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Is it healthier to be big and strong or small and weak?

Question: At 5`3 118 lbs, I have always been very small and weak. My bench is way below 100 lbs. And most women are physically stronger than me. But I am very healthy and can run 5 miles without a sweat. At 40, my cholesterol is down and my blood pressure is perfect. To me the key to health is get yourself as small and weak as possible. You feel more rejeuventated and younger. Plus for me I have more fun with women when they are bigger and stronger than me.

So I am asking you, do you think its healthier to be big and strong or small and weak?
Created by: fitnessman2009 at 03:58:59 AM, Sunday, August 09, 2009 PDT

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Studies show that fewer calories per day makes for a longer life. Small and weak needs fewer calories than big and strong which means that small and weak just might live longer than big and strong. However, small and weak is quite likely to get SWATTED LIKE A FLY or CRUSHED LIKE A BUG!!! That certainly shortens the life span of many of the small and weak. Still, there is a definite advantage to being small and weak but only if there is an almost fail-safe means of escape (COCKROACH STYLE!!!).

AnonymousAug 10 2009 11:04pm


No if you look at statistics, you are not healthier. You are less likely to enter a relationship. AND little guys like yourself are alway being overlooked in the job market. That means loneliness and economic instability, which translates to heart disease and cancer. Finally, you said you are 41...well you lucked out I guess. There are bad people who would victimize you in a heart beat. Check out the missing persons list. Most are children and small adults. Final analysis: I dont want to be you dude GOOD LUCK OUT THERE........

AvastinAug 11 2009 9:01am
No if you look at statistics, you are not healthier. You are less likely to enter a relationship. AND little guys like yourself are alway being overlooked in the job market. That means loneliness and economic instability, which translates to heart disease and cancer. Finally, you said you are 41...well you lucked out I guess. There are bad people who would victimize you in a heart beat. Check out the missing persons list. Most are children and small adults. Final analysis: I dont want to be you dude GOOD LUCK OUT THERE........

AvastinAug 11 2009 9:01am
Not all small and weak men are at a disadvantage when it comes to finding jobs and getting ladies. I am a small and weak man BUT I AM A TALL MAN!!! I stand a few inches TALLER than the average man (the average man stands 5'9") but I tip the scales only at points from 125 lbs to 135 lbs. That means I AM SMALL!!! In fact, I AM SMALLER THAN MOST WOMEN!!! However, I never had any more trouble finding jobs than the next guy and I never had any more trouble getting intimate girlfriends than the next guy. Because of my small size, most of my girlfriends could have wiped the floor with me if they wanted to but thank goodness for me they did not want to. My medical stats are normal and I am now in my late fifties. It is very rare for a TALL man like me to still be small at my age WITH A VERY FLAT STOMACH!!! I am indeed VERY LUCKY!!! Perhaps my greater height over most other men was a big help in getting ladies despite my small size. Make no mistake about it: WOMEN LIKE TALL MEN!!! That is AN UNDENIABLE FACT!!! And I am TALLER than over 99% of all women. Because women prefer TALL men like me, I am at a definite advantage because being TALLER than over 99% of all women gives me a much wider range of choices. As a small and weak man who is TALL, I have done quite well for myself and I hope to do as well, or perhaps even better, in the future. As any TALL man of any size can attest, it is indeed a high (PUN INTENDED!!!) privilege for a man of any size to be TALL!!!

I am a small and weak man. BUT I AM A TALL MAN!!!Aug 11 2009 2:00pm
To the op But what could you do if I assaulted you? Nothing you could do because you are so weak and skinny! Not being able to defend yourself in harms way? Thats not health; its self sabotage!!!

