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To the weak men Were you sexually abused as a child?

Question: You fantasize about being small & weak. Helpless in the clutches of a much bigger powerful woman. She inflicts pain on you that arouses you. You are associating sexuality with violence
Where did you get such an orientation. I know this is a little personal, but we are anonymous on this site. So, I am going cut to the chaste. Were you sexually abused as a child? Do you have emotional scars and continue acting out your anguish into adulthood? You cant change your orientation. Many are actually contented with it. But it is rare. So If you can remember, did it actually happen?
Created by: Iamcurious at 03:44:24 AM, Thursday, June 04, 2009 EDT

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Dude if you were a small weak kid, you probably were sexually abused. Not from an adult, just the from the bigger kids on the playground.

AnonymousJun 04 2009 8:04am


Small weak people are raped and exploited throughout a lifetime

AnonymousJun 04 2009 2:34pm
I don't just fantasize about being a small, weak guy. I AM A SMALL, WEAK GUY!!! The only real difference between me and other small, weak guys is that I am very tall (6-foot-1) while other small, weak guys, on average, are very short. My weight is actually the same as other small, weak guys (between 125 lbs and 130 lbs). However, I am not aroused, sexually or otherwise, by even the slightest thought of pain being inflicted upon me by a woman or a girl who is bigger and stronger than I am (whether she is short or tall) or by anyone else for that matter. In fact, I am not aroused in any way by violence of any kind. I am aroused by a very short, very large girl who is way bigger, heavier and stronger than I am even though I am way taller than she is (that describes quite a few of my girlfriends!!!). I become really turned on when I look way down at her and she looks way up at me while she and I are both standing in front of each other with the both of us noticing how much bigger she is than I am and with the both of us knowing full well that she could easily whip the living crap out of me. But I would never want her to inflict pain on me by actually whipping the living crap out of me. It just turns me on to know that she could do it if she wanted to. I remember one such girlfriend I had awhile back. It was amazing how much taller I was than her and it was equally amazing how much wider she was than me from side to side. She weighed 200 lbs (over 50% more than I weighed). While we were both standing, it was easy for anyone and everyone to notice that my shoulders rose well above the top of her head!!! I knew for sure that she could easily kick my ass inside out if she wanted to because she weighed a whole lot more than me and she could easily lift a barbell equal to my bodyweight over her head. There is no way that I could even lift a barbell my own weight off the ground!!! It really turned me on when I watched her one day as she lifted a much greater weight over her head than I could ever lift over my head. When I saw her lift a barbell over her head that was too heavy for me to lift even above my legs, and then I saw her continue to hold that barbell up over her head, I GOT A HUGE ERECTION!!! She was equally turned on and proud to be a short, large female bigger and stronger than her much taller boyfriend (ME!!!). Afterward, she and I stood in front of each other as I looked way down at her while she looked way up at me. She and I could no longer control our lust so we both headed straight for the sofa!!! What started it all for me (this peculiar turn-on) was when a very short, very fat girl picked a fight with me when I was a kid. Even then, I was very tall and very skinny. I was way taller than her but that did not matter to her because she easily noticed my small body size. She weighed a whole lot more than me and she also knew she was way stronger than me so she was sure she would win. When she pushed me, I went flying up against the wall. I couldn't push her back like that because she was simply too big. I was no match for her. That was the first fight I ever lost to a female and it was humiliating for me back then because I was a very tall boy who lost to a very short girl. However, she is responsible for the fact that as a very tall guy who is small and weak, I continue to be turned on by being way taller than a very short, very large girl who is way bigger, heavier and stronger than I am.

A SMALL, WEAK GUY WHO IS VERY TALL!!!Jun 04 2009 2:36pm
I agree with the above. Its ok to be turned on by stronger women. Even being aroused by knowing that she could kick your butt is ok. But to actually fantasize about these women harming you in the worst possible way crosses the line. Persons with such fantasies were more than likely abused as a child.

