up wat u like or wat u seee that u like
bananas and pacoMay 19 2006 6:11amFLAGim in the same mess as you. just ignore him for a little bit and see what happens. i did that and the guy i like is warmin up to me~~~~~~~~~~~~
but i need help too!! i have this guy friend and he likes my girlfriend. its like im not frikin here!! i need help~~~~~
~~~~SK8ER GRL~~~~May 19 2006 4:51pmFLAGGIVE~UP~
not really....just be yourself, na dif he doesnt like the real you....get someone new, that dude sux if he doesnt like the real u~~
~~~SK8ER GRL~~~May 19 2006 4:54pmFLAGi like this guy at my camp and he was like putting on sunscreen and he's like "will you rub it in" and he was like joking around wit me and we were having funn and i loved it but i dont im so scared of rejection cuz i mean he might not like me he's prolly just like that and i need tips on how to get him to like me
plz and thnx
Mariah SableskiJun 29 2006 7:48pmFLAGDont over do it!
Dont try to start a relationship right off the bat! And dont constantly call them. They might get the impresion that your a little off in the head. Soooo....give him his space. And dont avoid him....but come to him...some. And eventually if he is intrested he will come to you.
MaryJul 03 2006 9:36pmFLAGjusst be ur self nd ome to him gurls im in tha same sistuation nd it realli works so smile dress sexxii nd play hard 2 g3t
lov ya mwah
~~rachel~~ <33Jul 16 2006 3:46pmFLAGyea now where a couple plzzz take mi advise gurls i swear it works
~~rachel~~ <33Jul 16 2006 3:48pmFLAGyou shouldnt just straight out ask the boy u like out. you should first be like a brother to him. like always joke around with him wrestle him laugh all da time with him and be urself.
you should be close with him before you ask him out so you can have a WAY better chance of going out with him.
trust me. this works. when i did this to the guy i like, he asked me out!
and if you like a guy who is only into girls that are "hot" or "sexy" you shouldnt go out with him. all hes intrested is in looks and not personality. and hes probably a perve whos just into girls boobs.
so just laugh a lot with your crush. hopefully it will work. if it doesnt then find anouther guy
KaTieJul 19 2006 3:28pmFLAGALL U HAVE TO DO TO GET A GUY TO LIKE YOU IS TO BE YOURSELF , SMILE ALOT. A SMILE IS A SIGN OF FLYRTINESS AND LOVE IF YOU GOT A PRETTY SMILE DONT BE AFRAID TO SHOW IT .. TRUST ME HE WILL COME TO YOU.. DONT GO AFTER A GUY LET THE GUYS COME TO YOU.. THEY WILL EVENTUALLY..
RICANMAMICHULAFOUPA@YAHOO.COMJul 28 2006 12:07amFLAGNot trying to be mean but guys we can get this low to have to ask some else for help be your self and don't lie.
That Kentucky ChickSep 01 2006 2:34pmFLAGif you catch hi lookin at you around the room then he likes you or thers somtin rong!but most likly he likes you .play hard to get then when the guy starts to get despret ask himm out itl tun him on!
florida hottieSep 11 2006 6:22pmFLAGflit if ya got it flant it they love it wen your aacting like yourself.show off the smile that you hide.oh and by the way desparation is areal turn on for guys! you now hes for you if he makes you laf and if he carrys you books hes giving you a hint take it ask him out!
