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We need to broaden the definiton of gay

Question: We need to get a broader definition of what the term gay is. Imo the term gay means you deviate from the norm. For gender issues, it means you take on the opposite genders characteristics --mainly size and strength. As well as other characteristics, such as tasks and lifestyle . And yes, it could mean you have a desire for the same sex. Now, I am a very small man with a delicate bone structure.I am the size and strength of an american female, who is petite. Its the way God created me. So yes, I am a gay, but not homosexual. Same holds true for a 6ft 200 lbs woman. She is also gay, but not homosexual. A gay marriage could be the same sex, however most often it is a relatively large woman with a much smaller man. Now that hypothetical 6ft 200lb woman wouldnt neccessarily enter a gay relationship if she the guy was 6`4 and 250 lbs. however, if he were 5`3 and 110 lbs, it would be considered gay. Also a gay marriage might be a woman who works fulltime and the male is the housekeeper. I see a lot of gay people out there, but 99 percent of them have no desire for the same sex. So, yes. I am very small weak guy, who is a complete heterosxual GAY guy.But gay could mean anyone who deviates from societal norms and expectations. More importantly, nothing is set stone though. Taht label constantly evolves. During americas fight for civil rights, blacks were gay, but not now. Just as the idea of equal rights for women was at one time very gay. I didnt vote for him,but the idea that we have a black president is somewhat gay. However, Sarah Palin or Michelle Bachman succeeding him would be very gay. Ronald Reagan was gay, as was Lincoln. There is nothing wrong with being gay. So what are your thoughts on this topic?
Created by: swm2019 at 05:06:35 AM, Wednesday, July 27, 2011 EDT

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You have to be kidding me! There is nothing wrong with a 5`2 100 lb "man"???? I`d turn him into a pretzel in a heart beat! Get real SWM2019!!

homo or straight...so what?? MelindaJul 28 2011 8:26am

You mad bra?

haha the jew is madJul 29 2011 5:03am
It's crazy labeling. If you want to use the term gay to discribe non homosexual relations but based on individual size or strength of men and women than that's your choice. The lack of size and strength of women has been a cultural invention such as skinny models. It is artificial. Now days so many women and girls in school are exercising and into sports. As a result girls are becoming stronger and more muscular. It is the natural result of exercise. Boys/men who like sporty strong girls are not gay. Fact is many men that are gay are not strong or even muscular at all. So the conection you are attempting to make is rather stupid and based on your idea of "cultural norm" and not a same sex relationship. Both men and women come in all sizes, shapes, and strength. In your world everything and everyone is gay because you can use the word in every discription! You are over doing it using the word to the point it actually difines nothing because it is way to broad a term with you. Who is the person that decides what is "opposite gender characteristics" when so much is actually based on culture? Does an idiot like you decide what is male or female as far as job or physique? If a woman has a very physical job and is strong it's gay or a man works in an office and isn't big and strong like a logger, he's gay? Everyone would be gay if they do not fit in your cultural box! That's why you are an idiot. You think women should be a certain size and strength and men a certain size and strength but the real world doesn't fit in that box you created in your head.

you are an idiotAug 01 2011 12:45pm
Actually there is nothing wrong with being attracted to the opposite sex no matter what their size or shape. It's normal. *swm2019* doesn't think like most normal people who know the difference. To avoid being gay in his terms, you would have to live a narrow minded life of matching people up acording to his or someones "ideal" plan. All based on his or someone's ideas of what is male/female/ & gay. All based on stupid oppinions. You could start a Department of Gayness in an authoritarian form of government with a bureaucracy that dicides what and who is gay! Now that the term has more than one meaning, the bureactrats could keep real busy policing all kinds of gayness! MORON.

AnonymousAug 01 2011 1:03pm
We need to broaden the definiton of gay? I agree, since gay men promote scrawny, skinny, weak women in fashion, it must be gay men who are attracted to scrawny weak women!

AnonymousAug 03 2011 11:50pm
Who cares!!! Yes if she weighs more and taller, she is stronger. I mean...so what?? I see couples like that all the time. Get a life dude!!!

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