AnonymousJun 04 2009 7:55pm
You don't have to be sexually abused, either in childhood or adulthood, to get turned on by big strong ladies. Also, you don't have to "dig pain." You don't need to have pain inflicted upon you to get turned on by big strong ladies. However, I do believe that for most small, weak guys like me, there was some life event, usually in childhood (as was in my case), that triggered such an intense sexual desire for physically powerful ladies. As I stated above (in comment #3), the one life event that triggered my sexual desire for big strong ladies was during my childhood when a short girl way bigger and stronger than I am started a fight with a tall skinny boy like me -- AND WON!!! She did not actually inflict pain on me although it did hurt a bit when I went crashing up against the wall after she pushed me really hard. She won fair and square by physically overpowering me. The actual "trigger" was the fact that she was a very short girl while I was a very tall boy who towered over her. It frustrated me that such a short girl like her could actually be so much bigger and stronger than such a tall boy like me who was way taller than her but my frustration over this quickly turned into intense sexual desire for that type of girl. If most people think about it long enough and hard enough, they may be able to pinpoint that one life event that triggered their intense sexual desire for a specific type of person. It was easy for me because I never forgot that one event that did it for me. I am not afraid to approach and start a conversation with short females who are bigger and stronger than I am. Whenever I see a short girl who is obviously bigger and stronger than I am, whether I am standing on line at the store, riding on the bus or especially at the beach, I immediately get a huge erection that I frequently have to hide from public view. Most importantly, I HAVE TO HIDE IT FROM HER!!!

A SMALL, WEAK GUY WHO IS VERY TALL!!!Jun 05 2009 3:26am
I used ta think I was weak. Now I realize Im just plain stupid!!

Weak in the noodleJun 07 2009 6:20am
I think smaller guys are attracted to bigger women simply by knowing the fact that some hot chicks are stronger than they. As a smaller guy I can attest to this. In high school, the homecoming queen was bigger and stronger. Many of the hot women I have been around were stronger. Celebrities like Brooke Shields or Britney Spears Im sure are far stronger. Anna Nicole Smith? When the hotties are bigger and stronger than you, then your orientation is towards women who are bigger and stronger than yourself. Its pretty simple

AnonymousJun 08 2009 7:28am
Sexual orientation has nothing to do with what is called abuse, it is caused by something far deeper.

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.Mar 15 2021 7:07pm
I'm small and weak just because I'm small and weak, always have been. That's not psychological, it's physical. I was abused as a child though, because of my weakness, and that probably is why I now have a fetish for submission to stronger women. My abuse was at the hands of another child, though, a child who was even younger. I was 12, and I was going through puberty. My step-sister was just starting puberty at the same time, though she was only 7. Apparently that's not actually that unusual for girls these days. Anyway, I was only 4'5" and less than 70lbs, and my step-sis was really tall for her age, only 2 inches shorter than me, and she weighed more than 90lbs. She was much, much stronger than me, and she always loved to play-fight and wrestle with me, despite my objections. She was first able to narrowly overpower me when she was 5 and I was 10, and by the time she was 7 it was no contest at all, when she felt like it she just wrestled me to the ground and pinned me, and I had to suffer through it. When she started to go through puberty though, the nature of the wrestling changed. While she had me pinned, she started to rub her crotch against me and moan slightly, and I could see her face turning red and feel the moisture through her shorts. Sometimes if no-one else was around this would go on for over an hour. One time she had me pinned in a way so that she had my arm bent around my back, and she started grinding herself along it, and that made her moan even louder. I didn't tell anyone about this because I was embarrassed, and I trust tried to avoid her, until one day I walked in on her bottomless and fingering herself. I immediately tried to leave the room, but she seemed to be in a craze, she ran after me, tackled me from behind, pinned me, and rubbed her bare p*ssy against my chest while she held both my wrists in her hands. I tried to break them free, but she was too strong. Then, she took one of my hands, and rubbed it against herself, eventually forcing one of my fingers into her p*ssy and making me finger her. This finally gave her the orgasm she'd been craving, and while she was having it I managed to get away. She did the exact same thing the next day though, and the day after that she ended up putting me in a headlock with her legs, and her p*ssy was right in my face. She forced me to to stick my tongue into it and give her oral sex before she'd let me go. This happened several times a day, every day, and eventually I stopped trying to resist, all resisting did was make her beat me up. She would just order me to service her, and I had to finger her or eat her p*ssy whenever she did. Sometimes she snuck into my room at night and woke me up for it. Often she would make me do it in public, like making me finger her in the back seat of the car our parents were driving, or in the corner of a public swimming pool. A couple of times she even made me hide under the table and lick her while she was having dinner with our parents.

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