SEXY MAMMASep 11 2006 6:28pmFLAGrules of getting a guy to like you:
first off dont act ditzy. please. not only does that annoy guys but it annoys the outta me.
guys like girls that are really nice. but they also watch how you treat others. if your a bitch to other people but then act nice to him, he'll see right through that.
please dont act like your the around the guy you like. TRUST ME they know that your not real!
randoommmSep 19 2006 4:14pmFLAGUmm i dont have any advice i NEED advice okay i live in chatham ontario and i like this guy at my schol in my clas but i asked him if he would EVER go out with me and he said No but i think he MAY like me because when this guy in my class hurts me he sticks up for me but he really never talks to me... What do i do to get him to notice me?? I reallly like him, he is my neighbor lol everyday after school i look in his window so i can see him, But i dnno he just never talks to me and i want im to atleast talk to me. But he wont i try to start a conversation he starts talking but he just says one thing then walks away.Well if anyone has ay advice email me it at sk8ter_girl50@hotmail.com please i need this advice
Krystal Manley- Need AdviceNov 24 2006 6:38pmFLAGi sudjest everyody if they a crush on a guy then talk to them!! Dont just sit back and wait for him to talk to you go up to him and talk to him be a friend TALK mabie if you talk enough to him you may make proress like he wll ask you out mabie well anyway gtg just lisen to me!!
advice girlNov 24 2006 6:44pmFLAGJust be yourself and in the long run in could be good! Now if you are yourself and your crush doesn't like you for who you are then he's not good enough for you. Each and every on of you girls out there are beautiful in your own special way. And if he doesn't see that then you are to good for him! Look into your heart and you'll see that.
MossyDec 12 2006 4:51pmFLAGDon't get too dressed up. Most 6th grade boys like girls that dress normal, like sweats and sporty types. Don't go dressed up in a mini skirt and a belly shirt just to make a 6th grade boy like you. 6th grade boys don't like that. High schoolers are more into that...
Keep your distance. Don't be all over the boy, and don't call him more than 2 times a day. That will annoy him. Also, don't stare at him during class, it will scare him off. Maybe for good.
Be brave. Don't keep on sending him notes and telling your friends to say stuff for you. If you want his attention, go up to him and say it yourself. It is scary but if you want to go out with the boy, what's the point if you can't talk to him.
Don't deny liking him in front of your friends that like him too, it's OK if they get mad at you. Eventually you will make up.
Don't be afraid to talk to him, just be patient.
Don't pressure him too much and annoy him all the time by asking him too many questions, just follow this guide and you'll be fine
Many boys like smart girls. If you're not smart, dont worry! Just well, be friendly, smile, and be nice to him. But not too nice. He might feel awkward around you.
Act yourself and don't try to push him into liking you.
Tips
Stay fresh and clean, take a shower every night.
Brush your teeth!
Remember, be yourself and don't try to be someone you're not! He is not worth it if he likes you for who you're not.
Don't ever say you're ugly.
Warnings
If your parents don't agree with dating, just wait until you're a little older. If you like a boy when you're going through body development just talk to your parent/guardian about it and they will hopefully understand.
Don't bug him about it.
Don't forget just be your self.
AmyDec 31 2006 11:07amFLAGThe way i think you should get the guy of your dreams... is act like you dont care about them and it will make guys come running after you... trust me ive done it a few times and it had worked for me so good luck with my advice.. oh and try to keep it real with them...
Alejundra aka latina te amoJan 23 2007 12:08pmFLAGI really like this guy even tho he turn me down today what should i do?
SadFeb 07 2007 5:36pmFLAGmy best friend which is a guy goes 2 a different skool then i do, so we dont c each other that much, i really like him and i want 2 tell him, but if he doesnt like me im scared everything is gonna become awkward between us. pleaz help me sumbody!!!
colonyluvrFeb 17 2007 1:22amFLAGjust be cool never hesitate act like you dont notice him and never ever tell to many people and dont say you like him to loud but never write a note thats so kindergarten and just wait a while and occasionaly walk pass him and laugh with 1 of your friends and try to make friends with all his friends but dont act to obssesed and try to look extra cute!!!!!!!!
someone who knowsFeb 19 2007 12:29pmFLAGumm this advice goes to colonyluvr i jus wanted to say you need to tell him cuz next thing you know is he'll have a gurlfriend then he'll be getting married then b4 you know it he mite b dead so stop waitin and thingz mite not b okward you know thingz mite b different
loverburd__lol_87Feb 19 2007 12:34pmFLAGwhat if ur afraid to talk to your crush?
iliFeb 22 2007 2:34pmFLAGAsk one of your friends who is also friends with him or in the same class to ask who he likes. If he says he likes you, go up and talk to him. Don't be afraid. If he says he likes soneone else, don't feel bad. There is probably someone who likes you and you don't know it. Who knows, you might like him back, even if he's one of your friends.