Big healthy HeatherAug 12 2009 11:16am
If a small weak man treats his big strong woman right and he gives her what she needs, he should never have to worry about being beaten up by her. Because there are also big strong women who are short, even a small weak man who is short (like the op) can find a big strong lady who is somewhere around his own height if the taller ladies are not currently available. I am tall and skinny so I already had quite a few big strong girlfriends, some tall but most short because I prefer short women who are big and strong, (certainly bigger and stronger than I am!!!). I have never been beaten up by any big strong woman or girl, short or tall, because I never did anything to provoke any of them but I guess I am really lucky that some bold and aggressive big strong lady did not grab me with her bare hands and then go to work on me!!! As a tall skinny man, I have to admit I would be awfully embarrassed if I were beaten up by a short big woman who is bigger and stronger than I am and I would be even more embarrassed if a crowd were watching while I was getting beaten up and then flattened by her. Still, I am keeping myself small and weak (AS SKINNY AS POSSIBLE!!!) because I am really turned on by big women who are bigger and stronger than I am and I also believe it is healthier to be small and weak like I am. One of my big strong girlfriends who is only a mere five feet (5'0") always appreciated that I treated her right. She could already have easily beaten me up because she is quite a bit bigger and stronger than I am. She outweighs me by more than 50 lbs. She outlifted me and she also pinned me when we wrestled so my being over a foot taller than her doesn't matter. Actually, why in the world would she want to beat me up if I am treating her right? That would make no sense at all!!! One big plus for me: During our tender moments, I always render her AS WEAK AS A KITTEN!!!

Tall and skinnyAug 12 2009 2:43pm
Low protein high fiber diet was the key to my small weak utopia of mine.

Smaller the betterAug 13 2009 4:15pm
They are trying come up with a (FAT TAX) that they are now trying to fine tune, to help pay for health care costs! They blame everybody but the food company's who uses corn sweeter instead of sugar. Corn sweeter is bad for you and cause you do become more hunger as you eat it plus it make for a better line, This means they sell more food to us suckers and that just one of many problems but as long as big government is paid off by these big corporation's nothing going to change. because government is in big businesses pockets.

AnonymousAug 17 2009 9:56pm
"At 5`3 118 lbs,"LMAO" I have always been very small and weak. My bench is way below 100 lbs. And most women are physically stronger than me."DUH!!" But I am very healthy and can run 5 miles without a sweat."YOUR LITTLE LEGS WONT GET YOU FAR" At 40, my cholesterol is down and my blood pressure is perfect. To me the key to health is get yourself as small and weak as possible. You feel more rejeuventated and younger." OMG!!!" Plus for me I have more fun with women when they are bigger and stronger than me." Obviously, no one has cleaned your clock yet......

TinaAug 22 2009 3:32pm
As a long tall lanky skinny guy, I would vote against a "fat tax" because I want my short fat lady to continue being bigger, fatter, heavier and stronger than I am. Without a fat tax, my short fat lady will continue eating all she wants which means she will continue to be bigger, fatter, heavier and stronger than I am.

AnonymousAug 22 2009 4:20pm
I have always been very thin, almost too thin being 170 cm and 48 kgs. And I am a man. Got sick for a long time and lost another 8-9 kgs and needed to go to hospital to get fed. Am now up to 55 kgs and feeling better. Strangely my sister has the opposite problem, she is very big being my height and more than 100 kgs. She had the some sickness as me, some kind of pneumonia for more than a month, she lost 20 kgs and actually looked better after being sick. Strange to have a sister than is twice as big. We often wonder if we have the same father.

PencilOct 19 2010 7:56am
It depends on your lifestyle. but i think having a strong body would be better for your health

GrantNov 19 2010 4:41pm
I think it sucks to be an adult male who has to look up to a 13 year old. I am in my 20s but at 5'1 and 100 pounds I am intimidated by the size of teenagers and some pre-teens. While I have not been bullied since high school, I am conscience of these kids attitude towards me, if given the chance, they would humiliate me. I have always been afraid to go by myself to a ballpark or the mall, or anywhere where kids are unsupervised. I also avoid bars and nightclubs unless I am with a group. I would trade good health for another 9 inches in height and at least 60 lbs in muscle anyday!

fearfulSep 17 2011 3:27pm
fearful I know what you mean. I am a small man and I was recently teased at a neighbors house. He told his kids that I was a horse racing jockey (I am 5'2, very thin and weigh 95 pounds)!! His 12 year old is about an inch or two taller and definately has me beat by about 20 pounds. He stood right in front of me and told me that he could kick my ass. My neighbor laughed and did nothing to correct his son. I left the home in a huff and this kid follows me up the street! I turned around and using the best adult voice I could, I ordered him to go home. He got in my face and told me straight out that if I ever spoke to him like that again, he would beat me up. I turned around and began to walk away when I felt his hand grab the top of my shorts and pull me back to him. He reached both arms around my waist and lifted me off the ground. I yelled at him loudly to put me down and before I could finish the sentence, he squeezed the breath out of me. I struggled but the kid was too strong for me. I was helpless and could not breath! He thru me to the ground and sat on me, pinning my arms to the ground with his legs. He put his hand on my chin and squeezed it telling me that when he lets go, I have to tell him that he is my master and I am his slave. I refused of course, but this kid did not let up, he slapped my face with both hands and kept saying "what ya gonna do little man? Huh? what ya gonna do?" I admit that I was flustered, humiliated, and felt helpless, tears started rolling. Then he laughed at me, got up and pulled me to my feet. He told me to go home and remember the next time to call him "sir" when I saw him. As I started walking away, he gave my butt a hard swat, which was more humiliating than painful. I try and avoid him and all kids now. I am a 24 year old college student who still feels like I am in middle school!

Small GuySep 19 2011 5:02pm
small guy, a similar thing happened to me. I am about 5', although 4' 11" is closer (I lie about my height just to get that 5 in there). I am thin too and am the original 89 pound weakling. An 11 yo boy, about 30 pounds heavier and at least 4 to 5 inches taller was fascinated that he was bigger and stronger than an adult man. He wondered out loud if he could lift me over his head and before I could protest, he had me by the crotch and my shirt off the ground. I was over his head and feared that he would drop me. He told me that I was the weakest man he ever met and that I had to be good to him or he would beat me up. I was so humiliated I said nothing in return until he grabbed my shirt again and pulled me up to his face and said "got it stick man?" I nodded in fear. I was accustomed to being pushed around because of my size but never by a kid so young, he was 11!! I am too weak and small to do anything about it.

even smaller guySep 27 2011 3:26pm
I thought my husband was short! He is 5-7. I really feel for you small guys. Do you ever get dates? I know there are small girls out there. Mental health is important and if you are worried about being picked on by boys, that cannot be healthy, not to mention if they are bullying you physically. Can you not lift weights and take karate or something? My husband is strong for his size so most teen boys don't even try him.

Sally MayeOct 02 2011 12:11pm
Sally, I wish I was 5-7! That is over a half foot taller than me. I did try lifting weights when I was a teenager but I am just not genetically able to gain much muscle. I can't lift very much weight, I have trouble holding a toddler for more than 30 seconds. I do have great aerobic endurance though, as far as running. The problem with learning karate is that at 89 pounds, I am easily overpowered by those guys who are over 20 pounds more than me. And that 11 yo boy weighed about 120 pounds. I don't stand much of a chance against that much weight. I have since met a 9 year old who is taller and about 10 pounds more than me but I doubt he was mentally able to take me nor did he seem to be coordinated enough. But, it is uncomfortable to me to have to look up at such a young kid, and see in their eyes that they believe they are the boss, despite the age difference. I read other short & small men say they are used to it, but I am not. It really does suck. I fantasize what it would be like to be at least 5 7, heck, I would take 5 foot 3 (I am nearly 5 foot) just to be taller than the average 10 year old. I have learned to be very nice to boys and teens.

even smaller guyOct 02 2011 12:24pm
Back to the health issue, a small man with thin bones needs to ensure that he is getting enough calcium as he is suseptable to bone deteriation as he ages. No, being small and weak does not necessarily ensure long live. Regardless of height and muscle, healthy diet and genetics determines life expectancy and quality health. Being bullied because of small stature is a mental health as well as a physical health issue. I urge all those small men who wrote above to seek counselling. I urge parents to teach their children, regardless of size, to respect those smaller than themselves, regardless of age.

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