In The Same SituationMar 09 2007 2:29pmFLAGHey there you wanted advice from a guy here it is. The way to a guys heart is bye trying to challenge him. Flirt with other guys try to get his attention. So when he sees u flirtin with other guys he'll make the first move and he'll start to notice things. When that happens he'll try to ask u out or even ignore his friends just by paying attention to u. If this doesn't help visit me at mike_underscore_4@yahoo.com or mbustamante_1991@hotmail.com -k-
LoverandFriendMar 11 2007 10:20pmFLAGokay i don't have any advice sorry but i need it.
i've like this guy for about a month now and he lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school too.(plus iv'e known him for 2 years).
anyway i think he likes me but sometimes i think other girls that i don't stand a chance with are always hanging around with him but not falling all over him. but before i started liking him i could talk to him easily but now i can barely think of something to say i really like him and i want to go out with him before schools out so if anyone has advice PLEASE HELP ME!!
jenny8486Mar 20 2007 12:57pmFLAGI need help i like this guy and he likes this other girl what do i do now i really like him do i be nice to him what should i do???
JadeMar 24 2007 4:26pmFLAGthis guy i like he goes to my church and he plays in the band he plays the drums. im frustrated at him cause once he said he doesnt have feelings for me but here we are like my guy friends they tease us they always tell me to tell him to go get him or something. Are guy friends helpful like the guys are in the same band as he and the leader of the band is my best friend and his brother plays the bass he is also my best friend and those 2 guys are like brothers is always best to have ur guy friends help u out. Justin is his name i sat next to him at a resturant with some friends across from me he didnt get up or nothing we talked alot, he wanted to see my new phone, he wanted to borrow a pen. i just dont want anyone else but him and he knows that too he knows i have feelings for him.
i just need help please.
jfoMar 28 2007 10:05pmFLAGim not really good at this but all i no is that u need to kinda start off slow and the u can "speed" up. dont make the mistake like i did that made me lose the guy i really liked. Just ask him what he wantz from a girl, and kinda be it but still be ur self.
emilyMay 02 2007 8:20pmFLAGHey Gurlies its me again... Anyways has anyone used one of these advice colmns yet... Well if you did good for you... Anyways more on how to get a guys attention is... If he has noticed you only once and that was at the begging of the school year... And he doesn't talk to you anymore than he's trying to ask someone for help to get to you if you've experinced this... It's probably time for you to make a serios move and right now hurry before time runs out.... Because school is almost out and the summer is coming soon so it's your choice... make a move quickly so you have someone for the summer... well gurlies g2g c'ya laters
NJun 18 2007 4:50pmFLAGYes what N said Have SEX SEX AND MORE SEX!
Justin sexJun 18 2007 4:52pmFLAGWho wants 2 have sex with me!!?
Justin sexJun 18 2007 4:55pmFLAGOk the way to a guys heart is by his stomach. Make him cookies, thas what i did. Im also inviting him to a party.
Girls got a crush!Jun 18 2007 5:02pmFLAGP.S. Justin sex and N GET A LIFE!!!!!
Girls got a crush!Jun 18 2007 5:03pmFLAGHay Girl got a crush want 2 have sex with me!
Justin sexJun 18 2007 5:04pmFLAGMY PENUS RULES!! IM GOING TO PUT MY PENUS IN U!!
Justin sexJun 18 2007 5:05pmFLAGHAY JUSTIN SEX WANT 2 HAVE SEX WITH ME! U CAN PUT YOUR PENUS IN ME!!
NJun 18 2007 5:07pmFLAGhey yall i need help!!! i really like this guy but he is like my best guy friend, all my other friends say he used to like me but he alwase goes out with all my best friends! what do i do to get him to like me again?
cheerleading captianJun 26 2007 11:59amFLAGdont b wierd
Lil' cutieAug 26 2007 6:38pmFLAGBe u r self galsssss,,,, DON'T HAVE SEX SEX SEX NEVER!!!
SEXAHOLICAug 30 2007 2:12amFLAGi KNOW THIS GUY AND OUR FAMILIES MEET LIKE I DONNO 5 TIMES A MUNTH. hE HAS NEVER SPOKEN TO ME. Sometimes stares @ me.... I donno wat 2 du....Help SOMEBODY Donno if he luvs / likes or watever me. I need some serious advise....COME ON HELP.... guys
BRENDANAug 30 2007 1:46pmFLAGWho is that for i luv you hting?????????
Cute galSep 04 2007 3:55amFLAGOk i went out with thid dude and then i broke up with him cuz i thought he was gonna break up with me first so i tryed 2 save some pain by doin it first and it didnt work! and so i still like him but he likes this other gurl and he said that they were just friends but they liked each other at a point of time..and im not sure who he likes now and he lives in chi town and he came bac up here so um..he never told me and he said he loved me but i wasnt sure and he said that i was his best friend as a gurl me and the other he liked after we went out..and now im confused cuz my friend acts like she likes him tryin 2 tell him off and all this type of srap and the gurl he likes changed herself from shy 2 just out there so when u have a good man dont let him go and yeah im in the 8th and he was in the 8th and i was in the 7th when we went out help me!
confused hottie from the hood!Sep 06 2007 9:14pmFLAGTry glancing over to him over your shoulder but don't stare!
queenSep 09 2007 5:03amFLAGwhat if he cals u bad words?
sweetySep 23 2007 4:12pmFLAGdrop somthing small and ask them to pick it up and when they give it to you. give a slight smille
problem_saved@hotmail........Sep 24 2007 7:16amFLAGTotally in the same situation. I really like this guy and he seems really nice and is always talking to me and i think he's flirting but maybe he's just being kind. He's always really nice to me and makes me laugh. He's in all my classes and he makes eye contact with me and stuff but you can never be sure. Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you for you, That's totally his loss. Screw him.
fjklfjfd;gnjfkl;hgOct 20 2007 6:07amFLAGtry to become friends w/ him walk w/ him to classes sit with him at lunch try to spend as much time w/ as you can eventually he will come around trust me
fjkfjklgjrklgjregmrlkfmolerkmge'Oct 20 2007 6:10amFLAGI WANT MY FRIEND CHRIS TO LIKE ME HELP
~~~HOPELESS ROMANTIC~~~Oct 20 2007 6:12amFLAGi need help. ok, i like this guy, but at a football game i had my friends talk to him for me. he said he doesnt know if he will go out withme. then my friends broght him over to me and he didnt fight it. i dont know if he likes me and i keep asking him ?`s on the bus. he always sits around me. what should i do?
failing crusher =(Oct 21 2007 12:26pmFLAGlisten most guys will like u for who u r dont b dumb make the move. My friend told him i liked him then asked if he would go out with me he said i dont know is she hot? Then he said no cuz i dont know her but he still knows i like him and i want to go out with him so bad and plus his best-friend likes me but i dont like him i have know clue wat to do now
OltmanjerkDec 18 2007 5:07pmFLAGHey girl listen i know where you comin from.I can't really tell if he likes me either. He always talks about the kinda girl he likes, and how he likes to get to them then take them on a date and then get closer. I don't know how this subject came up between us, but it turned me red. Well anyways i think the most important sign is contact. I take karate with this guy and he is always looking for an exuse to reposition me. Somtimes he'll just touch my arms or "accidently" stroke my back. Another sign is how much you talk to each other. When we talk there is like no awkward pauses. And he makes me laugh a lot. But the funny thing is theres a 3 year age difference and im the younger one. just goes to show you love can be found in the weirdest ways!
no more than a friendJan 11 2008 9:01pmFLAGok sorry i have no advice but i need it..
ok i realy like this boy and we text none stop and we have done some things together and he lead me on alot and i started to fall for him..but he likes this other girl..and me and him are good friends i told him how i felt..then he made it acward! and so i didn't know what to do...and now he is going out with the girl we hardley text and i get sad alot ...i realy like him and i told him i moved on but the truth is ..he is allways on my mind and i have no idea what to do! i want him!
~jb~Jan 12 2008 2:57amFLAGOkay well i don't really ahve advice,it's more of a prob.
okay so since i saw this guy and he's in my grade,my team,my age.everything!
i am so in love with this kid.when i first saw him i was lovestruck.litteraly!
so what i'm asking now is..
"How can i get him to like me and flirt with me more?"
cause like we're both in the sAme soccer team and everything.and he's gorgeous.and we talk like
these past few days.it's been so great so far!!!
so i need help to get him to flirt and talk to me.so reply abck to me!! preetty pleaseee!
Excited and needs help!PRONTO!Feb 15 2008 7:48pmFLAGMy Advice is
if you really like the guy,don't assume things like "oh he sat around me,i think he likes me!" cause maybe he was trying to get a seat! and also don't be so whinney and be like "aughh i hate school!"
not a good move,ladies!!
also,if you know he's out of your lead.don't try.
Straightedge bitch.Feb 15 2008 7:52pmFLAGI need help. i'm afraid the guy i like talks bad stuff about me,cause he talked about mf bffs,bad. so idk.HELP PLEASE!
AnonymousFeb 15 2008 7:55pmFLAGsee theres this guy that iam crazy over and everybody thinks we make the most cutest couple.
how do i know that he likes me?
HELPP NEEDED PRONTO!Mar 04 2008 2:50pmFLAGokay I got this friend at school & were pretty good friends butjust became good friends this year.we have the same classes all day long except 3rd&6th period & we have so much in common & we just hangout a lot we share a lot of the same friends, Hes a basketball/baseball player Im a cheerleader and we are just so compatible for one another and I just dont know if he sees it & thats not the only thing getting in the way He has a girl friend! But they have only been dating a few months and he was single for a good while befor that & I like him way befor him & her started dating just never could get the nerve to tell him and this girl is very pretty,very smart just pretty much perfect well close to it and the weird thing is I love her to death and have actually been good friends with her way before I became friends with him but we never shared the fact that we liked him to each other and I just never thought any thing about him & her. But I sit across from him in class day after day wondering how long its going to take him to realize the feelings I have for him. They just keep growing more & more.
Whats a girl to do???
kaitlynnMar 23 2008 11:18amFLAGwrite him a poem for him and take your time with him...tell him that u like him and u wanna be with him!!!
A.K. the girl that loves zack louis lamarApr 09 2008 3:50pmFLAGwrite him a poem for him and take your time with him...tell him that u like him and u wanna be with him!!!
A.K. the girl that loves zack louis lamarApr 09 2008 3:51pmFLAGI really liked this guy once and then i found out that he liked me but i didnt make a move so he went off me and started going out with my BEST FRIEND wat im trying to say is that MAKE THE FIRST MOVE even if he turns u down thats his problem ur obviously to good 4 him!!!!!!!!!
SeriousJun 17 2008 2:35pmFLAGyeah go 2 love go under guys only leave your email and we can talk in private and maybe have alittle fun
PunkGrrlAug 23 2008 1:26pmFLAGhey well y0u know i a really likeing thins guy at my school but i know that for sure he does not like me and i really want to get his attention please help me!
kiMbERLyNov 04 2008 5:17pmFLAGhELp MEh gEt thiS GUy tO LikE MEh!!
hELp MEh pLEASE ANd iF yOU hVAvE A MySAPCE
hiT MEh Up kk
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kimberly-g@myspace.comNov 04 2008 5:19pmFLAGh3y REpLy tO My kOMMENt!
kiMbERLyNov 04 2008 5:21pmFLAGAs a guy myself, most guys are attracted to HOT chicks. Try to act sexy around them and if you think they might like you then just go and ask them out by note or in person. Guys don't like it when you're too shy or wait too long to ask them out. Just go for it! My girlfriend is really hot.
CooLiONov 17 2008 3:24pmFLAGthere is this guy at my school and he wont go out with me because he like my bff what should i do?
confused crusherJan 06 2009 4:33pmFLAGplz reply to my comment!
confused crusherJan 06 2009 4:36pmFLAGIm not trying to be mean but he likes ur bff he isn't going to change his mind on who he likes, and if he does go out w/ u it just means ur 2nd choice. i know it seems like he's the only 1 for u but give it a week and u'll like some1 new!
GirlJan 26 2009 5:47pmFLAGI don't know...... I have this guy I just asked out and I REALLY want him 2 say yes!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!! Do you guys know any good luck things (charms) I can wear/do to increase the chance of him saying yes?!?!? PLEASE HELP!!!!
Jacqueline, a heartborken girlFeb 26 2009 5:17pmFLAGOops.... sorry, i meant heartbRoken girl. lolz please help!!!!
Jacqueline, a Heartbroken GirlFeb 26 2009 5:18pmFLAGjust to tell u all u got to do is act like yourself and don't act to strong but don't be to shy.
Destiny BradfordMay 08 2009 6:25pmFLAGU all don't know how to give advice!!!!!!!
soloMay 11 2009 11:11amFLAGwell theres a really cute guy that i really like and i always try to flirt and were in a play of into the woods. in the play he kills someone tho. but anyway, theres lots of dances in the play and in one of the rehearsals i bumped right into him so im kinda clueless.
intothewoodsJul 14 2009 6:41pmFLAGGuys iv read o tht uve sed bt th guy jus doesnt notice me.i often txt hm bt he nevr replys.shud i move on?
AnonymousAug 05 2009 7:29amFLAGall boys are diffrent and this onne boy i like talks bad about me and then tells me he loves me and everything he is so hot he looks like justin bieber what should i do
hot chickNov 14 2009 11:57amFLAGJUST TELL HIM HOW YU FEEL BOUT HIM N IF HE FEELS DA SAME WAY THEN ITS MENT TA BE <3
MZ BERRyDec 05 2009 6:17pmFLAG....How the hell did i get onto this site.. Allright, well girls most of you are wrong. I garentee if you just cme streight to us and tell us how you feel almost all of us will be interested. Girls and their secrets heh, it realy dosnt have to be that complicated. If you need anything rockgod_heath@hotmail.com
HeathJan 21 2010 5:42amFLAGWhen u walk into a room just take a deep breath, and smile. don't look at him right away but make sure that he knows u are watching him. if he gets nervous and starts looking at u more to see when u r watching its a good sign. Then sometime try talking to him, keep eye contact, tell jokes, make him feel like the most important person in the room, and bite ur bottom lip once in a while to add that sexy hint. Good luck! ;)
chica de abiMar 15 2010 4:07pmFLAGok i kinda feel stupid and its sad to say im a little desperate and all of the advice is good and all but come on some of us girls think they see a sign and misread it and i really like this guy hes funny, smart, hot, and blah blah blah but i get so close to talking to him then i just chicken out =( and ya he smiles at me yes he looks at me but i just cant seem to find a way to talk to him! any help?
HeatherSep 22 2010 1:39pmFLAGand to the people who think sex is the answer get over yourselfs!!
HeatherSep 22 2010 1:59pmFLAGhow old are u justin sex
missyNov 26 2010 11:51amFLAGhow old are u justin sex
millNov 26 2010 11:53amFLAGFellas, i discovered that this girl has account on popular dating site: sensualchicks.com/profile/secretgoddess
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